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Re: Many Ladies Are Lonely In Europe by MrCuteAndLoaded: 1:09am On Mar 25, 2021
mofedamijo:


Sorry boss, hope you're fine though?? God, jux look at what she's doing to you.... Damn.

Thanks my fellow Nairalader. I have left all to God. infact they wanted to freeze my account for child support but thank God I cryptoed all my money so they cant have access. Thankfully it paid off as i got 5 times more after selling later when i moved to Naija

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Re: Many Ladies Are Lonely In Europe by MrCuteAndLoaded: 1:12am On Mar 25, 2021
psyco:
why olopa no hear your side? Which kain yeye be dat?
Till today i wish i could provude answer to that. Yankee truly na woman country o. U no see wetin dem do Mr Floyyd? RIP. Those olopas are devils
Re: Many Ladies Are Lonely In Europe by MrCuteAndLoaded: 1:14am On Mar 25, 2021
vhuqnl:

At this age, people still go to village to get wives? She never collect am. Nonsense. Why didn't you marry and keep her in Nigeria?
Big mistake on my side. Big regret indeed. I don learn nah...

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Re: Many Ladies Are Lonely In Europe by MrCuteAndLoaded: 1:15am On Mar 25, 2021
psyco:
why olopa no hear your side? Which kain yeye be dat?
Till today i wish i could provude answer to that. Yankee truly na woman country o. U no see wetin dem do Mr Floyyd? RIP. Those olopas are devils
Re: Many Ladies Are Lonely In Europe by luminouz(m): 2:03am On Mar 25, 2021
MrCuteAndLoaded:


Thanks my fellow Nairalader. I have left all to God. infact they wanted to freeze my account for child support but thank God I cryptoed all my money so they cant have access. Thankfully it paid off as i got 5 times more after selling later when i moved to Naija

What about ya kids? You don't have access to them too? Are you not going back again?

What is your wife now doing to cater for them? What of her family back in the village? Surely, she wouldn't do such without her folks knowing/agreeing to the plan?
Re: Many Ladies Are Lonely In Europe by generationz(f): 2:19am On Mar 25, 2021
eejo:
I noticed that many ladies are lonely in Europe and dying for companionship. The following reasons are responsible
1 Child care in Europe consume time and fund which many are not ready for.
2 Rape allegation can ruin your life thus Men are careful
3 long working hours which means less time for fun except holidays.
This normally get worse as they grow older and that is the reason scammers continue to reap this vulnerable women.

If women are single, men are also single, lol.

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Re: Many Ladies Are Lonely In Europe by CHoccolaTE: 3:52am On Mar 25, 2021
Cybercop2002:
the type of one you masturbate on

Why are all men obsessed with sex and sexual acts?
Disgusting people

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Re: Many Ladies Are Lonely In Europe by MrCuteAndLoaded: 4:11am On Mar 25, 2021
luminouz:


What about ya kids? You don't have access to them too? Are you not going back again?

What is your wife now doing to cater for them? What of her family back in the village? Surely, she wouldn't do such without her folks knowing/agreeing to the plan?
I speak with them on Whatsapp. Since she applied for a restraining order against me, just kidnapping the kids will be dangerous. Its 6 years imprisonment. I just hav to wait till they are 18 years. Meanwhile, I don dey plan to marry another one in Naija ensuring that i no bring am come Yankee. Also I will sign a prenup this time.

In a case like this, the Yankee govt will give her child credit about 300 dollars a week plus unemployment benefit also another 300 dollars plus the 3 kids stimulus payment - now u see y she did what she did

Her village people knew but what can they do. She is their bread winner and she threaten to cut off their supplies if they talk about the issue again. Mine was the 17th case out of the 26 similar issues like these that occured last year among African couples. In fact some men have come back to kill the women as u must have read in the news but as for me, there is hope. My hope is in my God and He alone will avenge my case.....

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Re: Many Ladies Are Lonely In Europe by Venom442: 5:01am On Mar 25, 2021
LINTUNE:
I hate it when u gals try to play ignorant, isn't false rape allegations and false sexual harassment accusations, the order of the day, Currently?.. haven't u heard of a man being accused of sexual assault, because he tapped a woman on the shoulder, something he did just to get her attention instead of shouting?...
it's very obvious that women, over there will always try to victimize men if given the opportunity, so don't pretend like u don't know..

Its because you're chasing them. If you stop chasing them. You'll see how miserable they're.

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Re: Many Ladies Are Lonely In Europe by Venom442: 5:22am On Mar 25, 2021
MrCuteAndLoaded:

Big mistake on my side. Big regret indeed. I don learn nah...


The village is not the problem. The problem is you that brought her to such Femicentric Countries.

Woman cannot handle power Shikena.

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Re: Many Ladies Are Lonely In Europe by MrCuteAndLoaded: 6:28am On Mar 25, 2021
Venom442:



The village is not the problem. The problem is you that brought her to such Femicentric Countries.

Woman cannot handle power Shikena.

So true
Re: Many Ladies Are Lonely In Europe by EMILO2STAY(m): 8:03am On Mar 25, 2021
baralatie:

you still being get the memo!
without the woman the man is functionless!

without the man the woman is functionless!

if a woman is lonely it automatically means the man is lonely!

action and reaction equal and opposite

there is no magic to invent in there

not true. without the woman the man is functional because his reason for existence is not for the woman but the without the man the woman is functionless because her reason for existence s the man. fact so stop beating about the Bush. Nicola Tesla attributed his success to abstainance from women. you seem not to understand the word functional

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Re: Many Ladies Are Lonely In Europe by luminouz(m): 8:18am On Mar 25, 2021
MrCuteAndLoaded:

I speak with them on Whatsapp. Since she applied for a restraining order against me, just kidnapping the kids will be dangerous. Its 6 years imprisonment. I just hav to wait till they are 18 years. Meanwhile, I don dey plan to marry another one in Naija ensuring that i no bring am come Yankee. Also I will sign a prenup this time.

In a case like this, the Yankee govt will give her child credit about 300 dollars a week plus unemployment benefit also another 300 dollars plus the 3 kids stimulus payment - now u see y she did what she did

Her village people knew but what can they do. She is their bread winner and she threaten to cut off their supplies if they talk about the issue again. Mine was the 17th case out of the 26 similar issues like these that occured last year among African couples. In fact some men have come back to kill the women as u must have read in the news but as for me, there is hope. My hope is in my God and He alone will avenge my case.....


Damn!!! But if she is a village girl, who taught her how to manipulate the system like that? She nevwr lived you sha

17th out of 26? shocked. Chai, those women are really mean. They let the freedom enter their heads and they bit the fingers that fed them.

Yes I heard of the men killing their wives. Very sad stories. I prolly would have done the same if I were you too.

Just take heart bro and yes,please marry another girl if you want to. Also contest the restraining order in court, at least so you can freely visit your kids.

One love

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Re: Many Ladies Are Lonely In Europe by Mrscarter(f): 8:24am On Mar 25, 2021
Mitishi:
You tried but the main reason you never mentioned. The fact that some of them choose to follow the Oyinbo culture of not respecting their husbands. Cheating is another issue, many of them like playing away games despite the fact that they are under a man. To mention but few. Any little provocation they will call police to come and push you out because of child benefit.

Lol that generalizing things.
Ive lived abroad n only some are that way.
No matter where u go everyone in that one country are not the same.
There are all kindsa ppl everywhere u go
Re: Many Ladies Are Lonely In Europe by baralatie(m): 8:48am On Mar 25, 2021
EMILO2STAY:


not true. without the woman the man is functional because his reason for existence is not for the woman but the without the man the woman is functionless because her reason for existence s the man. fact so stop beating about the Bush. Nicola Tesla attributed his success to abstainance from women. you seem not to understand the word functional

1 Corinthians 11:12, ESV: "for as woman was made from man, so man is now born of woman. And all things are from God."

1 Corinthians 11:12, KJV: "For as the woman is of the man, even so is the man also by the woman; but all things of God."
Re: Many Ladies Are Lonely In Europe by Nobody: 9:32am On Mar 25, 2021
MrCuteAndLoaded:


Na lie!...I live in diaspora and I sample 1 new lonely African woman everyweek! God bless the inventor of Instagram mehn! One even shed tears saying she was lonely when I ended it with her. Men are lone wolves by default. This is why you see cockerell mount chicken con dey go im own way...
This one burst my head!
Re: Many Ladies Are Lonely In Europe by LINTUNE(m): 10:39am On Mar 25, 2021
Venom442:


Its because you're chasing them. If you stop chasing them. You'll see how miserable they're.
oga use ur head na, do I look like someone that doesn't have better things to do with his time?
Re: Many Ladies Are Lonely In Europe by EndRape2(f): 10:50am On Mar 25, 2021
You are wrong again ,most guys go to Shiloh and camp to toast girls also, infact 90percent of them, it is just that male and female attend to things differently, men will not come out when there is an alter call, for
people that wants to get married, to them it is let down, but ladies will, most of the ladies coming out, have partners, but they want a serious guy,

The truth is, companionship has nothing to do with gender, as we grow old, we become lonely, most women with children will survive loneliness, have you ever wonder why most women with children will not remarry when their partner dies,that is because the children are enough companion, but men, will rush and remarry to cover that space of loneliness,. Mark my words most women will survive, with money and children, just the way you have girls ready to satisfy single men, same way there are gigolos that will wash a woman panties, and lick her feet.reason why most rich women will not tolerate nonsense from any marriage

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Re: Many Ladies Are Lonely In Europe by DEMZEE(m): 1:29pm On Mar 25, 2021
EndRape2:
This is incorrect please, use the word some, once a woman have children she can stay without a man, if she is very wealthy, the children becomes her companion, women need men for money, nothing more, men needs women more . Women with good social network, will not and can not, be lonely








uote author=DEMZEE post=100149767]

Men and women are fundamentally not equal

Having an emotional connection is a feminine imperative, that's why women celebrate weddings and getting married more than men

Men can b alone and still function

Women cant

Why does she need a network then of she can stay alone??
Re: Many Ladies Are Lonely In Europe by DEMZEE(m): 1:30pm On Mar 25, 2021
bukatyne:


grin cheesy grin cheesy grin cheesy grin cheesy

You need to upgrade redpill to 203

Men can't function alone either.

Men and women are better together than apart
Re: Many Ladies Are Lonely In Europe by DEMZEE(m): 1:31pm On Mar 25, 2021
baralatie:

you see am nau!
you see how you people spread falsehoods!

Even at that Adam (the man who received direct instructions) willingly and willfully sinned ,therefore his punishment.



Adam (for whom eve was made)that was suppose to be with Eve left her alone to be talking with snake? did God create Eve to be having discussion with snake?

Genesis 6:6 said that God regretted that he made man on earth because the thoughts of man was constantly evil.



If God didn't create that bitch called Eve, Adam won't have fallen though
Re: Many Ladies Are Lonely In Europe by DEMZEE(m): 1:32pm On Mar 25, 2021
Jaqenhghar:


...and who makes up the institutions? Aliens? Buildings?
Im not arguing about putting women in politics.

You have men leading yet even the men are second class citizens. In fact with all their feminism men still live better lives and live longer than in your "male led" society where men hold all the keys.

If You were given the option of living in your society or theirs we all know which you will choose

I will rather live in a conservative than stay in a progressive societies
Re: Many Ladies Are Lonely In Europe by BlueSparks: 2:23pm On Mar 25, 2021
Hmmmmm
Re: Many Ladies Are Lonely In Europe by Jaqenhghar: 2:35pm On Mar 25, 2021
DEMZEE:


I will rather live in a conservative than stay in a progressive societies

You act as if someone asked you to come live there?
There are conservative societies like Japan and Korea that's still functional and outperforms the western societies in many areas.
Then you have non functioning shitholes where you live in.
Re: Many Ladies Are Lonely In Europe by maasoap(m): 3:46pm On Mar 25, 2021
averageguy:


In general, my experience has been that in Europe, it's not as popular to find the sort of community you see in many parts of Nigeria where people know the names of everyone on their streets and you visit people without calling ahead.

That being said, I don't believe it affects ladies any differently from the guys. Reading through the thread in general, some people are trying to claim a cultural superiority in Nigeria because the culture in Europe generally does not subjugate women. So, of course, if you physically threatened or hit your wife, you have to leave the house for a while, or the system acknowledges that a spouse is typically the backbone supporting a person's financial success and therefore, the wealth is divided if they split. I can see how that threatens our general beliefs in Nigeria and I think people are just clinging to the perceived superiority of the general Nigerian culture.

And sometimes, a while can become permanent.
And sometimes, "he threatened me" is just a ploy to get you thrown out forever
Re: Many Ladies Are Lonely In Europe by maasoap(m): 4:41pm On Mar 25, 2021
Jaqenhghar:


...and who makes up the institutions? Aliens? Buildings?
Im not arguing about putting women in politics.

You have men leading yet even the men are second class citizens. In fact with all their feminism men still live better lives and live longer than in your "male led" society where men hold all the keys.

If You were given the option of living in your society or theirs we all know which you will choose

The only problem we have here is corruption and lack of patriotism. Nigeria social and cultural setting is way better.
Re: Many Ladies Are Lonely In Europe by EMILO2STAY(m): 4:59pm On Mar 25, 2021
baralatie:


1 Corinthians 11:12, ESV: "for as woman was made from man, so man is now born of woman. And all things are from God."

1 Corinthians 11:12, KJV: "For as the woman is of the man, even so is the man also by the woman; but all things of God."

Mr beat about the Bush, you don't have any argument here and your point is baseless.
Re: Many Ladies Are Lonely In Europe by Jaqenhghar: 5:19pm On Mar 25, 2021
maasoap:


The only problem we have here is corruption and lack of patriotism. Nigeria social and cultural setting is way better.

The problem is the culture you speak of, you dont practice it anymore /as it should be practiced
What you have is a corrupted version of the culture where you use it only when its convenient for you.
Our culture frowns on stealing. But today we hail thieves and call them sharp guys.
We don't speak our languages
Even the traditional names its no longer attractive to have traditional names.
So what culture exactly are you talking of that is better?

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Re: Many Ladies Are Lonely In Europe by PENIEL2018(m): 6:34pm On Mar 25, 2021
A similar thing happened to a man in his early fifties, if you see him you wouldn't believe he had lived in Switzerland for 13 years. We met at my place while waiting for a friend of his in my compound. Although, he is a prolific writer who has written a lot of romance,crime and military stories but he suffered and endured a lot of domestic violence from his then Swiss wife when he was there.

Talking about domestic violence, he said his wife would slap him severally on his cheeks when angry,he would defend himself when the slaps would be unbearable by holding her two wrists but this would be his undoing as she would call the cops on him that he had hit her on her wrists as the region of the wrists held would have turned pinkish because of her fair skin. The Cops would believe her ,arrest, detain and later release him.

On sexual matters, he sleeps with her twice daily even after coming back from work and he must not complain of fatigue else, she calls the cops that her husband was denying her sex. In addition to this, his wife's friends do come to him for sexual romps too which he must not deny them: because his wife had told them of his bedroom skills which they in turn woul come behind her to ascertain for themselves. I asked him how he managed to do this and he said 'my everyday major food then was unleavened bread,whole roasted chicken washed down with a bottle of fresh cow milk because most of their foods were junks'. That the men over there are dependent on Viagra drugs to enhance their man power but the ladies like African men who are loving and naturally good in bed.

Thirdly, he would always serve her tea/ biscuits every morning before he leaves for work while she would still be in bed. He bathes,feeds, clothes and takes their only daughter to the nanny. When he comes back from work, he washes the dirty dishes and tidies the house.

At last, it was his wife that had the cops to arrest him while going to work one early morning. He was arrested in the bus and later deported back to Nigeria. He is married to a Nigerian and blessed with three kids. His then wife still disturbs him till now that she still loves him that she would love to come to Nigeria and meet his Nigerian wife and kids which he bluntly told her there was no way it will happen.

To corroborate his stories, he showed me his wife's, daughter's pics and some of his pics while he was in Switzerland.

Its real.

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Re: Many Ladies Are Lonely In Europe by DestroyEvil: 7:11pm On Mar 25, 2021
vhuqnl:

You hate yourself so much cos you are gay. Hating others won't stop you from being gay, it will only compound your problem. You small dicked faggotic element

Senseless sodomite rotten anus bitch-ass maggot Farggot! ThunderFire of CREATOR of Humanity shall shatter you to pieces after the order of Sodom and Gomorrah if you dare mention me again!

Demon enslaved sad souls known as pooh-men!
Deceived dragon-queens, Satan told you that you are gay and proud to be part of the Pride because he knows that "Pride goeth before your destruction!"
Re: Many Ladies Are Lonely In Europe by baralatie(m): 7:37pm On Mar 25, 2021
EMILO2STAY:
Mr beat about the Bush, you don't have any argument here and your point is baseless.
ditto as before described

1 Corinthians 11:12, ESV: "for as woman was made from man, so man is now born of woman. And all things are from God."

1 Corinthians 11:12, KJV: "For as the woman is of the man, even so is the man also by the woman; but all things of God."
Re: Many Ladies Are Lonely In Europe by DEMZEE(m): 9:27pm On Mar 25, 2021
Jaqenhghar:


You act as if someone asked you to come live there?
There are conservative societies like Japan and Korea that's still functional and outperforms the western societies in many areas.
Then you have non functioning shitholes where you live in.

So wats ur point??

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