POSAKOSA1:

Hi B R A N O M

Sharap there.

@ davidylan,

wats up , where have you been for a while now,




this is banom,

I care

sugar pp:

@ maedan well i sure like attention but if he refuses 2 give me it then i might hv 2 get it outside n jst play along with him. T[b]he ball is in his court how he wants things to be between us[/b]

No that is not advisable, it will still remain the source of costant sorrows for you, in any relationship you are even with your co females, try to be the one to define it's nature , you will have a more satisfying and lasting relationship if you defined it yourself.

Ebonyeyes:

Guys love the chase.

Is that why you gals take some of them for a ride ?

Krayola:

The holes in those arguments have been pointed out over and over again on several threads. The objections have been dismissed as just stubbornness, and pictures of butterflies and outer space were used as a retort.


There is no proof for the existence of a creator, or God. The best you can do is make a good argument. But every one has holes. Every single one.

Ude mind him, that was why i lost interest in the arguement from the onset, it was a dead end project. all i normaly do in cases like this is to stay aside and read and gain some insightful knowledge and nothing more.

If God exist, we will not be here argueing over it.

sugar pp:

So the summary of what he did today: he called me earlier and complained that i hadn't replied his messages which he sent late last night/early morning (around 3am) this was after he ignored for the whole day my own text messages to him. Nehoo i didn't say much n he eventually said bye.
Later on i tried calling him and he refused to pick up his fone (thats part of his usual tantrums). So we eventually got chatn on messenger n i tried calln him on there and again he refused to pick up sayn he was "busy" yet we were chattn on messenger.
I told him i had something important to discuss but he still refused to pick up. I got pissed off and i told him to get lost and stay lost so that was it.
I know it sounds like kiddies stuff but trust me its all him hence the reason i say he is immature! seriously there's more to the story but basically all he needs 2 say is how much he loves me and can't live without me [i][/i]but he rather waste his time with non-graded girls that are just fooling him. He is too proud and just not romantic enough!

Hahaha, I can sense you are very emotioanal and possesive, your type would like a man to overwhelm you with attention and show you no end of the road in a relationship, you would want any guy you are in love with to place you above any other priority , right ?

If so , you have to understand that affairs are like  planting seed, it will need nurturing, and it will grow and mature with time,

I dont realy see much  problem here, though he has displayed some impatiance with you over the text reply, and if you say he is proud and impatience that means he is brutish,

In any case, what you should do is upto you, but the present problem is too small to cause a break up,
But see how to psycholoical manipulate a proud person,
Mute yourself and make him feel in control, show that you believe in him, make him the center of attention and place him above any other priority, boost his ego and constantly flatter him, Though you should do it with balance on your own side, dont give him your self so cheap or else you will breed arrogance in him and he will take you for a ride,

Most proud people usually want to be made the center of attention and for people to believe in them , feel that void by making him  the center of attention,  Some others normaly use pride to hide inferiority and insecurity, if that is the case of your guy, bring up the inferiority and insecurity in him to the surface and cub down his ego , then proceed to show him how much you love and care.

That is all i have to say for now,

mukina2:

Na  you did not, i sent you a polite warning you continued and i banned you.

Why na ? a good boy like me

sugar pp:

@ playboy he is nt only a brute he is also a silly monkey! arghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh a silly silly monkey!
@ maedan there is the long n short version of the story. Which do u prefer?
@ jaybee i guess love is blind as they say

Just calm your self down and summarily  let us know what happened. ok? waiting,,,

sugar pp:

why are guys nowadays so immature? ironically it could have worked but he has completely ruined it!

Ohh i feel you, perhaps you were dealing with a Brute.

mukina2:

No you were banned for tribalistic content after being warned on the Genevieve thread

Honestly i was not banned that day, after your warning, i kep quite,Mukina you know i am a good boy.

Tudór:

No Shit. . . . .

hahahahhah, oya Tudor believe in god and his prophet so that you will prosper and have your own private jet. ok ?

Deap Sight, so with your copy and paste above you will always have pleasant nights comforted with the fact that you have digested and accepted the text above and you are assured that you are right in your believe. right ?

If so good luck.

Abuzola:

Ah mukina, you said you ban him not too long ago ? This is unfair, why should you ban him and leave this woman calling him bastard and sort, tpia must be ban too, this is gender partiality.

I was banned for off topic yarns the day i was gisting with sexyleamon on that thread, Nigerian Pastors are Shameless, the ban has nothing to do with tpia, she is too small to get me banned.

yoji:

pls i need a logical explanation to this 72 virgin concept. is it TRUE? wat does it really mean?

It means you should joli dey go, enough shaping.

duduspace:

I was actually shocked when I saw some guy do this during the summer but him no get belle reach this guy. This guy is a wrong poster boy for that kind of behaviour.

By the way, wetin happen to this thread? DeepSight don run? abi him don realise say him dey try prove the unprovable?

You said it yourself.

amb_asue:

You have a point though. But I love the trouble of wooing. I dont value things that comes to me so easily. I have experience the wooing thing from a gal before,but it never last long. I only enjoyed the f**king.

You can still achieve the same hard dynamism by not giving yourself so easily, it is still the same, i am not actually saying that we should be dormant and too passive, no, that is selfishness, what i am actualing saying is that guys should learn to present themselves in away that gals will stop taking thm for a ride,

Most times when i visit this romance section, i normaly get pissed off and bored by the kind of issues guys bring in here, imagine a guy saying that he has been caring for this girl just for the girl to leave him for another guy, or that he has been asking this girl out for two years now and the girl keep saying no and other pathetic issues they bring here, after reading them i just wonder , Girls they should be playing like card are now the one riding them the way they want,

duduspace:

@Banom

Biko, e joo this your beef with Tpia don dey become something else. I'm not sayin she doesn't deserve it but in the spirit of forgiveness as signified by this particular post, please take una wahala go somewhere else. Don't mess up Noetic's second born again experience.

It is on the bolded above i leave and go for clubing this night.

Deep Sight:

@ Poster - i take it you have been blinded by the smoke from their PRIVATE JETS?

or the spectacle from their appearance.

I am my own god, satan ,savior, lord author and finsher of my faith.

essencialy i blelieve in my self and nothing more.

Abuzola:

If you ban the former id of playboy i.e banom then u must ban tpia, this is partiality, pls be fair.

Am worried at this level of corruption on NL,

ban me because of tpia ? no that is impossible,
Abuzola you forgot to tell them that She called your mum yesterday even when you you did not insult her in any way, infact then you were taking side with her.

MIKKYIJEGE:

Is alcohol good for the body? My wife Benue state drinks too much of it?

yes of course, if she dilutes one bottle of ekpem with isiewu and nkwobi and two plates pepper soup , is there any thing wrong with that ?

johnson11:

Playboy you are a fool, the Bible say woe unto the Earth cause the Devil has come to you, that means he has but a short time, who care about Bill gate or whatever but i am saying Dont abuse men of God cause they are the instrument of God he use to release his blessing onto us

Johnson11 You are an idiot.

Secondly, do you have any evidence to show that they are men of God.

Shola2009:

who send you message? did 9ja men tell u they have any problem being the chaser?? your post has made not one bit of sense! ger-outt!!

I am not here to make any sense to you as i do not owe you that, in essence i am here to have fun an nothing more, if you think Nigerian men no send me message ,that is ok, but they should stop their pathetic habit of running to nairaland to cry for help and advice in getting a girl that is dificult or an assistance and idea to bring back an ex and other pathetic complains they bring here.

Any way i just wasted time replying.

johnson11:

Tudor, the worst you can do is shut up, i pity you,the bible say believe in God and be prospers and believe in his prophet and there blessing is yours, Remember how Elijah cursed those children,keep shut or you will be cursed by God himself and if he do who will save you?

Sharap you bigot, Bill Gate and warren Buffet are they christians ?

Deep Sight:

^^^ Whatever it is, my interest is in seeing the mods live up to responsibilities.

Because this is really really sickening. For me, i have always had a hunger for TRUTH and Debate, and i come to this Forum for that. It is absolutely a big let-down to find the Forum turned into a kindergarten yabbis garden.

In this instance for example, what is this thread still doing alive? What does it have to do with religion? ? ? ? ? ? ? ?

Honestly i cannot understand why no action has been taken. If the action is to ban them both, fine!

But some action must be taken!

Why the post is on religion board is because the two moderators the post was intended for preside over the religion section. i hope you get it

Like i said, you are too small to get me banned.

tpia.:

mukina you're sending me emails but neither you or manmuswac know how to delete or ban right?

Or you're waiting for me to respond to the fool before threatening me with a ban.

Because he's not irritating you in the muslim section yet so you want to play games.

Are you trying to bring religion into our beef ? the other day you told the whole world that it was due to tribalism now it has become religion, honestly you need urgent psychiatric attention.,

I am a hero, see how i am making tpia rant and cry. nawooooooooo , who could believe that.

Deep Sight:

@ Tpia - perhaps you should determinedly ignore this fellow.

@ Mods - Whats happening? Where's the ban? Would you permit this crass trash to continue?

If so, then new mods are needed.

hehehehheheh hehehehehehe hehehehehe, i laugh in my village language,

Deap Sight first of all i sould let you know that i am bigger than you on this forum, you are wasting your time if you think you wil get me banned, may be you have not heard the rumor , i am one of the few nairalanders nominated for the nairaland man of the year award, so if you think you can influence my ban, think trice, i can get you banned easier than you ever imagined,

I have more surpoters here than tiny opponents like you. continue wasting your time on a dead end project,

Beside, anything you are saying , you should be speicfic, stop linking my holy banom ID to the Playboy*, but just continue lets see, but if you dont get me banned , that is a big shame for a lawyer like you.

Deep Sight:

Mods - get responsible: the insults Banom (now Playboy*) hurls are extremely vulgar and although i do not know the root of the beef, i always see Banom throwing the first unsalutary insult.

This is the RELIGION segment, and nobody should be allowed to turn it into a yabbis contest devoid of any religious content.

Given that this particular thread has nothing to do with religion, it should be locked or moved.

Mods, please do your jobs and ban this irritating childish stuff.

I keep telling you this, i am not suprised, you are a lawyer and here you are defending tpia you know little or nothing about, do you know the number pf people that irritant have insulted on nairaland, do you know how my trouble with her started ? , you are here talking bla bla bla bla bla, no problem come and ban me llet me see,

@ tpia,
i read your above nonsense post with great amazement, i thought you are too powerful and ready for me as you told me, this is just the beginning and you are now ranting to the Mods, trying to use them to help your self out, believe me you are finished,  you dont know who dealing, .

tilapia.

POSAKOSA1:

weeehehehehehehehe

sorry ooo is this a laugh or what ?

I noticed that In Nigeria guys are always the one doing the wooing, though is not just about Nigeria i have seeing that outside Nigeri too, but i advice that our guys should  learn to stay back let ladies do this chasing , guys have tried, for many centuries they have been going on the offensive, is time the dynimism is changed, gals should  start the chasing,

To do that is not realy difficult, exbit confidence, self reliance,self respect, contempt,neatness, intelligence,even occosional nonchalancy,give gals hope, assistance and pleasure and withdraw it at its peak, conceal your sexual urge, show her that other girls are crazy for you, insunuate and arouse sexual desire in her and stay back,avoid showing desperation and haste and overbearing willingness to care and always appear good and tasteful in dressing.

Most Nigerian girls are helpless and dependent on men for their welfare and financies, i still wonder why they turn these same men to their slaves,

If you learn to withdraw and stay back, you will be too suprised to see how insecured most of those girls are.


  Playboy*