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AsherAmari:
No matter what, he shouldn't have dodged the bill. It wasn't nice of him.

It was never his bill to pay, it's like expecting him to pay the bill of the person on the opposing table

AsherAmari:
No matter what, he shouldn't have dodged the bill. It wasn't nice of him.

It was so nice of him dear, Atleast a glutton femail hs learnt her lessons

Ghostrye:
It was never his bill to pay, it's like expecting him to pay the bill of the person on the opposing table

How was it never his bill to pay? He took her out on a date.

If he knew he wouldn't pay the bill why not go and see her at her place instead of meeting at a restaurant?

I blame the girl. Girls should look at the kind of guy they want to go out with before proceeding on a date with him..

Kebbiprince:
It was so nice of him dear, Atleast a glutton femail hs learnt her lessons

I bow to the generation of men we have these days. Those days men were more gentle and respectful of women. You guys are now trying to be smart and that's the mentality you go into marriage with. Reason marriages don't last any longer.

Suit yourselves.

AsherAmari:
I bow to the generation of men we have these days. Those days men were more gentle and respectful of women. You guys are now trying to be smart and that's the mentality you go into marriage with. Reason marriages don't last any longer.

Suit yourselves.

Well the truth is this, both the men and the women are at fault, women want feminism and men too adapted to it, that's just what it is

Kebbiprince:
Well the truth is this, both the men and the women are at fault, women want feminism and men too adapted to it, that's just what it is

Must you guys go after the feminist or use that to punish us that are not feminist? No now.

You guys should chill, abeg. It's no longer funny. At the end of the day, you push us into the arms of older men (eg Regina Daniels and co) who know how to pamper women because that is how we are naturally wired.

Forget feminism. Those ones are just deceiving themselves. I don't blame them though because you guys pushed them into it.

Nigeria girls never grow up they think you can outsmart a guy just like that when she has nothing to offer expect her pussy. Prudent men don't respect any women who has nothing to offer them except their pussy. You ordér fish pepper soup, chicken , water and drink and you expect him to pay and after he will give you transport fair . I like the guy is a prudent guy with good sense of reasoning.

uruba23:
Poor guy is managing pomo and you are ordering for chicken and pepper soup, the guy go just dey look like ...hmmm OYO

If you invite someone on a date you are meant to pay for both meals except she came along with others. If you don't have enough money, just let her know so she can control what she is going to order.

BiggyB242:
If you invite someone on a date you are meant to pay for both meals except she came along with others. If you don't have enough money, just let her know so she can control what she is going to order.

She should have just order for same. It is from the restaurant the man would know if she is a "chop my money" lady or "all my ego is for you" lady . I am sure they just meant, if they were long time acquittance I am sure the man won't do that.

They both messed up. Since the guy invited her, she should be responsible for the bill. On the other hand I think the lady ordered a little too much of what was expected of the guy. Most see it as an opportunity to chop belleful.

Next time, ask the guy to order for you, and if he insists, then you can go ahead but be sensible about it. But make sure your debit card is in your pocket

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the situation of things for this country don make people use Mumu as their only source of joy.
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AsherAmari:
How was it never his bill to pay? He took her out on a date.

If he knew he wouldn't pay the bill why not go and see her at her place instead of meeting at a restaurant?

I blame the girl. Girls should look at the kind of guy they want to go out with before proceeding on a date with him..

He never took her out to eat, he took her out on a date. The difference is that a date doesn't necessarily involve food

Ghostrye:
He never took her out to eat, he took her out on a date. The difference is that a date doesn't necessarily involve food

So how did they find themselves in a food arena and not a beach? If they didn't set out to eat?

You can't defend this guy though and through. He was wrong. Admit it!

AsherAmari:
So how did they find themselves in a food arena and not a beach? If they didn't set out to eat?

You can't defend this guy though and through. He was wrong. Admit it!

Maybe the guy was hungry and wanted a bite, or a drink. Or maybe the girl asked to go there. My point is the guy didn't offer her something to eat, neither did he ask her to order.
The guy did absolutely nothing wrong, maybe a lil insensitive, but he wasn't wrong

Ghostrye:
Maybe the guy was hungry and wanted a bite, or a drink. Or maybe the girl asked to go there. My point is the guy didn't offer her something to eat, neither did he ask her to order.
The guy did absolutely nothing wrong, maybe a lil insensitive, but he wasn't wrong

Here you are making assumptions for the guy. That may not even be the case here. So??

Why did she foolishly expect him to pay, for her order......

What a life of entitlement...... Going DUTCH, is the best principle......

Always carry VEX MONEY.......

uruba23:
She should have just order for same. It is from the restaurant the man would know if she is a "chop my money" lady or "all my ego is for you" lady . I am sure they just meant, if they were long time acquittance I am sure the man won't do that.

The guy was wrong, Nah him invite her. If they had met there is a different scenario.

AsherAmari:
Here you are making assumptions for the guy. That may not even be the case here. So??

If he ordered for her or asked her to order, then he is in the wrong... are you satisfied

donbachi:
How him go pay.when u ordered the entire menu.

my brother some girls don't have shame. SMH. They don't know to put a knife to their necks as they are people of appetite.

uruba23:
Poor guy is managing pomo and you are ordering for chicken and pepper soup, the guy go just dey look like ...hmmm OYO

Rule 1. Never eat nor order more than he who invites u to the table, especially if it's a king

Jacksparrow7:
Rule 1. Never eat nor order more than he who invites u to the table, especially if it's a king

Correct Guy

I support the guy you go on a date you split the bill.... 50 50.

omaclarry:
So when it comes to billing no more patriarchy, feminism takes back seat, future is female jump window, gender equality travel... I dont even knw wat nigeria females want. You no wan serve juju but u wan chop sacrifice

Stupidity and foolishness everywhere

Na so one mumu for ig dey talk say a real man doesn't need a real woman to be financially stable before he can date or marry her

Psychological manipulation at its finest

AwesomeStormy00:
I support the guy you go on a date you split the bill.... 50 50.

In countries with actual human beings na the woman go foot the bill sef

AsherAmari:
That guy is a mungo-park. In his mind now he's smart

That's why it's better to let him order for the food himself. I'll know if it's me they'll come and ask for the bill. I've never gone on a date and placed the order. I'll sit and you'll go to the counter or beckon on the waiter yourself to serve us.

Next time, go prepared with enough cash or your debit card and try not to eat more than you can afford. Most importantly, let him place the order.

See this one shouting let him place the order upandan. That means you never even paid for your own meal before? . Mungo park the second. Bring your own money and avoid embarrassment naaaaa... This your format no work. I will just buy mine and come to eat, tell you to go buy yours. So what's it you saying again?

TheEnygma:
So far... This is the smartest comment I have heard from a naija lady concerning this kind of situation.

Wrong.

In the guy's shoes,I will order for mine and ask her to order for hers. She would be forced to either spend or walk out. Either ways, I have myself a treat.

AsherAmari:
No matter what, he shouldn't have dodged the bill. It wasn't nice of him.

Very fuqin nice of him. Spending your own money won't kill you.

phazotron:
In countries with actual human beings na the woman go foot the bill sef

Nah bros it is 50 50 unless is sugar mummy or oneis toyboy. But in a civilised country it is 50 50.

OnlyDeCapPlease:
It's only in Africa where a grown woman (not a child o) will go on a date without holding her own money. Even worse she wouldn't even check to see if she can afford the place they are going to. Poverty na bastard!

Ladies, it's in your own interest to ask who's paying before shifting your flabby ass. Either that or you just bill him from the beginning so that it is clear that you are hoeing instead of trying to finesse the whole thing.

If it is right for you to automatically assume that the man will pay, then it is also right for the man to automatically assume that he will fvck you if he pays!

Word!

This is just the reason I don’t eat more than I can afford on a date...