₦airaland Forum

mikolo80:
me?when!? Never unless some child quoted and modified my post

okay, sorry then.

youngwolf:
I once had an interview with a big four audit firm. When I entered d partners office he told me he just finished eating cake, so I was even happy tot he was in good mood. Dats was how the interview started, he started picking out the mistakes n flaws in my application form and transcript. Eg he said.."I know u met all the requirements for this job but I don't think you re good enuf", I asked why sir ..." He said u don't have enough As in your WAEC result..he was saying I had a 2.1 but my CGPA was not strong enough.
All in all he was jus trying to tell me he can't employ me for reasons best known to him alone. But I wondered during the interview why I was not asked a single question that tests my competency or knowledge at all.
Its all good now. I know better offers will come

Amen. Maybe what he was saying indirectly is that you are better than how much he can afford to pay you. As long as you are not bitter, it will end well.

michaelwestern:
My point is that; there's no need for you to be announcing that you've secured a duplex. Your focus should be on heavenly things not physical luxuries that you cant take with you to heaven.

How about physical healing? What did God do for people in the scriptures that they were not permitted to thank God for. My focus is on heavenly things in my life. But this is about thanking my heavenly Father. He is not complaining.

There are people who live below what God prepared for them- in really bad accommodation- because their trust is in their income. My testimony can encourage them to trust in Him and not in money. That is heavenly.

mikolo80:
how please
i suspect you meant the other guy that has been insulting the ppresident

Maybe I misunderstood you. I was referring to calling the President Mai guard.

gloryhouse:
Sorry I don't understand pls.

Don't worry bros.

michaelwestern:
Is this testimony or bragging? What exactly do you want us to do with this information?

Jesus Christ admonished us to lay up treasures in heaven where moth and rust can not get to it.

Stop chasing physical comfort and let your focus be on heaven and how to win souls into the kingdom of God. God bless you.

Why do Christians use the sword against their brothers and not the enemy. How have you become so divine that you know I am materialistic. By God's grace I am not. In fact, I don't even have the physical money to get this. Has it now become evil to ask people to thank God that He answered my prayer, that my family needs a decent accommodation and God provided one for me?

Let us love people enough to understand them before we pass judgment on them. Only God knows human motives.

About bragging, maybe you'll understand now what it means that "let him that boast, boast in the Lord," I owe everything to Him.

informatix:
Beware of FRAUD. NL. Isn't the place to learn biz. Every state have it's own local skill aquisition centers and local Smedan office. Visit them and you'l find all you need i dont know any business you start without money?.

Quite a few. If you have scarce but needed information for example, you have many free platforms to advertise and start selling information. Challenging though.

You can also help certain manufacturers and businesses get client and you get paid for that.

What about "competitor spy by proxy"?

You don't need money to start a French class, word of mouth can go a long way. Hope I won a convert?

phelps007:
OP, Thank you for this intelligent post.

Really nice....

Thanks for your soothing comment too. Have a great, pleasant day.

chamboy:
ur last paragraph is very hard to achieve in this nation, Too many Greed Men in this Nation... reply my pm tho.. we need to talk

Humans are the same everywhere. If we can embrace that vision, yes it may be hard, but we will still accomplish it. The economic history of New Zealand and Singapore should be inspirations for us.

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mrsage:
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chamboy:
ur last paragraph is very hard to achieve in this nation, Too many Greed Men in this Nation... reply my pm tho.. we need to talk

Okay. Replied already.

nyabingi:
So na now una eyes clear, it has sudenly becomes a period for moral evaluaton but when GEJ was abused and insulted through the media it was not an issue abi...Buhari will be the most abused president nigeria ever had because his people already set the templete!

Please read your reply, then go back to read my post.

nyabingi:
when u guys were abusing GEJ left center right there was no need for moral evaluation abi...The Daura Cattle Rearer DCR will be the most abused and insulted president ever because his followers had set a templete running already...Jonathan was clueless but this one is a Dullard!

Who are the guys abusing GEJ? If you can't name them all you should just speak responsibly and stop generalizing.

For your information, most of those you say were abusing GEJ voted him in.
You don't talk like you voted for President Buhari and you wouldn't even give him 2 months even if it was right for you to abuse him?

BLOTRS:
mods front page so others can see this lovely piece of advice...sorry i hope buhari knows that his popular name has become Daura President

You shouldn't disrespect the President. Seems you didn't read my post well. We should stop this name-callings. What do we stand to benefit as Nigerians from this kind of attitude?

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I know that we are still recovering from the emotional trauma generated by probably the toughest Presidential contest ever in Nigeria. However, moving on is by decision- a decision we need to make on time.

Let's see a future we all desire- a Nigeria where Americans, Europeans, Australians etc will desire to become a citizen of, a country where poverty and crime rate is at world-record low and EVERY citizen is respected and celebrated within and outside its borders.
This is the Nigeria we all want, we don't need to let personal interest, politics, our past failures or any other thing hinder us from experiencing it.

7lives:
JEG style of governance is alien to our polity and should PMB decide to go the way of JEG, what happened to JEG will be a child's play compare to PMB.
People are only asking for a good government and I don't think its too much to ask.

Not too much to ask. But we should learn to trust again. Sometimes we speak too much how of fear of being failed again rather than being objective.

Flets:
The real issue is the form of politics APC played into office. The denigration of the office of the president, the use of unspeakable names to describe GEJ which was alien to our polity, the constant bashing of every govt move, the lies and propaganda.

These called for a lot of emotional investment to our politics. Right now, more than ever......APC succeeded in making us all fanatics and unfortunately along ethnic divide.

Nigeria might not recover from the politics that has been played in the last 2 years. More name calling, more sabotage and more negative politics is on its way. Its way too late to call for moral evaluation

Let's leave the past behind. No more blame games, both parties were faulty on that. Let's build Nigeria. I apologize on behalf of APC to you and all those who feel the same way.

barcanista:
@OP it is called cult followings. Many Nigerians interprete criticism of their principals or "hero" to be an affront, disrespect and hate. There is no doubt that past administration has its own flaws but it becomes insensitive when a Buhari fan will rather ask "what did GEJ do" rather than address the numerous flaws of President Buhari. As long as people fail to discuss isses, there will always be political fight.

You said it all!

neutrotoba:
Wow OP.. you are a legend, you spoke my mind and that of many others with this small write-up.

We still debated this yesterday, Mom is a dedicated PDP supporter and she has refused to admit that GEJ did anything wrong during his tenure at all.

Am PMB supporter too and am guilty of deciding to close my eyes to anything Baba does wrong during these four years and let him just "Ride on"..

Thanks OP for the Eye opener and
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO MY BEAUTIFUL MOM

Thanks too. Happy birthday to your beautiful Mom

This is about Nigeria and not about political parties or individuals.

I vigorously but unofficially campaigned for APC in the last election not because I think the party is perfect but because I am convinced we need an improvement from the values and culture PDP has promoted so far in Nigeria, and APC seems to be a better alternative. I especially preferred the present President, Mr Buhari but I don't expect him to be perfect- that would have been unfair; I would rather support him without justifying him when I know he is wrong.

Mr. Mohammadu Buhari, the President of Nigeria, is neither God nor an angel and as much as I know, he has never claimed to be perfect. Why are some people so fond of him that they will defend him at the expense of Nigeria. We don't need that please. If the President makes a mistake or is going off course from the vision laid down, those who truly love him will love Nigeria, will admit this and RESPECTFULLY challenge him.

TOO BAD THAT JUST AS SOME READING THIS POST ARE SO FOND OF THE FORMER PRESIDENT, GOODLUCK EBELE JONATHAN, THAT THEY CHOOSE NOT TO SEE OR ADMIT ANYTHING WRONG IN HIS ADMINISTRATION, THERE ARE THOSE WHO ARE LIKE THAT ALREADY IN THIS NEW DISPENSATION.

I think we don't just need change, we also need to change. Let's not throw out the baby with the bathwater, let's learn to separate people from issues. Let's respect one another even when trying to show our displeasure, AND PLEASE, LETS RESPECT THE OFFICE OF THE PRESIDENT WITHOUT IGNORING THE VISION TO BUILD A BETTER NATION.

IT IS CLEAR TO ME THAT IF NIGERIANS LEARN TO FOCUS ON BUILDING A SUCCESSFUL NATION RATHER THAN THE IMAGE OF ANY INDIVIDUAL, IT IS JUST A MATTER OF TIME, NIGERIA WILL NOT ONLY BECOME A DEVELOPED NATION, IT WILL ALSO BECOME AN EXCEPTIONAL SUPERPOWER.

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tmabin:
You can accumulate a football game this weekend and stake 100k on each ticket... x30 tickets....

Pick;
Real Madrid to win
Bayern Munich to win
Chelsea to win/draw

This three (3) games will give you Atleast an accumulated 1.40 points

1.40 x 100,000. = 140,000

140,000 x 30 = 4,200,000.00

You have your 3Million intact and an added 1.2Million....

If this looks fake, just ignore this message and watch if this three games this weekend won't come as predicted.

Every business is a risk.

Every business is a risk, you are right. Just that some risks are not worth it. Wisdom is profitable to direct.

frisby:
You sound very knowledgeable in matters concerning business setups.
Some great pieces of advise you gave up there.

Thanks a lot for the kind comment.

dinachi:
@Op brilliant analysis! I have never had anyone put it so succintly. I will need your permission to publish it in another blog.

Thanks for the gracious comments. No problem about republishing. Just acknowledging the author will do. Thanks again

This post is very important. It is not judgmental, it is however very crucial because things are happening real fast these days.

Where Does This Feeling Come From?

Before I mention the places where homosexuality multiplies among us, even in Nigeria, I like to clarify something many seems not to understand.

FEELING of sexual pleasure has noting to do with what or who induced the feeling. You can get aroused when your sexual 'receptors' are appropriately stimulated. If your eyes see a nude picture in a sexual pose, a man with erect penis or a masturbating woman, whether you want it or not, your body may respond because it is involuntary.
While you are different from your feelings and so can ignore your feelings, you definitely can feel sexual PLEASURE even when you don't want it. Some rape victims have been confused because they had orgasm while being raped. Some rapists have also concluded that their victims are lying about not wanting sex because they saw them having orgasms. SEXUAL RESPONSE (I didn't say decision o is COMPLEX AND INVOLUNTARY.) INVOLUNTARY!!! The body WILL respond given certain favourable conditions. The complexity is majorly because of the role of our minds but the involuntary is the role of our involuntary nervous system stimulated during sexual acts.

What I'm I saying? A man can get aroused just by seeing a lady's exposed thigh or breast whether the lady intends for that to happen or not and whether the man expected it or not (that is why I feel people are ignoring the fact that many men are being sexually harassed by ladies and advertisers every day). In the same way, a man or woman can experience sexual pleasure from people of the same sex, animals or even non-living objects when stimulated be it visually, by sounds and/or touch. It has nothing to do with sexual orientation- heterosexual, homosexual or what have you.


"My Sexual Orientation is Homosexuality" May Just Mean "My Sexual Conditioning/Addiction is Homosexuality"

Having explained that you can get sexual feelings even to the point of orgasm without wanting it, I want to mention that many people think they are homosexual because their psychosomatic (mind-physical body) interaction has been conditioned that way. I'm coming home now.

Sexual pleasure, especially on reaching the climax and having orgasm is one of the most powerful (if not the most powerful) pleasure and consequently one really powerful source of conditioning and addiction known to man. It has been found out that the effect of sex in releasing a pleasure-chemical in the brain is comparable to that of cocaine.

At ANY age, especially in the developmental years, if exposed to strong sexual stimulus, a person may become conditioned or addicted to obtaining sexual satisfaction in a particular way- same or different from the source of the sexual stimulus in view- or may actually choose this because of the experience.
This depends on how the person's mind
1. interprets the circumstance involved and/or
2. interprets the roles the parties involved in the sexual act- including how his/her mind interprets and concludes on the role he/she play and/or
3. interprets the sexual experience itself.

You will agree with me that this is already complex. That is why it is difficult to get balanced, properly interpreted results from studies done on homosexuality. Circumstances may be similar but roles may differ. Roles may be similar but the way EACH PERSON INVOLVED INTERPRETS the role may differ etc
Given the favoured balance for each person, you see some sexually exposed children or adult becoming addicted to sex generally while some develop aversion for sex altogether; some become conditioned to enjoy homosexual sex when exposed to this without losing taste for heterosexual sex (they say they are bisexuals); some HATE people of that particular sex yet they keep GOING BACK TO GET that sexual experience from them (amazing but very real); some just hate that form of sexual act(hetero or homo, gentle/voluntary or violent/rape) and turn to other forms to obtain sexual satisfaction; some actually become addicted to that particular form of sex and won't get satisfied until that is what they get even if it was a rape that got them exposed to it (imagine that!)

Really complex but the origin of it all is EXPOSURE TO AND PERSONAL (MOSTLY SUBCONSCIOUS) INTERPRETATION OF VISUAL, AUDITORY AND/OR TACTILE(PHYSICAL CONTACT/TOUCH) STIMULI IN SEXUAL CONTEXT.

This is a non genetic pathway to what some call sexual orientation although it is a conditioning, an addiction or a choice.

Now to the breeding houses of homosexuality.


PLACES WHERE HOMOSEXUALITY SPREADS

If you read and understood the above, you may already have an idea of the common breeding houses. I will list some anyway- especially those people don't think about- remember the issue of unsolicited and unintended sexual stimulation. You may add to the list.

1. Same sex schools and hostels (Significant. In fact, most people I interacted with on their homosexual experiences said it started from same sex borden houses/hostels)

2. Dysfunctional heterosexual families

3. Prisons

4.Controlling/Manipulative/Abusive single parent or guardian ( the "abusive" may not/ may be sexual. There are WOMEN who sexually abuse/harass their male or female child intentionally- like having the boy watch them while they go naked in the bathroom or even 'masturbate' with them.)

Seems to me that a paradoxical complex of freedom/escape and bondage is involved. Both the bondage and escape can be emotional, physical or a combination of both.
Of course peer PRESSURE and marriage ( examples of 'bondage' in a free relationship), the internet (which could be a means of escape in emotional or physical bondage) movies, movie / club houses etc may provide the motivation or access or even actual connection to the partner or the stimulus.

FrancisTony:
http://www.pinknews.co.uk/2015/03/07/dan-savage-tells-republican-to-prove-sexuality-is-a-choice-by-sucking-my-dk/?utm_source=PNFBimg&utm_medium=socialFBimg&utm_campaign=PNFacebook


Can Ben Carson Accept this challenge? Ewww!

It is not a well thought out challenge. If being gay is a choice, it means you can also choose not to be. Some have, however, confused ability to enjoy and want sexual stimulus with their sexuality. Some being raped by a gay person, like occur in prisons, may actually discover it felt good though they don't want it. They may then begin to accept and even give the sex because they want sexual pleasure anyway although it is homosexual in nature.

That way it becomes a choice and Dr. Ben does not have to prove anything. Those who already experienced making the decision can tell and do tell their story.

Okay, it is weekend now. Maybe you can share some personal opinion. What can make or what makes you loyal to the company or person that employed you?

If you don't want to share this in public you all are free to send a private mail.