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Health / Re: Graphic Photos: Cesarean Section Step By Step In Photos. by PinketteDawn: 11:42am On Sep 15, 2016 |
Joavid: The scars may not fade but I can assure you that the tummy will certainly go back to the way it was. Both processes involve pain, it is left for one to choose the type of pain she wants to handle. A friend of mine who gave birth to twins with an emergency CS said she will opt for elective CS next time. Personally, I really don't think it matter. As long as mother and baby are alive and well after the whole process, the method of birth does not matter. |
Family / Re: Marrying A Woman That Cannot Cook: Nigerians Respond (Video) by PinketteDawn: 10:23am On Aug 12, 2016 |
wadetaw202: Lol. If I am a woman, I will not choose a wife for my son. If she can't cook or clean and he accepts her like that, I will also learn to accept her like that. Your wife will know how to do everything in the home but will discard you like trash once your experience tough times. Pray you are never short of money or else... |
Family / Re: Marrying A Woman That Cannot Cook: Nigerians Respond (Video) by PinketteDawn: 9:46am On Aug 12, 2016 |
wadetaw202: I will end up with a wife who loves me enough to be the woman I want her to be. (This is if I happen to be a man) I will end up with a man who loves me enough to be the man I want him to be. (This is if happen to be a woman) And may you end up with a woman who is the best cook and home maker in the world but leaves you immediately your money stops flowing. Say Amen to that! |
Family / Re: Marrying A Woman That Cannot Cook: Nigerians Respond (Video) by PinketteDawn: 9:38am On Aug 12, 2016 |
wadetaw202: Nobody created by God is useless. Note that yet again. You are also missing the whole point of marriage my dear. It is not more or less about children. It is about the two people involved. Some couples may choose not to have children. Even if you do have children, at some point, they will leave and it still boils down to the two people involved in the marriage. Yes, the woman in question cannot cook or clean or take care of children, she is still living with her husband and they have been together for 10 years and he does not regard her as useless. If you do not want that kind of woman in your life, it doesn't mean that those kind of women are useless, note that. Men are supposed to provide for their family. Many men today are not providing for their families, yet they are not regarded as useless by their wives. They are still living happily with their wives. Does that mean they are providing a wrong precedence for their children? I don't get it. If a man is not living up to expectations, his wife is supposed to cover him. If a woman is not, her husband should send her packing because she is useless. Na wa ohh. Apparently, the day your wife becomes incapacitated, the so called love you have for her will disappear and you will start looking for another good cook who can keep a home. This is the very reason why men discard their wives when she is diagnosed of a terminal illness after many years of marriage. May God help us all. |
Family / Re: Marrying A Woman That Cannot Cook: Nigerians Respond (Video) by PinketteDawn: 2:30am On Aug 12, 2016 |
zicoraads: But then, why don't we look it the present society of ours and ask why so many marriages are packing up? Why wasn't it so bad during the times of our parents and their parents before them? We have had to sacrifice some of the things that created a special bond between a man and his wife on the alter of 'civilization.' Forget western culture. An African man is still an African man. And nothing is truer than the saying, 'the way to a man's heart is through his stomach.' Why most marriages are packing up today is simply because of selfishness. Like it or not, times are changing. It is no longer the world of our parents or the of their parents before them. Civilisation has come and it is here to stay. We can never go back to that time. It won't be possible even if we try. Some things cannot remain as it were in the time of our parents. Western culture has nothing to do with this. Even oyibo men like their women to cook for them. A man who loves a woman unconditionally, won't see her shortcomings as an issue. She will also not see his shortcomings as an issue. If the way to man's heart is truly through his stomach, why do we have men who cheat on their 'perfect' wives who can churn out meals similar to those prepared by professional chefs sporting the Michelin awards? Why do we have women who can serve cordon bleu but are being constantly abused by their husbands? Why do we have women who are broken beyond repair because of the psychological torture they had to endure from their husbands despite the fact that they always aim to please in the kitchen? Does it mean that those men don't have stomachs?
Ermmm....No. Not at all. One who is loved by her husband unconditionally would most likely have her husband in a better place. The man will eat her crap and appreciate her for making an effort. He will gently urge her to improve. Enrol her in a catering school if possible so she can learn. We are not deceiving ourselves here. A Close family friend of mine has been married for over 30 years to her husband. I can tell you that that woman does not know how to cook. No matter the amount of ingredients she uses, her food always tastes bland. She has daughters who are married now and they cannot cook but they are with their husbands...Not divorced. zicoraads:Once again, I respond politely, my marital status is none of your business. 1 Like 1 Share |
Family / Re: Marrying A Woman That Cannot Cook: Nigerians Respond (Video) by PinketteDawn: 1:46am On Aug 12, 2016 |
zicoraads: The probability is not in any way increased my dear. Lol It all depends on what both partners want from each other. And we are not discussing me here. My marital status is really not your concern. |
Family / Re: Marrying A Woman That Cannot Cook: Nigerians Respond (Video) by PinketteDawn: 1:40am On Aug 12, 2016 |
wadetaw202: I also pray for you to wake up and realise you are not marrying a free maid but a help mate. And by the way, God has never created anything that is useless. Who are you to call God's creation useless? I have seen the so called 'worthless' women change overnight and learn. Yes! Learn! Even as adults! One lady I know grew up without a mother and guess what? She learned how to wash her clothes and clean in boarding school. She also learned how to cook from her husband! She had the interest but was not opportuned to have someone teach her.She is still with her husband today after 5 years of marriage. He never for one day berated her for not knowing how to cook. He understood and taught her instead. From everything you have listed here, you are simply looking for a housemaid disguised as a wife. You are obviously not looking for a friend or for someone you can love wholeheartedly. There is more to a woman than a cook, cleaner, maid fused in one. Learn not to judge people too quickly my dear, it will help you in this journey called LIFE. 5 Likes |
Family / Re: Marrying A Woman That Cannot Cook: Nigerians Respond (Video) by PinketteDawn: 1:26am On Aug 12, 2016 |
jabojafa: Man: It is pathetic to see women who don't know how to cook. Woman: Yeah. You know what is even more pathetic? Seeing a man who decides not to learn how to cook because he feels a woman will always do it for him. Moral of the story: Every 'grown' adult should know how to cook. You will one day move out of your parents' home so you need to know how to cook to survive, especially in a harsh economy. 'Grown' because some adults today are just babies in disguise. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / Re: Marrying A Woman That Cannot Cook: Nigerians Respond (Video) by PinketteDawn: 1:18am On Aug 12, 2016 |
wadetaw202: No it doesn't. A thousand times 'No it doesn't guarantee a happy marriage'. She may not have learned how to cook as a teenager because she had no one to teach her. She might have lost her mother at a very tender age. Her father, too busy looking for money to raise her, may not have bothered to teach her because he did not even know how to cook. Their cook did her job everyday and went home. I can tell you that there are many women out there who are great cooks yet divorced. I am telling you this with certainty. 2 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: Crazy Coincidence In Human History That’ll Make You Scratch Your Head (photo) by PinketteDawn: 8:10am On Jul 15, 2016 |
Döppelganger. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Choosing The Right Spouse: Luck Or Personal Brilliance by PinketteDawn: 10:41pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
goodnewscliff: 100% right. You will always know. Just that there is this false hope that the person will change...lol |
Family / Re: Choosing The Right Spouse: Luck Or Personal Brilliance by PinketteDawn: 10:37pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
Donald7610: It was not love. |
Family / Re: Choosing The Right Spouse: Luck Or Personal Brilliance by PinketteDawn: 10:31pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
Flyingngel: The word 'good' is very relative. What is not good to A, may be good to B. If a man does not love a woman, the slightest thing she says or does will make her a bad woman to that man. It doesn't mean the woman is a bad woman. |
Family / Re: Choosing The Right Spouse: Luck Or Personal Brilliance by PinketteDawn: 6:21pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
Waspy: Abi ohh? Mom will say it's like a package. You get home to open it, whatever you see inside you accept it. Though I don't quite agree with her. You CHOOSE whether to accept it or not. 1 Like |
Career / Re: Why Most People Will Never Achieve The Success They Desire by PinketteDawn: 3:59pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
Basically, you just told us now that being successful is equivalent to acquiring riches. Kangol99: |
Family / Re: 8 Signs A Marriage Won’t Last, According To Divorce Lawyers by PinketteDawn: 11:48pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
JoeCutie: Love is enough. Infact, love is all you need to make a marriage work. I agree with every other thing you have said here 100% except for that part. If you have ever lived in a loveless marriage, you will understand what I mean. Love is everything in a marriage. It is love that will make both spouses tolerate, understand, work together, be selfless, respect each other and compromise. It is love that will make both spouses go the extra mile for each other. The love I am talking about is TRUE LOVE. It is not based in money, beauty, intelligence or success. Mind you, the love has to come from both spouses, not from one. Funny enough, I used to think like you that love is not enough...lol 3 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: 8 Signs A Marriage Won’t Last, According To Divorce Lawyers by PinketteDawn: 11:36pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
Greatzeus: 'Fight' in this sense is not exchange of blows or physical violence. It is more like exchange of words, arguments, outbursts, venting. |
Family / Re: 8 Signs A Marriage Won’t Last, According To Divorce Lawyers by PinketteDawn: 11:34pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
Greatzeus: 'Fight' in this sense is not exchange of blows or physical violence. It is more like exchange of words, argument's, outbursts, venting. |
Career / Re: How Do I Handle Work Place Sexual Harassment. HELP! by PinketteDawn: 11:01pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
Seeeeeeee: L O L |
Career / Re: How Do I Handle Work Place Sexual Harassment. HELP! by PinketteDawn: 11:11am On Jul 03, 2016 |
[quote author=Seeeeeeee post=47155496][/quote] She was sexually harassed! Oh wait! Maybe she should have waited to be raped first before complaining. *mtchewwwww |
Career / Re: How Do I Handle Work Place Sexual Harassment. HELP! by PinketteDawn: 7:48am On Jul 03, 2016 |
Seeeeeeee: Are you kidding me? So you think that the number of likes you get means that what you said is in order? If I post naked pictures of myself will I not get many likes? Does that make it right? Have you not heard stories of reverend sisters being raped? Children of 6 years and below being raped. Were they also indecently dressed or acting indecently? |
Family / Re: Childbearing Women, Keeping Fit, Matrimonial Security And Husbands' Fidelity by PinketteDawn: 11:26am On Jul 02, 2016 |
Yes! Gbam! Fini! *hugs* Coldfeet: 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Each Time I Think Of Tonto's Marriage It Makes Me Smile (See Photos) by PinketteDawn: 4:47pm On Jun 28, 2016 |
To each his own. People do things for different reasons. Love goes a long way in determining how a woman behaves towards her man and towards others in a marriage. I am talking from experience. God uses people to change others. I have seen women who were razz in their youth become very calm when they finally meet one who understands and loves them properly. I have seen men who were players suddenly turn to Christ when they met a certain woman and you will hear these people say 'if not for my spouse, I would never have known the peace I do know today' I am sure Tonto came across a lot of guys before she met this man. Why did she not 'mature' suddenly when she was dating those men? Time is not on her side again?....lol, is she the oldest woman in Nollywood who is yet to be married? Is she now the most famous actress for her to stop craving for fame all of a sudden? Love can do all things my dear. Love can change anybody. It can make an immature person suddenly become mature. It can make an irresponsible person suddenly become responsible. It can make a wicked person suddenly become kind. I am talking real love not Zeeworld kind of love. Never underestimate the power of love my dear. nortcentrallord: 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Each Time I Think Of Tonto's Marriage It Makes Me Smile (See Photos) by PinketteDawn: 10:16am On Jun 28, 2016 |
This is a perfect example of what happens when a woman is loved correctly by her man. 6 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: Uche Jombo Blasts Wuraola Ogunwusi Over Her Speech On Gender Equality by PinketteDawn: 12:05pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
sukkot: It is not about having money. There are self made women who still stay and endure because the society expects them to. I also know many women who invested alot and yet left without a pin to start life all over again. Leaving is a matter of choice. Even with all the money in the world, a woman still needs lots of reassurance and assistance from friends and family before she can take the step of leaving. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Can Abstaining From Premarital Sex Make You Faithful To Your Future Wife? by PinketteDawn: 9:51am On Jun 18, 2016 |
Built2last: Pure lie! A man who lacks self control will cheat. Even if his wife has the body of Kim Kardashian he will still cheat. From my little experience in life, when someone wants to do something wrong, he creates reasons backed up with facts, to justify his actions. Truth remains that anyone who cheats in his/her marriage has absolutely no reason whatsoever. |
Business / Re: Which Pays: Buying From Online Stores Or The Usual Stores? by PinketteDawn: 4:28pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
Well, I would say it depends on the product to you want to buy and how important it is to you to have the product. Some of the products you can find online are not readily available in the usual stores around you. If you can find them online and you really need them, then you have no choice but to buy them and sacrifice the shipping costs. My guide to online shopping 1. Check every store around you to convince yourself that the product you are looking for is not availablemor more affordable in any of those stores. 2. Go online and compare prices of the product from the must trusted/reputable online stores. Harness any discount/sales opportunity if available. (Do your research wella) 3. Consider the shipping costs, delivery time frame, payment method (some offer pay on delivery option so you actually get to see the product before you pay) and return policies as well. 4. Read reviews on the seller. 4. Give your honest review, if you can, once you receive your product For me, you cannot compare the two because both have their pros and cons. Depends on the customer. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: 16 Rules On How To Be The Perfect Nigerian Wife by PinketteDawn: 4:11pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
christopheru: Sorry op, apart from the last one, none of those points there make any sense. I actually thought the whole thing was a joke, that's why I initially commented that you are funny. Didn't know you thought....sorry, BELIEVE that some of those points are correct. |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Please Can Anybody Help Me With Abuja Jobs? by PinketteDawn: 12:07pm On Jun 14, 2016 |
1 Like |
Family / Re: 16 Rules On How To Be The Perfect Nigerian Wife by PinketteDawn: 12:00pm On Jun 14, 2016 |
OP, you are so funny. Omg! 1 Like |
Family / Re: DOMESTIC VIOLENCE: The Negative Effects On A Child. by PinketteDawn: 8:30am On Jun 11, 2016 |
ngoben: O dI egwu. A man I once knew was admonished for hitting his pregnant wife. What he said was that he only did what everybody else does and it was called domestic violence, meaning that to him, what there was nothing wrong with what he did. This is the psychological effect of domestic violence on children and how they grow up with it to become adults. That adult's parents stayed together so that their child will not be ruined by coming from a broken home. Ironically, he is already ruined by growing up inside that home. |
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