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JovialJune:
After devil, fear men

Nmezor:
None oo

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]Hi all, Is it possible to get an apartment for 300000 naira in Lagos?[/color]

Sweeery u can come & leaf wit me for free has long has I chop kiss...we good.!!
are u lightskin?

Lewisjohnson:
Yoruba Online warriors, de Voted Bubu Twice,
Fulanis nd Yorubas ar one by Tinubu
Dis is called family Business
I dnt pity dem

Joezinho:
An attack on any Yoruba is an attack on Oodua nation .. We all must rise up and defend our great land..

I don't know why I keep coming online and my moniker is always been mentioned by the same set of laboratory dotians..

I really think Sevn needs to add a block feature button like Facebook and reddit..

Truvelisback:
14 babes on Nairaland. For dream or for Real life?

Truvelisback:
U don do am?

Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. There is nothing like true love, so don't be fooled. It might be so in the past but not now. What we have for one another is lust(what we call love today). Ugly truth: That person that decided to date or marry u is only doing so because of the lust(what u love) he/she has for u. Even in the Christendom, if u are rich or well to do, most pastors would want to be nice to u and treat u well but if e red for u, ur name na sorry. Some would go as far as using u. So be wise!

Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. There is nothing like true love, so don't be fooled. It might be so in the past but not now. What we have for one another is lust(what we call love today). Ugly truth: That person that decided to date or marry u is only doing so because of the lust(what u love) he/she has for u. Even in the Christendom, if u are rich or well to do, most pastors would want to be nice to u and treat u well but if e red for u, ur name na sorry. Some would go as far as using u. So be wise!

victooman:
Nairalanders, during service year l met a good and excellent woman,, someone l love with everything , l am 27yrs and she is 27 too, l was born on may and she was born in January, this thing just weak me o, looking at my appearance and the way l conduct myself most people assume l am 30 and above self, please nairalanders l dont want to lose this girl, what is the disadvantages of marrying a girl your senior? l cant cope with younger girls, their reasoning is what l cant cope with , l want to marry this girl immediately l hit 30 ,

victooman:
Nairalanders, during service year l met a good and excellent woman,, someone l love with everything , l am 27yrs and she is 27 too, l was born on may and she was born in January, this thing just weak me o, looking at my appearance and the way l conduct myself most people assume l am 30 and above self, please nairalanders l dont want to lose this girl, what is the disadvantages of marrying a girl your senior? l cant cope with younger girls, their reasoning is what l cant cope with , l want to marry this girl immediately l hit 30 ,

Uniquetani1:
She is interested in you

EzegeNdiigbo:
My new name is Tom

I will update you guyz tomorrow on why I temporary changed my name both online/offline..

Cash out after changing my name to Tom

It's just for me...

BoredBerry:
My ex boyfriend did this...

Albertone:
Your category isn't there cos you're uneducated ugly darkskin.

julie90:
I have been working for this company for two years. In December 2021, there was a change in management, a new manager was assigned to my Department. Before the change in management, I applied for some jobs in November 2021 but I didn't get any response.

Things between my new manager and I developed really quickly (he is not married and he is 10 years older than me). Although we have been working together, when he became the new manager we started dating. it was mutual, it wasn't like he forced me. We liked each other and we started dating in March 2022. We kept things professional in the office. Nobody in the office knows about this even till now.

Those companies I applied to in November 2021 reached out to me for an interview. I got two offers at the same time. Both offers come with great pay (similar to what my boyfriend currently earns) and a significant boost to my career. I spoke to my boyfriend about it and being my boss he told me to reject both offers, he told me he would be able to cater for my needs that the only commitment he has now is paying for his house and once he is done paying for it, he would have more money to take care of me and I didn't need a job where they would pay me what he's currently earning and be in a role similar to his.

I told him it's not the money but it would be about moving up the ladder in my career. These are offers people do not have, now I have two, he is asking me to reject them. He told me even if I have to move the only offer I should take is the one close to the company where we work which has a lower pay compared to the second offer. I told him I would go with the second offer which has more opportunities for me. Both offers are in the same state although my preferred offer is a bit far from where I live but it is still a reasonable location to commute everyday. At one point he told me, I was too ambitious and I took it as a compliment.

I noticed he changed since then, he informed the company management that I was leaving and we began the handover process, I noticed he changed after we had the discussion about me accepting the second offer but I thought it was about him missing me. May 31 was my last day and I noticed few days to my last day he was acting strange so I asked him what the matter was. He said he doesn't feel anything for me and we should stop seeing each other.

This is a man that was really excited when we were dating, all of a sudden doesn't feel anything for me because I got a high paying job? Is it wrong for a woman to be ambitious? When has it become a crime for a woman to aim high in her career? My role will still be to support him. I have never been rude to him and I am not going to be rude to him because we now earn the same salary. I really like him and I feel disappointed that he could act this way.

Is it now a crime for a woman to be ambitious?

julie90:
I have been working for this company for two years. In December 2021, there was a change in management, a new manager was assigned to my Department. Before the change in management, I applied for some jobs in November 2021 but I didn't get any response.

Things between my new manager and I developed really quickly (he is not married and he is 10 years older than me). Although we have been working together, when he became the new manager we started dating. it was mutual, it wasn't like he forced me. We liked each other and we started dating in March 2022. We kept things professional in the office. Nobody in the office knows about this even till now.

Those companies I applied to in November 2021 reached out to me for an interview. I got two offers at the same time. Both offers come with great pay (similar to what my boyfriend currently earns) and a significant boost to my career. I spoke to my boyfriend about it and being my boss he told me to reject both offers, he told me he would be able to cater for my needs that the only commitment he has now is paying for his house and once he is done paying for it, he would have more money to take care of me and I didn't need a job where they would pay me what he's currently earning and be in a role similar to his.

I told him it's not the money but it would be about moving up the ladder in my career. These are offers people do not have, now I have two, he is asking me to reject them. He told me even if I have to move the only offer I should take is the one close to the company where we work which has a lower pay compared to the second offer. I told him I would go with the second offer which has more opportunities for me. Both offers are in the same state although my preferred offer is a bit far from where I live but it is still a reasonable location to commute everyday. At one point he told me, I was too ambitious and I took it as a compliment.

I noticed he changed since then, he informed the company management that I was leaving and we began the handover process, I noticed he changed after we had the discussion about me accepting the second offer but I thought it was about him missing me. May 31 was my last day and I noticed few days to my last day he was acting strange so I asked him what the matter was. He said he doesn't feel anything for me and we should stop seeing each other.

This is a man that was really excited when we were dating, all of a sudden doesn't feel anything for me because I got a high paying job? Is it wrong for a woman to be ambitious? When has it become a crime for a woman to aim high in her career? My role will still be to support him. I have never been rude to him and I am not going to be rude to him because we now earn the same salary. I really like him and I feel disappointed that he could act this way.

Is it now a crime for a woman to be ambitious?

tee59:
Which needful?

Foodforthought:
Ignore that advice pls.
Try to do some minor exercise... or massage certain areas of thy body with balm. Wrap up and then sleep.

simplepee:
He no go even get choice Na enjoyment go kill that man..

beedemmie:
Thanks boss.

Dorwadora:
Yes sir.... That was a moment of anger and I was very provoked. That idiot boy is a useless troll who think I'd let him off.

But I've freed him

Ekale sir

cutieBR:
Happy New Month Nairalanders. May this month give y'all every reason to smile in jesus mighty name Amen.

Lovelydaisies:
Are you ready to put up with that attitude? Is your family also ready? Because not everyone will advise/tolerate it. What do you even mean by 'sharp mouth'? Is it insulting people, being blunt or that she's got a temper?

I won't ask you to break up but the last thing a man needs when he returns home from work is bad report. Talk to her very well and watch her attitude. You should know what to do from then on.

since2017:
are u serious ?

Candidlady:
Who do you work for
DSS or FBI

Candidlady:
Christians
Muslims
Pagans

Why should anyone care.. igo to the mosque to pray with friends. And iam a Christian.

And ihave my Muslim friends come to my church too.

No biggie

The only thing is just be a good and respectable being
But it is almost impossible for this gender to be any of those. Evil is in their biology

fioella:
bros be calming down ooo

Dreadlock69:
There is this girl/lady of mine , dark tall and good looking, how we started talking and dating was a coincidence ,she was speaking rudely or not fairly to my cousin and I interrupt and cautioned her never to try that or repeat it again cause me get “gbana" for head i know dey take disrespect/nonsense.
she later calm down and became gentle like pikin wey Dem shout for ,after advising her and her later gra gra like I do am bad thing but me know send , how we start dating is a history I don't know how it happened.

Now she got this problem she get very sharp mouth how do I go about it ?
It only when I'm around she tries not to do anything stupid and talk pass herself because I do give her this stare warning eyes and she go respect herself ,like the one wey “ my mama go give me if I wan collect sweet from stranger or person she no like when I dey small".
She always feels she can get away with anything cause I'm around and no one will/dare to touch her .“ she get this kind mindset like nah cultist she dey date nobody got touch am".

My cousin bro and sis sometimes are like I know blame you anytime your husband dey you dey get wings.

She sweet and all to me and everyone but her mouth to sharp and ee dey off me sometimes , how do I manage her behavior I'm a cool / mind my business kind of person.

since2017:
am 23 , 100 level uni. at my age, how can I start living by myself, I dont want to depend on my parent money anymore , I want to set a goal.

please I need suggestion on what I can do
dis is coming deep from my heart