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Nice one

ubunja:
it's true bossman. Physical , face to face will always be 100 times better than WhatsApp/Instagram/Facebook messages. When a girl picks up her phone she enters into a fantasy zone where her standards skyrockets and her responses must be begged for and she must be worshipped or else.... And a woman stays in that zone until she puts down the phone and comes back to reality.

A girl who will never in a million years respond to your DMs will respond to your "Hie" in the streets and end up spending some time with you. But that same girl if you talk to her on Instagram she'll open your pics, see what you look like and ignore you. But in real life she can walk with you down the streets and laugh at your jokes. That's because reality and Social media are two different things. Women use Social media as an ego boost.
A woman can boast online and say she can never entertain a man who's not 6feet making 6figures with a 6packs , meanwhile in reality she's being screwed to death by her neighbour who doesn't even have a job. Social media is a fantasyland for women and for a man to get real success with women he needs to put the phone down and get out of the house and go meet women out there in reality. On the streets. That's where the action is. Many times as a man you read discouraging and depressing things by women online and you think the world is ending but you go out of the house and the first girl you meet smiles at you. It may even be that very same girl who's been talking trash about men online. But out in reality she's back to her senses. Face to face is where things happen. Less of the chatting with women online. Cause online is a fantasy.

And a lot of the times how things appear online is not exactly how they play out in the real world. For example,,, here on Nairaland Redpillers and Feminists are at each other's throats daily. It's a gender war. But let me tell you,,, if Redpillers and Feminists were to organise as groups and meet on the streets will there be a fight? Will we chase each other up and down the road with machetes? No. We might like what we see and we may even end up fuccing each other. Cause it's one thing to trade texts with someone online and it's another thing to meet that person in real life. Even Roosh V (Return of Kings) had a woman troll him endlessly and fight him on social media but the day the woman met face to face with him she couldn't shut up about how juicy and muscular Roosh was.

Face to face is where the rubber meets the road. Where the magic happens. A bird in hand is worth two in the bush. Between a guy who's a 5 sitting with a girl in the park and a guy the girl is chatting with on WhatsApp who's a 10 , between the two guys who has a better chance of fuccing the girl at that moment? A bird in hand is worth two in the bush. Obviously the guy who's presently with the lady has a far better shot at the pucc at that moment than that guy who's a 10 but who's wherever he is.

Face to face gents.

Absolutely true.
Nice one

CaveAdullam:
1. Texting kills communication and sexual vibes especially when both of you just met recently. The reason is that she is in sync with other guys via texting as she's with you.

2. She can't focus on you because other guys in sync are distracting her. We are only looking at one medium of communication here, let's say phone texting, and we still have myriads of social media apps that she uses to communicate with other guys simultaneously.

3. Even if she has a rapport with you from the onset, validation from other males will reduce her attraction towards you because they are all in an invisible competition with you: to prove that they are better than you and the ones worthy to claim her.

4. If women have this bloated ego and high sense of grandiosity borne out of their solipsism, it is because many men at a time are ready to worship them or even act as a doormat just to win their hearts.

5. Calls are good as it makes her focus her attention on you when you are communicating with her. At that moment of calling, you pause other men from getting in contact with her. But in the end, other men will still call her and erase every impression you have made on her.

6. I collected a girl's number in July, called after a day, had normal laughs and jokes and chit chat and planned for a date. Texted her once but she didn't respond. Called her about a week later, normal chit chats and I ended everything there because she's not interested in me. She said she had a boyfriend and don't want to cheat on him. And she's a 'good' Christian girl too.

And I on the other hand have better things to do than convincing a woman with my human time and airtime, so I let her go.

The rapport when we met was cool but texting and calling couldn't pull the result.

7. So, when a woman isn't into you or was before and later declined, it is not your fault except you know within you that you were the one that fvcked up big time. Rather than bother yourself about why a woman rejects you focus on other women (abundance mentality) or just focus on your life and other better adventures.

8. This now brings us down to genuine desire, she has already preselected you and at the end of the day, after other men have paid obeisance to her, she will pay obeisance to you on your bed. Genuine desire has already filtered you from the pool of other men and makes your job easy with her.

9. Texting and chatting normally reduce sexual tension except if you are straightforward with it as both of you communicate. But it is just like trying to use a hammer to kill a fly.

10. If after your first meeting you establish physical contact with her, and both of you are not distant from each other, you can easily create that sexual vibe.

It is, for this reason, women especially married women should not be allowed to work in men's spaces because any man in that space that creates that sexual vibe in her, will fvck her. Women are emotional, once you create positive emotion via physical contact she will soon succumb except otherwise.

Texting and calling kill sexual vibes. Except you are good-looking and chad though. Or, flexes wealth and status.

DAY 250, REDPILL 2022

Authority: Create physical and emotional bonding when dealing with women.

Nice write-up especially number7

I can't blv dix

One of the things I hate about Chelsea

Men are not smiling

Not strange

Not strange

Una won kill Dix guy 4 us

Football my hubby

Sure win 4 city

PSG go win

She did well in Her career no doubt.
The world is a stage

Eww I love Dix

If u won learn or know some tinx about football or teams, baba go 4 view center It is very fun jox dat tout dey dea

Zabiboy:
Taking yourself out..
Anywhere relaxing, engaging or fun..
You dont have to spend much..
And yeah, while on it, you can go through the highs and lows of the week, how good or bad you handled different situations etc etc
Just a personal time but outside.

Alright thanks

CaveAdullam:
DAY 247, REDPILL 2022



Authority: Be strong.

Nice one bro

Zabiboy:
Goals for the week #self-improvement
1) work-out or exercise at least 4 times.
2) No smoking, alcohol and processed sugar. More of fruits
3) Keep a positive mindset( gives you more confidence )
4) show love/put a smile on someone face by lending a helping hand especially those GENUINELY in need.
5) Talk less, observe more.
6) Smile more often.
7) That 2k/5k/10k+ you send to ungrateful people ( in the name of relatioship/sex), Enter a nearby hospital, look for someone whose bill is within that range and GENUINELY cant pay and pay it off.
8 ) Be conscious of manipulative people ( m/f)
9) Lastly, Try to give yourself a treat at least once a week. Personal treat, no amount is too small. Reduce your stress level.
10) ...... you can add yours here
_{Good health and complete body parts are so underrated in this era where everybody is chasing money}

Lets all have a wonderful week ahead

Please what do u mean by TREAT (9)

Kentuforchrist:
It depends on the course u wanna study

I paid 65000 for criminology and securities but after that I would be paying 40

Alright thanks

Kentuforchrist:
Though I feel for the students
That was one of the reason I choose National open university abeg

Pls how much is dea school fees I want verify something

Good day everyone!
Please where is CAPSLOCK? Is been a while I saw His comment here, I hope He is okay

I like Dix phyno

Take heart Bro
May Her soul rest in peace

Zonefree:
Both are animals.. I'll save the animal that will be beneficial to me. The sweet donkey.

All your comment in Dix thread is cracking me up

ubunja:
I hear you man,, Cause you realise you've been lied to this whole time and made to believe a lie. Women are emotion based. They think with their feelings. Where as a man you process facts a woman processes feelings. If something feels good and nice to them it's right, if it feels bad and painful then it's wrong. So RIGHT and WRONG to women is a matter of how they FEEL about something not so much about the facts and logics presented. When arguing with a woman she's not considering the facts you're presenting but how the facts are making her FEEL. If your facts make her feel good she'll agree with you, if your facts make her feel hurt, she'll disagree with you. Regardless both times you're speaking facts.

Depending on how you view it this can be a good thing. Cause, for one, it means that a woman you don't stand a logical chance with, but by playing on her emotions you have a fighting chance. It means that girl whom all sense and logic tells you she has absolutely no reason to date you, you can make an emotional case and have a better chance.

With women always make an emotional appeal never a logical appeal. Ignore the facts. They're irrelevant.

Let me tell you a story:
Some time ago I made a business transaction with this other dude which soured and he wanted his things back. Now honestly I can't remember who fucced up the deal me or him. Anyways he came for his items and I refused. He tried every trick to make me see his side of the story but I wouldn't budge. Then the niggah went and told her mother, who had a reputation for being a loudmouth who shouted at anyone who dared mess with her. But see even myself at that building I had made a reputation for myself of being a no nonsense guy and this lady herself had seen me deal with my babymama and she knew I didn't take shít.
So when I heard a knock on my door and went to open and saw it was her, knowing why she was here, I said to myself "here we go!!" . I was Ready to lock horns and argue with her and make a scene. But did the woman shout and berrate me and rain curses on me? No. She asked to come in, sat down calmly. Then started telling me the shít her and her son were going through lately, financial issues, a funeral at home, etc. All the while almost coming to tears. You know what? I was touched. I softned. I fell sorry for her. And reversed the deal and gave her what she was there for.
It didn't take long for me to realize old woman had played me. Instead of asking about the logical aspects of my deal with her son, she skipped all that and made everything about emotions. Not what happened, who did what, etc,, she simply showed me how much pain and suffering they were going through and how much my reversing the deal with go in alleviating that pain. And because I'm human, My humanity responded to the emotional appeal. And she won.
I'm sure she was laughing and mocking in her mind as she went back to her place. But whatever.

When dealing with women, this is how men must do. Skip the facts and make emotional appeals .It's not easy cause men have never been taught emotional manipulation, only psychological manipulation, but a guy who can work a woman's emotions will stay winning. And it's something anyone can learn.

You are very correct bcox Your story made me remember during my secondary school day's SS3 to be precise.
We were contributing money for our send-off party, so we appointed one girl who was staying with her Aunt, now wen we wanted to use d money after our WAEC, we met Her and she told us dat Her Aunty forced her to give her our money and she used it for her provision bixnex, out of anger all our classmates match to Her shop singing songs of war , so she was lucky dat we came wen she wasn't around but d nebo's told Her dat some students came and some are threatening her life.
Guess wat, the woman reported d case to police.
The next day only the school prefect's were sent to the shop and I was among them, and we weren't on school uniform bcox it was in the evening, immediately we reach Her shop and we begin to explain why we came, all of sudden two police officers came and arrest 7 of us without telling us our offense . We didn't drag with Dem bcox we know we were innocent, wen we reached at the police station, we all wrote out statement in front of the DPO.
Now when it was the woman's turn to explain Her own part of the story, SHE BEGIN TO SHADE TEARS we the students was baffled with her reaction, we begin to ask our selves why is she crying . She started the story by telling the DPO dat she was the one dat took care of that particular girl from Her childhood, dat is it a crime if she use the child money to sponsor her bixnex? besides she promised to pay back.
At Dix juncture the DPO stopped her from talking and told her madam please stop, we are not here for Dix, these students came for the money they gave a girl who is staying with you, pls give Dem dea Moni or tell Dem wen u will refund it she no blv wetin DPO tell am.
Lax lax, she promised wen she will refund it, and the DPO warned us never to threaten someone's life, dat is against the law, so we used 1k bail ourselves .
The woman wanted to manipulate the DPO emotionally but the man never fail to her trick.
Ubunja you too much jareh .
TRP is golden.

Hartugrin27:
Hey man
Worry less
Lemme tell u a secret of what u can do..
Items;
1)Bitter cola
2(Ginger
3) a bottle ( not plastic rubber oo)
Get much bitter cola and ginger
Peel them, cut into pieces, wash with clean water...
Soak it with hot boil water for 3 days
Start drinking after d 3rd day...stay away from from sex while drinking it for like 2weeks, don't masturbate or watch porn too

Anyone can mail me for help

Thanks for your solution, I appreciate, but what if I add Garlic, is it okay too or only bitter cola and ginger?

mosho2good:
If u know u can't study on your own then don't bother going to noun cause the material for the course will be online for you to download and read after the payment of school fees.
There's no lecturer to teach you in school and if u have someone that can teach you all the courses then u are good to go even though it not been easy.

Chinxox, so you mean there is no option for physical lectures?

Peacecore:
No doubt, Messi is no longer at his prime, hence his sharp moves, sharp turning, fast dribbling without been brought down easily and so on has reduced. But what I have to tell you is that if Messi is to be obsessed about goal scoring, he would've scored more goals thereby affecting the number of goals that Mbappe had. That small boy had even pushed Messi(world legend) for failing to pass ball to him to score. That's a disrespect of the highest order to a 7x world best. In conclusion, Messi can do better in another club than in PSG or if the couch can take bold steps buh the idiot was given too much power by the board.

Baba from ur voice, I can detect dat you so much hate Mbappe knows
Take am easy

Mehn I remember vividly it was in my jss3 wen I was sleeping in dsame room with my elder brother and we both use dsame towel and sponge, and my broda normally patronize olosho once In a while,
He contacted an infection and kept it to himself bcox He his shy to tell me, and I didn't I know, so we kept using dsame towel and sponge, all of a sudden I begin to see some rashes at my private part, and laps,, omo d scratching no b here oo , the worse part is dat if I begin to scratch it, it will be sweeting me d more , i go scratch my balls till blood begin to come out at dox rashes,
Wen I told my Dad about it, He bought izal and lime, told me and my broda to scratch dox rashes and rub d izal and lime whenever we want to baff
Ladies and gentle men the pains no b here oo I cried like a baby for wetin no concern me
After doing dat for 4days, the rashes begin to dry off, since den I go buy my own towel and sponge
In our dialect they call it, oko junction, or oko babangida

Zonefree:
How do you guys engage in deep conversation with oloshos?

How far
How much
Bye Bye.


These should be your conversation with oloshos if you really want to go far in this life.

Though I haven't had sex with olosho, but U can't condemn Dem bcox of there occupation, they are human beings and they can offer someone a good advice, na condition make crayfish bend, some of my brilliant female coursemate"s are coded olosho.