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Samad805:
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Thanks but unsuitable. Regards.

Emmyruns:
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hrmadeola:
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Samad805:
Whatsapp me on 08143730791

Do post the pictures here. Thank you.

Hey guys. A friend wants a registered salon - preferably Japanese.

So let's see what you have at this price, or around it.

Thank you.

P.S: Post pictures and your price HERE. Don't tell me to call I won't - unless I see pictures.

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Legit1: Classic Bullshyt!, the fact that u need to do all this, shows u lack confidence within ur self. Respect starts with oneself!.

Bro, when you go 100% masculine, your woman will go 100% feminine. This is the natural order of things. Most times, when your women misbehaves, she just wants to FEEL your strength, your masculine resolve, your assertiveness.

Flashaldrin: . . . . .bla bla bla. I dont need to dominate anyone.

My brother are you sure? Being dominant and domineering are two entirely different things.

“It is the law of nature that woman should be held under the dominance of man”

------------------- Confucius, 551-479 BC

"If there is one thing that turns women off more than anything else, it’s a man with a lack of dominance. And an attractive woman can smell a lack of dominance like a shark smells blood.

No one is attracted to someone who conveys a sense of being powerless. When it comes to being a man, however, power is not only important, it’s everything. ...A woman is never attracted to a man who seems to be ‘equal’ with her. In some major way, he has to be more than her. ...To feel feminine, she must be with a man who is masculine.

When a woman is with a guy who is not dominant, she feels like he is just another girl.”

———-——— W. Michael.

I am writing this article primarily with the everyday Nigerian man in mind. Just like other men around the world, we want our wives and girlfriends to respect us, honour us and defer to our Leadership. However, in may relationships, this has failed to be the case. We have men who have failed in their rightful duty to ‘wear the pants‘ (Note: we wear pants, they wear panties! ).


Ask most woman in Nigeria today, and they will openly tell that they want men who can ‘control’ or ‘handle’ them. And by control, they don’t mean they want Boko Haram terrorists who will hit, trample and intimidate them at the slightest provocation. Only WEAK MEN hit or even shout at women. There are far more, effective, long-lasting ways of extracting, constant, consistent compliance from your wife or girlfriend. And I am going to expose all of that to you in the series of articles I am going to be writing on this forum.


The average unthinking Nigerian male believes that it only takes money (and maybe looks) to attract and keep women. Really? What they also fail to realize is that:

•There’s always a richer guy.
•There’s always some poorer guy, somewhere, willing to spend more than you.
•There’s always someone with a bigger car, a bigger house, a bigger title, a bigger office etc.


The Secret Ingredient...

What you really want are personal attributes that will guarantee your woman sticks with you come rain, come shine. Personal qualities that are not dependent on your money or your status – which you may not always have. Personal traits that will give you peace of mind that your woman will come back to you, even if she makes $10 million tomorrow and travels abroad for a 1 year course.


Most of the problems we experience in our relationships as men stem from the simple fact that we’ve not been firm enough, we’ve not been putting our foot down enough, not been saying NO enough and then OVER-REACTING or acting inappropriately in certain situations where we should actually tease our wives or girlfriends and toy with them when they throw silly tantrums.

“Half of your mastery of Power comes from the things you don’t do, what you do not allow yourself to be dragged into”

-------------Robert Greene, (The 48 Laws of Power)

The biggest factor in how a woman reacts to and responds to you in the long-term is heavily based on your BEHAVIOUR. The way you ACT. In this article, we are going to unravel everything together, step-by-step, action-by-action, inaction-by-inaction. We are going to explore EVERYTHING in pin-point, specific detail.


This is not about manipulation or anything close, it’s about becoming the Very Dominant ALPHA male that you were designed to be through your actions…and inactions. The kind of man that ALL women secretly desire and always submit to. Don’t confuse this with becoming a bully. Being Dominant and DOMINEERING are two entirely different things.



Your Woman Cannot ‘Decide’ To Respect You…

Respect works a lot like attraction, you don’t see a HOT women and ‘decide’ if she’s hot. The moment you set your eyes on her you KNOW she’s HOT. Same with respect.

Certain actions, behaviour and attributes command our respect, and we just act accordingly towards that person. Your wife or girlfriend cannot ‘decide’ to respect and be under your ‘control’. You MUST earn this by the way you ACT.

The level of respect you get from your woman and the amount of ‘control’ you exercise over her is the direct result of your actions since you met, AND how you’ve trained her.


Alpha Males & Beta Males…

As far as a woman is concerned, there are only two different types of men. Alpha males & Beta Males.

The alpha male is the guy who is confident, firm in decision making, NON-REACTIVE, asserts himself more, takes more risks, makes plans, doesn’t whine, is non-needy & approval seeking, non-clingy, protects and is the leader in his relationship.


The Beta male is the exact opposite of the Alpha, he whines, is always REACTING (nothing screams Beta as much as reacting to your woman – I’ll get to this below in ‘Shit Tests‘), follows, not firm in his decisions, needy (calling your wife or girlfriend 2,000 times in a day is very bad) and generally does most things the Alpha wouldn’t do.

To a woman, dating a beta male is like being forced to marry a very fat ugly old woman with bad skin and bald hair.

CrazyMan: @poster
Does that hand look like God's hand to you

Lol, have you seen God's hand before?

Listening to a football commentary on the radio, especially by Nigerian commentators is one of the most boring things you can do in your life

I'll gladly chose tales by moonlight.

Chopping money boy.

NairaLand is Working!

Nice piece, beautifully written. Nigeria has done nothing for most of us - except for the the 'lucky' ones whose progenitors found themselves in governments.

See this man. Did you collect the N200 million or not?

It is defuse eeeh! Well, it is better than someone saying "my husband is a good couple" .

Evidence of our high schooling standards.

van bonattel: Nemesis will continue to torture danjuma and gowon, the nemesis is called hausafulani. Good morning this evening Jos

Do you think your Hausa-Fulani crisis affects them? These guys can hop to any part of the planet they want - at a moments notice. Best medicare, best living standards etc.

yuzedo: A great achiever from Otuoke. . .

LOL @ I've been doing nothing for years!

We should cut this man some slack. Nigeria's problems started long before he became deputy governor.

Well, he's the 'figure head' and will bear the brunt of public dissatisfaction.

The attack-lion is under attack.

The state of any nation is the aggregate of the mentalities of the individuals composing it. Is GEJ not from among us? The average student, hawker, banker, journalist, policeman or carpenter will not perform differently.

We've erred too much on the wrong path.

jumobi1: The foundation for Olympic success should have been laid prior to GEJ's tenure. It doesn't take 2yrs to prepare for Olympic medals.
We took a nosedive soccer wise before GEJ.
The system is a mess. We can start by choosing athletes with their real age.

Thank You!

A journalist friend told me that even our athletes, back at the games village, had no iota of regret/remorse for performing poorly on behalf of the country. If any of them did feel bad, it was purely for personal reasons.

You get what you put in - EVERY TIME!

LUCKY.

...Calling on the remaining 39 members of the 40-man laptop crew and The attack lion. ARISE!

For real, as in those are REAL, actual names or just nicks?

It's actually a function of MATURITY and then money. And of course as we all know, age and maturity don't always go hand in hand .

7 years! That's a lot .

We'll miss you man. I hope you've stashed away enough cash and investments to lean on.

Those figures can't possibly be correct.