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It will be to sad for anyone to have a mother who can hurt her up to this extend, i can't tell how painful this could be, it is an evil act and only
God has the judgement.

thank all for the advice i love you all, he is born yesterday 18th sept, by 8,25pm, thank GOD with me all is fine

Congratulation what a blessed day (((18th september))). kiss ur baby for me.

I love my our last child she is my daughter, she calls me her small mama(((smile))) i go pretty well with my imidiate elder sister too we chat almost every day, we make fun of urselves using those words while we were kinder (LOL) we both count on each other she is very funny.
On like my eldest sister, we were moving on like normal blood sisters until lately she hates me for her best reasons, i love her and am praying that God will touch her so we can be the sisters we used to be.

(((JJYOU))))  by the way you wronged her by spoiling her business and cash flow

U quite understands the situation, but i was not holding her any huge som of money, she don make mony welwel even b/4 i dream to come europe, wetin she spent on me then was a peenut but then when anger came inbetween us, she asked me to pay back this was shoking to me because Initially she didn't asked me to pay her back.
She is hard to please because After i gave her bk her money she still ve reasons to continue to be angry.
SHE HAS said alot of things relating to ur qoute (((JJYOU)).

DANKE

read through properly,u will see that ur essays were not necessary

I hear you maybe i misunderstood her as you said.
I was NOT ok with JENI_KAGY when he or she said (((but don't think its because u pray then he will save u,if that prayer is not from ur heart and soul,its going nowhere except ur lips.

THANKS ANYWAY.

SHINATU It is God that sees the heat of all men,so leave it to Him, He knows all that happened between the two of you.

I quite agree with you!!

even sm of them that call him from the spirit and soul are long gone,its his grace and love that has brought u and i this far,ask for that grace and keep asking ,he will give it to u,but don't think its because u pray then he will save u,if that prayer is not from ur heart and soul,its going nowhere except ur lips

I am not telling you that i won't die, sure everyone will die, i do not need anyone to treaten me with death as death is also a debt he or she is owning.

but don't think its because u pray then he will save u

IF PRAYER CAN NOT SAVE YOU, THEN WHY DO YOU PRAY THE BIBLE SAY, THE PRAYER OF A SINNER IS AN ABOMINATION UNTO BE, I KNOW ALL THESE THINGS
SO I CANNOT BEEN IN SIN AND BELIEVE THAT MY PRAYERS WILL BE ACCEPTED, THE BOOK OF PHILIPIANS SAID, ((((BECAREFUL FOR NOTHING BUT IN EVERYTHING BY PRAYERS AND SUPLICATION WITH THANKSGIVEN? LET UR REQUEST BE MADE KNOWN UNTO GOD)))) Will u now say that this verse didn't tell how useful and powerful the power of PRAYER is? BE SURE I BELIEVE IN PRAYERS. THAT AS ALWAYS BE MY SOURCE OF LIVING UP TILL DATE. MY GOD IS NOT SLEEPING FOR HE WATCHES OVER ME AS HE WATCHES OVER ISRAEL.

But, How can u judge if my prayers are not from my heart and soul, i know there is a battle which is of the lord so i do believe in my prays cos they come from the bottom of my heart, i believe that because the bible mentioned it.
He said do not be afraid of he who can kill the body and not the soul, God has been doing things greatly for me according to my request so i strangely believe he will not let me down.

thanks for the nice reply.

You re welcome! cute baby there in ur profil.

U cant force urself to be friendly.

why are you surprise i am here  ?

wrong qoute, i said that i am not surprise u re here, it's not even for the market place stuff, it's because of ur user name(((benincitys))) as the thread was talking about benin girls that was why i said

hey benincitys, how is it today! am not surprise u here.

e vex u if yes am sorry because i did't mean any harm.

very great, now, we can say Nigerian ladies are taking their rightful place in the international community, in sports, in sex, in drugs, in fraud etc. Hail Nigerians.

Of course, lots of Nigerian female footballers in Finland, Sweden, Holland, Germany etc and also in the US, some of them combine sports with studies, we just have to make changes.

''jennikadri ''pray she doesnt join that secret society(that is if shes not in it already) because u wont be alive to post here again,except u make God be by your side day in and day out,then u and ur entire family will be safe

Have you forgotten the promises of God towards us?
I believe that God is greater than all, as i hold nothing against my sister, she can do nothing to harm me nor my little family, she is no God neither the society she reliar on, He who is in me is greater than he who is in the world, i am not scared of the evil once. all i know is that i still love her no matter what, my kids always put her in prayer. God will give her what she wants.

u want to give ur neice to these lions to shine? u no love am at all!

I love her very much, how could i know they are lions? i withdrew her very fast lolllsssssssss.

Macman, please correct me if i am wrong, but don't u think what you are doing is illegal?

Not only illegal but stealing, taking what does not belongs to u is wrong.

he seem not to be on line yet, lets see what he has for you guys!

You guys should not post ur address, ur telephone number is enough until u see the employer face to face be careful.

yes the are Benin girls . come to( château rouge )the 18th district of paris the heart of African market in paris you will see them with their pidgin English what a shame .

vous étes française?

that market rock , pidgin english is not a shame

hey benincitys, how is it today! am not surprise u here.

weird and an abominable act. if it'sdone intentional, but why dating two girl ?? can'tu just keep one

he is angry that you got married before her,pray and love her,she is frustrated because she thinks she is old,prayer is the only solution.

Thank God i am doing my best in praying for her. but do u think my prayer will work for her as she keep saying there is no God, she cause God and said she will join some secret society, for her reasons.

IFYALWAYS :NEVER ever compare/contrast the new person with the ex BUT in everything be wise !

showing to ur new love that u are scared becos of ur past relation will make him try not to hurt u, why not live freely with him as if u never get hurted befor, it's heard to get off from herat break but then life goes on, who u are waiting for never waits for u so i advice u to build this new one with tenderness.

once told a guy i have fallen in love with him, and he told me i should stand in love and not fall in love. we were really close as friends until i developed such feelings for him. I feel so ashamed expressing my feelings to him because he turned me down and i regret ever mentioning it

Maybe He was not sure of ur love but then he wouldn't have sounded this way.

niaja boys are not romantic! even the girls too! it was till i left naija i realized!

I also have thesame experience too, i dated 2 naija guys befor i left naija, none of them know how to romance, they are only interested in puting the "thing" that is all LOL, i like kissing and been touched tenderly but i never felt it with them until i found hubby the really match of my sex life. Naija guys should wake up, no be only """"" be sex oooo.

the girl seems very stubborn

who beats u up when u prove stubborn?

Most of u naija guys thinks women are bounch of sac where u lean boxing. I will lock up any man who will raise his filty hands on me.

few days ago in the onlinenigeria portrait i saw a photo of a girl her boyfriend pulled acid on, simply because he called her several times and she refused to pick up her phone. Is this not crazy?

Igbo girls started it

I am not tribalistic here, it's what  JUSTGOOD wrote

Do you know how many mothers in Benin are still trying to help their daughters get into Europe?

And i felt it's true because? I COULD REMEBER VIVIDLY WELL when i newly arrive in France, The first black person i met as a friend was a Ghananian man.
We took thesame flight, been that i intended to continue my sporting profession as planed, i had to beg him to introduce me to any Naija person that he know, the man laughed and said, u think say Benin girls dem dey do sport for europe i was a (novix) i didn't understand wht he meant.

When we arrived at the place there were plenty of Naija all the people i met were Benin girls, I and spoke with them for help they told me ( MY SISTER U BETTER JOIN US OOO, NA THIS WE DEY TAKE SURVIVE NO WORK FOR HERE.)) I said God how could this be, i forbid myself of this act i will rather go back home as i own no body dam in return.

Most of my team mate that travelled abroad are all playing football so why should they say NO FOOTBALL FOR EUROPE. (said by the Ghananian man: no be their fault they belong to where they belong 95 percent of dem re illitrates).

Lucky for me i went into a cyber cafe as i was brossing one Benin boy came and said Na u be the JJC sport girl? , i said yes, he said (((I QUICKLY NOTICE U because ALL THOSES YEYE GIRLS NO SABI BROSS i never see any1 sit down dey bross, if dem enter here na to make call and na so delm dey shout like idoits))) HE was the one that shown me to a football team in Saint Denis, i started up my career from there and achived my goals.

I am nt saying thoses girls are condem or somthing, with what i learnt, they had to pay some huge amount of money so its not thesme situation as me.

But the fact is that, they knew thay will come to do this job and they accepted to take the risk to do it.

Na Benin girls dey leed as i take see thing my self because they were all speaking Benin on that day.

Her parents have spoken to her, u have spoken to her as well, and she is still bent

I came to realised that some times, her mum used to cover for her, she will tell hubby that she is going to see mum why she has gone out with her man friend, her mum will confirm to her hubby that she is with her.

I ve told her that she needs deliverance, i live far away from her i could have invited a pastor to visit her home for special prayers, my concern is her kids not her. Does anyone knows a pastor number in warri? i would like to speak with a pastor about this isue.

God bless you.
Pastor Jonathan
08052132483

give him a call he will show u who has the best anwser to how u will "reac" since none of us have anwser to ur question.

Do you know how many mothers in Benin are still trying to help their daughters get into Europe?

what kind of mothers are they anyway, it's lack of education.

Benin people started this european prostitution thing, dem never still give up?? na waohhh

it might be that all his life he has never approched a woman, it is possible at this age but rare,
i hope u will fit up with a woman who will appreciate U @ THIS ur state GOOD LUCK. (u re one of a millions)

what if after reflecting on the past you realised she was actually doing it for her own selfish gain.

In this case u can still do nothing, all u will say is that nature wasn't kind enought to give u a mother that practiced prostitution intentionaly.

But are u hiding something from us about this subject, if u don't speak it all out u will keep bordering urself.

Abi the victim na one of those travelling to europe for prostitution? what is ur relationship with the victim

I think u should put ur foot down and hav no more part to play is this sick scenerio. . . the woman has no dignity and she will pull u down with her

you hit the point, she has no dignity, i told her today that she should let go this habit, she replied (let go)) i can only put a limit to it, u don't understand my position, then i said to hall with whatever u think is ur position.

I told her i will not contact her anymore until she confessed to her husband  and repent of her sins.

Lol i am not even looking anymore she would come and find me when she is ready

Time wait for no man, abi u no know??

No shame ooo!!! i get one very nice niece, she is in second year are u interested