Please run away from broke girls. It is a life of one complaints of lack or need of some things today and another next week. Always monitoring your pockets and income to match their needs. THEY DON'T THINK ABOUT YOU AT ALL AND POSSIBLY YOUR FAMILY. While you are yet to marry do go with broke marriage ooooh.

You can never satisfy another human being like you talk less of a woman.

Jaqenhghar:
.so 5k is an asset to you? .5K that wont buy you full tank. SMH

Lol, it's just a question.

DerichMcFalzy:
My own opinion on this isn't about asset or liability thing but the heart the lady carry towards that rlship.my gurl 1s assisted me with 55k just to prevent me from shame.and now if i ask her 5k she might not be able to afford it.so depending on d quick funding wn d need comes up can't be used as a guarantee or measurement of either an asset or liability but the heart that carry purpose to which d rlship stands.we might not have the physical cash,but are willing to help if we are capable of doing so.

Agreed. I've dated a woman who while we were at dinner transferred 500k into my account because I told her I was stressed, fighting with my bank all day (account verification issues) and so didn't have cash. Despite an ability to throw money around, she wasn't a nice person. She was really really not a nice person. And I've dated a woman, who didn't have as much(not the same opportunities), but had a heart of gold and brought me so much peace. Assets vary.

I can not really understand why men date girls that are always demanding and receiving but never give back

I once asked a friend why his always dating broke girls and he said "is to be in control"

that when you date broke girls they fear you and you can easily control them cause you are like their only hope of survival.

As for me, am still struggling to build and I can't afford to add any liability to myself

Confidently:

I thought you created this post?

Nope

ameh99:
I can not really understand why men date girls that are always demanding and receiving but never give back

I once asked a friend why his always dating broke girls and he said "is to be in control"

that when you date broke girls they fear you and you can easily control them cause you are like their only hope of survival.

As for me, am still struggling to build and I can't afford to add any liability to myself

Exactly don't be in an exclusive relationship till u have maximized your potentials

Xenry:
They could be, if not now, then tommorow. I mean, anyone could suddenly run out of cash—that's why it's good to date Assets, not Liabilities.

Most of you are still children here, you need to read more about how people live in the developed world to understand what you need to demand from your government.

when you run out of cash then you use your credit card to sort yourself out.

BRATISLAVA:


From the sorts of things posted on this forum, it's okay to be a liability if you're a man. Men would look at relationships through the money angle, but heavens forbid a woman does.

This is just another male golddigger thread. They were all interested in money, not relationships. Female money is their criteria, but look at how they lash out at any female who shares the same opinion with then. Men who hate women are such hypocrites.

The OP says he ran out of data and is using free basics. They will soon come to defend why he needs a rich woman to give him money urgently, when he cannot handle his internet subscription. His woman didn't give him.

Such topics are created by poor men. I never grew up among such whiners. Modern men are just bitter women with pen.ises.

Like braaah u are way on point with this

I love this!

calcal:


Most of you are still children here, you need to read more about how people live in the developed world to understand what you need to demand from your government.

when you run out of cash then you use your credit card to sort yourself out.

That's why most of una get bad debt and even student loans

Sorry I don't do broke girls with their incessant demands (No Offence), only rich or career women

My babe is an asset, she always come to my aid when ever I'm broke, normally girls dey get money pass boys for school na.

Girlfriend ke, asking an average Nigerian girl to become your girlfriend na like contract to transfer all her and her family financial problems come your side.
The funny thing is that financially stable girls has joined this group.
I no sabi the seminar way this girls day go, way tell them say man must pay their EVERY financial obligations.
Sha avoid these entitled girls , them go use emotional matter put you for weekly reoccurring bills.
Every bros know say I'm go gaz chest bills, but make e no be petty things like call card,soap, cream, etc .
Me go prefer chest #13 once in a blue moon , than say every week you day get problem of #1 or #2.
Once I hear all these "sub for me", "send me card"
"Send transport" talk, I avoid X with the barnie, because X na emotional trap for recycling billing ...
GIRLS BILL WITH SENSE.,you no be road side beggar.

FunnyDude:


Wrong Advice bro.

You should only avoid ladies from poor background if you're from a rich home.

I'd rather suggest, one look for a lady that is productive (earning her own money) and loyal.


PS. Avoid Ladies that are First Born

Dating a first born of a struggling family without self vision.. is a time bomb

I've been in 7 relationships and only 2 were not liabilities. Funny thing is that the 2 was older than me and very remarkable, one migrated abroad the other I left cuz her male siblings kept dying mysteriously 5 males, 1 female of 11 children. I jakpa. While the other 5 females liabilities were terrible.

An asset o. I was very lucky. I don't give her transport fear.

I'm still owing her about 50k. Very industrious;; every other thing , ZERO.
She is an ex is though.

Xenry:
Most of our nigerian girls are liabilities (only few are assets), any girl who takes and do not give is a liability

So my question is, if you run out of cash today or tomorrow, can your girlfriend assist you with at least 5k? Supposing you need it for urgent reason(s).

If she can't assist you with that, then she probably is a liability.

For me, I love dating Assets, and not Liabilities. Mine couldn't do that because she doesn't have it, so she's a liability.

That's why I ghosted and dropped her, now I'm looking for an asset.

Now, over to you, can your girlfriend assist you with at least that amount of money if you run out of cash today or tommorow?

Because if she can't, then she probably is a liability.

The one lying down sleeping here before me is a born liability I inherited from her father and former boyfriend. I'm looking for interested applicant to take over from this last bus stop.
My neck don sink

I don't have girlfriend am still hustling

Small children and limited minded nairalanders in their mind now talking like men... lwkm

AbujaCitiBlog:

You are of all men most foolish!

I knew empty headed men like you would come to fight against their gender. Ode, go and do gender reassignment surgery and become a woman.

@AbujaCitiBlog it was my opinion it has got nothing to do with you. I have nothing against those that have done gender reassignment i have gays and lesbians friends that are open about their sexual orientation.

Focus on your blog and stop calling me names. Me empty headed lol funny enough daft people like you are quick to call people names. Maybe you should go out more and interact with people. Now crawl back into your hole and concentrate on your blog. Or go screw yourself.

She is boat an asset and liability jare. She is only an asset in bed

AbujaCitiBlog:

You are of all men most foolish!

I knew empty headed men like you would come to fight against their gender. Ode, go and do gender reassignment surgery and become a woman.

Fight against their gender... lol that is your problem in that country not speaking your mind people like you are blinded by religion, masculirism and tribe. Try go out more learn and integrate. Do me a favour crawl back to your hole cuz that's where you belong.

You want me to do gender reassignment shaking my head. I wish you can learn more and don't let culture blind fold your thinking. You need help, se your blog no dey pay you ni? Calling me ode Is it a norm to call people names ni? Guy calm down focus on your blog and crawl back into your hole. I for call you names but i wont come low to your level.

Dreyton36:
My girl's dad used to give her 100k monthly

Once she gets credited she'll find my account with 60k out of the 100k because she knows I've got more needs than her
I fund her as well too so it's a couple thing

And today she's my wife , a damsel in all aspects
She's willing to give up her life for the family that we've both build , so I call her my treasure


Lights up my kpoli in peace

You just painted a perfect image of a model home but my only ish is that kpoli you are always lighting and bombing

airminem:
Its true you say, but there are some exceptions!

edited: Lets see what the guys have to contribute to the topic.

Exceptions like?

Still thinking

AbujaCitiBlog:

You are of all men most foolish!

I knew empty headed men like you would come to fight against their gender. Ode, go and do gender reassignment surgery and become a woman.

I just view some of your post/reply to others on different topics, I wasted my time replying to you. Where your Meninism don take you? People like you lack self confidence (mind of their own) that's why you back any coment by any guy either good or bad just because he is a guy and you think in your mind that you belong to male group.

You are a sheep, a follower your language is to call people names etc that shows your background or the kind of individual that you are.
Try to express yourself without calling people names that is a good start in any conversation or should i say try attend anger management class before you keyboard warrior attitude put u in shit.

Made619:
For the sanity of your mind as a guy, avoid ladies from poor background.(no offense to those from poor background)

You're right

Still thinking

Made619:
well your choice sir, but her loyalty will forever be to your money so don't be fooled to think she loves you unconditionally Because there's a difference between being indebted to you and being deeply in love with you.

Regards.

Who love help. Go Alaba. Market go see Women way dis men de marry. Some of de men can speak or write. Buh with money everything is possible

Prussian:


My current gf is in Mgt level in an FMCG. Under 30.
The previous one is CCO of a tech startup. Recently relocated to Canada with her husband.
I once dated one who is an investment banker.
The only student I dated runs her own fashion business. I helped her run some stuff for the business. This was after breakup o.

I don't date bottom-of-the barrel ladies and I don't fight them after breakup. I have developed myself to that level and taken a deliberate decision on who to fall in love with.

Not that I'll be negotiating a bill with a client and your girlfriend's father is flashing you and asking for 'Mtn card'.

Have u helped ur sister or brother grow their businesses

mine is a liability

My girl is an asset anyday anytime. She gives me peace of mind.