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So waz up Tgirl what made u come up with the question? Or did u just findout that your mom or a friends mom has been down that road in the past?

NA waoh for unaoooo Naija people (QUESTION FOR QUESTION)

how would you react?

I dont see anything wrong in that, in as long as that was the only way she could get back on her fit again,
it is her past it has nothing to do with the present,
this could be wrong if she still continues doing it.
Hope this help.

for halfcast,or sometimes south africans

THE HAIR IS TIPICAL AFRICAN? if u tell me of the complexioni go hear u, no Igbo has curling hairs as real halfcast. try and asked ur forefathers if they didn't do corner making in those day with some of these white men that came to colonise naija (lol).

Very sad, the problem is their parents, (redneck parents) they knew their children are going to europe for
prostituting they will pretend as if they do not know.

When u tell people back home how difficult a foreigh country is, they will think u do not want them to make it in life,
becos in their mentality, EUROPE is a bed of roses lollllllllllllllllllllllllllls who no go no know.

Thank God they survive, let them go back and make good use of their precious lives.

urhobo wa doo!

nice treads i appreciat as an urhobo i hardly find urhobo stuff on line thx to nairaland and to you (DRAGTROCK) woruru mamo! you do well(correct me plz)lol

(sistawoma)circumcised men are better. They are better lovers they are better all the way around

I just can't wrap my mouth around an uncircumcised man.

You are right, CIRCUMCISED MALE IS THE BEST AND STRESS FREE,
I have tested the both because my first lover wasn't circumcised it was very diffucult for me during love making, cos i am used to circumcised male as it is a tradition in africa, in some part of the europe it's very rare to find a circumcised male because doctors kick against it.

they said that the foreskin is the source of all manner of illnesses and disease, that optimum emotional and physical health is achieved by avoiding circumcision, protection from infection by oligosaccarides from breast milk, others sees it as a babaric art etc

FOR ME NA STORY DEM DEY TELL.

Hubby was circumcised cos he had some problems when he was 5yrs old so medical reports instructed the foreskin to be cut off, this made him a circumcised man today.

As i am talking here, we have two kids both are male and they are not circumcised, i wanted it done but hubby, his family and my kids pediate kicked against it, who am i to take this decision alone, there is a law in France both parents must agree before the child can be circumcised.

And if one parent doens not agree the other can press charges, this can led to imprisonment.
So i had to let go, maybe when they grow up they will do it themselves cos its very ugly and needs frequent toileting.

FLAKYBABY if her husband gets to know that all along u knew about it he will think u and ur friend her birds of same feathers,

But i am a faithful wife, I know that adultry is a sin, first why should i think of that? my hubby and all my friends can bear me withness, so if my friends husband thinks i and his wife are birds of thesmae feather that will be wrong of him.

I have sugested to him to stop the maid from working, because my friend takes advantage for the fact that the maid live with them, takes care of the kids she has too much free time with her boyfriend, my friend can sure take care of her kids as a normal mother, this will keep her busy, i don't think she can live 3 kids all alone in the house and go out to visit a man.
So i think the maid thing should be handled by her hubby as he is the one that pays all the bills, he can equally take a decision on this.

She is a very good family friend of mine, i love her and her little family, but there is something happening that i couldn't handle any longer.
Her hubby is a very nice man, they both met theselves in Naija because hubby works in naija.

(Hubby is white while she is Naija) hubby was once married with 3 grown up children.
According to her hubby left his wife because of her, they both had to make kids together, they have 3 kids now.
But she never stop seeing other men for THESE reasons,( hubby is too old), he doesn't last when they ****love)  ETC.

As a friend i asked her if she didn't know hubby's age before engaging with him up to the extend of having 3 kids and made him forgot about his previews wife and children.

But my friend told me the truth that she wanted hubby because her family is poor since hubby is rich she decided to settle down with him not minding what the future will give, ((((HAPPINESS OR SADNESS))))
Now there is a problem, hubby is cying to me all the time that she come home very late, she use to travel to Asaba, Benin etc, i know the truth but i can't just expose her to her hubby because i don't want them to devoice, as hubby has made mentioned of it one time that he will devoice her if he cought her again with a man.

But does she think about her children happiness? Hubby is 62 while she is 29.
I have played several roles IN ORDER to stop her from this shameful act, as long as she is married she should respect her present statut.

I know the 19yrs old boy but she never told me she was dating him.
I know 3 others she is dating but she told me she has left them after i adviced her.

Hubby is now away for some treatment in Europe, he gave her money to take the kids to SPEND 4 days holiday in Lagos, she had to go with her 19yrs old boy friend she rented two rooms, 1 for her kids and their maid and 1 for her and her boyfriend.

Her 6yrs old daughter confirmed this to me on phone, i couldn't hold myself, i am so hangry with her NOW, how could she be so wicked to a man that does everything to make her happy, the father of her kids, a man that has made differences in the life of her entire family, a man that forsake his family for her sake etc.

Her parents are not happy with her but they could not talk that much as she happens to be the bread winner of the family, sometime ago during her wedding she left hubby and went out dancing with friends and her boyfriend was there with her. her mum asked me to call her to come and be with hubby where he is sitting she refused.

The truth is that hubby cannot move freely he has some movement problem and coupled with the kidnapping thing in the naijadleta, so she is taking advantage of this.

I am thinking of treatning her that if she doesn't stop fletting around i will review her to her hubby, this may because problem between us she is my very good friend i wouldn't want to seperate with her for this reason, what can i do now please help!!!!, ur advice could make a difference thank you.

Why did Jesus object to the execution of the woman caught committing adultery when the law recommended that she be put to death?

THE LAW IS CREATED BY A MAN AND CAN BE OBJECTED BY A MAN((((( besides, Jesus is not just a man, he has the power to forgive sin.))))

I hope their husbands are aware
and have understood their very physique

They love their husband so they are scared they could lose thier hubby if he knows about this. they are sad though for not to have experienced real sexual feelings.

ICELAND)Have u tried the uncircumcised ones?

What if i say i ve tried the both, it is true that the foreskin protects the penis but i think the circumcised male is less stressful during love making as there is no foreskin to make the penis slide!!!))

Is it true that non circumcised men are more romantic than circumcised male,?? non circumcirsed men will never agree that circumcised men are neater than them. what do u have to say in this subject?

if u're really feeling the person . . .u won't even know when your eyes closes up.
like someone said . . .it is sensual.

You have said it all. (Poster) please take his answer.

and even shockingly in some urban areas
by people who believe that women should not messup every where due to their orgasms, and should remain only at home
basically for the satisfaction of the man, whether or not she finds it painful

First i would say that there is no where in the bible where it says female child should be circumcise, those parents who does it are not christians and i would also say that in those days it is lack of education that parents do bring in this subject, in some family they asked the husband to pay back the circumsition fee that is if the girl was circumcised befor she got married. i would also say that((((Female circumcision is a barbaric form of child abuse))) these are some of there reason why parents choose to circumcise their female child.

Some believe that women who have had the procedure done are more virtuous because of reduced sexual desire. It is believed they will remain chaste prior to marriage.

Some view the clitoris as "dirty" and believe that having it removed is a sign of cleanliness. Others believe that in order to safeguard the girl's virginity the clitoris must be removed.

this is totally wrong, when one doen't wash herself, she is surposed to be dirty.

Many families believe it is the only way to ensure their daughters are seen as "pure" and thus desirable by potential husbands.

Only premitive and non romantic men will want to welcome female circumcision

Still others believe that removing the genitals and thereby reducing or eliminating sexual desire will ensure that in the future, when the girl becomes a wife she will remain faithful to her husband.

As far as i am concern, parents should put a stop to this wicked act, it is true that eliminationg of the clitoris does reduce sexual desires, BUT WHAT IS SEX IF WE don't ENJOY IT?? i have two friend whom are circumcised, they don't have sexual feelings and they are mirried, when  i tell them how enjoying this things is they go crazy, i am so happy my parents didn't do that to me, HUBBY IS WHITE AND TOLD ME THAT HE WOULD HAVE MARRIED A GIRL WITHOUT A CLITORIS) LOLhe is right because that is the most sensitive part of a woman.

He relies on u for financial needs?? So what??
Hang in there and hope his situation gets better.
What if he gets a good job tomorrow and things take shape

THERE ARE MANY FISHES IN THE RIVER, A GUY WHO DOES NOTHING TO PROVE HE HAS A BETTER FUTURE IS NOT WORT IT.
NO MAN DESARVE TO MAKE U HAVE A STRESSFUL LIVING, SIT HIM DOWN AND LET HIM KNOW UR MIND, CAN'T HE GO LOOKING FOR JOB?? (((FORGET ABOUT HOW GOOD HE DOES SATISFY U IN BED, AS HE MAY BE TAKING ADVANTAGE OF THIS))))) THERE ARE MILLIONS OUT THERE WHO CAN DO BETTER THAN HIM. MAKE GOOD USE OF UR SWEAT DONT SAY I DIDN'T ADVICE MEN CO THAT GUY IS A BIG TIME RELIABILITY TO U.

Because of ordinary kissing? So you would dump a good guy just because he doesn't know how to kiss

You dont ve to say an ordinary kiss, If ur woman like kissing u give her the way she wants it, or are they not meant be satisfy each other or is her mouth smelling i enjoy kissing more than anything else in sex, and i am fortunate to have a good hubby who does know how to kiss, imagin he doesn't know how to kiss and i love him, all i need to do is teach him times without number. Am sure he will enjoy it when u teach him and would do dsame to u.

If she does make mistakes while she was not far away from u, definatively she will make more mistake now that she is far away, but what kind of mistakes? it all depense on the mistake, if it is a case of cheating, it will be had that she won't continue now that she is far, you know ur girl better, so do what ur heart tells u.
But i would advise u don't let go ur relationship witout any good reason, keep watching her in a way she would not understand.

i falled 2 theory exam in Spain than i stop

Am not surprise at this, i was so lucky to ve passed my theory at the very first time, exam was set in frence, infact i thank god. do u learn theory in spanish or english there

Hey benincitys

There  should be driving schools in  Benin you guys IDEAL of taking courses in naija is pretty wise, but dont go copy bad system there as this may count on u here. Because i am passing through hell here just to be able to pass my pratical text, during the lessons, MY monitor will tell me that i drive well, but the day of the text the inspector will disqualify me for his reasons, i ve failed THE EXAM two times. With my caculations i ve already spent 3120 euros without having it, HUBBY is not happy and adviced me to change school but i still belive i am good enough to pass it with my present school as they rea not the judge on the day of the exam. The thing is that, each time u fail, u will ve to reenrole with 80 euros and take some driving lessons while waiting to repass another exam, my last exams was an intentional act by the inspector, driving school in europe is a good bad business lolllllllssss. i just hope my third time will be my last time with them(operation get my driving licence)

Now i get ur point, u re right to have decided to under go some lesson while u will be on vacation in naija, this will help u spend less in Denmark to obtain their licence. Anyway i don't live in Abuja and i can't help in this area. Good luck.

since i read this story i am not myself i can sleep i can eat i feel very sad  i was planning to go to Nigeria after 8 year of not seeing my family
i think i got to forget about it and sent them more pix of me ,

benincitys Yes it's quite a sad story, but can u stay away from family all  ur life? the only thing u need do is pray to the one who controls the heart of every man, (God) If u have ENOUGH money lodge in a good secured hotel  and try to help yourself also by not exposing the name of ur hotel to all that u think are friends and family, because u never know who is who, give instructions to hotel receptionist on whom to allow in. In my case i do reject some visitors i ve doubt on because i went with my kids. That family things uuuh!!! i no buy am oooooo, and each time u are visiting anyone don't inform him or her, always go by surprise and just be careful, no say i no tell u oooo. good luck in ur decision.

Seabreeze, I'm a bit confuzzled by your post.

Where are you living at present?

After i read your reply i was also confused of where u reside, do u mean u live in the europe but on vacation in nigeria?

The classes + exams here is approx. 3000EUR,

where explain better plz.

You think two weeks is enough to achieve a good driving result?? i know in Nigeria driving licenced is as easy to obtain as pure water, unlike here in the europe, befor u get ur driving licenced u must have driven 20hours minimus if u are that shape u might pass the text, and to pass the thory text umh!! u will sweat, i am a nigerian and i ve a nigeria driving licence which is not valid here, u can drive with it but mind u if u are cought u will pay a penalty. So u will be asked to study and obtain their own licence with which u can use it to drive all over the world as there is no cheating in the exam. Anyway i advice u to learn more than 2 weeks dont be in hast just take ur time never mind how much money or time it will cost u, for driving is not a child's play.

NIGERIA1@/
COULD YOU PLEASE STOP ALL THESE SATELLITE PIC RUBBISH, WHAT HAS IT GOT TO DO WITH THE TOPIC, MUST YOU BRING SATELLITE PIC TO EVERY DISCUSSION?,

THIS is real funny i didn't stop laughing at his qoutes,

by Nigeria1@/ Look I know what I am doing. I am saving you all. You may not want to believe, but i know. I have lived abroad for so long. I am risking my life for you all. I know the white man secret. His secret is accurate census. Look this is the white man secret. He as accurate profile of everybody and he can track you. All our life out here from health, education, banking, buying a houses, buying a car and others is based on their census figure. They know us by name and we all have a number and without that number . your whole life is useless abroad.

What help are u really rendering as par this topic, the google pictures?? na waoh for u oooo.

Na waoooh, this catholic thing no go fishish oooo, why not just preach christ and win souls to him than arguing about how MARY etc,

[how did you know her egg was not fertilized by a sperm eh david? were you there,

We all know that MARY was concieved by the holy spirit, but we do not know how this was done, As God has his own way of doing things. Do not conclude that her eggs were fertilized by sparm, if You say so!!! whom sparm could that be?? do You mean the holy spirit slept with Mary He came to the world in a human form but he wasn't real human, he is more than what we know him to be.

May Gods word remain blessed AMEN. [quote][/quote]

The police will do nothing because I think the legal marriage age in Nigeria is 12 and they do it everyday in the north. That's why the north has a high rate of VVF.

OMG, this is unfair, what does a teenager know about marital ?? even adults couples finds it pretty difficult to cope how much more an (ado) i bet u the man will do everything to keep this marriage but it's not gonna be easy for him. becos the girl is not matured enough to handle things.

You just want to provoke nigerians with this topic lolllllllllllllllllllllllsssssssss

does it means that the woman will not paticipate in the marriage expenses? if she really want to show big she should be able to surport, abi na by force to do wedding, just go and pay her diary and that is all than paying debt to marry her, that is not what marriage desires. if u are rich u can do a wedding in a big way. like he said,

cut your coat according to your size simple!!!!!!!!