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Please don't make the biggest mistake of your life. Marriage with her is not a do or die affair. Don't forget that once you are in it, it might be difficult to get out.

You don't go into a marriage filled with secrets. Just try very hard in persuading her to tell you why she left in the first place. If it's a genuine reason, then you can go ahead and get married. Don't forget ... love is forgiving.

i would walk away from his sight..... that's enough for him to know how terribly hurt i am... i know he will realise his mistakes & come back begging.... but to be candid, if i still dig him, i would forgive him.. it costs nothing to forgive...

Mamba, how wrong you are. That's not why a girl would love to date a tall guy. Youu re absolutely wrong; there are many guys who are short but they've got bigger & longer members ('equipment' if I use your word)

So get that off your mind straight away, ok?

Everyone wants what's good, but I think we girls always attach too much importance to men's physique (I am no exception, mind you!)  I always want my men tall, broadchested, handsome.  It just adds to a lady's confidence about her guy.  I always feel like a G when I go to someplaces with a tall guy.  Every girl stirs his way, admires him & wishes they were his girl. 

So don't blame we girls for liking the tall guys.  At least we wont date guys shorter than us. LOL

Greatpeter, you are too African for my liking. Whats all that story about the girl being tagged a rotten egg for asking the guy out? Wake up dude!! This is the 21st century.

I'm a girl, and if I want a guy I know my ways. I don't have to go ask him out like guy would a girl out. I'll show it to him my own way. If he catches the scope, and he's a real bobo he'll set the ball rolling.

i was reading through this forum & wondering why on earth no one was from the PREMIERE UNIVERSITY.............. but alas! i saw allenpowered's reply..

i attended  secondary school1: ST. lLouisgrammar school. mokola ibadan
secondary school 2: Wesley college of science, elekuro ibadan

i finished from the UNIVERSITY OF IBADAN...........in 2004  & am currently serving to finish in august... aint i the dopest!?
allenpowered u said u re still in U.I.. wat dept will  that be? i finished from computer science..

am a female but i want to contribute so its not gonna be for just the brothers in d room.... dating an older chic i no big ... but then its got its cons too.
i once dated a dude younger than me with a year.. we really had fun & i succumbed to him as the male.. but the day he decided to show me pepper was wen he started to cheat for a very useless reason.......i had to show him i was a big girl in all ways..... i walked out of the relationship & never looked back despite the fact that i was hurting... so u see,, younger boys can be dangerous cos they love to play.. i have learnt my lessons d hard way....so as a girl.. nothing Will make me consider a boy younger than me in a relationship

num1.....most guys re so dumb that if u ask them out or give them an inclination that u've got the hots for them, they take a big advantage of u

num2..... the smart ones might develop cold feet (disappear)all of a sudden if u as a girl voice out ur feelings..... its only the sane ones that try to reason with u & u guys can see if a relationship can start or not.. but i I've come to discover that most guys wen they say No it is NO.. they dont wanna change their minds..because the girl saying " hi i think I've got the hot for u" will be offended with the rejection & wont bother to pressurize the boy..
all this makes it hard for girls to tell a guy they like him... no one likes to be rejected.. ..
so as a girl.. if u cant say it u let the feelings die in u..
but for me.. my advice is.. ""if u like him, he looks appealing to u.. go for him, if he acts funny or says 'No' ...get on with life.. there re other sweet dudes out there waiting to know u better""

hmnn i really agree with chigzy...... my going for the wedding is gonna be for a purpose..it's got to be me with my drop dead dude attending.. so my EX- can see how well am doing . the fact that he's getting married that day.. doesn't mean am lonely...i need to flaunt my dude.