Good day guys, please before I proceed why on the reason why I'm creating this thread I want you to know that there might be typos and please don't mind my grammar also no insult too please.
Ok here we go.
I am a young guy I broke up with my ex almost 3 years now so I moved on with another girl that I believed was better than my ex, when we started everything was going smoothly and sweet until she started showing up some attitude of lack of understanding fast forward to what happened .
My gf wanted to pay her school fee she raised some fund but wasn't enough for the fee so I decided to assist her actualize what she wanted she wanted to pay 150k for school fee she was able to raise 70k so I added 80k for her to pay up and thats just 70% of the school fee we all know how hard the country is after paying that money I became broke because the money I though I could use to manage myself wasn't available because I was having issues with omo onile on my site so I had to settle them and take care of the fencing so I had 40k with me so that was what I was planning to manage till the end of the month. My gf knowing well that I'm broke after paying her fee started asking me for money for hair after all that has happened so I told her to relax and wait I'm broke I want to manage what I have on me till next month then we can find a solution, she now volunteered to borrow me I told her no I don't want because the last one I borrowed from you you insulted me because I couldn't pay on time then she started acting up telling me everybody in her department was complaining she isn't making her hair this that I ignored all her talk later she did the hair her self and I didn't bother asking her where she got the money...
So fast forward to today being her birthday she is in school writing exam so she is doing her bitlrthday in school
Now before she was allowed to write this exam I paid another 40k to add to her school fee so she can be allowed to write her exam.
Now she was now telling me that she wants something from me for her bitlrthday I told her I'm broke ooo because I can't just leave my building project like that birthday comes and go we can celebrate some other time. That was how my gf started acting up the next thing she said was that what have I ever giving her ever since we have been dating that even her bitmrthday that passed I didn't do anything j just laughed I told her I didn't do anything right its now that I won't do anything again I would ignore you to the core you would come back that you want to pay school fee now I would wait here for you no problem

If this story is real, then you are just dating a liability.
I've never seen a man who succeeded by attaching a liability to himself, the only thing that Liabilities are good at is to pull you down.
Those girls are Liabilities, and for me, I have nothing to do with them until I achieve all my goals, life is too short to waste the little time you have on a liability. I'm currently after 9-digits per annum, and not some fvcking Liability.

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Also, I think you should hear what Spending 123 said before: If you're not ready for heartbreak, if you're not ready to block and unblock at least three times a day, if you're not ready to cry at least four times a day, please avoid relationship.....A wise is enough for a word, oh sorry, enough is a wise for the word.

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ebijimi7:
Good day guys, please before I proceed why on the reason why I'm creating this thread I want you to know that there might be typos and please don't mind my grammar also no insult too please.
Ok here we go.
I am a young guy I broke up with my ex almost 3 years now so I moved on with another girl that I believed was better than my ex, when we started everything was going smoothly and sweet until she started showing up some attitude of lack of understanding fast forward to what happened .
My gf wanted to pay her school fee she raised some fund but wasn't enough for the fee so I decided to assist her actualize what she wanted she wanted to pay 150k for school fee she was able to raise 70k so I added 80k for her to pay up and thats just 70% of the school fee we all know how hard the country is after paying that money I became broke because the money I though I could use to manage myself wasn't available because I was having issues with omo onile on my site so I had to settle them and take care of the fencing so I had 40k with me so that was what I was planning to manage till the end of the month. My gf knowing well that I'm broke after paying her fee started asking me for money for hair after all that has happened so I told her to relax and wait I'm broke I want to manage what I have on me till next month then we can find a solution, she now volunteered to borrow me I told her no I don't want because the last one I borrowed from you you insulted me because I couldn't pay on time then she started acting up telling me everybody in her department was complaining she isn't making her hair this that I ignored all her talk later she did the hair her self and I didn't bother asking her where she got the money...
So fast forward to today being her birthday she is in school writing exam so she is doing her bitlrthday in school
Now before she was allowed to write this exam I paid another 40k to add to her school fee so she can be allowed to write her exam.
Now she was now telling me that she wants something from me for her bitlrthday I told her I'm broke ooo because I can't just leave my building project like that birthday comes and go we can celebrate some other time. That was how my gf started acting up the next thing she said was that what have I ever giving her ever since we have been dating that even her bitmrthday that passed I didn't do anything j just laughed I told her I didn't do anything right its now that I won't do anything again I would ignore you to the core you would come back that you want to pay school fee now I would wait here for you no problem

Lolz not on [NL ] seun house

Mikester:
This is what happens when a foolish man earns money. He forgets himself and gives his strength, time and money to women who doesn’t want him. Funny enough he thinks his money will buy her love and loyalty.

@op, love has no price, it comes naturally. If you dare believe all these "charitable works" you are doing will make her love or want you, you're in on a long thing. Women use men like your type to sustain their lifestyle and give their totality to guys who they chase.

What am I saying? If a woman doesn't indicate interest in you romantically, she isn't worth your investment. She sure doesn't love you else her incessant and inconsiderate demands. You, the mugu is the one in love. Blind love as a matter of fact.

If you're smart, you'll know that relationships are mostly temporary and giving much of yourself into it can mentally and financially destroy you. Best to use your brain now or she'll use it for you.

**spits**

lol calm down bro I ain't buying her love with money I know what I'm doing i would deal with her I've withdrew everything I'm doing for her I'm expecting her to call off the relationship as soon as possible my ex wasn't like this she is better than her my ex wasn't demanding like this but all these girls way dey outside now no get sense

Mr. Ebijimi7, you know what you are? You are an office. A mumu man

You left your project site to be building a woman's life. She has no family that can pay the fees for her? If you didn't give her that money she wouldn't go to school? Are you the one that has been paying from the day she got admission?

And then you have her 80k to complete and make 150k and you still have her 40k again. Baba o. Tuale

Why would u even pay her school fees in d first place ,are you her father ? So if she hadn't met you ,she wouldn't have paid her school fees abi, bro the girl is only using u to get funds for real ,anoda nigga out there be banging d hell outta her and he ain't giving her a dime, yet she gon be acting like a fool round such guy ,
There say wey one guy dey treat woman like egg anoda guy dey fry am chop
Get you an independent woman dat wouldn't ask for much ,not those hungry girls out there ,my last relationship,,my ex was an hairdresser, she only demanded little ,we understood each other very well ,we understood our pockets ,sometimes sef na she dey buy foodstuffs wey we go chop for like a month or two
Wetin make we break up na distance I had to move to abj to chase paper ,we still dey vibe till today.
Take charge man ,get u a real woman not these hungry hoes.

OP with due respect, you are a foolish man that doesn't prioritize things.

Is your girlfriend an orphan? Don't she have parents to cater for her education? While it isn't bad to support her education, it was foolish to do that at the expense of your project, living and life. If you plan marrying her, then why not marry her FIRST or impregnate her before shouldering her schooling responsibilities? I just hope she isn't taking you for a fool that you are.

See, your priority should be your own development. If you sacrifice your own future and project for a woman's education, she will turnaround tomorrow and tell you that you are no longer her level. The wise thing is for every 1000 naira you spend on a woman, ensure that you already spent 100,000 naira on your own development/project. That way, she won't feel like she has outgrown you.

Furthermore, it is obvious that your girl is the type that values her fashion (materialism) and cares about people's opinion and validation rather than her future, your future and development.

Meanwhile, the problem in the relationship is YOU not her. You must take a stand, be firm, take charge of your life and relationship, and NEVER sacrifice your project/development in order to please a woman.

Sebi you're her father, continue na

MikeofKd:
Why would u even pay her school fees in d first place ,are you her father ? So if she hadn't met you ,she wouldn't have paid her school fees abi, bro the girl is only using u to get funds for real ,anoda nigga out there be banging d hell outta her and he ain't giving her a dime, yet she gon be acting like a fool round such guy ,
There say wey one guy dey treat woman like egg anoda guy dey fry am chop
Get you an independent woman dat wouldn't ask for much ,not those hungry girls out there ,my last relationship,,my ex was an hairdresser, she only demanded little ,we understood each other very well ,we understood our pockets ,sometimes sef na she dey buy foodstuffs wey we go chop for like a month or two
Wetin make we break up na distance I had to move to abj to chase paper ,we still dey vibe till today.
Take charge man ,get u a real woman not these hungry hoes.

The OP get money to throw,, some guys no go ever get sense..if u like pour 50 litres of anointing oil for their head

Person open thread for person to bash him babe. Them come bash am. Wetin we go call this one

Speechless

As men, if we will be very sincere,we would all agree that there is nothing in sex and women. Sex is overated, and it does not deserve the amount of attention we pay to it. Have a grip of your sexual appetites!

wickedness just dey dia blood

Have you read about men who paid school fees for women in the past ? Their brains don't recognize sacrifices you made to pay their fees.

A man can pay N5,000 for that her hair and sleep with her.

You are building house and giving woman money. Not your wife.

Stop impressing women, guys won't hear.

Never pay unnecessary money for a woman especially the ones in school,they are mostly interested in material things and once a man stops being able to provide such,they are gone

I see no reason why you should pay her fees,I also see no reason why u should tolerate a woman who insults you because you borrowed something from her...you guys need to start having abundance mentality instead of settling with one woman,if she is not acting good enough,dump her sorry ass and move on,there are millions of girls out there
Let them call u stingy,u own your money and nobody,not even your mother should manipulate you into giving it out,there are men who work more than 10 hours a day to earn just 4000naira and they will spend half on work necessities that day...be smart,if u go broke today,they will avoid u like a plague

red pillers, make una still dey teach these guys na, I don Taya for girlfriend and money matter.

Rule 1, Never explain yourself to a person you are not responsible for why you can’t afford their demands unless it’s an emergency that you verified, or they’ve also been generous to you in the past.

Things like fixing hair are not emergencies, if you can’t afford it tell her you don’t have and stop there. don’t go overboard explaining yourself. It makes you feel responsible and makes her entitled.

You would have lent her the 80k not dash her outrightly, even if you can afford to dash her, tell her you are lending her to gauge the kind of person she is. You couldn’t even afford to lend her yet you dashed her, you’ve given her the notion that she’s a priority.

Daddy yo,she don see mugu na. Naso one gal wey I don bang tire dey reason say I be mugu,say make I open shop for am,ozwo. Who go stock up the shop,make i give am 100k. Bitch n me be your papa,I say ok. J dropped her off,count 4k from my fat wallet wey no gree fold. The moment I see u a digger,I place u on my data budget a week, 3k 4k. I won't feel any loss, I will never give any bich money higher than 10k and b4 u go see that 10k na like 1 year. 3k 4k is ok 4u. Bich . That's y I don't bug myself on campus ho's, I saw enuf in uniben. Just bang them,don't get emotional.

This legend needs to be going around boys secondary schools and sharing this story. Our younger generations need to see a legend mumu physically and not just read about them online. It will help them in making decisions on time not to end up being mumus.

Typical idiot...... Sometimes I wonder if men like this are Nigerians.

Who doesn't like free money.....no be only oyinbo be Maya oo.....we have foolish Nigerian men that are black maya.

Never give in to demands from women....never sacrifice for women..your sacrifices are like an obligation to them..they dont value your sacrifices...OP you made a mistake by helping that leech..you think she'll come back to you and beg when already she has another idiot footing her Bill? Run away from materialistic women, they'll ruin you...

I've come to a conclusion that the world of women is perpetually filled with chaos and unhappiness....women dont want to be happy...they like to be unhappy.....as a man never allow them bring you into their world of chaos and unhappiness..

break up with her and move on. Don't date year one to three hundred level girls. always look for final year girls they're desperate for marriage. How can you break up with someone because you found someone better. nobody is perfect we manage each other.

2shaw:
Daddy yo,she don see mugu na. Naso one gal wey I don bang tire dey reason say I be mugu,say make I open shop for am,ozwo. Who go stock up the shop,make i give am 100k. Bitch n me be your papa,I say ok. J dropped her off,count 4k from my fat wallet wey no gree fold. The moment I see u a digger,I place u on my data budget a week, 3k 4k. I won't feel any loss, I will never give any bich money higher than 10k and b4 u go see that 10k na like 1 year. 3k 4k is ok 4u. Bich . That's y I don't bug myself on campus ho's, I saw enuf in uniben. Just bang them,don't get emotional.

true talk..boss i fit pm you?

ebijimi7:
Good day guys, please before I proceed why on the reason why I'm creating this thread I want you to know that there might be typos and please don't mind my grammar also no insult too please.
Ok here we go.
I am a young guy I broke up with my ex almost 3 years now so I moved on with another girl that I believed was better than my ex, when we started everything was going smoothly and sweet until she started showing up some attitude of lack of understanding fast forward to what happened .
My gf wanted to pay her school fee she raised some fund but wasn't enough for the fee so I decided to assist her actualize what she wanted she wanted to pay 150k for school fee she was able to raise 70k so I added 80k for her to pay up and thats just 70% of the school fee we all know how hard the country is after paying that money I became broke because the money I though I could use to manage myself wasn't available because I was having issues with omo onile on my site so I had to settle them and take care of the fencing so I had 40k with me so that was what I was planning to manage till the end of the month. My gf knowing well that I'm broke after paying her fee started asking me for money for hair after all that has happened so I told her to relax and wait I'm broke I want to manage what I have on me till next month then we can find a solution, she now volunteered to borrow me I told her no I don't want because the last one I borrowed from you you insulted me because I couldn't pay on time then she started acting up telling me everybody in her department was complaining she isn't making her hair this that I ignored all her talk later she did the hair her self and I didn't bother asking her where she got the money...
So fast forward to today being her birthday she is in school writing exam so she is doing her bitlrthday in school
Now before she was allowed to write this exam I paid another 40k to add to her school fee so she can be allowed to write her exam.
Now she was now telling me that she wants something from me for her bitlrthday I told her I'm broke ooo because I can't just leave my building project like that birthday comes and go we can celebrate some other time. That was how my gf started acting up the next thing she said was that what have I ever giving her ever since we have been dating that even her bitmrthday that passed I didn't do anything j just laughed I told her I didn't do anything right its now that I won't do anything again I would ignore you to the core you would come back that you want to pay school fee now I would wait here for you no problem

She's ingrate...How do you guys meet hungry zzor like types of girls. How can you be poor and also not be appreciative?

Quit the relationship, nothing good can come out of it.

No girlfriend no problem idowest awa mafia
If you're single stop searching nakademus

What the fuccck did I just read?

Don't stop spending on her. In fact, sell that your land and house and give her the money just to make her happy. Shebi you're foolish. It's your type that goes about badmouthing the RED PILL.

It's good those daughters of Eve deal with you. You will soon learn your hard lessons.

May I never have a son like you. You're the real definition of hardcore SIMP.

smh

Op, you will learn the hard way.. The one that did me strong thing is getting married this Saturday, Na 30k she scam me, telling me she needs it urgently to sort out school fees and she would return it the next week, wetin man go do I cannot but give benefit of the doubt and lend her, so many excuses not knowing she was dating someone and just wanted to use that as her chopping my money cos I told her when we started I don't waste money on unnecessary things which she agreed on, several other lies and I did help the little way I can but all less than 50k.. Time will tell in all things..
@OP,there are good ones but where you eff up is letting her know you are working on a building project, someone you are not married to..

Another girl story

May we never watered the wrong seed.






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