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maasoap:
You said that was for me. I would have loved to address the comment but I don't really understand how it was meant for me, honestly. I read it twice but I still didn't get it. Thanks.

Once again, I'm not a fan of brutalising kids. I went through that shiity process and I realised that it wasn't the best way to raise kids. Me passing through it didn't mean that it was great.

mrdharkchild:
I went through a missionary school and I OK /certify that flogging and punishments as means of proper discipline.
Before you get into a missionary school or a minor seminary, prepare your mind that you are sending your child to a correctional facility.
Those marks are even small self. It'll heal in no time.
If it's a student that flogs u like that, the school has a disciplinary committee, direct it to them, than share the pics and bring the matter to the internet. This will only facilitate your expulsion.
Missionary schools is a military school in disguise, where u learn perseverance, discipline, as a man.
Indomie generations would never understand. All they care about is defaming and sabotaging the names of missionary schools. but to what end?
For once the discipline never killed me.
It only made us stronger, and taught us to device means to survive (SOHK).
I fought, I scavenged for food, I took a swollen eye, a swollen face, monkey yansh, slaps, velentino belts, koboko, wire, nepa wire, wood... Name them. I won most fights, I lost some, broken wrists. Learnt how to bend rules, not break them. It was an adventure you can never take out of my life.
When I complained to my parents and they kept me mute, then I knew what I signed up for, the plan was to aim for SS3, or get a school father. It was like a game of Chess and cards.
You can either decide to pay attention to instructions, or suffer d consequences.
Your parents signed u up for it.
If not, take your kids to other schools.
Missionary schools r for discipline. Same as military schools.
No priest is a devils incarnate.
Check your forms of undertaking.

I went through lumen Christi, uromi.
Commisioners and top politicians usually dump their kids in my school, even some kids from abroad, to b corrected.

From my jss1 till SSS1 I was hated and flogged, the picture posted above is a child's play flogging.
I encouraged myself, consoled myself, learnt alot of lessons from that school.
I don't have a single Cain or koboko or wire mark on my body today.

We even learnt how to persevere with the punishments and bear the pain, and even turned it to a joke.
When flogged, we'd bone (which is d word we used back then) the cane, it became fun. And for 6years.
Today I use those punishments as exercise in my early mornings.

We learnt how to manage suffering, because it is by suffering that character is birthed.
This generation don't know how to manage when suffering, it's y many marriages, when the men lose their source of income, the woman leaves.

This generation, at the slightest frustrations and discomfort, they feed it to the internet to defame others and spread spiteful rumors and most especially, commit suicide.

We r men, we were built to b strong and masculine.
If you don't know how to take a Cain, how to fight, how to take a punch, how to manage pain, how to frog jump, how to be tough, then try the feminine gender.
Thank u.

luminouz:
I showed you the benefits of training your child. Sometimes, stubborn children need the cane,it's not the beating per se,but the process of recognising that they did wrong and you let them know every action has consequences.

On your second paragraph, if you went through that SHITTY process while young, I shudder to think of what you put your parents and teachers through. You prolly frustrated the life out of them and here you are giving me the impression that

YOU WERE BEATEN BACAUSE YOU WERE INNOCENT . No one beats a well behaved child, no one.

luminouz:
My parents are teachers, so please just keep it moving.

I don't agree with your views. No be by force.

maasoap:
You guys need to pick up materials on how to acquire normal parenting skill and do away with that animalistic way of raising kids. It serves you, the kids or the society no good.



I wasn't even close to being troublesome or stubborn in my childhood or teen years. But let me give one or two instances and tell me if that didn't happen to you too.
One: my first day at a new school, sss one. Didn't know it was agric day when students are mandated to cut grass. I didn't bring my cutlass. The VP didn't listen to my explanation, went ahead and gave a torn back skin with lashes.
Two: in my primary one. A teacher saw me outside the class, he wouldn't listen to my explanation. Ended up giving me a torn back skin.
Those animals didn't know the difference between discipline and torture/inflicting pain



Beaten is one thing, brutalising is another thing. You could be beat a kid without inflicting damage on him. But in Nigeria as many of you were raised to believe it, discipline or lashing a kid without causing him or her injury is not beaten.

maasoap:
Do they brutalise other kids like the ones seen in the picture?
If yes, do they brutalise you and your siblings too, like the one in the pic? You don't have to answer my question because I know the answer.



You don't need to. But it won't slide.

illicit:
I am d dealer ....

moyosore32:
ok noted

danny360:
I wonder if you would have said that, if your son or brother was the one in that picture. Local African mentality. You don't try this nonsense in other countries.

heendrix:
Nigga felt nothing na or he complain take give you??

mrdharkchild:
I went through a missionary school and I OK /certify that flogging and punishments as means of proper discipline.
Before you get into a missionary school or a minor seminary, prepare your mind that you are sending your child to a correctional facility.
Those marks are even small self. It'll heal in no time.
If it's a student that flogs u like that, the school has a disciplinary committee, direct it to them, than share the pics and bring the matter to the internet. This will only facilitate your expulsion.
Missionary schools is a military school in disguise, where u learn perseverance, discipline, as a man.
Indomie generations would never understand. All they care about is defaming and sabotaging the names of missionary schools. but to what end?
For once the discipline never killed me.
It only made us stronger, and taught us to device means to survive (SOHK).
I fought, I scavenged for food, I took a swollen eye, a swollen face, monkey yansh, slaps, velentino belts, koboko, wire, nepa wire, wood... Name them. I won most fights, I lost some, broken wrists. Learnt how to bend rules, not break them. It was an adventure you can never take out of my life.
When I complained to my parents and they kept me mute, then I knew what I signed up for, the plan was to aim for SS3, or get a school father. It was like a game of Chess and cards.
You can either decide to pay attention to instructions, or suffer d consequences.
Your parents signed u up for it.
If not, take your kids to other schools.
Missionary schools r for discipline. Same as military schools.
No priest is a devils incarnate.
Check your forms of undertaking.

I went through lumen Christi, uromi.
Commisioners and top politicians usually dump their kids in my school, even some kids from abroad, to b corrected.

From my jss1 till SSS1 I was hated and flogged, the picture posted above is a child's play flogging.
I encouraged myself, consoled myself, learnt alot of lessons from that school.
I don't have a single Cain or koboko or wire mark on my body today.

We even learnt how to persevere with the punishments and bear the pain, and even turned it to a joke.
When flogged, we'd bone (which is d word we used back then) the cane, it became fun. And for 6years.
Today I use those punishments as exercise in my early mornings.

We learnt how to manage suffering, because it is by suffering that character is birthed.
This generation don't know how to manage when suffering, it's y many marriages, when the men lose their source of income, the woman leaves.

This generation, at the slightest frustrations and discomfort, they feed it to the internet to defame others and spread spiteful rumors and most especially, commit suicide.

We r men, we were built to b strong and masculine.
If you don't know how to take a Cain, how to fight, how to take a punch, how to manage pain, how to frog jump, how to be tough, then try the feminine gender.
Thank u.

illicit:
Well no matter what, I don't support Corporal punishment but what if a student assaults a staff....

Aketi2:
A typical catholic priest is the devils incarnate. Forget about their appearance as pious men, its all fake. I have read many testimony of Catholics especially in Europe. The one that shook me most was the 12 year old girl that was sent to convent to become a Nun.

luminouz:
Why not train your child like you want and leave him to train his like he wants.

I believe in the 'spare the rod and spoil the child' narrative

Pemisire2020:
The principal and the teacher are under the influence of Marijuana �

Farki:
Deuteronomy 21:18-21

If a man have a stubborn and rebellious son, which will not obey the voice of his father, or the voice of his mother, and that, when they have chastened him, will not hearken unto them:

Then shall his father and his mother lay hold on him, and bring him out unto the elders of his city, and unto the gate of his place;

And they shall say unto the elders of his city, This our son is stubborn and rebellious, he will not obey our voice; he is a glutton, and a drunkard.

And all the men of his city shall stone him with stones, that he die: so shalt thou put evil away from among you; and all Israel shall hear, and fear.

khia:
Spare the rod doesn't mean abuse the child sweetie. Would you allow someone to beat your baby girl like that?

luminouz:
Have one for me first.

khia:
Ok, but when?

luminouz:
Lol,this year!!!

khia:
Ooooh Chile. What's the rush? We have to spend some time together without kids to get to know each other first, maybe do some traveling.

lecowas:
How long do we have to live in this world, do we have to spend the little days we have in pains and suffering? Most kids hate education because of the epistles u have written above, still it doesn’t make u the strongest man or the richest man on earth . Mtcheeew

khia:
Catholicism is the most evil religion on Earth, it's difficult to tell the difference between Catholicism and Satanism. This is what I heard, do you agree?

EJEHSON:
Why condemn the whole church because the attitude of few? Is it not in your so called business centers called church that pastors where caught several times sleeping with people's wife, stealing church money and committing other atrocities? Anything about Catholic church de pain una enter una born, una no de tire? Continue the hate, the church will continue to grow. There is no organization where everyone is perfect, in every twelve, there is always a Judas. LEAVE THE CATHOLIC CHURCH ALONE.

khia:
Catholicism is the most evil religion on Earth, it's difficult to tell the difference between Catholicism and Satanism. This is what I heard, do you agree?

Aketi2:
Its true.

In one story, a Nun was made to sleep in a casket throughout the night in order to move to the next level. The more evil the Nun is, the more she grows in the order.