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Romance › Re: She needs ur advice please. by plappville(op): 5:25pm On Nov 01, 2008

JJYOU:
did she think you wont work that out or what?

Of course i can't help her because i do not have ideal on how succesful the internet date is, i only give her some words of encouragement due to what member enconium posted i hope she will try not to generalise that other guys are like the internet once.

Romance › Re: She needs ur advice please. by plappville(op): 5:20pm On Nov 01, 2008

honeric01:
Doesn't she have parents? if she can't work that out herself, then let the parents do it for her, well, i have 4 unmarried responsible brothers for her incase she needs my help

How do u mean, can her parents find her a man of her chioce? shocked

is it possible huh

And why are ur 4 responssible brothers still single wink

do they tell u they are seeking a serious lady yet huh

?

Becos she is ready to marry if she finds one nice bobo.

Romance › Re: She needs ur advice please. by plappville(op): 5:13pm On Nov 01, 2008

olaremint:
@ poster your friends problem is over plesae tell her to mail me on olaitangolu@yahoo.com and she will find MR RIGHT

I am sorry, I can't even tell her about you, she is pist up, and for the fact that i met u here will worsen everything, she will definately classify u as one of those internet flirt guys out there.

Romance › Re: Can You Marry A Single Parent/divorcee? by plappville(f): 5:00pm On Nov 01, 2008

If the single parent was never married i can marry him, but once he is a divorced man i wont do such for religion porpose.

Family › Re: Ladies Will You Let Your Husband Watch Your Delivery? by plappville(f): 7:01pm On Oct 31, 2008

mine husban was there for my two kids, it was really encouraging to me.

He didn't stop kissing my hands and was saying BRAVOO he bought me wonderful gifts, and was petting me more than ever befor.

It has nothing to do with decreasing of love but to improve it.

Family › Re: A Pest Brother! "looking For Words To Tell Him". by plappville(op): 6:47pm On Oct 31, 2008

JJYOU:
i wont say what i think of this man here. you have others ahead of you. you are a young girl with responsibility. he should take money from your other sister that is the unnamed business. you know what they are like. he thinks you make money like the other lady.

as others have said just take off your sim card and get a new one. you don't owe him. let him continue with his pools. as for him calling your hubby, get your mum to make him stop that. that is out of order. he should be ashamed of himself. this is abuse of priviledge. don't bother talking to him so he doesn't mis-quote you

JJYOU You got the whole joke, but that other sister is even less concern about him, she won't give him a din kobo, mum is too old she has sword him to find a job and a place of his own he wouldn't listen. Dad was a very hard working man befor he passed away so no body else to talk to him.

As for the phone number i will change mine, but hubby can't because it's an official line, am afraid he will continue to contact hubby as soon as he discovers i ve change my line. ((((pain in the ass))))

[b]ifyalways[/b]change your numbers and your hubbys own,send him whatever you want/feel like giving him monthly without disclosing your number to him and keep praying for him.His your brother and you both are Africans,you really can't do much here

Why is the younger brother working huh

? i am not his boss that i will ve to continue giving him mone monthly, u re not getting me i am tired of him.

he is not the only brother i ve but he is the only one that has refused to work simple.

Family › Re: Get Pregnant Then I'll Marry You! by plappville(f): 6:27pm On Oct 31, 2008

abujabooks:
Some Nigeria men want 2 be sure that you can have kids.

I don't believe in it.

A guy that can condition his woman to get pregnant or else no marriage does not wort it.

undecided

that is just me.

But my dear pray to God for ur situation cos it's not a very easy one.

I think this is not a good way to encourage ur wife to get pregnant, when a woman is stressed up with this kind of condition, she will hardly get pregnant

bacos stress can prevent a woman from been pregnant, so u can see ur man is not helping matters.

Have u both gone for a check up to be sure of fertility, huh

? if yes why waiting get married and relax ur mind the good love will bless u like every other mother out there,

Family › Re: Man Kills Lover , Chops Off Own Manhood by plappville(f): 5:22pm On Oct 31, 2008

étrange et bizza comme histoire. vous avez trouvez ça de quel site huh

Events › Re: Please Announce Your Birthday Here: by plappville(f): 4:59pm On Oct 31, 2008

iyoyoworl:
11th feb. Love

Wooo 1 day defference my is 10th february

Romance › Re: Sleeping With Ur Girl At Nite And Ur Fone Rings: by plappville(f): 3:20pm On Oct 31, 2008

plappville:
All the male are just giving him their best advice, birds of same feather flocks together, does it means 80 per of Nigeria guys are doing this so the virus of having plenty wifes still circle them hummm!!!!

[quote author=tonye-t link=topic=187387.msg3006986#msg3006986 date=1225204735]sister plappville, don't you think that 80% of Guys do it because 80% of girls are just too curious to know everything about their guy, "CURIOSITY THEY SAY KILLED THE CAT" grin

[/quote]THEY ARE CURIOUS BECOS OF LOVE, ITS NOT ENOUGH REASON TO BE TAKEN FORGRANTED.

Romance › Re: Why Don't Nigerian Girls Appreciate Flowers As Gifts? by plappville(f): 3:10pm On Oct 31, 2008

ndividual:
LOL! Guy, for what now? Where did you go when recharge cards replaced flowers?!?! https://l.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/emoticons7/24.gif

IN THIS case i will say that flower is even better than recharge card. or u can offer a pet. wink

nija girl will finidh u.

Family › Re: How To Displine A 3 Year Old Child. (always Re-arranging Furnitures) by plappville(f): 2:47pm On Oct 31, 2008

I was thinking of posting this thread, thank God we re wearing same shoe grin

i am having thesame problem here, they are something else each night when they go to bed i will take my time to arrange and arrange, thesame thing will continue the next day.

All my nigeria cd's re scrashed becos the soon 1 year old is having fun with dem. thx to onlinenigeria.com for posting free video clips.

Family › Re: A Pest Brother! "looking For Words To Tell Him". by plappville(op): 2:36pm On Oct 31, 2008

spikedcylinder:
This is sad.
He's probably doing it because he has no choice. I really don't know what to say as I haven't been in this situation before. What I don't like though is his rudeness.

Pele o.

Is there no work in 9ja huh

taxi drivers dey make am oooo, he has choice but just been lazy.

Family › Re: Children Raised In Nigeria Are Better? by plappville(f): 2:17pm On Oct 31, 2008

spoony:
Its true that it depends on who is raising up the child and how, however the environment does play huge role also!
You might try your best to be a good parent, be example of good behaviour, but then the kid goes to school, see other mates (how they disrespect their teachers) and plays outside of school with them too and wants’ to be ‘cool’ and ‘in’ and not laughed at.
Here in Uk is huge criminality between teenagers, almost every week kid is being stabbed by other kids (London).
Most families I know is planning to send their kids to NIG when they reach 15 or so, for couple years, to get the sense of schooling/environment back home. That should give them nice lesson!
I’d miss my boy dearly but I do want him to experience his own country in his childhood. The he can go to UNI in Europe, if he’s up for it.

I agree with u, parents may do their best but when kids go to school they learn diffrent things, they are told in school to report they parents if they beat them, u know it's not really a big beat, one can hit a child at the butus just to correct the child, u won't believe that ur child will go report that u beat him.

What about this dam hallowee thing huh

do they do it in 9ja no no no, i ve never seen that, but here kids do wear hallowee clothes.

Each morning when i go to drop my kid in the nursery i use to pass in front of a collage where u will see 10,12 -15 yrs children smoking outside.

This can't happen in 9ja, even if they do it they will hid it, becos here moking is becoming a normal thing as parents do smoke in front of their infant children.

the law has given upper hand to kids, and this is affecting their parents.

Family › Re: Is It Right To Be A Second Wife? by plappville(f): 2:01pm On Oct 31, 2008

Thank God that doesn't exist here, but even if i was to get married in naija i will never welcome that ideal, why should my husband think of getting a second wife at the first place.

They are not always friendly to each other it's wrong to accept to be a second wife.

I want to rock my husband alone oooo just like this till old age Lollllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllsssssssssssssssssssssss.

Family › Re: Wish Me Happy Birthday. by plappville(f): 1:49pm On Oct 31, 2008

You are plus one today, hipup!!!!!! yiiiiaaaahhhh have fun.

Events › Re: Birthday Party For One Year Old by plappville(f): 1:42pm On Oct 31, 2008

I am planing my baby boy first birtday by the end of november, this is a very important moment in the life of kids even if they are not very aware of what the occasion is. I don't know how cost it is to celebrate kids birthday in nigeria as i ve never experienced kids party while in 9ja.

U will have to do some animating creation all over the enviroment where the occasion will take place, buy her a very beautiful clothes as that happens to be her special day.

U may try to video it becos ur baby will be glad to view her first birthday on a screen when she will become aldult, this is a great memory.

Parcage gifts for invities, i mean the kids that will come to share ur daughter up.

I wish her a wonderful birthday.

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Family › Re: Why Child Out Of Wedluck? by plappville(f): 1:16pm On Oct 31, 2008

i think most of them are victim of unprotected sex and do hate to do the abortion thing, it's not that they are pleased to have a child out of wedlock.

Family › Re: When Your Family Rejects Your Choice Of Partner by plappville(f): 1:04pm On Oct 31, 2008

Getting married to a womanising man, although there is no clear proof, i would advice ur friend to use her tongue to count her teeth marriage is not a go in and come out easily afair, she should be careful and not ignore completely her family advice.

Family › A Pest Brother! "looking For Words To Tell Him". by plappville(op): 12:50pm On Oct 31, 2008

My eldest brother who is jobless keeps disturbing me to send him money monthly, i can't continue like this am already taking responbibility of mum and two younger once in whom are in higher institutions.

This old man wont just let me be, he keep sending me (sms) (txt) flash without control and call hubby when he is at work times without number ((( he will say tell ur OYIBO husband to send me money)))

He has a kid and can't even take care of his kid and wife, he is still living with mum, doesn't spend money on anything as mum does the shopping at home.

Does any of u have this kind of brother huh

he even senior 5 persons befor me.

I am tired of him seeing me as his source of living, he plays pool with any money sent to him after he will ask for more by force.

Plz help ooooooo i am runing out of patient, this can't countinue.

Crime › Re: Tragedy: 7 Yr Old Shoots Friend To Death. by plappville(f): 12:26pm On Oct 31, 2008

The dad is to be blamed, but how could the child point a gun loaded or not at someone, why didn't he kill himself?? silly and sad.

Family › Re: Training Up A Child by plappville(f): 12:01pm On Oct 31, 2008

Bring him or her up with the fear of God, never force a child to copy u, the best gift u can offer a child is A good up bringing.

children are our pride.

Family › Re: What Has Life Taught You? by plappville(f): 11:25am On Oct 31, 2008

That i should always look ahead in order not to remain behind.

Thant i can never please the world.

Romance › Re: Why Are Nigerian Teenagers Getting Pregnant In A Higher Rate? by plappville(f): 8:03am On Oct 31, 2008

Becos 9ja boys won't just let them be, a teenager cannot inpregnant herself, those guys out there that like dating teenagers should answer this question better wink

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: I Need A Bedmate by plappville(f): 7:49am On Oct 31, 2008

SORRY FOR THE INSULT BUT I WILL SAY YOU ARE A SHAMELESS HUSBAND TO HAVE SOUNDED IN THIS MANNER, BEFOR U AGREED MARRYING HER U KNEW SHE WAS ODD, WAS THERE SOME OTHER REASON WHY U MARRIED HER huh

WHAT U CAN DO TO THAT BED MATE U ARE SEARCHING FOR
IT WILL BE BETTER TO DO IT WITH UR WIFE, STOP FOOLING UR OLD AGE HERE, becos bedmate go turn to second or even first wife as a naija man concern. change ur mind and practise more fun with ur wife she will enjoy it.

mr married man. undecided

Romance › Re: How To Tell My Co-Worker That I Love Her? by plappville(f): 7:39am On Oct 31, 2008

You have heard enough from other members, the earlier the better for u, don't die in silent go and express ur feeling to her, but be sure u are not just atracted by her beauty alone, as outside beauty is not all that counts in a relationship.

GOOD LUCK.

Romance › Re: Is Better For A Guy To Be A Flirt Than A Lady by plappville(f): 7:28am On Oct 31, 2008

maxcolino:
isn't better for a guy to be a flirt than a lady to be flirt?what ur opinion

None of the both is better. what is better is if both don't flirt. this topic is uncalled for period.

Family › Re: Nigerian Husbands Abroad Are More Domesticated Than Those Back Home by plappville(f): 10:45pm On Oct 28, 2008

omoge:
so a man will help until his momma comes right? that is hypocrite. continue to be helpful to your wife even with momma being around.

karma, lol i think they are afraid too. you know if you refuse to help your wifey then quarrel start. she then gives you a good sacasm which made you slap her in the front of the kids. ha! off too the phone to dial 911 you are in soup obe ata ni

911 IS THE ONLY REASON WHY MOST 9JA MEN ABROAD DO HELP THEIR WIFE, THEY ARE SCARED NOT TO HAVE A FIGHT WITH THEIR WIFE OVER THIS ISSUE, OR ELSE A REAL 9JA MAN WILL NEVER HELP HIS WIFE AT HOME.

MY PARENTS WERE ONCE IN THIS CATEGORY.

IN THOSE DAYS, A 9JA MAN WILL GO MAKING MONEY FOR HIS FAMILY WHY HIS WIFE TAKES CARE OF THE HOME,

IF UR HUBBY NO HELP U AND THIS RESULT TO FIGHT TELL ME WHERE YOU GO SEE 911 CALL FOR 9JA huh

THE THING NO GO FIT STOP BUT I THINK SAY MAJORITY OF DEM DON DEY PUT EFFORT TO HELP.

MODERN 9JA WOMEN DO WORK SO THIS SYSTEM DOES NO LONGER EXIST.

TRY HELP IN DOMESTIC MY 9JA MEN.

Food › Re: Is It Right To Say Thanks To Someone Around You After Eating? by plappville(f): 9:58pm On Oct 28, 2008

affee:
My place U don't only say thank you to ur elders after you finish eating, U also thank them after they eat.
I love my tradition and hope it lasts for generations.

I am eating now so as my people will say OGBUEFI

Na goverment work huh

Food › Re: Is It Right To Say Thanks To Someone Around You After Eating? by plappville(f): 9:57pm On Oct 28, 2008

[quote author=Ruby_Pearl link=topic=167939.msg2844023#msg2844023 date=1222204801]Say thank you to the person around you for what?
Did they pay for the food? Did they make the food? undecided

No. It makes no sense w/e.

Now, if the person brought you the food or make the food, a THANK YOU is mandatory[/quote]I agree with u.

Food › Re: Eating Food You Hate In The Name Of Love by plappville(f): 9:27pm On Oct 28, 2008

adusol:
0mo!! guy u try o, how pesin go chop bingo AKA 404 all in the name of love.

Very funny i laugh welwel ooo, ((((BINGO)))) Calabar people go really go prison tire if them come stay for oyibo man land,

because them like to eat dog and oyibo people like their dog pet even pass human strangers.

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