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^ lol checked your profile expecting to find an attractive mixed chick, but what i saw was much better.

awesome profile

Mondi Cheeks riding solo

razznaija: While i was in H.S, I met a lot of girls that after they lost their virginity they become much more confident, they feel more comfortable taking off their clothes, showing a lot of skin and their cleavage. Its like they just change overnight. Now my question is, is it really true?

sad.

haha ok

^ Can you thirsty niggas control your libidos? You ppl cant even see a female profile without trying to shove your dick in her mouth. Get a grip dude

This is why i actually believe onilas story.. u people will chase anything with a hole

That crunchy black chocolate is you c.fours.

skandinavian feminists protesting against female circimcision in Africa.... i tell you these people are crazy!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z8zLM_hIw7Y

[quote author=c.fours]you have to fight to keep your right. esp. when you only recently earned it.
Scandinavian countries also have the best quality of life, education attainment for children, health, happiness and pretty much everything else![/quote]hahaha just shut up c.fours... in skandinavia they had women vikings. Northern european women have never been oppressed.

The funniest thing is in areas like Skandinavia, where women have the most "equality" the feminists are the most angry and rabid.

please CAM, stop with the caps locks... lets keep this thread professional.

lol..

sheeesh..

[quote author=c.fours]^ I love how you are trivializing all my points. haha

replace woman with child. and you will see my point being that women were treated like children!
they had curfews and what not, had to ask permission to visit friends, had to even ask permission to buy sanitary pads. God forbid bad thing.

yea women are physically smaller than men but we don't live in hunter-gatherer society anymore.besides our child-bearing capabilities more than compensates for that.
look at the whole abortion issue in USA poliics. really all about trying to control women's wombs.[/quote]Maybe when women create a male contraceptive pill you can control it.

All that is just entitlements... are you really shocked that there are some people who don't think you should be entitled to free birth control? (im actually in support because of population control).... I mean grow the hell up if you don't want to be treated like children. Not everything is an evil mysogenist attack on your wombs....

And all these exaggerations are pathetic. Why don't you go read some 18th century literature, maybe then you would notice that a good deal of women lived comfortable and relatively automomous lives if they wanted to. All your stories about sanitary pads bla bla are inaccurate feminist horror stories. I guarantee that if you lived back then you would much rather prefer to live at home with your kids than labor in some coal mine with a 25% mortality rate

If women were so "oppressed" why did so many civilizations have female rulers, like Cathrine the Great or Queen Elizabeth?

There is no modern injustice against women that is not balanced out... Yea you want to abort your babies,(i feel ya) but atleast you have control over reproduction, (past a condom) and don't have to pay child support for 18 years based on the whim of the opposite gender.

To be honest onila i think you need therapy... your simultanious obsession with virginity/sex as well as your issues with molestation show that there is a serious issue.

Just a friendly suggestion. As for your topic, everyone should asses their risks individually

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]comforting ourselves with lies I see [/quote] mondi cheeks why u always pick on me?

well, ive never seen a woman get hit that didn't start the fight first, so dont give me your wa-wa story.

@"laugh in chinese" laugh in W/E language you want... dafuq does that mean?

As for the black women issue... in the U.S black women are basically free from black men. Legally, financially and emotionally if they want. So they have nothing to whine about...

The black community in the U.S is basically a matriarchy

the guy in the equation sounds like a jerk tho....

Basically don't look for such a girl in Nigeria.

OP you are right though... if you find a chick like that you better treat her like a princess. Dont create another bitter banggae laden hoe

The wife beating etc etc, is highly exaggerated. That was never socially acceptable in the west, even when it was legal. Feminists also never tell you that while it was legal for a man to beat his wife...

It was also legal for the state to hang him for her crimes.

Feminism is all about telling half-truths to create an unrealistic image of gender relations throughout history.

@onila I actually get were you are comming from with this, i can tell you have been intensely physically, sexually and spiritually molested all through you life. It just shows in your personalities and the way you write.

Your own was heavy molestation.

But i think its clouded your judgement. If had a daughter (and i would love to) there is no way i would teach her the stuff you are proposing. Not playing outside etc, seriously? There is no need for every girl to live in fear because there are child molesters out there

... every one should evaluate their particular risks and plan accordingly, you dont really know how silly what u are saying is.

Sexuality is not the most important thing in a persons life, freedom quality of life is much more important. Your thinking is actually along the lines of the ultra conservative forms sharia law... if you didn't know, alot of those laws that restrict women in the middle east were actually designed for protection.

its a slippery slope.

haha scathing logic...

in that case the ball is actually in your court. report more and it will stop happening

... like i said earlier the majority of nigerian men dont want to be demonized for something they are not doing.

In naija i bet nothin would happen.

But anyway i know more women who have been molested by dykes & lesbians than by men. Why doent anyone ever talk about that?

ya i know

oh yea... i feel like i might as well be carrying a chainsaw the way some people react when i walk past them at night.

Smh

huh?

Its bad enough having ppl lock their doors every time you walk by, now are they gunna call the cops whenever you are near their kids? No thanks, yall r on ur own

Im not about to get demonized for the sake of some 8 yr old in a mini-skirt

Sigh. This thread kinda makes me want to puke... there are so many things that are wrong here on a couple of different levels.

But anyway... i have no doubt that Nigerians are molesting off the chain, and that needs to stop. But im not going to get behind something like this. This mentality that every man is a potential sex offender has got to stop also

Victorian sexual conservatism was all about clothing. Covering the ankles,the ears and sometimes hair... African cultures attiudes about nudity were completely different.

Ishilove: I concur. The pre-colonial African society, if anything were almost Victorian in issues related to s.ex and sexual explicitness was disallowed in many societies.

I need more proof of this other than just opinions.

As far as i know... there is simply not enough information to draw an accurate picture about pre-colonial African sexual attitudes. If the present is anything to go by i would say they were extremely loose

lekpalicious: 54pages! Now where should i start?

same dilema here

i dunno what they are talking about anymore

I havent seen it yet, weres it at?

SHOW HER YOUR BOOTIE HAIR!