Cerebrocrust:
How Do I Overcome This As A Lady?

I'm a newbie here but, I'll like to drop this issue as it is getting me quite depressed lately.

I'm quite cute (average maybe) and I'm quite bashful as well. Whenever I go for an event, I developed this habit of frowning or squeezing my face to the dislike of the audience. On several occasions, I've seen guys pull over their car while trying to call my attention and I just snub or ignore them.

Even at a wedding party, most of the grooms men would want to approach me but, will back down really scared cause of my serious look.

I really don't know what to do as this is taking a toll on me.

Is there any possible way wherein I can practice to get my smiley face back or perhaps overcome this issue??

Please help.

either you're a lesbian or a witch.

Cerebrocrust:

True.
It's embarrassing.




Worst, at a wedding (it will be as though you're not happy with the bride getting married).
Very terrible.


Though when I smile, it sure is cool.

I'll practice it out.

Happened at a wedding. People at the wedding just looked at me with displeasure.

I just remind myself every now and then to smile. You can keep practicing too.

I bet ur single
U need a dick
Fat dick

Cerebrocrust:


I don't understand.

u that started frowning must start smiling at occasions Orin public to attract people.. U can not frown ur face and expect guys to come nao... Some may even take u for a sadist because of that... Relearn how to smile cis it seems ur frowning attitude has overshadowed ur smile... Bring back ur smile... I promise u the rest will be history 101

Show us the face or Idonbelivit

A man who will love and admire that face you always frown will still come for you..dont bother yourself about frowning but try to reduce the way you snub ppl cus it's an act of rudeness.

Please can we see your face

Cerebrocrust:

Haaa
You don't understand.

I'm a very friendly person. Just that in public when I see guys, my countenance change.

YOU HAVE A SPIRIT HUSBAND, YOU NEED DELIVERANCE FROM HIM. HIS MISSION IS TO MAKE U SINGLE FOR LIFE.

SINCE YOU DON'T LIKE DOING IT, BUT FIND YOURSELF DOING IT,SHOWS THERE IS EXTERNAL FORCE ACTING ON YOU.
DELIVERANCE NA D SURE THING.

We're is the pic, ah wish to see that angry pretty face joor , just try and put a straight face but not frowning ok it's good cos you are a girl so be like a gurl

We are guys we frown anytime we go out if we want cos we don't give a f*@&k , we owe no bady shit .

As a psychiatrist, it could be that you went to a single sex school or you grew up in an environment where you didn't mingle with the opposite sex. What u are experiencing is because you lack the natural reaction to respond to the opposite sex which is learnt at a young stage of male and female interaction. My best advice is to hang out more with male friends you feel comfortable around. slowly you get to meet more guys and ladies you are not familiar with and you get used to it. or better still, join a sport or work out group. Drama or dance group. any social or sport youthful group can make u meet more fun filled frds and b4 u know it,everyday you will be smiling and interacting well with people.
if u need more counseling, send me a private message on my profile..

Cerebrocrust:
How Do I Overcome This As A Lady?

I'm a newbie here but, I'll like to drop this issue as it is getting me quite depressed lately.

I'm quite cute (average maybe) and I'm quite bashful as well. Whenever I go for an event, I developed this habit of frowning or squeezing my face to the dislike of the audience. On several occasions, I've seen guys pull over their car while trying to call my attention and I just snub or ignore them.

Even at a wedding party, most of the grooms men would want to approach me but, will back down really scared cause of my serious look.

I really don't know what to do as this is taking a toll on me.

Is there any possible way wherein I can practice to get my smiley face back or perhaps overcome this issue??

Please help.

A cute lady with a smiling face and good sense of humour is the biggest tool a lady can use
to dislodge any human.

As woman ur genuim smiles and jovial nature are the attraction for guys...A lady frowning is a turn-off.

If u like fine pass all, carry nyash and breast...cook the best meal...if u lack that attraction, you are on your own.

Sterope:
Their face is moody but they aren't moody.

It's Dsame.

Op, the issue here is that there is no issue. You alone know the reason why you frown your face. You alone should be able to know how to at the least, force a smile on your face.

Let's see a photo of you?

Panacea278:
By the time you start turning to an evening newspaper nobody will tell u the importance of a friendly countenance

Guy wetin she do u kwan. Take am easy na just talk nah no b fight ooh

qtguru:


A guy that wants to talk to you, whether you squeeze face like orange will still talk to you.

Good. But if you were to approach a either a frowning lady or a smiling lady, I'm sure you'd go with the one that smiles.

That madam should work on herself.

Cerebrocrust:
How Do I Overcome This As A Lady?

I'm a newbie here but, I'll like to drop this issue as it is getting me quite depressed lately.

I'm quite cute (average maybe) and I'm quite bashful as well. Whenever I go for an event, I developed this habit of frowning or squeezing my face to the dislike of the audience. On several occasions, I've seen guys pull over their car while trying to call my attention and I just snub or ignore them.

Even at a wedding party, most of the grooms men would want to approach me but, will back down really scared cause of my serious look.

I really don't know what to do as this is taking a toll on me.

Is there any possible way wherein I can practice to get my smiley face back or perhaps overcome this issue??

Please help.

It only means you're very attractive but with bad attitude....decide to change !

purples25:


Happened at a wedding. People at the wedding just looked at me with displeasure.

I just remind myself every now and then to smile. You can keep practicing too.

Lol the day I tried smiling for long at a certain occasion, my jaw hurt like hell afterward

Sterope:
Which is no fault of mine

Alright

Panacea278:
By the time you start turning to an evening newspaper nobody will tell u the importance of a friendly countenance

Guy are you sure you are normal? Why would she be here asking for help if she doesn't know the importance of a "friendly countenance"?

Cerebrocrust:
How Do I Overcome This As A Lady?

I'm a newbie here but, I'll like to drop this issue as it is getting me quite depressed lately.

I'm quite cute (average maybe) and I'm quite bashful as well. Whenever I go for an event, I developed this habit of frowning or squeezing my face to the dislike of the audience. On several occasions, I've seen guys pull over their car while trying to call my attention and I just snub or ignore them.

Even at a wedding party, most of the grooms men would want to approach me but, will back down really scared cause of my serious look.

I really don't know what to do as this is taking a toll on me.

Is there any possible way wherein I can practice to get my smiley face back or perhaps overcome this issue??

Please help.

You're too introverted and nobody pays you to smile at them. If you smile, they will talk. If you don't, same thing.

byinks:


It only means you're very attractive but with bad attitude....decide to change !

Wow. Smiling at people means you have a good attitude? There are many sadistic people smiling so that they will look approachable, if the above holds true.

PlsBanMe:
Well, well, here we are.

Its your time and I guess you are in early 20s. You are getting lots of attractions and therefore you can afford to frown and to wear some pride. It is in all women but more in some than others.

Just chill. Wait! By the time you are 29 or 30 and unmarried, no one will teach you how to wear a smile.

It is biological in a way. Enjoy frowning now when you can. A time may come when you will be the one showing men the green lights, if you are smart.

Good day.

Panacea278:
By the time you start turning to an evening newspaper nobody will tell u the importance of a friendly countenance

Cerebrocrust:

Haaa
You don't understand.
I'm a very friendly person. Just that in public when I see guys, my countenance change.

You kind of proved them right with that bold statement in my assessment

Evidenx:
YOU HAVE A SPIRIT HUSBAND, YOU NEED DELIVERANCE FROM HIM. HIS MISSION IS TO MAKE U SINGLE FOR LIFE.

SINCE YOU DON'T LIKE DOING IT, BUT FIND YOURSELF DOING IT,SHOWS THERE IS EXTERNAL FORCE ACTING ON YOU.
DELIVERANCE NA D SURE THING.

Isn't this extreme?

Aren't men the same people who say women who smile too much are flirting, and thus lose?

BRATISLAVA:


Wow. Smiling at people means you have a good attitude? There are many sadistic people smiling so that they will look approachable, if the above holds true.

But sadistic smiles are the easiest to spot...

Cerebrocrust:

Haaa
You don't understand.

I'm a very friendly person. Just that in public when I see guys, my countenance change.

No talk again, I understand you. Na so one woman I dey close to dey behave.
You want make them see you say you no dey cheap to get and also, make them persist in coming close to you while seeing you as the queen. You want them to crack you up, you love being perceived as egg and handled like a queen. You look for some features in the men and want to be seen as the most beautiful in public.
U dey use men head well well too and secretly, you desire to be loved.
You have a target and your heart is fixed on something.
Which one wey I dey yarn lobbies sef.

The truth is that don't price your self too much. Relax, once again I said relax.

Have a great day.

Cerebrocrust:
How Do I Overcome This As A Lady?

I'm a newbie here but, I'll like to drop this issue as it is getting me quite depressed lately.

I'm quite cute (average maybe) and I'm quite bashful as well. Whenever I go for an event, I developed this habit of frowning or squeezing my face to the dislike of the audience. On several occasions, I've seen guys pull over their car while trying to call my attention and I just snub or ignore them.

Even at a wedding party, most of the grooms men would want to approach me but, will back down really scared cause of my serious look.

I really don't know what to do as this is taking a toll on me.

Is there any possible way wherein I can practice to get my smiley face back or perhaps overcome this issue??

Please help.

Some meditation will really help you.


You need inner peace.



I've got some questions to ask you to help you out; I'll be able to provide you with some suggestions.

However the case may be - you need some daily meditation.


Where are you based?

byinks:


But sadistic smiles are the easiest to spot...

It's just a Nigerian thing that women must smile.

They must say sorry.

They must be shock absorbers to the world around them.

They must not get angry.

They must use soft words.

They must accommodate.

It's an imaginary manual and unrealistic because there are all kinds of people. There are cholerics, sanguines, melancholics etc. You can't create boundaries that don't exist.

Same people will say a smiling women is loose and wants to get in their pants.

Just because women don't smile doesn't mean they are evil or proud or something is wrong with them. Some people just have resting BF. This op must be an extremely shy person and a bit insecure.

What makes all men here think women must smile at them otherwise they must stay spinsters? Have you seen the way some people abroad look? And they are in relationships! Nobody demands they smile before they have anything in life. There are way too many unrealistic expectations laid out.

chronian:
lalasticlala

Jean is the same as Jane.

Ikillbrokehoes:
What kind of advice is this? chewing gum? Edo girls just dry disgrace una self

If you don’t know what I’m talking about. Keep shut
I’ve been there so I know exactly what I’m talking about. Chewing gum helps to relax her facial expression, the person I’m talking to can see sense in my words, you’re here talking rubbish like a fool.