₦airaland Forum

Interesting one. My blive is that d LOVE that will LAST is never BLIND.

@Poster,
This is not d right section for your topic;think it will b better in d general section.
However, i agree with you totally. Many Lagosians r guilty of what u v said. If some get 2 know that u live or u were brought up outside lagos,immediately they classify you as inexposed and inferior. I v had many experiences wiv some of them when i was in secondary sch,univ n d time i was serving.
I just fink quality of life u live is more important than where u live. I laugh when i see people that live in dirty slums of lag claiming big. I dare say that some dont v d exposure n d quality of education that some non-lagosian possess.

@daylay,
Funny one but it happens

@Poster,
I quite agree with u. Some guys want in ladies d personality they lack. But what will u call ladies whose fathers n brothers put 2gether could hardly buy a tokunbo car but will never hook a guy with legmousine or ladies who have never worked from morning till noon but will insist on working class guy? I am always an advocate of fair exchange.

Good one dear. Hiv test n genotype test r very important @ d start of a serious relationship

This is hard 2 picture. I hope we v not been doing it b4 d wedding. Definately,anything built on falsehood must collapse;definately thats d end. That union will make d Guiness Book of Records as d shortest n i will get her sued. Its not because she is +ve but because d covered that aspect intentionally. I v alway blived in coming out plain to ur prospective spouse almost from day 1 eventhough we like forming initially. The foundation of a good relationship starts from there.
Anyway God forbids that it happens to me.AMEN

Baby,there is abosolutely nothing wrong in that

Yeah bro,there is 4 peace too. I was just concerned wiv d one obtained via academic/professional distinction

Saharareporters v a way of overblowing things to d extent of being prejudicial,biased even @ d risk of professionalism. Methink they v lost their relevance after d Yar adua's health imbroglio.
D averagely informed Nigeria would v contradicted Philip Emeagwali if he had claim to win a Nobel prize in computing as there is no such award. We only v nobel prizes in Physiology/Medicine,Literature,Chemistry n Physics.
However,i v always had my reservation about d claim that Emegwali is d founder of internet. As a grad of maths/computer,v followed d history/developments computer from abacus to facebook can say Emegwali's name is obviously missing,infact he is a non-entity as far as developments in computing is concerned.

Heard in d news today that Henry Okah's wife wrote a letter 2 d govt in which she claimed that HENRY OKAH is the same person presenting himself as JOMO GBOMO.Eventhough, d claim was refuted by Okah but am begining 2 dat it could b true.

@uju
Good one. In as much as i think a woman should lend a hand,i personally believe she should not b forced or take d husband's role. I believe that a man sharing responsibities or worst still shack responsibilities is trading his position
What do u think about joint account?

Hmmm. I v seen quite a number of women holding same view wiv dat woman. I think d children of a helping wife enjoy more n r likely 2 v more qualitative education. I love good/supportive mothers probably because am a product of one.

Lol. U r somewhat funny. Yeah like 2 know their views

@id,
U just made laugh wiv d 'ooo' u emphasized @ d back of 'am not married'. But sincerely' i need d perspectives of married women.

@ujujoan
Your perspective is quite interesting. But do/dont u think a woman has any financial role especially when she is equally bouyant.
Dear, i need some education.

@id,
Quite reasonable of u. If i may ask: r u married?

@girl846
Reasonable but b careful

Ok. @id i posted a topic some days ago about "family funding &wives". Will like 2 v your comment on it ma.

I dont think bride price n stuffs like dat should b shared.

Just reading thru d previous posts n cant stop laughing @ how some ladies can b inconsiderate eventhough i v strongly opposed equal sharing. Ladies should embrace d fact dat time has changed.
They must realised dat d era of men carrying everything especially when d man is still struggling is fading into oblivion just as d era of having full time housewives.
Anyway its d ladies' world

**Eavesdropping**

Ride on pastor. Let them hear. I dont make virgin my expectation. However, i find it disgusting seeing unmarried people brag about their past sex escapades openly. It stinks

@ luro
U spoke my mind and i love u for that. I cant marry a lady that cannot stand alone. It stink when u hear a lady who cant afford blackberry asking u to buy for her. Mind u i am not miserly,i can buy my lady anything in d world but i also like a woman with personality,much ambition such that wont hurt d home n generous.
I have always admire ladies like this.

tnx .very resonable though but really dont fancy that idea of joint account.

@OP.
I am never one those people looking 4 a virgin to marry. All i need is a gud wife who will b a gud &responsible mother 2 my kidz. I recommend this stand to u too.
However, dont let any convince u to think that there r no more beautiful virgins around though very few.
I used to think like that b4. That has change through my lil xperience. People dat r not will tell u there r no virgins but dat is a big. Be that as it may,marrying a virgin should not b d ultimate.

Hello house,
I need honest n informed responses especially from married women n men eventhough all responsible comments r welcomed.
I want u 2 share your view about how much a lady can get herself involved in funding of d home.
Does d man v 2 do everything even when d lady has a well paid job. If no what xtent should d lady get involved lest a man b considered irresponsible.
I personally blive a man b a man in all endeavour. Like to knw ur views as my only dream is 2 b d best hubby/fada.

@op. This is a serious one but not unique. Its difficult 2 yoke two different oxen of diffrnt degree of willingness together.
I think will b addressed beta in d family section of Nl. However i think d lady should b very bold to discuss it with her hubby.
Se.x is a major issue/part of marriage. The odds exist that d man may b quite shy or traditional when it comes to se.x depending on his background/antecedents.

@ MOBO, v been following ur post 4 a long time just like others' . I find u 2 hold a funny,weird n a notoriously different view about our black sisters. I wouldnt say u r totally wrong but will say u r more wrong than right. What has our sisters done to u. No offence black brother but u just dont cease to amaze me with your posts.

Txn bro. I would like 2 how d place is generally d especially in d area of reception of foreigners. Would want 2 know about racism there. Hw is d cost of living 4 a single. Am planning Gwangju not dat big city(Seoul). Thanks n waiting 4 your response.

pls house,does any one know the current salary for entry level in deloitte.i would like to know. thanks in anticipation.

If u v information about d entry level pay in any of these coys,feel free to post them especially 4 deloitte n pwc. Any other lyk kpmg n e&y is welcome. Thanks as i await your informed response.