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Re: Why Did You Dump Your Ex? by ennyrah: 7:32pm On Mar 23, 2021
Onyi22:
cheesy grin
Where will I even start, anywhere let me cut it short.
I dump his useless broke ass because he couldn't meet up with my financial standard.
He's tall, handsome,with well -bulit body, but his pocket was very dry as Dry Gin, so I dump the idiot for good

Pls don't tell me am wicked, is just that I don't deal with Broke men
kudos to you
Re: Why Did You Dump Your Ex? by DanceMonkey(m): 8:14pm On Mar 23, 2021
GENOTYPE sad

we both be AS

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Re: Why Did You Dump Your Ex? by Nobody: 8:23pm On Mar 23, 2021
SirMichael1:
It's maul, not mall.
So you know what I'm saying

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Re: Why Did You Dump Your Ex? by PhilipReigns(m): 8:25pm On Mar 23, 2021
SirMichael1:
Bro, you're the selfish one here! You never said anything about agreeing to train the child, neither did you tell her to keep it. From you cost, I infered that you were blaming her for getting pregnant while always reiterating that you're broke and you can't take care of the baby, hence the incessant arguements. You can't expect a lady to give birth for you while you're broke! It is a hell of work and trust me, I would never want that for my sister.
Maybe u should read my post again, I only acted broke, even at that she never lacked anything she ask I get it for her. I acted broke it's my own way of knowing who genuinely cares but what happens to informing me first before taking such a life changing decision, what if she had died, then her family will come for me not knowing I didn't send her to do what she did. And let me add that am not broke, I wasn't desperate for a baby either. What you do is not as important as intension behind it. Next time, read to understand first before commenting.

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Re: Why Did You Dump Your Ex? by waleadeagb(m): 8:39pm On Mar 23, 2021
Hey my guy, I really sympathize with you. I can imagine my guy already feeling absolutely responsible as a new forthcoming Dad. I guess you must have told friends and family that you are an expectant Dad...Lol.....then the callous babe did the unthinkable......such is life my friend.....some men do have such....take care...


JeffDWalter:
Babe aborted our pregnancy after forcing me to accept it.

I was living well, I and my cousin rented and apartment in Abuja and were enjoying life of a single guy.
This particular lady was just an accidental encounter. She came to visit her friend who was my neighbour then. Well, one thing led to another, we became an item. She took in and I begged for days for her to abort, she refused. Told her friends who came and pleaded that we keep.

I couldn't keep her in the same house with my cousin, had to get a new apartment to give her privacy and my cousin space. We moved in and I was beginning to have the feelings of a "daddy". She traveled to Kaduna to visit her mom and from what I learnt, her mom convinced her to abort, that I had not done anything "for her head".

Babe aborted there in Kaduna, returned to me without saying a word. Started falling sick and I was spending money. Doctor finally told me we lost the pregnancy, she had ask the doctor to not reveal that it was an abortion.

I took her home, showed her love and took leave from work to take of my "sick" woman. I guess she was wrapped up with guilt and in her attempt for closure, she confessed to have done abortion.

I just acted cool. Told her I had to return to work, then I suggested she goes to her mom and spent some time to recover. Still gave her cash to take her. The moment she left, I sent her a text never to return. I told I would kill her if I ever see her. Changed my locks and all that. I was demoralised. I guess that formed part of my plans to leave Naija. I didn't see her till I travelled out. This was in 2017.
Re: Why Did You Dump Your Ex? by DannyG8(m): 9:02pm On Mar 23, 2021
Futuremom:
Sure
I done commot my hand for women matter
Re: Why Did You Dump Your Ex? by DannyG8(m): 9:06pm On Mar 23, 2021
Hassanmaye:

even before you marry uncle, no be daughters of Jezebel you never see anything sef
abeg oooh so man no go marry

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Re: Why Did You Dump Your Ex? by Issues40(m): 9:06pm On Mar 23, 2021
Too much Bleep! I had even started to Lean down. I had to call it quits to save my blood

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Re: Why Did You Dump Your Ex? by DannyG8(m): 9:07pm On Mar 23, 2021
talk2didi:
I dumped my ex, not because we didn't love each other but da time wasn't just right. We met at da wrong time.
lolz how do you mean you met at the wrong time
Re: Why Did You Dump Your Ex? by Kudducini(m): 9:08pm On Mar 23, 2021
I left her because she's an idiot
All she wanted is Dick and Dick
And lastly Dick.
Re: Why Did You Dump Your Ex? by DannyG8(m): 9:08pm On Mar 23, 2021
Nkiruka35:


Not all ladies please
madam how many are good
Re: Why Did You Dump Your Ex? by DannyG8(m): 9:09pm On Mar 23, 2021
[quote author=kacglobal post=100141166][/quote]as how
Re: Why Did You Dump Your Ex? by DannyG8(m): 9:11pm On Mar 23, 2021
kacglobal:


Bobo good girls nor dey again. Na January I collect my own . No worry he go reach everybody.
lolz nah prayer
Re: Why Did You Dump Your Ex? by DannyG8(m): 9:11pm On Mar 23, 2021
MrIcredible:
mouth dey pain you abi?
what is your business?
meaning
Re: Why Did You Dump Your Ex? by Kizo5(m): 9:21pm On Mar 23, 2021
Queenlovely:
There was this stupid guy I met on a dating site. he had all the qualifications, he was tall, sharply dressed, sweet tongued,

He was muscular and a gym freak, with bulging muscle.
But he was scared of rodents in the house.

A man that is afraid of everything even his shadow. a woman in man's skin. ordinary tiny rat and he was screaming for his dear life.
u keeping plenty rats in ur house. very soon lions go enter and u don't expect somebody's son to be scared

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Re: Why Did You Dump Your Ex? by Venom442: 9:29pm On Mar 23, 2021
Spending123:
Because I found out she was a girl of the people, by the people and for the people. Don't worry heartbreak go reach all of onah I just collected my own last month. It will go round, nah turn by turn.
Na Democracy or na PDP.

he sweet me die. omo na turn by turn. I dey beg baba God make he rich my turn
Re: Why Did You Dump Your Ex? by talk2didi(m): 9:33pm On Mar 23, 2021
DannyG8:
lolz how do you mean you met at the wrong time
She wnt 2 go 4 her HND & I can't wait. If she is ready while am ready. She is perfect 4 me.
Re: Why Did You Dump Your Ex? by JeffDWalter: 9:38pm On Mar 23, 2021
Angy55:


Some babes sha.
I tell you!
cheesy
Re: Why Did You Dump Your Ex? by Venom442: 9:38pm On Mar 23, 2021
DenreleDave:
She became born again and yet gained admsn to Babcock... Later, I saw her sexcapade on Xvideos red
Oga na lie
Re: Why Did You Dump Your Ex? by JeffDWalter: 9:40pm On Mar 23, 2021
PhilipReigns:

Ladies are selfish by nature. No insult meant for ladies here please. But it's a fact that has proved to be a reality over time.
I had a similar experience January this year, babe took in for me in December during d Xmas time, told me in january she missed her period and by February she aborted my baby without informing me, later claimed her period returned miraculously. I was cock-sure she was pregnant cos we had sex during her ovulation for more than 5 days she was with me all through. The signs where there, she was so bitter about d whole missed period thing that no day passes we don't quarrel and fight on the telephone. After aborting the baby without informing me, madam denied ever getting pregnant. All d while I had made her to understand I was broke bcoz of my experience with entitled ladies, not knowing that wasn't d case. She ignored me after d abortion for so long, thru a distant friend, she later found out I was from an 'Okay' family if u understand what I mean and started to attempt reviving the relationship whereas I av already moved on. I have had this same experience twice now in 3 years. Different ladies from different tribes. Hmmmm SMH.
For the record, the earlier guys realize that women never truly love a man the better for them. They look out for guys with potentials, and register their presence in ur life by pretending to love you. Whereas it's all about what they stand to gain, financially and otherwise. Women are very smart beings, subtle in their ways, patient and calm so u don't really get to understand their intent except u re very smart urself.
Well, most times a guy is carried away by sympathy. In my case, I wasn't blinded by love, but my desire to be a "good person and be responsible" made me fall for the tricks.

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Re: Why Did You Dump Your Ex? by JeffDWalter: 9:42pm On Mar 23, 2021
waleadeagb:
Hey my guy, I really sympathize with you. I can imagine my guy already feeling absolutely responsible as a new forthcoming Dad. I guess you must have told friends and family that you are an expectant Dad...Lol.....then the callous babe did the unthinkable......such is life my friend.....some men do have such....take care...



Yes, I told a few closed friends. I had to tell them that she miscarried the pregnancy. Till this day, that's what they believe.
Re: Why Did You Dump Your Ex? by DannyG8(m): 9:48pm On Mar 23, 2021
talk2didi:
She wnt 2 go 4 her HND & I can't wait. If she is ready while am ready. She is perfect 4 me.
does it matter is she leaving town or you just don't want to spend money
Re: Why Did You Dump Your Ex? by tylesh(f): 10:03pm On Mar 23, 2021
He was nonchalant and a drunk
Re: Why Did You Dump Your Ex? by Ishilove: 10:06pm On Mar 23, 2021
remi1444:
Thank you madam for the clarification.
You're welcome sir.
Re: Why Did You Dump Your Ex? by efficiencie(m): 10:11pm On Mar 23, 2021
Trutherme:


Well the prayer worked when the randy he goat stopped and moved on. You may not believe in God but there others who do and that is ok.

Which prayers? The lady is already ravaged by the randy he goat. Now the mother would have to pray that the daughter gets married on time or else the 1m sinkhole could easily become a 1km volcano crater before she gets married and the many randy he goats who would have contributed to creating the 1km wide crater can always continue their operation even after the lady is married leaving her with high chances of committing paternity fraud...

I believe in God and I believe in prayer but I wonder what kind of prayer the mother was praying that a sexual predator finalized his mission right under her nose!

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Re: Why Did You Dump Your Ex? by Ishilove: 10:14pm On Mar 23, 2021
Wealthoptulent:



Well i came across a diary, she wrote sucide letter in 2015 , due to fake life relationship [deceit] , same lady who tried suicide with our 1st 12 weeks pregnancy, which she lost because i stopped buying bottle water for the house. I married best friend i thought of 10 yrs. She is from a very poor n wretched back ground but jus 2 yrs stay in abuja she bought royalty for her sef... so she started looking extended families that are reach to familiarize with, also richer ppl to say she knows them, also famz ppl ... but all the goods in her granny shop mp reach 5k. We need to do proper investigation bfr marriage rite oo, i met the elites ones bfr meeting real broke immediate families .... na alakada.. the day i go write her stories on NL, not to mock her bt for gentlemen not to fall in deceit n i almost became violent after ple t scars on my skin from knife n teeth wants to be friends with guys in abroad while u married, a very jealous n violent being ever seen... i wasted 3 yrs, she contributed nothing ... okay last year 1st covid lockdown she dropped 30k to add fr food stuff purchase fr straight lockdown prep..
If I tell you I understand what you wrote then I'm lying. Haba mana, is this supposed to be English language?

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Re: Why Did You Dump Your Ex? by Venom442: 10:33pm On Mar 23, 2021
[quote author=JovialJune post=100142150]


Look at you, trying to justify your silly comment with lies cos you've been schooled on sense,

Nsidime.[/quote

You exposed yourself again madam. I experienced almost the same thing with a girl like that always calling me the boy is good. Later are caught her in my friends wey be NOTORIOUS weed smoker room. That one dey bang am like say tomorrow no dey. The only thing that saved my Ass from hypertension is that I don't have strong attraction for the said lady. I don't even love ladies because of their Cunny way.

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Re: Why Did You Dump Your Ex? by talk2didi(m): 10:36pm On Mar 23, 2021
DannyG8:
does it matter is she leaving town or you just don't want to spend money
Are you asking me to wait for 3years at da age of 30yrs? Woman's heart is dynamic, their hearts are not steel. They are living, complex things that grow and change. wot shld I do if she find anoda man during da 3yrs?

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Re: Why Did You Dump Your Ex? by DannyG8(m): 10:49pm On Mar 23, 2021
talk2didi:
Are you asking me to wait for 3years at da age of 30yrs? Woman's heart is dynamic, their hearts are not steel. They are living, complex things that grow and change. wot shld I do if she find anoda man during da 3yrs?
hmmmmmm � sorry ooh look for someone else woman matter done tire me
Re: Why Did You Dump Your Ex? by Wealthoptulent(m): 10:50pm On Mar 23, 2021
Ishilove:

If I tell you I understand what you wrote then I'm lying. Haba mana, is this supposed to be English language?
.

Don be dumb bro, u just jumped in on my quote, did you read the first reply?

Instead of learning from ppls troubles n terrible mistakes, you are after english constructions. You think you more outspoken in grammar than i do abi? We know your type, u make such mistake like i did n eventually chose wrongly. Learn n leave context n face content. Ebo buu! Alaakada oshi. Sabi english no go write IELT male we see wetin u go score
Re: Why Did You Dump Your Ex? by MyExpression(m): 11:05pm On Mar 23, 2021
BigSarah:
He wanted me to put out fires angry

He doesn’t watch football cry

He hates George Carlin

He Is an Extreme Extrovert undecided

Extreme extrovert dat doesnt like football....wat kind of extrovert iz dat one
Re: Why Did You Dump Your Ex? by MyExpression(m): 11:22pm On Mar 23, 2021
truthsayer009:


Bro, how is this even possible? Why would she post her sex videos on red when she isn't even a sex worker or porn star.

That range is too far.


kindly post a link to her vid...e get wetin i wan check

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