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Newcastle will be like....... If we knew, we shouldn't have scored that first goal...
Now see what we hv brought upon ourselves...

Newcastle will be like.......
If we knew, we shouldn't have scored that first goal...

Now see what we hv brought upon ourselves..

My concern is that we are on top of chelsea on the table......


We don't lose at hope like some clubs....especially to small clubs...

We top chelsea on the table as usual...

eponoloyin:
Ok sorry, didn't mean it that way.

But I can confidently tell you that your Ex is doing that on purpose to monitor your life. There is a reason it's called Ex bro.

What happens when you start another relationship with a new girl? Will they still be coming to ckoke your life up?

Man up and put a stop to it.. you called it quit with her already.

Thanks. In as much as I find it difficult to ask someone to stop coming to my place especially when the person's visits have not in anyway affected my happiness or when it cannot be differentiated to be either good or bad visits; I have taken you people's advice asked her politely her reason for coming especially with the EX just for nothing, I have also honorably asked her to make me understand her purpose of visits or she should stop. She simply said nothing and am not sure she will come again from her reactions.

eponoloyin:
Guy you be mumu o..

Istead of you to move on and look for another girl to start something serious with, you're letting your ex and her new dic.k ruin your joy.

Insults are allowed but I think people should be civilized while talking in public especially when you fail to read and understand someone's post very well.
- I never said am single or hooked here, so I don't know where the issue of looking for someone came from.
- I never said I invited them or know when they come.
- I never said I still love or want my EX.
- I was the one who broke up with her because she was never and will never be my ideal girl or wife. She didn't break up with me, I did.
- Their visits are becoming very annoying and confusing to me and that's why I asked for an advice not insults.

Read and understand before you comment. Thanks.

borisyeltskin:
OP OP... this is super story.... the story would have been more interesting had you broken it down into different volumes so we can come and read every week (thursday)..

I am not saying u are telling lies o but how come you know so much about the present relationship of your ex? I am sure u are still single

Read the post, its obvious you didn't read it. Maybe you read a volume and leave the rest volumes for next week thursday like you suggested.

Tyrabarbara:
beautiful girl. guys, she is not legal yet, none of you should ask her out or try to brainwash her. baby girl, wisen up, these boiz are fvck boiz, they just wanna taste your coochie and leave you. concentrate on your studies. i know you will cedis like ghana's currency, obey.

Barbara!!!!

Lalas247:
That’s only if the new girl friend is an upgrade

Nothing more dumb than dating a really dead bish ... to be spiteful or be insultive ... but then the ex is wayyyy hotter and way better
Who is doing who

Just take ur L and move on dear ...stop entertaining bs

Kolewerk

Thanks but still trying to understand this.

catwalq:
Only tough love can quench this drama. Next time when they call tell them you aren't home or if they come unannounced,tell em you going out or expecting a guest. Make them dey their lane make you too face front. Ahead ahead brother,no time for action film. TAKE CHARGE!!!

Thanks but how I wish they call before coming, am not sure they would have been coming but they don't call. I will take the other advice and pretend am going out.

Chiefpiiko and bianca, can you two please do your thing privately and stop acting like children here? Thanks

pocohantas:
But she is messing with you and you ain't done nothing about it. She goes home feeling like a dominatrix, controlling two grown up men.
Please, she can be foolish in her house, but she shouldn't bring it to you. That's total disrespect for your person.

If you wanna be soft, warn her privately to stop the games.
If you wanna be disrespectful like her, allow them mumu and come. Then look her in the eye and ask why she keeps coming. Her response would determine yours. You might help us deliver the current guy from emotional abuse.

Really, I appreciate your comments and advice.

teresafaith:
Op ta lo fe fi epistle yi kpa?

No wonder..

pocohantas:
What kinda love triangle is this?

If your story is completely true, then I can see why you got tired. The girl has issues. I'm sure you have added weight since you guys broke up

Her visits are to mock you, but it is coming from a place of hurt. She still misses you, that's why she sees the need for all that drama. I just pity the mumu guy she is using as a pawn.

I think you're docile, for her to have the guts to play such games around you, it tells a lot about how she views you. Both you and her ex are the fools to her so far. Be the greater man and warn that girl not to involve you in childish paroles.

Thanks a lot for your good comments. I may be docile but not a fool. One thing she used to hate about me then is that I always don't give her any opportunity or room to mess up and she saw it as being "over protected" and "restricted"

The girl I dated and broke up with her has been visiting me for sometimes now with her new boy friend. I stay in same area with her new boy friend and this her new boy friend who is also in same class with her (now graduates) used to come to my place and watch match with friends. When I broke up with my ex, the guy stopped coming to watch match in my place and started going to viewing centre. I later found out that two of them have started dating. Whenever I see the guy he would be nervous to see me. One day I called him and told him that am not against his relationship with my ex, afterall I broke up with her, so she has every right to date anybody she wants. I told the guy that my ex is a nice girl and that I pray it will work out well for the two of them

Why We Broke Up:
My ex like I told his new boy friend is a very nice girl, she is always cheerful and always friendly with people. Nobody is perfect, so there is no way you expect to see all the good qualities you want in a person in your partner but there must be one or two you must wish that your partner should possess while every other qualities can be waved off. That particular qaulity that you want may not be what another person wants in his or her partner. My ex lacks that one quality I wish to see in my partner and am not sure I can cope with that. I don't date only for fun any more, I also date for future because my mates are getting married, so I plan for future too. All the years I have been dating her, I tried all I could to know if she can change or possess a little of it but no way, instead she was getting worse. Am not perfect either but am sure I was her choice and kind of guy, that was why I had to fight to make sure I made her see what I wanted but it was obvious she couldn't possess even 1% of that quality or change a bit.
Her attitude when she is broke is something am not sure any man can withstand unless you are a millionaire which I am not, so I think the kind of guy that will suit her is the type that will always be giving out money even when he is broke, am still a young growing guy or the type that she can be giving money who will allow her do whatever she can to get money.
When she gets angry here, you will be like; who is this please? Because it will be obvious that another spirit has possessed her and she cannot control herself at that moment. She can say or do anything that moment. So, I think the kind of guy she wants is someone that can tolerate any kind of negative words, slap, shouting, uncontollable mood whenever she is angry which I cannot. I heard she is now the one giving money to her new guy and in control which I don't know where she gets because I know her family background very well. She has chosen to be living life the way she wants it whether the boy friend likes it or not. The last time they came to my place, the new boy friend was complaining to me that she refuses telling him her phone password and that she doesn't like the guy going to her phone, I was like "hmmmmm"

Am not here to start talking about her bad qualities, the truth is; I could not withstand majority of her qualities even the least I desire most in a woman, so I had to quit.
Before we broke up, she started having problems with me over what she said she heard from my friends who do come to my place to watch match or charge their phones especially when there is no light. That one guy who always comes to my place to watch match whom she knows very well has been telling her that I cheat on her, that girls do come to my place all the time, etc. I was like, could it be that her classmate whom she later started dating that would be feeding her with all those lies then because I have never cheated on that girl for once. I hate double-dating and I hating cheating.

One day I got a call from her that I should visit her in her new place, it didn't go down well with me to pay her such visit, so I just said no problem but I never went.
One day, I had a knock on my door, it was my ex with her new boy friend. I was surprised. I welcomed them and she was like...she just wanted to surprise me. The boy friend was like..that the girl has been disturbing that she wants to go and visit me and he chose to come with her; am sure the guy could not stop her instead he has to come with her to avoid anything to happen. If you can't win them, you join them. This thing has happened like 3 times now both of them coming to see me. I would be expecting them to have serious thing to say that brings them but no way, the girl will just be changing dstv programme and be watching while I just discuss guys thing like soccer with the boy friend until she is ready to go. I have never seen this kind of thing before. She will be busy asking me about my girl friend and relationship, I will just be smilling.

I don't know if her visits are to mock me that she is comfortable with her new boy friend or to show me that she is incharge and in control of the guy because she bosses the guy around. Could it be that she wants something from me or what, am just confused because I have never seen this kind of thing before or imagine myself following my girl to her ex's place all the time. Please, who has anything to say about this? Thanks

jacyhelen:
hahahahahahaha.me too still lauging and people are like:What the Bleep!!!

If you are the one in that picture eehhh...I will....

Let there be light!!!!

E be like say na Job cus me don suffer since after graduation.

ihatebuhari:
Lol, Nigeria is a zoo.

I can tell u its been 3yrs+ I have been in Los Angeles now I haven't seen any army walking openly with civilians

I love ur name. You also make sense physically..it seems everything abt u is good.

saxby:
Okay, all this one na story.

Meanwhile it's weekend. You need cheap babe for weekend sexxxx? Here you are https://twitter.com/myhookups/status/929269284295069696

See what u hv caused nw!!!

MammyYoo567:
And you are a pope smh.

An african Pope

Nobodys:
hahahahahaha....let them go mad over whoever they want o.

btw how are you sure am not a " man before"..���

Nah...you are not. We know them by their shapes and eyes..lol

IamKashyBaby:


The title tho "UPROOTING HIS MASTER'S CASSAVA" ...

I dunno but i find it so funny i juz cant stop laughing

You don't see people's mind but I see yours here..lol

enigmaticlion:
i wan fucck you. Inbox me

Hiaa!!!

Nobodys:
hahahahahaha...so u can gave me your number....indeed.. madmen

Don't mind them. Instead of them to be going mad over people like you as I am goin mad over u, they choose to be mad over a "Man before"

BigBelleControl:
They should return it, what goes around comes around. 79,000 or 164,000 will not make you an overnight millionaire. It can only add more mysteries because they neither worked not planned for it.

Who says it cannot make you a millionaire over night? Use the money and bet for 10 odds in bet9ja and see if you are not an overnight millionaire.

MammyYoo567:
Wow wow wow wow wow i love this,God is with her.

I love the sound of your name, it sounds like the noise ghana people make while..........

Who brought in this Fellani please?

Omonigeriarere:
A house that was destroyed for complete 16 years during the peak period of oil booming cannot be reconstructed within the twinkle of an eyes.

He promised you change, but change is not synonymous with magic: change is a process while magic is instant.

Get this drilled into your mental horizon.

What a logic You are just a pathetic human being.

Omonigeriarere:
Hmmmm... I know they will soon be here and Tongue-lash Baba again. If he approves, they will talk: if he didn't, he is tribalistically.

Before you start talking thrash and argue about your PDP V APC palava, please answer the followings:

1. Where was Aso Rock Clinic when Patience was treating her tummy problem in Germany?

2. Where was Aso Rock Clinic when Jonathan was frequenting same Germany for undisclosed ailment?

3. Where was Aso Rock Clinic when Stella Obasanjo died abroad?

4. Where was Aso Rock Clinic when Yaradua died abroad?

5. Where was Aso Rock clinic when David Mark treated his toothache in Israel?

6. Where was Aso Rock Clinic when Akpabio treated his leg pain in the US?

You want Buhari to right the wrongs of 16 years in 2 years abi? Your hypocrisy is stinking, walahi.

Nice one but just one question for you....

I thought the reason why people always crave to become the leader is to make a difference and do something different from and better than his or her predecessor? If someone will repeat same thing done by his or her predecessor, why making noise that he or she is better? The same "assumed" wrongs done in 16 years are still repeating themselves and even worse in the present administration and you are here typing rubbish.