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What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by NiceMen: 11:14am On Apr 06
Hello,

I will like guys to share their experience dating Nigerian broke girls from poor homes.

I personally have had an awful experience with them and from observations, most have identical patterns in handling relationships, which is why I vowed after the last one never to go near anyone again. Yup...I told the last girl to her face that I do not want to go near any girl from her kind of background till I die.

Things I noticed about them are that they are often greedy, selfish, self-centered, unaffectionate, exploitative, and money-focused. Most do not even call.

Are my observations correct?

However, I do not want to conclude but will like to hear from others in order to be certain that I am not stereotyping or generalizing.

What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes?

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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by MickzyDonald: 11:20am On Apr 06
Not all of them are greedy, some tend to be caring always why some of them mine money from guys like their lives depends on it, but the ones I've been with so far are not the demanding type sha, but maybe that's because we know each other before or i just don't know

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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by madridguy(m): 11:26am On Apr 06
The movie " The rich also cry " from part 1 to part 7 na true life story so make we dey mind our tongue.

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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by ThiagoKid(m): 11:35am On Apr 06
They see relationships as poverty allievation scheme tongue

Can you blame them?

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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by ThiagoKid(m): 11:36am On Apr 06
People still date? undecided

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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by richmond500: 11:38am On Apr 06
They behave like they can't kill a fly, u will pity them and do many things for them, but wen dem wan show their true colour, they will shoot u without mercy

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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by Quality20(m): 11:39am On Apr 06
Many of dem indulge in runs, as if sent by their mothers 2 go n squeeze men of their hard earned money n bring it home 2 feed D family

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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by Reex12(m): 11:45am On Apr 06
bottom line is they cant love, money and entitlement mentality is thier watchword


In relationships;
they are very money concious and entitled,some cheat or engage in runs to keep up the lifestyle
your thier cashmule till they find someone better


In marriages; they are mostly greedy, selfcentered and entitled to everything you acquire.
your thier poverty alleviation scheme

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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by SeekerofTruth1: 11:51am On Apr 06
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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by NiceMen: 12:03pm On Apr 06
richmond500:
They behave like they can't kill a fly, u will pity them and do many things for them, but wen dem wan show their true colour, they will shoot u without mercy
This is absolutely true. I have experienced it before... The person is even a member here lol That one even had the guts to broke shame me...

I go share that story towards the end of the year or early next year.

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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by NiceMen: 12:05pm On Apr 06
MickzyDonald:
Not all of them are greedy, some tend to be caring always why some of them mine money from guys like their lives depends on it, but the ones I've been with so far are not the demanding type sha, but maybe that's because we know each other before or i just don't know
I didn't say all, I said MOST...
Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by harmargedon: 12:19pm On Apr 06

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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by harmargedon: 12:19pm On Apr 06
it's all based on one's way of life. There are those who are from rich homes and would tax you more than a regular girl should, and there are those from poor background that would work hard and are independent.

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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by Emu4u2c: 12:38pm On Apr 06
madridguy:
The movie " The rich also cry " from part 1 to part 7 na true life story so make we dey mind our tongue.
I have actually made up my mind not to date women from poor backgrounds

The level of gold digging from them is on another level


Na them be the proper Hungry Girls...

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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by VanillaIyce(f): 12:56pm On Apr 06
NiceMen:
Hello,

I will like guys to share their experience dating Nigerian broke girls from poor homes.

I personally have had an awful experience with them and from observations, most have identical patterns in handling relationships, which is why I vowed after the last one never to go near anyone again. Yup...I told the last girl to her face that I do not want to go near any girl from her kind of background till I die.

Things I noticed about them are that they are often greedy, selfish, self-centered, unaffectionate, exploitative, and money-focused. Most do not even call.

Are my observations correct?

However, I do not want to conclude but will like to hear from others in order to be certain that I am not stereotyping or generalizing.

What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes?

They are not always like that.
Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by Refinedbeing(m): 1:12pm On Apr 06
I dated just one back then, good girl and nice family but sorry girls from poor home broke or not is a huge mistake that a carreer man like me should avoid at all cost. Most especially men from midclass and upper class family. There mentality is the worst you'd come across in life. Poor in every aspect of life due to no or late exposure in life. I will rather marry a wh.or.e with bad character from upper or mid class family than marry a woman of virtue from a poor home. Sorry if i'm hurting your feelings, that's just my view and my view only. And luckily there's just me in 7 billion people in the world.

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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by Refinedbeing(m): 1:25pm On Apr 06
NiceMen:
Hello,

I will like guys to share their experience dating Nigerian broke girls from poor homes.

I personally have had an awful experience with them and from observations, most have identical patterns in handling relationships, which is why I vowed after the last one never to go near anyone again. Yup...I told the last girl to her face that I do not want to go near any girl from her kind of background till I die.

Things I noticed about them are that they are often greedy, selfish, self-centered, unaffectionate, exploitative, and money-focused. Most do not even call.

Are my observations correct?

However, I do not want to conclude but will like to hear from others in order to be certain that I am not stereotyping or generalizing.

What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes?
Most of the things u mentioned up there are as a result of their poor upbringing though not all of them but will still be poor in other aspect anyway.

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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by NiceMen: 1:25pm On Apr 06
Refinedbeing:
I dated just one back then, good girl and nice family[b] but sorry girls from poor home broke or not is a huge mistake that a career man like me should avoid at all cost. Most especially men from midclass and upper class family.[/b]

There mentality is the worst you'd come across in life. Poor in every aspect of life due to no or late exposure in life. I will rather marry a wh.or.e with bad character from upper or mid class family than marry a woman of virtue from a poor home. Sorry if i'm hurting your feelings, that's just my view and my view only. And luckily there's just me in 7 billion people in the world.

I actually had to decide this late when I sat that down and evaluated things and it became apparent that they exhibit a similar trait, so much that I told myself I do not want to go near them again... no matter how pretty.

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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by NiceMen: 1:27pm On Apr 06
Refinedbeing:
Most of the things u mentioned up there are as a result of their poor upbringing though not all of them but will still be poor in other aspect anyway.
Agreed that it is due to poor upbringing but there is something called common sense or maturity that seems to be lacking in many.

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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by Refinedbeing(m): 1:35pm On Apr 06
NiceMen:


I actually had to decide this late when I sat that down and evaluated things and it became apparent that they exhibit a similar trait, so much that I told myself I do not want to go near them again... no matter how pretty.
They are mostly very pretty. If you've been to slums you'd prolly have noticed that. Buh honestly, for your own peace they just have to be avoided. It's something to do for one self or at least ones family or the worst unborn kids. Even if the lady still manage to be a bit ok, what about her family? It's rather better they be avoided.

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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by Refinedbeing(m): 1:40pm On Apr 06
NiceMen:
Agreed that it is due to poor upbringing but there is something called common sense or maturity that seems to be lacking in many.
They don't get exposed early. Their immediate environment stupidity would have been embeded in their body and soul that even thousand litres of exposure can't easily wash it away.

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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by NiceMen: 1:55pm On Apr 06
Refinedbeing:
They are mostly very pretty. If you've been to slums you'd prolly have noticed that. Buh honestly, for your own peace they just have to be avoided. It's something to do for one self or at least ones family or the worst unborn kids. Even if the lady still manage to be a bit ok, what about her family? It's rather better they be avoided.
Exactly man... The girl I am currently dating is somewhere close to a midclass family and I have never had this kind of mutual effort and stress-free relationship for a long time.

It also reinforces the idea THAT our definition of love or relationship is HIGHLY based on the kind of home we all come from. What this means is that if you are from a home where expression of love and affection is an everyday activity, you are likely to also propagate the same expression wherever you go.

Now, a girl who is from a home that is lacking such expression is likely not to express such to a guy who came from well-groomed home. It is this clash of backgrounds that often leads to traumatized relationships in many. This is because the person they are expressing love, care and kindness is NOT used to such gesture and they can't relate or understand its value.

This, aside from the need to keep and sustain wealth, is why the Rich only Marry Rich...

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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by posty56(m): 1:56pm On Apr 06
ThiagoKid:
People still date? undecided
i swear! single is bae
Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by Morientez: 2:03pm On Apr 06
Met one here in ph, fine slim yellowish Akwa ibom babe.. Like going through my phone always bt will never allow me to touch herz nt talk more of going through it..

Always requesting for gift each time she came visiting.. Flirting with different men.. And went ask her watsup, she say na my brother be dat, always on call 2/4/7.. The one dat got angered was went i insist on knowing were she stays cause she was pestering me about her house rent..

Got there and i found out dat she was staying in a batcha (wooden house) with three gals.. Av to japa oh... Me wey be first born wey carry responsibility na want come kill me before my time

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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by dairykidd(m): 2:13pm On Apr 06
The way i see it, honestly there's really no difference because some girls from poor homes are satisfied with what they have and what they don't have they work for while some from rich homes can never be satisfied even if u cut ur throat. But in all it all boils down to their characters and upbringing sha..

Rich or poor home girl wey wan hustle u go hustle u

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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by dairykidd(m): 2:15pm On Apr 06
Morientez:
Met one here in ph, fine slim yellowish Akwa ibom babe.. Like going through my phone always bt will never allow me to touch herz nt talk more of going through it..

Always requesting for gift each time she came visiting.. Flirting with different men.. And went ask her watsup, she say na my brother be dat, always on call 2/4/7.. The one dat got angered was went i insist on knowing were she stays cause she was pestering me about her house rent..

Got there and i found out dat she was staying in a batcha (wooden house) with three gals.. Av to japa oh... Me wey be first born wey carry responsibility na want come kill me before my time
Hope u used condoms to knack oooo.. because from ur write up that girl na ashawo no be even runz babe.. Okpo! grin

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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by baddo11(m): 2:21pm On Apr 06
Haha omo
Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by SavageResponse(m): 2:25pm On Apr 06
Morientez:
Met one here in ph, fine slim yellowish Akwa ibom babe.. Like going through my phone always bt will never allow me to touch herz nt talk more of going through it..

Always requesting for gift each time she came visiting.. Flirting with different men.. And went ask her watsup, she say na my brother be dat, always on call 2/4/7.. The one dat got angered was went i insist on knowing were she stays cause she was pestering me about her house rent..

Got there and i found out dat she was staying in a batcha (wooden house) with three gals.. Av to japa oh... Me wey be first born wey carry responsibility na want come kill me before my time

Hahahahaha
Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by Kobicove(m): 2:25pm On Apr 06
It's better to date someone from the same social class as yourself smiley

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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by NiceMen: 2:36pm On Apr 06
Kobicove:
It's better to date someone from the same social class as yourself smiley
This is very true... I learned it the hard way.
Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by Dalil8: 2:42pm On Apr 06
Suicide mission!

Never date a lady below your social class.

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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by ZACHIE: 2:56pm On Apr 06
See poor people running fellow poor people down.
Your mentality is appalling.
Who among you is rich in the real sense of the word?

We are all poor. Make I hear word.

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