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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by ikllbrokehoes(m): 3:11pm On Apr 06
Kobicove:
It's better to date someone from the same social class as yourself smiley
You get sense

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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by Morientez: 3:19pm On Apr 06
[quote author=dairykidd post=100543193]
Hope u used condoms to knack oooo.. because from ur write up that girl na ashawo no be even runz babe.. Okpo!

Abobi sex no dey too move me like dat.. Though she offered me puna bt my instinct told me to decline her offer ...

Her friend later told me had it been dat i sex with her, she wudav hanged pregnance on my head (fake Belle) then now Bill me.. Say na so she dey do other men.. Local man buy fowl go do Thanks giving for church..

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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by BigYash: 3:25pm On Apr 06
Worst set to ever date. Selfish, and looking for any next available mugu to drain,after she must have drained you. Their mothers are their coaches. Jezebels!

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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by Morientez: 3:42pm On Apr 06
See guy man make i clear you.. 98 percent of these modern day ladies no go look your side if no dey comfortable as man.. Been there trust me, when i served my oga as in (nwa Oboy) dem know dey look my face talk more of to exchange words with me..

But immediately dem settle me, i know come dey stay for sun again, dey chop up, levels come dey change small.. Nia dey come dey form line dey form wife material for me... Even for church dey go be pls bro.. Mori we you like to join the band, choir, diz cell. Bla Bla..

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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by Yusufisraelj(m): 3:56pm On Apr 06
NiceMen

Well guys let's be sincerely here pls, you cannot expect a girl from a poor background not to fend for her household if she's the first lady in the house, that is wrong parentally speaking, bkos a child should never fend for his or her parents survival, but shit happens, na Africa we day

That being said, if as a guy you can't foot her necessary bills and still be alright, brother you are broke, work on your finances, let's not broke shame anybody.

Again money should never be the foundation of any relationship rather commonality of purpose, love, understanding, seeking the best interest of the relationship, commitment and trust should be.

To you question Nice - yes truth be told there's need for a shift in thinking and improved productivity from any lady from a poor background, however the best commitment and love have also come from such quarters. Am very open anyways rich or poor we will work at it and make it the best relationship there ever will be.

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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by dairykidd(m): 4:00pm On Apr 06
[quote author=Morientez post=100544997][/quote]
Jesu! Na God save u cheesy

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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by Yusufisraelj(m): 4:01pm On Apr 06
Morientez:
See guy man make i clear you.. 98 percent of these modern day ladies no go look your side if no dey comfortable as man.. Been there trust me, when i served my oga as in (nwa Oboy) dem know dey look my face talk more of to exchange words with me..

But immediately dem settle me, i know come dey stay for sun again, dey chop up, levels come dey change small.. Nia dey come dey form line dey form wife material for me... Even for church dey go be pls bro.. Mori we you like to join the band, choir, diz cell. Bla Bla..


Lols, harsh truth, it's either a man learn to see a good lady and build with her if she's willing to stay through though times with him or he becomes alright last last and pick his choice.
Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by Youngpo413: 4:26pm On Apr 06
Morientez:
See guy man make i clear you.. 98 percent of these modern day ladies no go look your side if no dey comfortable as man.. Been there trust me, when i served my oga as in (nwa Oboy) dem know dey look my face talk more of to exchange words with me..

But immediately dem settle me, i know come dey stay for sun again, dey chop up, levels come dey change small.. Nia dey come dey form line dey form wife material for me... Even for church dey go be pls bro.. Mori we you like to join the band, choir, diz cell. Bla Bla..
rich or poor,all of them are the same...except she is not Nigerian.

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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by ikillbrokegirls: 4:45pm On Apr 06
Broke girls are useless.

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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by LikeAking: 4:46pm On Apr 06
NiceMen:
Hello,

I will like guys to share their experience dating Nigerian broke girls from poor homes.

I personally have had an awful experience with them and from observations, most have identical patterns in handling relationships, which is why I vowed after the last one never to go near anyone again. Yup...I told the last girl to her face that I do not want to go near any girl from her kind of background till I die.

Things I noticed about them are that they are often greedy, selfish, self-centered, unaffectionate, exploitative, and money-focused. Most do not even call.

Are my observations correct?

However, I do not want to conclude but will like to hear from others in order to be certain that I am not stereotyping or generalizing.

What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes?

50 Cent said the top is so much beta than the buttom.

Life will be blissful when you deal with those at the top, the reverse is the case when you deal with people at the buttom.

Your observations are 100% correct.

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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by Michelle55: 5:17pm On Apr 06
Poor or rich, whoever that wants to task you will definitely do so if she doesn't really like you.

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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by jamesversion: 5:38pm On Apr 06
Morientez:
Met one here in ph, fine slim yellowish Akwa ibom babe.. Like going through my phone always bt will never allow me to touch herz nt talk more of going through it..

Always requesting for gift each time she came visiting.. Flirting with different men.. And went ask her watsup, she say na my brother be dat, always on call 2/4/7.. The one dat got angered was went i insist on knowing were she stays cause she was pestering me about her house rent..

Got there and i found out dat she was staying in a batcha (wooden house) with three gals.. Av to japa oh... Me wey be first born wey carry responsibility na want come kill me before my time
Bros give me her number. unlike u, I be last born and I like her type.
Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by healthbing(f): 5:41pm On Apr 06
Well character and attitude differs.
Some girls are after money while some are after Love..
So it depends..It's not just the poor girls that bill guys..
Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by Drizzy5001(m): 5:50pm On Apr 06
Once they are fully married into the house, na their own wickedness dey pass.
And they no sabi economise things at all

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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by tunjilana: 5:54pm On Apr 06
I think it is more about the lady's mentality about self reliance versus dependency.

I have met ladies from poor backgrounds who can hustle (legit) out their lives. girls who stopped collecting any meaningful money from home since 100 level, but can sell anything apart from their bodies.

I have equally met so called wealthy kids whose adult life is a mess, they will expect you to provide them the same comfort they are used to cos their dad has heavily stopped doing all of that as she is now an adult...finished schools, working e.t.c. They cant leave their parents house to venture on their own, the irony is that such parents might just be middle class and incapable of setting her up in a crazily big way. so you are stuck with a woman who cant hustle yet depends on you to maintain some extravagant life which her father introduced her to.

Las las all men should pray and diligently pray before picking a wife. The poor lady who can hustle might equally be the only exception in her family...thus they will end up draining her too. But I will still pick a financially independent minded broke-background woman to a lazy ass rich-background daughter

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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by demmymoney(m): 5:56pm On Apr 06
ikillbrokegirls:
Broke girls are useless.

A lady's money and status is irrelevant in a relationship
Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by demmymoney(m): 5:56pm On Apr 06
healthbing:
Well character and attitude differs.
Some girls are after money while some are after Love..
So it depends..It's not just the poor girls that bill guys..


Women should be after love and money

Women should not feel bad for having standards
Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by demmymoney(m): 5:57pm On Apr 06
tunjilana:
I think it is more about the lady's mentality about self reliance versus dependency.

I have met ladies from poor backgrounds who can hustle (legit) out their lives. girls who stopped collecting any meaningful money from home since 100 level, but can sell anything apart from their bodies.

I have equally met so called wealthy kids whose adult life is a mess, they will expect you to provide them the same comfort they are used to cos their dad has heavily stopped doing all of that as she is now an adult...finished schools, working e.t.c. They cant leave their parents house to venture on their own, the irony is that such parents might just be middle class and incapable of setting her up in a crazily big way. so you are stuck with a woman who cant hustle yet depends on you to maintain some extravagant life which her father introduced her to.

Las las all men should pray and diligently pray before picking a wife. The poor lady who can hustle might equally be the only exception in her family...thus they will end up draining her too. But I will still pick a financially independent minded broke-background woman to a lazy ass rich-background daughter

Women don't build, they just move in
Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by demmymoney(m): 5:59pm On Apr 06
NiceMen:
Hello,

I will like guys to share their experience dating Nigerian broke girls from poor homes.

I personally have had an awful experience with them and from observations, most have identical patterns in handling relationships, which is why I vowed after the last one never to go near anyone again. Yup...I told the last girl to her face that I do not want to go near any girl from her kind of background till I die.

Things I noticed about them are that they are often greedy, selfish, self-centered, unaffectionate, exploitative, and money-focused. Most do not even call.

Are my observations correct?

However, I do not want to conclude but will like to hear from others in order to be certain that I am not stereotyping or generalizing.

What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes?

I'm very sure u are still in ur 20s

I'm very sure you are not a high value man

Women love opportunistically dude

Having Status and money for a lady is irrelevant in a relationship especially with a high value man

Women don't build, they just move in

Only weak ass, low valued men broke shame women

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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by demmymoney(m): 6:00pm On Apr 06
Reex12:
bottom line is they they cant love, money is thier watchword

in relationships
they are very money concious, and engage in runs to keep up the lifestyle

in marriages they are mostly greedy and selfcentered

Men and women love and show love differently
Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by demmymoney(m): 6:01pm On Apr 06
Refinedbeing:
I dated just one back then, good girl and nice family but sorry girls from poor home broke or not is a huge mistake that a carreer man like me should avoid at all cost. Most especially men from midclass and upper class family. There mentality is the worst you'd come across in life. Poor in every aspect of life due to no or late exposure in life. I will rather marry a wh.or.e with bad character from upper or mid class family than marry a woman of virtue from a poor home. Sorry if i'm hurting your feelings, that's just my view and my view only. And luckily there's just me in 7 billion people in the world.

Because u are a lazy mothafoka and u want ur wife to support u financially

Weak ass fool

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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by zanshi: 6:03pm On Apr 06
They never understand the art of giving

Too quick to anger

They never admit their mistakes

They feel anything there is a bit of difference giving money is the only way to bring truce.

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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by demmymoney(m): 6:05pm On Apr 06
Dalil8:
Suicide mission!

Never date a lady below your social class.


wrong!!!!!
Never date any lady seriously in ur 20s,spin plates and focus on yasef and ur goals. Women should not be ur purpose or ur focus as a man, always remember women love opportunistically
Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by hakeemhakeem(m): 6:05pm On Apr 06
umh see them fuming big man kids thank God man no be God
Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by FatherCHRISTMAS: 6:08pm On Apr 06
Hhhh
Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by Dalil8: 6:09pm On Apr 06
demmymoney:

wrong!!!!!
Never date any lady seriously in ur 20s,spin plates and focus on yasef and ur goals. Women should not be ur purpose or ur focus as a man, always remember women love opportunistically

Stop quoting me Woman!
Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by Itstrending: 6:10pm On Apr 06
demmymoney:


Because u are a lazy mothafoka and u want ur wife to support u financially

Weak ass fool
you're the fool in this context. Are you up to 23 years?

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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by demmymoney(m): 6:10pm On Apr 06
Itstrending:
you're the fool in this context. Are you up to 23 years?

Yes I am

Oponu
Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by demmymoney(m): 6:10pm On Apr 06
Dalil8:


Stop quoting me Woman!

I'm a man bro
Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by Dalil8: 6:12pm On Apr 06
demmymoney:


I'm a man bro

No man would reason the way you do. You're a woman periodt.

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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by Poorboy: 6:13pm On Apr 06
demmymoney:

wrong!!!!!
Never date any lady seriously in ur 20s,spin plates and focus on yasef and ur goals. Women should not be ur purpose or ur focus as a man, always remember women love opportunistically
spin plates, MARWAR ABI, you're just an idiot embarassed
Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by Refinedbeing(m): 6:13pm On Apr 06
demmymoney:

Because u are a lazy mothafoka and u want ur wife to support u financially
Weak ass fool
I actually said no one be pressed though.

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