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| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by emmnprince(m): 10:28pm On Apr 03, 2021 |
Bornsinner7: |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by VBCampaign: 10:28pm On Apr 03, 2021 |
First, you write very well. You should consider writing a book even on a story like this. Second, tell Grace all that happened btw you and her younger sister, Abigail. The worst that could happen is that the marriage will not hold but you will have your peace and you'll not be in a situation where Abigail can blackmail you. All the best. |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by MozB: 10:28pm On Apr 03, 2021 |
MejiLoyon:thanks bro... The 'less than a man' thinks one will spend time to read his useless cheating story. |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by Pharaoh94(m): 10:30pm On Apr 03, 2021 |
You are truly remorseful for what happened. But it's a two way thing; if Grace finds out,she will get mad, hate you and may or not forgive you, if she does forgive you. She will not trust you. And if she finds out from another person. It will be devastating. If you decide not tell her, you will have to make sure Abigail will never mention it to anyone because if she does; you're doomed. It definitely reach to Grace some day, might take years. So tread carefully, yoh already know Graces' personality. You may loose botj if you say a word. And plant an undying hatred between the sisters. Not saying and avoiding Abigail, is a time bomb about to blow. Like you said, she is young and immature. She will definitely want you badly. But you already have been admiring Abigail, you compared her to Grace, and stated their strength and dificulty. But the bigest mistake you will make right now, is to marry out of pity,be it Grace for her loveky nature, or Abigail,for her feelings for you. Finally, talk to Abigail. Keep the friendship. Because if you marry Grace, yoj will see her more than often. Know what is her mind. And better find her a distraction. |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by Alexandroanthon: 10:31pm On Apr 03, 2021 |
Useless guy. See d nonsense post u have here. All u can do is to sleep with your wife to be sister. Mumu. |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by Vaughnable(m): 10:31pm On Apr 03, 2021 |
MejiLoyon:God Go Bless You Jare Lobatan (That's All) |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by CodeTemplar: 10:31pm On Apr 03, 2021 |
Ha ha ha . . . OP has been kanya-matarred. |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by MightyHand(m): 10:32pm On Apr 03, 2021 |
ngoziwrites:The Bolded: 1a. Forgiveness from WHO precisely ?? They both betrayed nd cheat on Grace, they should seek Grace forgiveness or they remain silence on the issue till grave. b. Threatening Who: Bro no fear of threat you both ate the forbidden fruit, and thank your creator the fertility period for the giant seed has passed without result, meaning she's sharp girl that sabi way or her land isn't fertile enough. lol 2. Bro I'll advise you go on with your wedding and stay clear from the Daughter of Jezebel>>>and if at any point you and your wife involve in T& Truth and Dare, voice it out why you don't like her sister coming around anymore...Note: Its weekend and I am writing this under the influence of Chelsea 2:5gin |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by Expresswriter: 10:32pm On Apr 03, 2021 |
All I'll say is if your wife-to-be is a Nairaland regular, there's no way she won't be able to decipher the original context of your story after putting 1 and 2 together regardless of how you may have distorted the facts to avoid being caught. Your style of writing should you give you away if she's conversant with how you write. Your unnecessary divulging of plenty facts before the "knacking" will give you away even though you may have exaggerated some of the details of those facts respectively. My candid advice: call her and tell her what happened and that your conscience will not allow you go on with the marriage because of this. If it were to be another random girl who is not Grace's friend then it will be okay to proceed with the wedding but herein we're talking about a family member, her younger sister! It will be a perpetual stigma each time you look at or think about Abigail, the younger sister. Save your conscience. There are many women in the world. Develop an abundance mindset. Don't think that if you miss Grace you won't have someone better. That is poverty of the mind! You need work on your mindset. Listen to motivational tapes by Les Brown. Read books by peak performance coaches. Look for TedX talk on YouTube dealing with self development. Google "how to develop an abundance mindset" on the internet. Read voraciously on this. Ask Grace for forgiveness but tell her you won't be going on with the marriage because of trust. That you're to be blamed. That you don't want to start on a wrong footing. She may want to forgive and accept you back but don't fall for that. Tomorrow she may do something similar in the marriage to get even. But even if she wouldn't, don't settle for the marriage. Do the right thing. Receive the blame and shame temporarily. Better to suffer temporary blame than to live with guilt and shame of this magnitude and nature for the rest of your life. God bless you. |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by tkgindofa(m): 10:33pm On Apr 03, 2021 |
PERVENCHE:As long as the act wasn't repeated, and both parties have changed; carry on with the Marriage and sin no more. |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by jaxxy(m): 10:33pm On Apr 03, 2021*. Modified: 11:05pm On Apr 03, 2021 |
PERVENCHE:U think too much. It’s this same unnecessary thinking that made u eat what u shudnt have eaten. What u did is despicable bt Ure not the 1st or the last man to do it. Stop all this unnecessary talking and rubbish and decide. Leave or stay or maybe confess(not advisable). If stay put everything behind u and live ure life as a better humanbeing. Abigal is on her own and none of ur business. End of story. Strangely u seem quite happy with urself for a guy who did such ridiculous act. That’s amazing, I know this is a fake ass story bt kudos to ur imagination and writing skills. I almost believed. |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by obowunmi(m): 10:34pm On Apr 03, 2021 |
PERVENCHE:M A R R Y your wife and F O R G E T the forbidden fruit. Everyone will move on last, last.. |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by Charlex23(m): 10:34pm On Apr 03, 2021 |
This is a cooked up lie. I realized this this the moment you said your wife to be is on Nairaland .. I never bothered to read your epic love story till the end. Wonder what you guys gain from narrating fake stories |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by RisenJoe(m): 10:34pm On Apr 03, 2021 |
Bornsinner7:Grace might never forgive Abigail and she will never forgive herself |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by AfroKnight: 10:37pm On Apr 03, 2021 |
This has to be fake. Cos if your fiancée read this, she would know who wrote it. Unless she’s really dûmb. You write like someone who is smart enough to know that if you want to avoid discovery you should leave out the details and say as little as possible. If this story were actually based on the truth, then you’re either not as clever as you think or you believe you girl is really really slow. |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by Nimrod81: 10:37pm On Apr 03, 2021 |
[quote author=PERVENCHE post=100426791]*NOTE With all due respect, I have changed names and some too familiar details about myself out of respect for my wife to be. I know she likes to catch cruise on nairaland. My name is Friday (of course not my real name) I am from the middle-belt. So please save your tribalism with all those una Igbo, Yoruba and Hausa insults. I met Grace(my wife to be) few years ago. It was love at 1st sight. She was everything and is still everything I had hoped a woman should be. There is this crass about her that makes her effortlessly better than any lady around her. My type in the true sense of the word. Tall, busty, curvy, sassy, elegant, personable and above all, she has a graceful soul. From the 1st date to this day, I still pinch my self like.. What in God's green earth is a beauty like her doing with a shrek like me. But then, true perfection is always a utopia. Grace in all her graceful demeanour and aura, has a flaw; Indecision! More so, blind trust seems to be her albatross. (I swear she can even take Lai Muhammad's word to the bank) Though, I still love her; flaws and all. Her complete or should I say blind trust for me and Abigail became one of the reasons Abigail(her younger sister) has become an unending chapter in our relationship. Even though the blame of what happened squarely falls on me. Abigail just shy off 20, is too savvy for her age. Not the outright outstanding beauty like my Grace. What ever little she lacks in beauty, she more than makes up for it in her mentality. For she is truly a smart and an intelligent girl. Just five years younger than Grace. One who expect them at least to be close and be like Asaba and Onisha but then...they are the direct opposite of each other. While Grace is the introverted shy person, Abigail is quite the extrovert and likes to make friends for Africa. It is only fair to believe their formative time in secondary school played a part in their output towards life. Grace likes to conform like most day school students. Abigail on the other hand, is the boarding school nightmare all parents hope not to experience: the deviant. Through the 1st years we dated, Abigail was in secondary school and was never in the picture. For some odd or strange reason, Grace was not ready to fully commit. Not that I blame her or something. At 23, Most girls her age are like Alice in wonderland; they crush on celebrities and Chase childhood dreams and fantasies. The vile ones, if truth be told...tend to live out their hoė phase. At 28, I was already grounded to know what I wanted and it was Grace and marriage. Sometimes, you do all you can do but then life has a way of throwing in a curveball. More over, "No be say because I wan chop egg I go begin dey worship chicken." Sensing her shakara, I pulled the hand brakes on us and walked out of the relationship. ***2 years later*** Fortunately or unfortunately after letting go, Grace became incensed and started to want me back. I hardly do any social media at this point. Pride won't let her call me, so there was no way to send coded messages on whatsapp status to me. Being the introvert that she is and the all trusting graceful Grace, she started to send Abigil over to my place to bridge the gap. In just over two years, Abigail had changed and developed into a sexy hippie bohemian. Not that I fancy her in any erotic way or something. It's just that in our contemporary naija society where mostly everyone conforms, it is hard not to notice a bohemian. Knowing I would do no better than Grace even with a million dollars and in a hundred years of searching, I mended fences with Grace and our relationship became stronger than ever. Over time, Abigail became a bridge between us. At first, Grace would send her over to run errands for her. After a while, it became a second nature for her to co ..... Marry Grace... Never touch Abigail again. You're the world's biggest fool... But marry Grace... |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by Powersurge: 10:37pm On Apr 03, 2021 |
PERVENCHE:The first lesson to eternal bliss is to "learn to make peace with yourself ". Shit has happened. Do not tell your wife. because it could break her forever. Forget the girl. She cannot tell her Sister. You are much older than her. Relate with her with wisdom. Do not cast her off totally. But do not be in a compromising position with her again. She is family, deal with it. Shit has happened, live with it. Remember she is still in her youthful phase. |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by Chris2863(m): 10:37pm On Apr 03, 2021 |
don't mind the buncuum. Wasting our timeMejiLoyon: |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by emmnprince(m): 10:38pm On Apr 03, 2021 |
NobleDeSage001:Exactly! The boy is good in fiction. |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by Limassol(m): 10:38pm On Apr 03, 2021 |
bigpicture001:No mind the weak op, see as in body dey shake, heart dey pound as if him kill person .Op you've gotta man up and be decisive. Being this super emotional won't do you or anyone any favors , it has happened and the deed is done so what? ![]() Two ways to solve this shit - its either you open up with Grace and tell her what happened or you and Abigail bury the secret for the rest of your lives. Or worse you call off the Marriage which i don't support. |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by encryptjay(m): 10:39pm On Apr 03, 2021 |
I enjoyed your narration; impressive writing skills you've got there. Please drop more ![]() See better storyteller ![]() |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by AlexB300: 10:39pm On Apr 03, 2021 |
NobleDeSage001: Bros! |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by osusuallstars: 10:40pm On Apr 03, 2021 |
Sharp sharp Call it off She is not your wife She will kill you one day with either pestle or knife QED |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by ebuclassic18(m): 10:40pm On Apr 03, 2021 |
MejiLoyon:come waste all dis time to type normal thing,tanx abeg |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by AlexB300: 10:40pm On Apr 03, 2021 |
Take the secret to ur grave. Grace is probably taking hers too ![]() |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by tianshie(m): 10:40pm On Apr 03, 2021 |
Lamba. |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by bluefilm: 10:42pm On Apr 03, 2021 |
PERVENCHE:You wrote well. But I am still disappointed. Honestly speaking, the fact that you cannot write ordinary ASUU correctly is what I found to be very embarrassing with this your narration. Too bad. |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by einsteine(m): 10:42pm On Apr 03, 2021 |
Stupid, lying, false story. Well, you achieved your aim. You got traffic on the thread. |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by Cynocefaal: 10:43pm On Apr 03, 2021 |
Na this kind of nonsense dey make nairaland frontpage these days So sad |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by Moregreen: 10:43pm On Apr 03, 2021 |
Could it just be the moment? the weather? the chemistry? the devil? (laughs) my opportunistic habit? Her feminine warmth in such close proximity? my placing a hand on her thigh and meeting no resistance? My foggy mind and grown erection? Her racing and panting heart? Her feisty zeal and deviant nature? My libido? Hers? My morals? Buhari? Herdsmen? IPOB? Sunday Igbahor? Dstv and big brother? NEPA? Game of thrones? Was she after all really a minx? In all fairness, she is just a little naive girl that does not deserve to be pilloried for my betrayal. As the adult, I should have known better and acted a lot better. Dragging Buhari into this makes it much more interesting. |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by Zivaharry(m): 10:44pm On Apr 03, 2021 |
Fictitious.... fictitious..... fictitious |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by Presley87(m): 10:45pm On Apr 03, 2021 |
What a beautiful tales by moonlight....kwontinue |
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Truth and Dare, voice it out why you don't like her sister coming around anymore...
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