Education › Re: 'Leaked Mathematics Question Paper': WAEC Reacts by picked(m): 11:35am On Aug 17, 2020 |
I'm not surprise |
Family › Re: Wearing Buba / Agbada As An American Married To A Nigerian by picked(m): 9:47am On Aug 13, 2020 |
Mancala: Ekaso y'all? That's straight up gangsta dude . JK, kudos on making an effort to speak the lingo. If your intent is to please/ make your wife happy, only you can answer the question. But I can give you some practical tips to help you figure this out. First, the full native wear comprising of the buba (shirt), sokoto (trousers) and agbada (flowing wide sleeved robe) is equivalent in formality to wearing a three piece suit (if you're old school) or just a regular 2 piece suit. But there's a further twist to it. The type of material the native wear is made of also determines the degree of formality. In general (old school thinking), the "Ankara" material would be at the lower end of the formalilty spectrum whilst "aso oke" would be at the higher end of it. But these days, there are real fancy Ankara materials that could pass for formal.
My questions for you are thus: How did your wife react to your wearing a suit to pick her up at the airport and going directly to a fancy restaurant? Do you think she may have felt underdressed or wanted to change out of her travel clothes to match you? Did she enjoy the experience? If she did, then go for it with the Nigerian clothes. But this time, bring her a change of clothes, perhaps bring her matching Nigerian outfit so y'all are both dressed up. You may also up the ante and research a good Nigerian restaurant in your neck of the woods. Call ahead and have them prepare her favorite Nigerian dishes. I am yet to meet a Nigerian in the diaspora who does not miss Nigerian food! Lastly, if you've had any experience wearing an agbada, you know that it takes a certain level of Pizzaz to pull it off effectively. It's really not suited for the tasks of fetching luggage and rolling or carrying any distance through the airport, especially if its of the "aso oke" variety. Feel free to leave the agbada in the car and wear only the buba and sokoto if that makes it easier to go get her. Good luck and let us know how it went. We're rooting for ya 
One last thing. Some folks have strong sentimental feelings about their wedding outfits and may not want them worn anyhow. Figure this out first that your wife will not go nuts if you wore your wedding attire out to pick her up from the airport. Maybe go with the non wedding attire? And I will go with the above suggestions ☝️. ✌️ |
Family › Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by picked(m): 4:47pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
I don't see anything bad in it..... Sometimes privacy is important.. Whatever works for them....
But to me,I don't really like it |
Food › Re: How To Remove And Wash Snails Perfectly by picked(m): 1:04pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
You are good |
Health › Re: Corona Virus Is Airborne. Infections Occur Through Aerosol Transmission by picked(m): 1:01pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
It should just avoid Nigeria like others do |
Romance › Re: Nigerian Bride Refuses To Kiss The Groom On Their Wedding For This Reason (Video by picked(m): 6:57pm On May 08, 2017 |
She collect the king shilling therefore she must marry d king |
Education › Re: Teacher At Best Schools, Abuja Beats, Flogs, Slaps Female Student by picked(m): 6:09pm On Apr 20, 2017 |
Am not surprise, it happen in our every day sch |
TV/Movies › Re: #bbnaija: Nigerian Calculates How Long It Will Take Tboss To Finish Her 500K by picked(m): 9:52am On Apr 10, 2017 |
No dulling naija |
TV/Movies › Re: #bbnaija: Nigerian Calculates How Long It Will Take Tboss To Finish Her 500K by picked(m): 9:52am On Apr 10, 2017 |
No dulling |
Culture › Re: Eredo, Ijebu - The World's Largest Man-made Structure by picked(m): 8:29pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
Wow |
Romance › Re: 10 Countries Where Government Beg Citizens To Have Sex by picked(m): 11:02am On Mar 07, 2017 |
And our government are trying to reduce birthrate |
Education › Re: See The World Unbreakable Glass (pic) by picked(m): 10:12pm On Mar 06, 2017 |
See lie |
Family › Re: If You Don't Have This Type Of Aunty In Your Family, Then You're Missing Alot by picked(m): 1:34pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
Sure aunt |
Crime › Re: Girl Reading Bible & Smoking Marijuana The Same Time Blasted (Photos) by picked(m): 8:23pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
Judge not so say the Bible |
Crime › Re: Photos Of The Woman That Butchered Her Husband In Ogun After They Had Sex by picked(m): 12:25pm On Sep 05, 2016 |
chai! there is God oooooo |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Dilma Rousseff Impeached By Brazilian Senate! by picked(m): 10:45pm On Aug 31, 2016 |
how can our senate impeach the president when they are guilty of the crime themselves. #saraki comes to mind |
Romance › Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Or Boyfriend Has Lost Interest In The Relationship by picked(m): 10:20pm On Aug 31, 2016 |
so true |
Health › Re: Video Of Man Having Sex With Snake Seen On Nigerian Doctor's Phone In The Uk by picked(m): 6:15pm On Aug 31, 2016 |
he has porn on his phone. did he harm anyone? why was he arrested? or is it because of the porn video? he has a picture of a 2years old not a porn picture or a child porn video. hmmm i can smell a rat and #injustice |
Romance › Re: 22 Hidden Signs Of A Gay Nigerian Man by picked(m): 10:58am On Aug 30, 2016 |
nice joke. too funny |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Nine Ways Arsenal Fans Behave During Transfer Window (photos) by picked(m): 9:34pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
proudly Arsenal. if you listen to the anti arsenal campaign in the media media na oyo(own your own) you dey |
Literature › Re: Two Realms... {Romance-thriller} by picked(m): 8:18pm On Aug 04, 2016 |
Wow Glue to it until am through. Really nice 1 Like |
Literature › Re: Two Realms... {Romance-thriller} by picked(m): 12:11pm On Aug 04, 2016 |
Nice story. Suspense at the right point. Am hook, Waiting for the next update. 1 Like |
Education › Re: Violence Mars YABATECH SUG Election, 4 Students Feared Dead by picked(m): 11:04pm On Mar 10, 2015 |
It hapun @new building near the front gate @yabatech and it was confirm dat SUG has been suspended in d skul |
Celebrities › Re: Charly Boy Puts Up Notice Warning Intruders That He Shoots To Kill (photo) by picked(m): 11:18am On Feb 22, 2015 |
Naxo,let no 1 contaminate ur zone |
Romance › Re: Introverts In A Relationship, How Do You Cope by picked(m): 12:56pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
Introvert in a relationship and extrovert socially. What does that make me? |
Politics › Re: Battle Of Party Headties, Who Wore It Better by picked(m): 5:30pm On Feb 20, 2015 |
Na our 1st lady get d award |
Crime › Re: Jealous Woman Arrested For Allegedly Pouring Hot Liquid On Rival by picked(m): 3:55pm On Feb 14, 2015 |
Comment reader |
Jokes Etc › Re: Washing Yam With Morning Fresh: Picture Of The Day by picked(m): 2:27pm On Feb 14, 2015 |
Dat's d spirit. Tanx to whoever posted it. It funny |
Romance › Re: How To Celebrate Val When Your Lover Is Not Around by picked(m): 2:10pm On Feb 14, 2015 |
Invite ur frnds over to ur houz or take ur fone n login to ur favorite site,if you are not posting then start reading comment.i can say ur day iz not going to b dull |
Politics › Re: MASSOB Introduces, Passport, Currency, Vehicle & Drivers Licences by picked(m): 5:11pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
Na now they go dey talk say yoruba pple don start. |
Business › Re: Funny Things People Do In The Bank by picked(m): 8:43am On Feb 13, 2015 |
Comment reader |
Romance › Re: Have You Ever Turned Down A Lady Who Has Expressed A Romantic Interest In You? by picked(m): 8:21am On Feb 13, 2015 |
Not to hurt her ego,accept and friend zone her. |