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@Vexxy How shocking is that?

Strange things do happen, don't they?

Yeah, of course it's "cheating" and it's not right. I'm just saying it happens.

You know, my girlfriend(in Naija) once accused me of "seeing" somone else, as I didn't call her for four good weeks.
Actually it was for some genuine reason I didn't call and when I finally did, she said she felt "somone else" was the reason. I mean, I was gutted. If I didn't think you were good enough for me, I'd never have asked you out in the first place.
Anyway, we managed to straighten things out. But it's never nice to hear you partner accuse you of something you are SURE you never did.
If it's something you actually did, then that's not an "accusation".

Marry my COUSIN? Is this a joke?
I just thut it was the most incredible thing I'd ever heard!
I'll just have to believe such things happen.
Does it then mean that while a couple are actually "praying and fasting" for a child, the woman can be preganant and "not know it"?
This was what made me ask the question in the first place, Oga Seun.

Seriously, I thought when people say they are gay/lesbian, it means they were born that way? It's not supposed to change, or am I missing something here?

Or are those terms just used to describe people who delve into same sex relationships to fulfil their fantasies? Help me out here, guys! What's up with the "formerly"?

Long distance relationships. Of course, they do work. But there is no guarantee that any of the partners involved are not going to "catch their fun". I know a few Nigerian girls here who have guys back home. They visit home once in a while and talk to their partners non-stop, but that does not stop them from f--king other guys here. It works the other way round too.
My friend's got this chick called Funke(of course, that's not her real name). She's got a guy at home and they communicate like mad. Funke is actually engaged to her guy(home). My friend also has a babe at home.
Of course, both their separate relationships are going strong, as they visit home regularly but they "play" away, whilst not attaching any strings to it.
It helps, you know.

Does Obasanjo think he's the only one with ideas on how to lead Nigeria to a higher level? Gosh, I can't even think of one significant thing the guy has done that impacted positively on the lives of Nigerians. <snip>

The best website on mother-earth my friends, is this website. Superb source of information for all Naijas. I never heard of lagosautobay or shopforless b4 now.
Thanks Seun.

@Lullaby I did not see her during her pregnancy. So I don't know if her tum showed or not( I assume it did, as it would be very abnormal otherwise). I talked to her mum recently and she said they thut it was complications arising from an appendix op. she'd undergone a few months earlier. How she managed to get her MOTHER to go along with this story, I'll never know.
The baby, BTW, is a normal healthy child.
Even "tiny" babies do create some kind of recognisable bulge.

She'll be 21 next month.

@ Ahleri. That is strange, to say the least. I would imagine that a young guy or girl, as it were, is growing inside of you and actually feeding off you.
I'm a man anyway, but it does sound weird.

Ha-ha. Nah

blendz4real:
What is your problem with her? Do u want to marry he??

As I was saying, I later got to know she'd had a baby. Personally, it did not bother me as I think she's old enough to start a family if that's the way she wants it. On my recent visit to Nigeria, I visited her. When we talked about it, she told me she'd not known she was pregnant. I don't give her grief about it, she's perfectly within her rights as an adult, as I've already mentioned.

What baffles me though is how a woman can get pregnant and carry the said pregnancy for 9 months without knowing she is pregnant. This is despite the fact she had undergone series of tests(by her admission) and whatever else. If she's getting any grief, it's definitely not from me, guys, cos' I consider her my sister and whatever I'll do for my sister(if I had one), I'll do for her. I'm an only child by the way.

Thing is I can not believe she did not know she was pregnant. How can you not know?

My question here is : Is it possible for a woman to be pregnant and not know she is pregnant?
I'll like to get replies from women.

This is for real, people.

Girls and guys, I have this cousin that's just had a baby (of course she's not married), and incredibly wants everybody to believe she never knew she was pregnant. By her admission, the baby just popped out of her tum one day when she wasn't looking.
Story goes like this.

When I was in Nigeria, we used to be very close and as she stayed with us in PH, we used to share a lot of secrets,like relationships and stuff. So much so that, my girlfriend became best mates with her. She was a bright girl, by all means. Thing is she seemed too obsessed with material things and as such only choose to go out with "big" guys. I'm talking about a 20 years old girl here.

Two years ago, I came over to the Utd. Kingdom and though we communicated very often, I noticed at a time, she started being economical with what she told me, but I did not mention this in any of our discussions.

Three months ago, I was told she had a baby. She'd never mentioned to me she was Pregnant all the time. Got to go to work.I'll finish when I come back.

I'll tell you something odd. I never compliment any of the girls I've "toasted" until after she "agrees". Strange, but it's worked everytime I've used it (just 4 times actually), so I tend to go with that.
Yeah, I'd say it's a trend with me.

Food does not even play any part as far as my heart is concerned. Don't know about other guys, but I cook very well for a man anyways, so she'll have to find something other than food if she's interested.

@Efik_Ibo

The part about Wenger was kind'a funny. What do you reckon will be Jose Mourinho's response though?

I reckon it's going to have something to do with telescopes,Voyeurism and Arsene Wenger.

Oh my God!!!!!!
T here are so many sites offering Naija music. Where have I been looking?

I don't know about comparisons.

I just want to say I think Styl+ are the best Nigerian boyband I have ever seen. They actually speak very good English, not the accentuated English that's all too common with most Nigerian artists. Their music is sooo good and the music videos are class(appears they put a lot of time into planning), at least by Nigerian standards.

2face should keep doing what he's doing. Great advert for Nigerian entertainment.

Owen, I agree with you.
Funny how most people here think England will win the cup, moreso as they've just beaten an under-strength Arentina. I just hope England get out in the second round so I stop hearing all this bullsh*t  spouted by their fans.
Brazil is an all-star team, just that. Compares favourably for me with their 1970 team. Based on the strength of the competing teams, Brazil will be Champions, bar none. And they seem to know exactly when to raise their game.
But one intersting fact someone mentioned a few weeks ago was that no winner of the Confed cup had gone on to win the W/Cup the next year. Dont think it will hold much water next year though.

All said, the World cup will be the most interesting in recent years,for me, if Brazil were knocked out in, say the 2nd round(along with England). As No Brazil == No clear favourites.

Sorry guys, thing is, I just hate the way the English hype every English thing in sight. Like Lampard and Rooney.

Hi guys.... and babes!
I'm New to this forum. It's got to be da bomb.
Yeah, definitely good music, she's got a good voice. I think being an actress and all, people stereotype her as a pop figure, and were probably dissapointed when she decided to go into whatever it is she's doing(so I think n e way). This music is defInitely no pop or RnB, but whatever genre it is,  it's a brilliant piece. She's doing her own thing and she's good at it. Loved it.
BTW, I love styles-plus. That "runaway"song is superb.