demmymoney:


Yes I am

Oponu

demmymoney:


Women should be after love and money

Women should not feel bad for having standards

Yusufisraelj:
NiceMen

Well guys let's be sincerely here pls, you cannot expect a girl from a poor background not to fend for her household if she's the first lady in the house, that is wrong parentally speaking, bkos a child should never fend for his or her parents survival, but shit happens, na Africa we day

That being said, if as a guy you can't foot her necessary bills and still be alright, brother you are broke, work on your finances, let's not broke shame anybody.

Again money should never be the foundation of any relationship rather commonality of purpose, love, understanding, seeking the best interest of the relationship, commitment and trust should be.

To you question Nice - yes truth be told there's need for a shift in thinking and improved productivity from any lady from a poor background, however the best commitment and love have also come from such quarters. Am very open anyways rich or poor we will work at it and make it the best relationship there ever will be.

healthbing:


You're right..but some are just after one..
That's why I said character and attitude differs..
And there is nothing wrong with spending on a woman you love if you can afford it.

healthbing:


You're right..but some are just after one..
That's why I said character and attitude differs..
And there is nothing wrong with spending on a woman you love if you can afford it.

Kobicove:
It's better to date someone from the same social class as yourself

Itstrending:
ok before 40 you will have sense if you will be alive then. Because people that reason like you don't livelong.

Refinedbeing:
I actually said no one be pressed though.

Poorboy:
spin plates, MARWAR ABI, you're just an idiot

demmymoney:


I'm very sure u are still in ur 20s

I'm very sure you are not a high value man

Women love opportunistically dude

Having Status and money for a lady is irrelevant in a relationship especially with a high value man

Women don't build, they just move in

Only weak ass, low valued men broke shame women

Dalil8:


No man would reason the way you do. You're a woman periodt.

tunjilana:



When u realise clearly that no matter how rich u are, there will always be someone rich enough to make you look poor, when such a man comes around a woman who believes "strongly" that she doesnt have to build and all she is in this life to get is comfort, then you and your change will be toast

demmymoney:


Nope

It's people like u that ur wife will b controlling and u will also b cheating on her because she's going to be giving u low quality sex in ur marriage.

Ode don't have sense and b a man and take responsibility and authority

demmymoney:


I'm very sure u are still in ur 20s

I'm very sure you are not a high value man

Women love opportunistically dude

Having Status and money for a lady is irrelevant in a relationship especially with a high value man

Women don't build, they just move in

Only weak ass, low valued men broke shame women

ikillbrokegirls:
Broke girls are useless.

tunjilana:



When u realise clearly that no matter how rich u are, there will always be someone rich enough to make you look poor, when such a man comes around a woman who believes "strongly" that she doesnt have to build and all she is in this life to get is comfort, then you and your change will be toast.

It is not always about having money but making sure that the woman who u tag along with long term, sees herself a stakeholder and feels very much involved rather than a woman who sees a man she can quickly use....How do u even make sure ur woman is with you for the right reasons.
When it comes to a woman u intend to keep, pls change your views...this mentality only works for those u wanna use and dump

NiceMen:
Go find your fellow RedPillers elsewhere...

demmymoney:


That's why as a high value man u always have options.

Itstrending:
low quality sex I see you're a sex starved idiot, to you it's sex that controls the world.

From your words you're a low thinker, you talk of spinning plates I laugh at you. A low budget feminist.

tunjilana:


Even options have scale...the least is the one who is only there to eat. the highest is the one who has added value to your wealth....Even extremely wealthy polygamous men measure these things...You marry a reigning president's daughter or a top-notch career woman and she doesnt just go somewhere in the harem like the leaches you picked from somewhere obscure.

learn to know that a woman's stake in your life is key and she has to earn it. except u wanna live through life having short short meaningless, mainly sexual relationships

demmymoney:


Lolzzz

Truth is bitter

NiceMen:


You are missing the point. Aside money, there is something missing in many of them that will always frustrate you. Look, I am the last guy to discriminate anyone and it is even the reason why I stayed long hanging out with such ladies but I had to evaluate and realized that character wise, they do not know how to really handle the kind of relationship that I want.

Footing the bills of a lady you hardly get anything from is just a parasitic kind of relationship.

For instance, many of them do not call.

Many of them are poor communicators. I am a guy that likes openness and communication a lot. No need for guessing "What could be wrong" just because someone is being moody over something that is not even your fault. They are also very entitled and they hardly understand what a real relationship entails, which is both party contributing their quota but with them, it is often one party doing all the works...

NiceMen:
Bitter Leaf!

healthbing:
Well character and attitude differs.
Some girls are after money while some are after Love..
So it depends..It's not just the poor girls that bill guys..

demmymoney:


There's nothing like meaningless sexual relationships.

Life is transactional.

I don't need women, women need me. I build my fucking empire and she just beautifies it with her femininity.

Money, status is irrelevant in a relationship for women especially if she's married to a high value man. He has the leverage, she doesn't!

demmymoney:


Okay simp!

demmymoney:


Nope

Only men with high value mindset reason like I do.

Only poor minded, weak ass, low valued men reason like the way u do

NiceMen:
which empire you build bro? Like I said above... a friend used to think like you... that once you have money, women will fall until he burnt through nothing less than 50Million in today's value and babe still cheated severally.

It is better not to impress any girl with money so that the genuine ones can stay while the golddiggers leave, than trying to use money to impress...

Anyway, na who never see money dey talk like you.

Yusufisraelj:



Okay I see where you are coming from, you are very correct, however along the lines of character a lot plays right, upbringing and co.

The lady with financial challenge will most likely be insecure, self centered, not really productive, may not reciprocate enough (like in your case).

The lady with financial stability may not be submissive entirely, opinionated, talks a bit carelessly, little tolerance and may not be entirely committed.

What I'm driving at is this across both boards there are good and bad ladies

Look I've seen ladies who are financially challenged that are absolutely phenomenal and so also the ladies better off.

The challenge mostly lies with us guys who approach ladies to ask them out, you see you can discern a lady from few weeks of interaction to know her mindset and tendencies that's if you are quite discerning, the goal is to leave bad ladies and focus on good ones.

life gives everyoneone according to their level of preparation

The challenge mostly lies with us guys who approach ladies to ask them out, you see you can discern a lady from few weeks of interaction to know her mindset and tendencies that are if you are quite discerning, the goal is to leave bad ladies and focus on good ones.

Itstrending:
ok before 40 you will have sense if you will be alive then. Because people that reason like you don't livelong.