When it comes to relationships or picking a partner for marriage, most Nigerians have a long list of preferences and what they want their spouses to possess in order to make a perfect partner.

Men have want their women to be respectful, beautiful, caring, bold and hard-working before they can consider them as "wife materials". This ideology often make some men to be too selective and usually end up being single even in their forties.

What about the women? Nigerian girls are very complicated people and their idea of an "ideal" husband might depend on age.

A teenage girl or one in her early twenties would want a fun guy, the party type that would take her places to have fun on weekends. Any guy that behaves like a husband to a girl of these age bracket will surely be disappointed as her lifestyle and mentality might be too over-whelming for him. These kinds of ladies prefer play boys and fun lovers at the moment.

Since we're talking about ladies who are choosing the kind of men they want to spend the rest of their lives with, let's get down to the point.

What do ladies mean when they say they want a "God-fearing" man?

First let's describe who a God-fearing man is. A person who is God-fearing is an overly religious person who sees nothing more important than his relationship with God. These people are try to live as holy as they can and often times, treats all people with love and respect equally. These kind of people don't lay much emphasis on romance or being a "great husband" and treat their spouses equally with the way they treat other people outside.

Now, with the above description is there any Nigerian woman that would want that kind of man? Many would cringe at the mere idea of marrying a pastor so as not to appear wearing gowns that they wouldn't normally wear.

No Nigerian woman would want to share her husband's love and affection with anyone and clearly, intimacy is a vital ingredient in marriage that must be shown as often as possible so as to keep the bond strong.

Some Nigerian women would likely cheat or even loath on her "God-fearing" husband because well, that isn't what she had hoped for.

So in summary, what people actually mean when they tell you that they want a "God-fearing man" is actually "I want a Good man''.

"I don't want someone who's too religious".

So the question is, why do we say one thing and mean another?.

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LMS1:
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I expected this from a female.

Don't even think I read,yeye dy smell all over this post

Zzor:
Don't even think I read,yeye dy smell all over this post

lazy youth

Everyone is a good depending on how you see them...

BonaMagnate:

I expected this from a female.

how do you expect me to answer this

BonaMagnate:

I expected this from a female.

how do you expect me to answer this

LMS1:
Op Answer This Ones First:
Why Did Mark Zuckerbeg Named It Facebook When Its Actually Not A Book Nor A Face?
Why Do We Call It Nairaland When Its Actually Not A Plot Of Land Or A Naira Note?
Why Did They Call It 'Change' When They Ment To Say 'Crippling The Economy' ?
Op Go Back And Study Your History Book.

how do u expect me to answer this

LMS1:
Op Answer This Ones First:
Why Did Mark Zuckerbeg Named It Facebook When Its Actually Not A Book Nor A Face?
Why Do We Call It Nairaland When Its Actually Not A Plot Of Land Or A Naira Note?
Why Did They Call It 'Change' When They Ment To Say 'Crippling The Economy' ?
Op Go Back And Study Your History Book.

hmmmm

Most senseless post I’ve read today

Glory596:
Most senseless post I’ve read today

I dey tell you the truth!

thank God say I no read the the write up based on the comments.

Most ladies would find God fearing man to be "boring".
He is too easy to be predicted and too straight forward.

when a Nigerian lady says she wants a god-fearing man its simply; she wants a man who will not cheat on her, not say a word if she cheats likewise.
a man who can accept her d way she is.
a man who can provide all her unending needs.

infact in summery, a woman needs a man she can easily punish.

They want a man that wouldn't cheat with Dangote's bank account,Wizkid face and yahoo boy spending mentality,simple!
But its very difficult to find all these in one man so they are content with the Dangote's bank account as long as he spends like a fool

Anfield247:

I dey tell you the truth!

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Glory596:
Most senseless post I’ve read today

only for you but not for others

Omoh

blazepascal:


So the question is, why do we say one thing and mean another?.

Because they are women.

First is that I didn't read.
Second is that when a woman from Nigeria talks of God fearing man, she mean, a man that does all her biddens ,put differently, she want a SIMP

Zzor:
Don't even think I read,yeye dy smell all over this post

Even to read..na work for you

When ladies say they want A God-fearing man, I think they really mean to say they just need a normal man, a good man. Like they don't want a man who cheats, steals, or have any questionable behavior, it's their way of making their preference... It's not like they would love you if you are churchy or have this Brother John look, as matter of fact, they'll run from you... They don't like it when you're religious, not to talk of overly

Please check my signature, thank you

They need God fearing Huspuppi

Ok

A new day, a new post about Nigerian girls. Seems you guys are too obsessed with your ladies.


I wonder how many of their photos y'all masturbate to on a daily basis. Easy, else you develop a heart attack.