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MENTORCH:
Come to me baby, I’m very ambitious.

Tell me about your ambitions?

JeffDWalter:
Babe aborted our pregnancy after forcing me to accept it.

I was living well, I and my cousin rented and apartment in Abuja and were enjoying life of a single guy.
This particular lady was just an accidental encounter. She came to visit her friend who was my neighbour then. Well, one thing led to another, we became an item. She took in and I begged for days for her to abort, she refused. Told her friends who came and pleaded that we keep.

I couldn't keep her in the same house with my cousin, had to get a new apartment to give her privacy and my cousin space. We moved in and I was beginning to have the feelings of a "daddy". She traveled to Kaduna to visit her mom and from what I learnt, her mom convinced her to abort, that I had not done anything "for her head".

Babe aborted there in Kaduna, returned to me without saying a word. Started falling sick and I was spending money. Doctor finally told me we lost the pregnancy, she had ask the doctor to not reveal that it was an abortion.

I took her home, showed her love and took leave from work to take of my "sick" woman. I guess she was wrapped up with guilt and in her attempt for closure, she confessed to have done abortion.

I just acted cool. Told her I had to return to work, then I suggested she goes to her mom and spent some time to recover. Still gave her cash to take her. The moment she left, I sent her a text never to return. I told I would kill her if I ever see her. Changed my locks and all that. I was demoralised. I guess that formed part of my plans to leave Naija. I didn't see her till I travelled out. This was in 2017.

correct guy for taken responsibility of been a father

She was going through that "hoe phase" thing, and I knew her time with me was up. I went on ghost mode.
She called to know why I suddenly stopped calling and texting. I told her that, I understand you are in that phase of life that you just want to explore and I have nothing against you. But who are we kidding, this will never work between us.

She's very pretty and full of herself, and me, I'm good looking and proud ( I never apologise if I'm not wrong).

remi1444:
meaning?

Meaning he wants others to be unhappy with him.

OriginalOmoOgun:
Valar Scumulis. ALL MEN, EVERYWHERE, ARE SCUM

I must see something to make me laugh everytime on nairaland. Lol.

Ishilove:
Meaning he wants others to be unhappy with him.

Thank you madam for the clarification.

She dey smoke pass me(both cigarette and cannabis)..Two mad people no fit dey for the same house..

Kelvin3476:
Oga be serious nah. I DEY PRAY MAKE I MARRY FOOTBALL FAN BT DNT WANT HER TO BE SAME MAN~UTD AS ME

Am a football fan and don't worry am not a United Fan but a Man City. So my dear rejoice because God don answer ur prayer

Brah...for most of us have received more than enough heartbreak that our heart doesn't function for love anymore except for respiratory process.

Spending123:
Because I found out she was a girl of the people, by the people and for the people. Don't worry heartbreak go reach all of onah I just collected my own last month. It will go round, nah turn by turn.

IbrahimSkiba:
Ok..


You both enjoyed yourselves...


Periodttttt

Talk about your own experience, leave them if they enjoyed it together or not.

Blackdisciple:
Kaiiii

Yes boss

He was a woman beater, Oringo master, ex-cultist

RedAlert08:
ya gazie, nwanne.

Udo!

Olajiiree:
Am a football fan and don't worry am not a United Fan but a Man City. So my dear rejoice because God don answer ur prayer

THANK U GOD FOR ANSWERING MY PRAYER

Foolishmasses:
So you think those that are married are better off? I pity your thinking. Come to my city and see how cheap married women are to sleep with..I no longer blame anyone for adultery oo....it's like it's a new norm. If you have the grace to stand out ...do

where do you stay?

JeffDWalter:
Babe aborted our pregnancy after forcing me to accept it.

I was living well, I and my cousin rented and apartment in Abuja and were enjoying life of a single guy.
This particular lady was just an accidental encounter. She came to visit her friend who was my neighbour then. Well, one thing led to another, we became an item. She took in and I begged for days for her to abort, she refused. Told her friends who came and pleaded that we keep.

I couldn't keep her in the same house with my cousin, had to get a new apartment to give her privacy and my cousin space. We moved in and I was beginning to have the feelings of a "daddy". She traveled to Kaduna to visit her mom and from what I learnt, her mom convinced her to abort, that I had not done anything "for her head".

Babe aborted there in Kaduna, returned to me without saying a word. Started falling sick and I was spending money. Doctor finally told me we lost the pregnancy, she had ask the doctor to not reveal that it was an abortion.

I took her home, showed her love and took leave from work to take of my "sick" woman. I guess she was wrapped up with guilt and in her attempt for closure, she confessed to have done abortion.

I just acted cool. Told her I had to return to work, then I suggested she goes to her mom and spent some time to recover. Still gave her cash to take her. The moment she left, I sent her a text never to return. I told I would kill her if I ever see her. Changed my locks and all that. I was demoralised. I guess that formed part of my plans to leave Naija. I didn't see her till I travelled out. This was in 2017.

Yepa! You even accepted to take care of her and the baby and she still flushed it.

How are you even sure you were the owner of the pregnancy?

StephenUchec:
Distance but i doupt if i have an ex cos we are all still together. I am not a jealous lover, anywhere i meet any of my girl friends we continue from were we stopped. i don't quarrel with women neither do i see there walhalla as a burden to me. they are wonderful people if only you calm down.

You are a practician of Okafor's law

Queenlovely:
There was this stupid guy I met on a dating site. he had all the qualifications, he was tall, sharply dressed, sweet toungued,

He was muscular and a gym freak, with bulging muscle.
But he was scared of rodents in the house.

A man that is afraid of everything even his shadow. a woman in man's skin. ordinary tiny rat and he was screaming for his dear life.

You haven't still told us why you left oh, or am I the only one missing something on this post?

Don't see how being scared of rats is a problem.

Angy55:
Yepa! You even accepted to take care of her and the baby and she still flushed it.

How are you even sure you were the owner of the pregnancy?

LMAO, is it not obvious?

Angy55:
Yepa! You even accepted to take care of her and the baby and she still flushed it.

How are you even sure you were the owner of the pregnancy?

She just messed my head up, forced me to accept responsibility then pulled that stunt.

I guess we will never know that now. Though, we were always together and she was a responsible lady, or so I thought. But we will never know that.

Thinking about it hurts a bit, but if not for that incident, maybe, I would still be wasting money in Nigeria in the name of "flexing".

God will soon punish u.

yeyeboi:
We dated for 6years and I dumped her because her mother never wanted her to marry me because I am not a Yo ru ba



I enjoyed the girl kpekus because I met her a Virgin

JeffDWalter:
She just messed my head up, forced me to accept responsibility then pulled that stunt.

I guess we will never know that now. Though, we were always together and she was a responsible lady, or so I thought. But we will never know that.

Thinking about it hurts a bit, but if not for that incident, maybe, I would still be wasting money in Nigeria in the name of "flexing".

Some babes sha.

slimkhalifa:
U wrote it to attract abuse .. Sha looking for someone to mall u

It's maul, not mall.

JeffDWalter:
Babe aborted our pregnancy after forcing me to accept it.

I was living well, I and my cousin rented and apartment in Abuja and were enjoying life of a single guy.
This particular lady was just an accidental encounter. She came to visit her friend who was my neighbour then. Well, one thing led to another, we became an item. She took in and I begged for days for her to abort, she refused. Told her friends who came and pleaded that we keep.

I couldn't keep her in the same house with my cousin, had to get a new apartment to give her privacy and my cousin space. We moved in and I was beginning to have the feelings of a "daddy". She traveled to Kaduna to visit her mom and from what I learnt, her mom convinced her to abort, that I had not done anything "for her head".

Babe aborted there in Kaduna, returned to me without saying a word. Started falling sick and I was spending money. Doctor finally told me we lost the pregnancy, she had ask the doctor to not reveal that it was an abortion.

I took her home, showed her love and took leave from work to take of my "sick" woman. I guess she was wrapped up with guilt and in her attempt for closure, she confessed to have done abortion.

I just acted cool. Told her I had to return to work, then I suggested she goes to her mom and spent some time to recover. Still gave her cash to take her. The moment she left, I sent her a text never to return. I told I would kill her if I ever see her. Changed my locks and all that. I was demoralised. I guess that formed part of my plans to leave Naija. I didn't see her till I travelled out. This was in 2017.

Ladies are selfish by nature. No insult meant for ladies here please. But it's a fact that has proved to be a reality over time.
I had a similar experience January this year, babe took in for me in December during d Xmas time, told me in january she missed her period and by February she aborted my baby without informing me, later claimed her period returned miraculously. I was cock-sure she was pregnant cos we had sex during her ovulation for more than 5 days she was with me all through. The signs where there, she was so bitter about d whole missed period thing that no day passes we don't quarrel and fight on the telephone. After aborting the baby without informing me, madam denied ever getting pregnant. All d while I had made her to understand I was broke bcoz of my experience with entitled ladies, not knowing that wasn't d case. She ignored me after d abortion for so long, thru a distant friend, she later found out I was from an 'Okay' family if u understand what I mean and started to attempt reviving the relationship whereas I av already moved on. I have had this same experience twice now in 3 years. Different ladies from different tribes. Hmmmm SMH.
For the record, the earlier guys realize that women never truly love a man the better for them. They look out for guys with potentials, and register their presence in ur life by pretending to love you. Whereas it's all about what they stand to gain, financially and otherwise. Women are very smart beings, subtle in their ways, patient and calm so u don't really get to understand their intent except u re very smart urself.

Olajiiree:
Am a football fan and don't worry am not a United Fan but a Man City. So my dear rejoice because God don answer ur prayer

But... But... But you're not fine na.

Sure

DannyG8:
no need for long thing my own just reach me this weekend but you sure say good girl still dey

Life

yeyeboi:
We dated for 6years and I dumped her because her mother never wanted her to marry me because I am not a Yo ru ba



I enjoyed the girl kpekus because I met her a Virgin

GirlsDoItBetter:
Tell me about your ambitions?

To be worth atleast 1m dollars and become a CEO of a business in less than 5years, currently worth 250000 dollars at 33.

PhilipReigns:
Ladies are selfish by nature. No insult meant for ladies here please. But it's a fact that has proved to be a reality over time.
I had a similar experience January this year, babe took in for me in December during d Xmas time, told me in january she missed her period and by February she aborted my baby without informing me, later claimed her period returned miraculously. I was cock sure she was pregnant cos we had sex during her ovulation for more than 5 days she was with me all through. The signs where there, she was so bitter about d whole missed period thing that no day passes we don't quarrel and fight on the telephone. After aborting the baby without informing me, madam denied ever getting pregnant. I guessed her period miraculously returned, all d while I had made her to understand I was broke bcoz of my experience with entitled ladies, not knowing that wasn't d case. She ignored me after d abortion for so long, thru a distant friend, she later found out I was from an 'Okay' family if u understand what I mean and started to attempt reviving the relationship whereas I av already moved on.
For the record, the earlier guys realize that women never truly love a man the better for them. They look out for guys with potentials, and register their presence in ur life by pretending to love you. Whereas it's all about what they stand to gain, financially and otherwise. Women are very smart beings, subtle in their ways, patient and calm so u don't really get to understand their intend except u re very smart urself.

Bro, you're the selfish one here! You never said anything about agreeing to train the child, neither did you tell her to keep it. From your post, I infered that you were blaming her for getting pregnant while always reiterating that you're broke and you can't take care of the baby, hence the incessant arguements. You can't expect a lady to give birth for you while you're broke! It is a hell of work and trust me, I would never want that for my sister.

The one i dey date now don suddenly dey change to evil spirit... Women why?

yomi007k:
PEOPLE: the bible says he who finds a wife finds a good thing.

ME: The bible wasn't referring to Nigerian women.

lol

JeffDWalter:
Babe aborted our pregnancy after forcing me to accept it.

I was living well, I and my cousin rented and apartment in Abuja and were enjoying life of a single guy.
This particular lady was just an accidental encounter. She came to visit her friend who was my neighbour then. Well, one thing led to another, we became an item. She took in and I begged for days for her to abort, she refused. Told her friends who came and pleaded that we keep.

I couldn't keep her in the same house with my cousin, had to get a new apartment to give her privacy and my cousin space. We moved in and I was beginning to have the feelings of a "daddy". She traveled to Kaduna to visit her mom and from what I learnt, her mom convinced her to abort, that I had not done anything "for her head".

Babe aborted there in Kaduna, returned to me without saying a word. Started falling sick and I was spending money. Doctor finally told me we lost the pregnancy, she had ask the doctor to not reveal that it was an abortion.

I took her home, showed her love and took leave from work to take of my "sick" woman. I guess she was wrapped up with guilt and in her attempt for closure, she confessed to have done abortion.

I just acted cool. Told her I had to return to work, then I suggested she goes to her mom and spent some time to recover. Still gave her cash to take her. The moment she left, I sent her a text never to return. I told I would kill her if I ever see her. Changed my locks and all that. I was demoralised. I guess that formed part of my plans to leave Naija. I didn't see her till I travelled out. This was in 2017.