Family › Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by polite2(m): 9:23am On Jul 21, 2018 |
ExtraExtra: Women are the backbone of the family, they make or mar the home, since they help bring life to the world suffice it to say they sum up what we call family, 99% of successful, longlasting home or family is the ability of the woman to hold the "forte".
My attention was drawn to this forum and this topic https://www.nairaland.com/4617351/husbands-pride-wants-ruin-home#69371294 and it is sad that most people drew conclusion on a one sided story though i wouldnt blame those involved because they judged based on what was said and the individual involved needed public validation for her wrong doing, a public display i dont approve of but since external persons and relations are already involved i'd like to clear some details.
"Dee" comes from a very well to do family while i dont so when we got married, i made her feel we are in this together, not one above the other but as partners in EVERYTHING. To be fair to her she brought up the business idea we did years ago, in other to put forth money to start up, i made sure i had equal money as her for it, goal was to own a property, build et al. Unfortunately my dad's ailing health deteriorated to the extent that he had to be flown out, when the profit came, i told her and she agreed, she decided we split it into two so she use hers for the initial plan. As the first born i went with my dad, back here she got the property and started building, when i came back the remaining money with me was used to complete it, what was left was used for my parents house. Being a trust worthy person i feel she is, i didnt bother to check documents cos i felt she would do the right thing by putting both our names which she kept in a bank.
Now, i work and own other businesses so i'm always in contact with alot of people from both genders so to her she feels i may have lost guard by cheating which is not true: i dont have password on my phones, i always make and receive calls right in front of her but she still think i'm hiding something and that was the genesis of the problem weeks ago, i rebuked her to cut it out immediately but she was out for blood, she insulted me like never before, when i didnt give her face, she extended her TOXIC words to my parents, my family, my background and my personality, that was when i lost it, if not for my cousin that was there i would have hit her, out of anger i told her to get the hell out of the house which of course i didnt mean, then she shocked me saying the house is ONLY in her name, i was numb and speechless, in other for me not to react in a brutal way i left the house, told her i would never step there again if she doesnt change it to my name ONLY. My cousin who was there when it happened told my people, they called me so i had to explain things, right now her family knows what happened and none is supporting her.
YES i said she should put my name only cos she belittled and betrayed me which tells me if it was in both our names she will raise shoulder and feel above me.YES i requested for transfer and i will go through with it, i cannot be away from my kids and still be in the same state, it doesnt make, when it is sucessful, i will get a place conducive amd comfortable for my kids, they will be with me. I told her recently not to bother with the name change anymore, she can have the house all to herself for all i care.
I wont divorce her because i dont believe in that, once i move with the kids she can come along if she wants but right now we are seperated. I wanted a partner, she displayed stupidity not smartness, what the future holds i dont know, she made her bed she should lay on it. Dear poster, I'm so disappointed in you. U ve obviously failed as a man. You took your own half to carter your parents, build their home. Bros your wife is a gud woman to ve used her own share to build a house. She could as well use hers to build for her parent too. Cover your head in shame and hide your stinking pide. Go meet her apologise. |
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Finally orton. Oya pack your load |
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Ali baba come fight me first |
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Bubu handiwork |
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Lilimax: More like cheap goals  it is called karma. Remember Croatia goals against Nigeria? |
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Suprisenly England will beat Croatia mercilessly. They were not superb against the Eagles |
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Awon iya |
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Was she eyeing the police officer ? |
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@irokotv plz seek her concent and do the needful |
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agbonkamen: solution 406: whenever he want to have sex with you playfully lubricate his dick with Shea butter my dear No more erection for life. pls how true is this? |
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Messi is the real goat. As in Ewure |
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Damn |
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Great work out |
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God help africa. At least one must see second round |
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Sad |
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Ekwensu |
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Finally � |
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MrsNwaAmaikpe:

i see a lot of photoshop in the second pics.....believe the make-up artist at your own gullibility..... thank you. U re so ryt |
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Go and die |
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Yahaya bello should learn from this man |
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Messi messi, hope u re not evading tax anymore |
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Good |
Politics › Re: Kogi APC Crisis: Dead End As Melaye Supporters Announce Boycott Of Congress by polite2(m): 3:20pm On May 04, 2018 |
 Jones4190: DINO MELAYE ...Now let me bring you up to date of his arrest��♂��♂
1. Criminals were arrested in Kogi state with AK47 assault riffles.
2. The arrested criminals named DINO as their sponsor
3. Police wrote a letter to Dino for explanation, Dino ignored the letter.
4. A week later, the Police wrote to the Senate, asking for DINO, Senate ignored the letter.
5. A week after again, another invitation to DINO from the SARS headquarters was again extended to DINO, yet, he refused.
6. Police declared him wanted
7. The arrested criminals escaped from their cells, and Dino gave the police 24 hours to produce the criminals.
8. The criminals were all rearrested two days later. Dino was invited again and he for the 5th time refused.
9. At Offa in Kwara State, he was prevented from been arrested by Saraki and the Vigilantes.
10. He was stopped at the Airport by the immigration, and he snatched back his passport from the immigration, and bolted away, before the Police could get there.
11. The police traced him to his house, and laid seige there, when he refused to submit himself for arrest.
12. 24 hours later, Dino submitted himself for arrest.
13. He was taken to SARS headquarters for processing, and then was been taken to Lokoja for an identification parade.
14. In a commando style attack, two white hilux truck slammed into the front end of the security vehicle Dino was in, and in the confusion, Dino bolted into the near by bush.
15. A hot chase by the police got DINO caught, and rearrested.
16. An ambulance from no where appeared, in response to the Police call for an ambulance. The police thinking it was in response to their call, allowed DINO to be conveyed in the ambulance.
17. On discovering that the ambulance belongs to the National Assembly and was DINO getaway Plan B, they chased the Ambulance and caught up with it at Zanklin Hospital, where the driver of the ambulance, Dino and the hospital Director were arrested, and Dino taken custody of, by the Police.
Now you know! |
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The daughter in law look way older than the son  |
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It's a big fat lie, nothing of such happened in makurdi yesterday |