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Lol according to the stats Nigerian men prolly have it the worst in the world

http://www.channelstv.com/home/2012/07/16/nigerian-women-are-most-unfaithful-in-the-world-durex/

62% of naija women are unfaithful.... and the majority of Nigerians don't understand contraception. Put 2 and 2 together.

The first article was very disturbing. i will not marry a Naija woman ooooo

Nigeria specific false paternity crisis:

http://www.ediong.org/2012/09/three-of-10-men-are-not-fathers-of.html?utm_source

Differences in mating strategies in the different sexes

http://homepage.psy.utexas.edu/homepage/group/busslab/pdffiles/evolution_of_human_mating_2007.pdf

"Mating is close to the engine of the evolutionary process—differential reproductive success. As descendants of
reproductively successful ancestors, modern humans have inherited the mating strategies that led to our ancestor’s
success. These strategies include long-term committed mating (e.g., marriage), short-term mating (e.g., a brief
sexual encounter), extra-pair mating (e.g., infidelity), mate poaching (luring another person’s mate), and mate
guarding (effort devoted to keeping a mate). Since men and women historically confronted different adaptive
problems in the mating domain, the sexes differ profoundly in evolved psychology of mating solutions. These
psychological sex differences include possessing distinct mate preferences, dissimilar desires for short-term
mating, and distinct triggers that evoke sexual jealousy. This article reviews empirical evidence supporting
evolution-based hypotheses about these mating strategies. The study of human mating is one of the true “success
stories” of evolutionary psychology."

Read the bolded, and grow the hell up you yeye women.

biolabee: I know that there are such incidents out there but can you poSt stats supporting this 30 pc or are you just doing rule of thumb

absolutely. I will post the world wide stats as well as Nigeria specific articles when i get on my computer.

^ You dumbass. According to the studies almost 1 out of 3 children born worldwide is not the child of the man who thinks he is the father. 3 out of 15 in the united states, imagine how much worse it is in Nigeria were people dont even understand contraceptives?

Any man who takes back a cheating partner is a fuckin evolutionary failure...

Almost ONE OUT OF THREE... would women tolerate that?

^ This has already been discussed. The difference is "who is the real father of my child".. women dont have to worry about that

@ the fellas.. please do not waste energy trying to explain it to these ladies any longer.

gbam X100 to this post.

nigerian men are by far the stoooooooooooooooooooooooopidest on earth.

I believe women just do what men let them get away with, so its mainly the guys fault that nigerian girls are such a mess...

But i also think its the mothers responsibility to teach their sons how to deal with women, in the same way fathers teach their daughters about boys.

he,he cameroon you are so right.

from a "christian POV" all u people are fornicating.


BTW

boo hoo hooo.. everyone knows im speaking the truth.

adexsimply: lol..where is the pink?

it takes a man to accept his wrongs
it takes a man to accept facts

Its red now, abi? are you writing these posts with your period blood?

its not black-mail unless its real. Stop whining... its what you said.

Everyone who remebers the mrs. nairaland competition know what im talking about. Stop being a hypocrit

adexsimply: yeah..actually love ha.. very difficult to find ladies with backbones this days
i av been viewing this thread since it started and av only disagreed(partially) with just one of her posts

Vivian here is your man!

The creepy nigga who uses pink type enjoy him ooo. He needs a strong black woman to take him on dates

bukatyne: I wonder why you are so uncouth. I hope you don't relate this way in real life.

Chronique knew his GF was cheating on him and decided to turn it into a game discussing his private activities with his friend. At that point, he's was no longer sleeping with his GF but a girl his friend was sleeping with.

Shut up you dumb hoe. The girl was in the wrong accept it

Im only "uncouth" to dumbasses.

You said yourself "I need a rich man " bla bla bla. I remember everything, so please spare me your Bs....

bukatyne: You inferred I saw nothing wrong with what she did from my post you quoted?

You need sleep.

O yes, chronique did nothing wrong.

A man that sleeps with a b!tch is a?

You foo. All chronique did was keep sleeping with his GF, she was the cheater not him.

The brain of the average nairaland lady is sooooo backwards.. thats why yall getting bashed all the time.

adeximply + vinvian = match made in heaven

thread derailed.

bukatyne: I am not defending her or expecting you to fight your bestie. There was nothing stopping you from ending the relationship.

I want to believe you are not a christian; else reread your posts from a christian POV.

lol, women like bukatyne want every man to ask like jesus

... but they never see anything wrong in womens behavior. Chronique didn't do anything wrong.. the lady did. You ppl are so blind.

bla bla bla.. i've said my peice. I'm tied of this thread, you ladies just argue in circles

If you didn't beleive in double standards you wouldn't be demanding a richer man, or letting guys pay for dates etc etc. just buzz off woman, ur brain is slush

@ dumb woman- I don't care dumbo... my posts are suppported by facts while yours are just opinions. fact is not relative

now buzz off if you don't want an e-beef.

Shes a "wanna be" gold-digger. I remember all her posts demanding a rich man

i guess she is not hot enough lol.

CAMEROONPRIDE: You toss him out of his house?

i think vivians paying for the house

# fail

@ vivian chinaza lol, w/e ma'am do ya thing.

I know. Cheating is bad for men and women, no one should accept cheating. The important point here is that you understand that double standards go both ways... most women dont seem to be capable of that

I had given up all hope that women were capable of understanding that double standard go both ways

Gbam 100X onila, you are litterally the first i have seen on Nairaland.

^ lol ma'am... i just made 3 posts explaining how men are conditioned by evolution to be less tolerant of a cheating partner.

I am not going to go though all that again just to try and convince another dumb woman (i.e you) of a truth she will never accept

I dont get what is so hard for these dumb women to understand that men & women have different priorities in relationships.

most men will not tolerate being cheated on

most women will not tolerate brokeness

@ ladies get it through your estrogen saturated brains...

vivian chinaza: Bitter? , I'm defending my gender the same way you are.

If you are not so bitter? Why the name calling and personal attack? Why are u resorting to cheap blackmail?
Let's face it, you are not man enough, cos if you believe in yourself, why take bring others down?

I'm not "defending my gender" im defending the truth.

This is a subject i know about, you don't. You are just another angry black woman who thinks women know everything. If you don't want to awknowlege scientifically proven fact, then there is no point in arguing with you.

Peace, Mrs. strong independent black woman. Lol, cheat on your man and see what happens. If he is an evolutionary success he wont tolerate it.

thats funny because i remember you yapping all over the forums about how you want a rich man.

yep.. right around the time of that Mrs Nairaland contest.... lie lie lie, independant bla bla bla. all the word indepdendaent means to a black woman is single motherhood