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Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by Idaytesj29(m): 5:55pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
joycedap: They won't appoint matured and experienced people as advisers. Cos they won't lie like Lie Mohammed or Garba Sheu or Femi Adesina |
Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by YelloweWest: 5:58pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
BLOODYSPERM:Western society with their high divorce rate are a million times better than us. And yes, women empowerment will most likely lead to divorce because men don't behave well. Your ego needs to be checked before women are no longer dependent on men. The mordern women is with a man because she wants to be with him and not because of provision. Such women won't swallow shìt because she has the option to leave. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by Toearn: 5:58pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
Really |
Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by TheSupleemLeada(m): 5:59pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
KanuSE: There's more to life than women, get busy. |
Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by ImaIma1(f): 5:59pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
No beating is justified. If the woman should die in your hands, I hope your lawyer can argue for you in court that it is because she was a feminist. 2 Likes |
Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by TheRedpillguy: 6:00pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
Cocao: Yeah you keep telling yourself that. If you are the best thing in the world to have you would have been had already. People like you bring nothing but misery and even the kids you have you give up to the gov for indoctrination. You can know ur worth all day. It's ur mind, u can tell it anything. 1 Like |
Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by McSquishi(f): 6:02pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
ShaqFu: It is truth but one he should be ashamed to admit. |
Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by Nobody: 6:02pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
TheSupleemLeada: UAE that are very Patriachal in values are fvcking developed There is no statistics of systematic domestic violence in Nigeria, it is not an epidemic if not ladies won't be happy to marry, look at the staggering rate of fatherless children in Western Societies due to normalization of single motherhood 2 Likes |
Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by Nobody: 6:03pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
YelloweWest: What of Islamic strict Patriachal cultures in Arab nations are they not developed 2 Likes |
Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by sanpipita(m): 6:04pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
YelloweWest: Stop responding to idiots, with time they will learn if not by force. You wonder what's good about the Nigerian or even African family values What positives has it brought to the society at large 1 Like |
Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by Sokari29: 6:05pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
Deathforall:Leave this talk if finally him enter there sef Una go still complain... Nobody can satisfy Nigerians! even if God come b our president Una go still complain. |
Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by McSquishi(f): 6:05pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
I actually agree with him for the most part. Nigerian culture as it currently exists cannot accommodate feminism. Gender equality is at odds with how too many Nigerian men were raised. When you are raised to believe your maleness makes you superior to womankind, that women were created to serve you and revere you, of course the reality that you’ve been fed a lie will be resisted. The truth is that gender equality hurts Nigerian marriages because men are used to marrying women who marry them because of their lack of options. In the past women submitted out of fear, because of financial security and lack of education. Insecure men, who only feel superior due to their Instruments, cannot handle a woman who submits to them based on choice, contingent on his performance as a husband. It is true that Nigerian men use domestic violence as a way to control a woman. Because he is finding leading his home unbearable and he wasn’t trained properly how to lead with love. No one displayed to him what it means to be head. No one ever told him that a man is supposed to love his wife as his own body, to honor her as the weaker vessel. All he ever knew was the biblical quote about submission and never knew his responsibility was even greater, that he’s supposed to love in a Christ-like manner... A Nigerian man who is obsessed with proving his superiority would very much find a home where his wife doesn’t act as house help to be an abomination. To prove his superiority a Nigerian man might beats his wife to get her to submit because he is weak: he has lost control of his home and himself. A lot of Nigerian men claim they want women to be empowered and not a liability yet it is often the same group of men who hate the idea of gender equality. He’s right about sexual harassment. In Nigeria a superior can regularly sexually assault his female staff and he will never be called to task. Men feel free to harass women in Nigerian culture, even young girls, and fear no consequences. This is not a thing to be proud of, and labeling it “culture” makes your culture seem primitive. It interesting that he proudly says Black people don’t worship their women as whites do. Truthfully, let that African *man end up with a white woman, he will then begin worshipping. But y’all aren’t ready for that conversation... 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by TheRedpillguy: 6:05pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
Cocao: Yeah right. You can't love yourself. You probably abuse drugs, don't go to the gym, don't eat healthy. I can bet right now that u r fat, folding stomach and all. Men can actually do something for you, they can love you, cherish you , advice you on looking healthy, provide for you. You can sleep in his arms in the night and feel safe. But you not it. |
Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by Cocao(f): 6:05pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
TheRedpillguy: You know NOTHING |
Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by PrimadonnaO(f): 6:05pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
DEMZEE: You inferred what you inferred... and certainly not from my post. |
Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by Cocao(f): 6:06pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
TheRedpillguy: Looooooooooollllll |
Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by Nobody: 6:06pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
YelloweWest: That is why mordern women in Progressive Societies end up childless and with pets since they see men as equal We men if we want will search feminine , submissive cooperative women not pseudo-masculine hybrid beast women who want to be like men and still want to have a successful relationship |
Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by Nobody: 6:08pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
YelloweWest: |
Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by TheRedpillguy: 6:08pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
YelloweWest: Well Well. Am not sure any man wants to stay with one Woman forever. You need to change them as they get older . so basically they are doing Men a favor 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by YelloweWest: 6:08pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
BLOODYSPERM:Forget what u read on cnn o! Go live in countries like UAE and Saudi Arabia. Women in their numbers are at the top of management boards and govt agencies! |
Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by Nobody: 6:11pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
McSquishi: Women are Hypergamous They date and marry upwards or equals Successful independent and rich women will find no man of high value They are proud and mannerless Just look at Linda ikeji a bloody single mother who can't find any man but see million of rich men with wives 2 Likes |
Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by Nobody: 6:12pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
YelloweWest: So are they not in Nigeria Women make up 51% of our labor force and you all screaming oppression, Patriachy,slavery, inequality Nonsense 1 Like |
Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by TheRedpillguy: 6:13pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
Cocao: Heal! |
Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by Calitoscassius(m): 6:14pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
Komu1048:I hope you are including your mother, if you have a mother and sisters if you have any in this hate you have against women, you have to hate your own sisters and mother then again, I suspect you have not mother or sisters, you are a low self esteemed morron, who is afraid of independent women, you want women to lick your ass, worship you, you have nothing to offer a woman. I bet you are also an ugly, short, small and poor single man.. hopeless morrons like you ussually are. Start with kiiling your own mother, sisters and daughter. And oh! I am not a woman, i am a very confident man. Now go slit your throat. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by Exodora: 6:16pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
Food don done for them . |
Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by KanuSE: 6:16pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
TheSupleemLeada: Of course, you're right. 1 Like |
Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by McSquishi(f): 6:17pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
BLOODYSPERM: Are you really under the impression a rich woman can’t find a man? Lmao When a man in any Nigerian village will volunteer to be a rich woman’s slave just for a visa? C’mon. You’re not serious. As you said women practice hypergamy but once you are a rich woman the need to marry up is no longer relevant therefore reducing a woman’s “need” to marry. It also reduces the number of men eligible for her to marry if she’s looking to marry up. |
Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by hashtagged(m): 6:17pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
saphiere:The problem here is power balance and money comes with power. A man can only expect his wife to be submissive when she depends on his money. I have never seen rich ladies husband's disrespect them or expect submission. If you are a broke lady feminism is not for you except you nor wan marry. No one would respect you until you have money so work hard earn cash and stop being fodder. And all this dominance and recessiveness would stop 1 Like |
Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by ShaqFu: 6:17pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
McSquishi:Men this babe ehn. The truth is something no one should be ashamed of admitting. It is what it is. |
Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by Godszilla: 6:18pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
Obviously i cannot agree with all he said. why would you want to beat someone that is not your equal, but that is what is lost on the feminist we cant be equal but compliment each other. All the fingers on your hand aint equal each play it own part to perfection and they all make a perfect human hand. Why wonld anyone compare submission to love is just beyond reason. God ask of the woman the lesser task of submission not love still they are up in arms. If in your office your manager doesnt play the lose of his/her junior same as CEO wont play the role of a manager the roles are define and if every play their role perfectly and properly the firm succeed. so why is it a crime in a Home (Family), the woman and man has their role that doesnt mean its rigid but you understand your role thats what make are great home. Feminist or whatever they call it i dont get - respect your woman and man then we will make the world a beta place. we aint equal and will neva be but that is where the beauty is. what is the fun or specialness of being equal self? Beat why would you want to even beat any human in the first place self? TheSupleemLeada: |
Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by Calitoscassius(m): 6:19pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
DEMZEE:go kiill your own mother if you hate women that much. |
Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by KanuSE: 6:21pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
McSquishi: @bolded smells of delusion. |
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