JustforMen:


There are more poor men in Africa than anywhere else on earth, so how do I understand your argument?
Poor, mediocre and average, in fact completely useless women, still gain the same with any other woman in the institution of marriage.
I still don't see what a man gains even with your argument which suggests that if a man does not have wealth, then he deserves to suffer.
Another double standard against the man who marries the usually broke, dependent leeches without requiring them to have money and even if they have money, it is for their own selves alone! most women are broke anyway...I did not say ALL because an insignificant percentage still dey try get some money without men.

That is why poor and average men should not even think about women or having serious relationships with women. Those men should Rather focus on increasing their value and understanding women's sexual mating strategy and womens nature and know game.

Poor and average men don't deserve the pussy man

DEMZEE:


Exactly bro

U come first
Ur purpose second
She comes third

Never pedestalize ur woman or any fucking bitch

if a man is doing well, it is women who will chase you and you will not lack for women chasing you wanting a piece of your pie!!

Nnatuu:
Well...

This is the reason I have been contemplating on starting a wife renting business. Because this people have no business staying permanently in a mans house.

Their original intention is to use you and dump you either systematically or directly.

And what does the man benefit...nothing but a title, “head of the house”

Head kor Foot ni...

Mtcheeew!

Abi ooooo

isthatso:


if a man is doing well, it is women who will chase you and you will not lack for women chasing you wanting a piece of your pie!!

Exactly

Because women love opportunistically

Marry if you can afford it.
Marriage is a business.

xynerise:


Culture didn't change. People changed.

And what changes the people?

Excesslove222:
What a man gains? Let me list a few:

He gains coming back home everyday to a well prepared meal.
He gains children that bear his ancestral name.
He gains a prayer warrior.
He gains a listening ear to all his life problems.
He gains someone to brainstorm and plans his future with.
He gains someone to help him raise his children.
He gains a “home”

Even if you insist children are a woman’s gain...they still bear the man’s name, if they become someone in the future, nobody would remember their mothers surname.

I can go on and on...

BLOODY LIAR!!!!!

DEMZEE:


That is why poor and average men should not even think about women or having serious relationships with women. Those men should Rather focus on increasing their value and understanding women's sexual mating strategy and womens nature and know game.

Poor and average men don't deserve the pussy man

Poor and average is a very relative standard... and is not even an objective measure. what level of wealth qualifies one to be poor and average?
reading one single book on mating strategy will leave room for misapplication. Even monkeys and dogs get pussy why not a man just because he is 'poor and average' ... poor and average by whose standards?
Well, the irony of your argument is that poor and average people get more pussy than any other category of men. As evidence, you see population explosion in poor and average populations.
Infact, average and poor people dont struggle to get pussy at all and sometimes they even get it from women who pay them to give them.

I still want to know what a man is designed to gain in marriage that is worth all the suffering he goes through.

Bornsinner7:
Nothing! Nothing!!

The woman gains everything.. her title changes from Miss to Mrs.. the man remain Mr before and after marriage..

If anything should happen in the marriage.. the law favours the woman for the kids to be with her while the man goes back to bachelorhood

It is finance? you hear ratio like 90/10.. 70/10.. 80/20 where the man takes the bigger responsibility..

It is sex?? the ladies just lay there and the man does the work like an unpaid slave.. no pleasure just thrust thrust then cum.. sometimes he has to beg the entire family and even the king of her village before he can even taste it

God bless you brother
You have seen beyond the physical

Cerebrocrust:
Everything.



Don't you guys have work to do?

Just come online to talk about women. Seriously appalling

so ,do you want us to talk about men ,we are not a gay

JustforMen:


Poor and average is a very relative standard... and is not even an objective measure. what level of wealth qualifies one to be poor and average?
reading one single book on mating strategy will leave room for misapplication. Even monkeys and dogs get pussy why not a man just because he is 'poor and average' ... poor and average by whose standards?
Well, the irony of your argument is that poor and average people get more pussy than any other category of men. As evidence, you see population explosion in poor and average populations.
Infact, average and poor people dont struggle to get pussy at all and sometimes they even get it from women who pay them to give them.

I still want to know what a man is designed to gain in marriage that is worth all the suffering he goes through.

Poor men and average men get only one pussy but high value men get as many pussies as possible.


Again men gain authority, dominance and responsibility. Especially high value men

mayberry1:
You are giving yourself excuses not to get married, if your Dad had thought this way I bet you wouldn't be here writing trash.

For your tiny mind you don off everybody with this silly point, dumb girl.

DEMZEE:


Poor men and average men get only one pussy but high value men get as many pussies as possible.


Again men gain authority, dominance and responsibility. Especially high value men

No, they get much more pussy at cheaper cost than the so called high value men... go to the so called ghettos and see how they fvck like rabbits. Multiple pussies from multiple women!

Feminism and society even in Nigeria, is fast eroding what men like you think you benefit from marriage. That is why I think his questions were not unfounded.

Dalil8:



Big fat lie

What of the ones wey marry good wives wey no still obtain favor nko?

calling your lord a liar. Ya sinned

DEMZEE:


There's nothing like a good woman

calling ya lord a liar.

maureensylvia:
Alot
More money
Better sex
Good health
Less depression
Should I continue?


Meanwhile read my signature

What do you mean by more money
Kindly elaborate

The Bible says a man that found a wife has found a good thing and OBTAIN FAVOUR FROM THE LORD...things you kids will never understand @ poster no offense please maybe your upbringing or family background makes you see a woman and marriage as trouble but believe me if a man has found the right woman, he has gotten something precious than gold and silver.

Freestainworld:
your Logic's doesn't make any sense,if they hadn't given birth to you, would you have been here reasoning like a toddler.

This hackneyed "If they hadn't given birth to you" line is not logic it is sentiment
Ancient sentiment handed down generationally. That does not make it logical or right

People are born because two other people fuccked and children are the consequence

It is the same for horses , dogs and goats

Many adults would have been better off if they had not been born


The simple truth is that Nature programmes ALL mammals to copulate and reproduce.
Nature gains there is nothing "LOGICAL" about it . People are just running the App Nature installed into them
On a purely rational and logical basis There is no gain to having children, indeed there is no gain to life.
That is why people develop religion to make that reality more palatable

Cutehector:
calling ya lord a liar.

WOMEN AND MEN ARE FUNDAMENTALLY DIFFERENT

WOMEN LOVE OPPORTUNISTICALLY

MEN LOVE IDEALISTICALLY

JustforMen:


No, they get much more pussy at cheaper cost than the so called high value men... go to the so called ghettos and see how they fvck like rabbits. Multiple pussies from multiple women!

Feminism and society even in Nigeria, is fast eroding what men like you think you benefit from marriage. That is why I think his questions were not unfounded.

Feminism is not eroding shit here Mr man.

Nigeria is still a patriarchal society

The thing is western men want Nigeria to b like the western societies, I don't know if it's envy though?? And I mean culture wise

maureensylvia:
Alot
More money
Better sex
Good health
Less depression
Should I continue?


Meanwhile read my signature

how will you list better sex,as if though I can't lash my girlfriend the more better than a man who's married lashes his wife

isthatso:
This is the question men should be asking themselves!! what exactly do you stand to gain? what do you get in marraige that you cant get outside of marraige? who does marraige benefit? How does being married benefit you except for the fact that youve been conditioned to think you must be married?

I’ve been thinking about this today. Everyday argument, nagging and spending. Mehn marriage is tiring and not really living up to the hype.

Excesslove222:
What a man gains? Let me list a few:

He gains coming back home everyday to a well prepared meal.
He gains children that bear his ancestral name.
He gains a prayer warrior.
He gains a listening ear to all his life problems.
He gains someone to brainstorm and plans his future with.
He gains someone to help him raise his children.
He gains a “home”

Even if you insist children are a woman’s gain...they still bear the man’s name, if they become someone in the future, nobody would remember their mothers surname.

I can go on and on...

Ancestral name ? Like Jonathan , Mohammed ?

That is an illusion

Coming home to a well prepared meal? You are joking right?

maureensylvia:
Alot
More money
Better sex
Good health
Less depression
Should I continue?


Meanwhile read my signature

Which yeye more money? You spend more!!
Sex ? Can you compare a bachelors sex life yo a married mans? Please you’ve got no clue.

If u are a real MAN u forget all these realities and just live the life and die a legend; It is written in the books of MEN::: 1. A man should never complain, 2. A man should in no circumstances complain, 3. A man should on no account and situation never complain.

This is who we are, this is what we were created for, complaining about all these won't change anything till forever comes... It is our calling to take responsibilities, bare pain and suffering and never complain... That's why we are superior species, that's why we are and will remain LEGENDS.

FalseProphet1:
The dark forces are gradually encroaching into this one's destiny, he's already reasoning like someone who's case is dead and buried, you will need serious flogging from my holy cane so that we can return your case back to factory settings. This I have seen.

longest time F. Prophet...

Escabado:
If you say s. ex : currently s.ex is the cheapest commodity you can buy now as low as N500 to N1000

If you say a child : how can a woman have sex with a man give birth , and she seats back waiting for the man to bring money for feeding, clothing , house bills . Which is called financial slavery

If you say been responsible : how can only a man be responsible for the children, and a woman who is a grown up adult . We're as both of them are supposed to be responsible for there family expenses.

Have u noticed when a man takes up all the financial responsibility of his home till the kids grow they only buy gift and cars for there mom.

Have you also noticed when a woman bear financial cost for raising her child , she will spoil there minds towards there father and make them see him as evil .have u ever seen a single mother that speaks good of his baby dady ? We need to use our head here .think very well men



So tell me exactly what a man stand to gain in marriage .

Your comment shows that you're of no use to your father. Just as you said that men have nothing to benefit from marriage.

Nothing,except for few kids that would always love their mother more than their father.

Just the kids aside that nothing more.

FuckThaMod:
Absolutely no gain i swear...
I could use IVF if i need a child..

Infact these women would take your peace instead, i pity married men of this generation.

Then who will take care of the child ?