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The chance of Man-U making top 4 is very slim bcox every team wants to b dea

emmyw:
Chelsea Vs Liverpool Final

Arsenal go reach finals

As a man, if u can control your 3rd leg, you hv solved 50% percent of your problems, u can argue with ur keyboard.
OP you really messed up big time, office romance is very sweet no cap, but wen it strikes, is very dangerous.
I wish you the best bro

Skullano:
Can you please tell me why you told her that she will be sacked?.

Some guys ehhhe.

Exactly u understand, assuming He didn't tell her and they eventually sack her, the girl will be surprised and she will not think of doing anything stupid bcox the guy will pretend never to know about her sack
He really messed up big time

Employment of more security personnels and supplying of standard gun and other security equipment.
Also providing employment opportunities so dat most of our youth will be employed which will reduce crime rate

Meet a nearby psychologist or a doctor 1st

Dat 10k is too much for me self

MJBOLT:

if they ask you for money, what's stopping you from saying No??
Na una dey always cause problem for una self,abeg get out.

Your comment off me

Meedon:
Guy you don't know me...

You are nothing but a human sir ;

fattprince:
As status quo stands, that's what I'm doing. But I may change my mind tomorrow and marry.

Is okay bro, at Dix juncture I no Tok again

luminouz:
Good not to argue.

I'm curious though. How do you know many people here don't practice what they say online? Have you met many of us offline?

One love

You and I knows very well dat life in SM is very different from reality

Martinez39s:
Haba! Old men do get married. It is relatively rare for obvious reasons: by convention and the prevailing mindset, the overwhelming majority of single men who plan to marry do so for the first time during their "marriageable ages" (mid twenties - early forties). In fact, being single in your late thirties will have your family and friends asking you when you will settle down.

The fact that others abide by this, and most (that you see) don't marry for the first time in their 70s, doesn't mean Ubunja and any other man can't get married in their 70s if they want to. Using the convention of the majority to declare that Ubunja and other men cannot marry for the first time in their 70s is obviously irrational. Men do marry in their 70s, and men who have the resources can marry for the first time in their 70s.

Before you start asking how they will cope with the physical demands and stress of running a household and raising children and the problem of not living long enough to see their children grow, just remember that the issue was about how marriage helps in old age (you didn't even list how it helps). The wife Ubunja and Co will marry in this context and for this purpose will simply play the role of a caretaker; it can happen. You don't even need to marry to hire a caretaker.

LOL. This is a very naive question. Even in America and other countries with gynocentric family laws, there are men who keep marrying even after being repeatedly demolished in the family courts. Did it not occur to you that, in every society, hopeless romantics abound? Did it not occur to you that there are men who are under the impression that they are incomplete without being in a committed relationships or having a woman by their sides? For many men, no matter the harsh red pill their many relationships keep giving them, they still hold on to the blue pill mindset that the nawalt is out there for them... the pathetic hope strategy. There are many reasons people marry repeatedly, but it is not a testament of how great marriage is.

As for men in gynocentric countries who marry repeatedly, look up the case of Robin Williams; he was so demolished in the family court by his first two divorces and he still married again for the third time. The financial strain of the exorbitant alimony and child support and his later works that flopped (he was trying to work to keep up with the payments and he took on any gig) took a toll on his mental health and made him depressed. He committed suicide. I loved him for his work and personality, but he was a foolish hopeless romantic.

"I used to think the worst thing in life was to end up all alone. It’s not. The worst thing in life is ending up with people who make you feel all alone"

– Robin Williams.

You can never be too sure. Throughout human history, they have been people who voluntarily never married; I can even list famous people to back up my example. Don't make it look like voluntarily staying unmarried is so hard and inconceivable.

LOL. It's okay to hate when people who won't get married discuss marriage repeatedly. However, it is not out of place, especially on this thread. It's not as if marriage is discussed here 24/7.

I, Martinez, won't ever get married or have kids till I die. My resolve has never dwindled since I made this decision. One love.

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If you marry to have support in your old age and curb loneliness, you can just save yourself the stress and hire a caretaker. You can also doing some growing up and learn to enjoy solitude.

NB: I never said in this post that marriage is a scam. I just correctly pointed out some things.

Martinez U keep on using Europeans to give your examples, why not use Africa or Nigeria as a case study?
Staying alone is very strange in Dix part of the world which everyone in Dix thread knows very well, how many pple hv u seen dat lived there life all alone in ur community or state?
You think hiring a caretaker in ur old age is the best solution right? leme blv dat u are jox catching cruise by saying U won't get married or kids

fattprince:
Martinez is your man.
And we were talking about marriage before we didn't talk about children. Because marriage is not and will never be a pre requisite for reproduction.

but can u do dat?

Susily:
You don't need to get married to have kids

is a common knowledge sir

Susily:
I can see where you're missing the point

According to you, you must have a wife before you have a child, that's Bullshit

I can live life alone without a wife cos I don't need a wife to have a child

Everybody knows dat, but can u so dat?

luminouz:
Seems you are getting confused hommie. The topic is marriage, not having a woman and child. Do I need to marry before having a child?
Cases I have seen are plenty. These men are not married but they have relationships and kids. Let's not confuse the two biko.

The alone I was talking of stems from not marrying a wife or was that not the bone of contention?

Is okay bro, Normally am a silent reader, jox dat am a bit less busy today dax why I decided to keep myself busy by replying some mentions, I don't argue online bro, bcox I hv realized dat many pple here doesn't practice wat they say online.

foreman:
I have an uncle who married his third wife about the age 70. The only thing is you get to marry your level in the SMV.

If you have your mind made up already on an issue, don't come and waste peoples' time here. Don't be unteachable.

when I say 70's I don't mean 2nd wife pls
Am talking about a young man getting married for the 1st time in his life in 70's
Can u do dat?

luminouz:
Wow...I must have shared my life goals with you to make such a conclusion.

Your answer is what makes some men to suffer. Society tells you to marry so as not to be alone in old age,so you fear to be alone in your own house. The truth is men are always alone. So any man who marries so as to cure his boredom is making a mistake because that marriage will be hell for him. I have seen some men who never married and were cool with it. Those who want to marry should at least try to make sure that's it's their decision,not the society's ( like you are trying to push on me).

Nothing like society here sir, and can you tell me the places you see
Men who stay alone all there lifetime?
Am asking you directly are u going to live your life alone without a wife and child?
What I want to hear from you is yex or case closed,

Itzlinda:
poor men marry few women of their caliber. Our neighbor got married to another women at 75 after he lost his first wife. My uncle remarried also at 65 after losing his first wife. They all got married to older women tho. But marriage is marriage.

Pls stop beating around the bush okay, we are talking of 1st hand marriage and u are talking about pple who lost there 1st wife very early and they decided to remarry.
If marriage is really scam why did ur Uncle marry again after loosing his 1st wife?
Even U wey de here de Tok against marriage go still marry b4 2030 .
Abeg make una de preach wetin una go fit do in reality.
I hate it wen men criticize marriage yet the idea of getting married in reality cannot leave there memory?.
I challenge any Redpiller in Dix thread to come and boldly say He won't get married and He won't hv any child throughout his lifetime.
Pls stop deceiving yourself okay.
One love

Meedon:
Marriage counsellor. Old age kee you there. Lol.

I don't know your age but in d next 5-10yrs you will be planning to get married so wat is d need of cursing me

foreman:
Yes. Just make sure you have the resources to handle it.

At 90, Emir of Daura marries 20-year-old bride https://www.solacebase.com/2021/12/14/at-90-emir-of-daura-marries-20-year-old-bride/

Alaafin, aged 82 and his wives https://www.stelladimokokorkus.com/2018/07/alaafin-of-oyo-and-his-beautiful-wives.html

All Dix examples are rich people wat happens to poor pple? how many hv u seen getting married in there 70's

fattprince:
You can marry in your 100's when you have money.

And wen u don't hv Moni wat will happen?

luminouz:
I don't agree with this because most times the men are either already dead or lonely. Most women will either don't really care much about ya ass at that age or they are busy travelling upandan to visit their beloved children.

As a man,whether young or old. YOU ARE ALWAYS ALONE.

After saying men are alone you ll still get married WTF man

ubunja:
are people in their 70s not getting married out there?

How many hv u seen with ur own eyes? Abi Nollywood de deceive you?

ubunja:
then we marry in our old age when we need it....

You are not making any point here, can you marry in ur 70's?

TheGidRedpiller:
I don't know who needs to hear this but MARRIAGE DOES NOT MAKE YOU A MAN!! It Only Makes You A Burden Bearer, Your Job However Is To Ensure That Those Burdens Are Worth Bearing. And Its Not Your Fault If You Don't Find That Worthy Burden, Its Not Your Fault Its Scarce, Rather Its The Fault Of The Suppliers (Women).

Being A Man Depends On WHAT YOUR MASCULINITY COMMANDS!!

TRP IS GOLDEN!!

You will only the importance of marriage in your old age

Iykman042:
yes banana helps your dick
to stay for long time

Thanks I appreciate your comment

Not far from d Truth shaa

I don't take dox tinx mentioned dea

Waiting to listen to lies

nickyj19:
top players no dey to watch na

Exactly except in nearby future wen top players are in d team