At times I begin to tink or imaging that what else can a lady offer a man aside sex..bcus dey benefits more in all ramifications and still they will be doing one useless shakara ontop of their controversial, complex and wahala life( forming hard to get) well I dey always pity for Simps.

NiRfreak:

Women weren't made to be a loner or an island. They were created with relationship in mind even before they were fashioned.
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Remember Eve was formed to come and be joined to Adam. It seems without man in the picture, they would have no lofty purpose, and they wouldn't have been formed. But men were formed without women in the initial plan.
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So when a woman finally get joined to a man in marriage, her divine purpose seems to be fulfilled cos that was the initial plan - to be joined to a man and be his helper.
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But on the other hand, men weren't created to be joined to a woman. Men were created into a purpose without woman in the picture. The primary purpose was to be in charge of the universe, dominate it and fashion out its destiny.

Meanwhile, due to boredom that comes after some deal of hardwork, necessity for leisure now arises, prompting the need to create women, as a companion when bored, an object of pleasure and distraction away from the hard-work inherent in man's purpose.
Women are created for relationship in simple terms. It's their highest goal and ideal that they can't but celebrate with a heart of victory.

Kudos very intelligent answer

PoliteActivist:


You forgot this part of the bible, Genesis 5:
In the day that God created man, He made him in His own likeness. Male and female He created them, and He blessed them. And in the day they were created, He called them “man.”

Use your common sense: Do you think it is possible to have man without having woman at same exact time??
It is like saying you can have up without down; or positive without negative, etc

What nonsense is this?

The bolded talked of animals. He made them male and female. Adam was made alone and Eve was made from his ribs,much later, to complement him and be his companion. I'm not into some gender Bullshiit but I need to set your record straight. Genesis 2:20-23
N.B: I have heard reports of a certain woman called Lilith who was made at the same time with Adam but if true, why the need to make Eve?

The guy you quoted nailed the subject so hard,I couldn't even add any damn thing to it. He is so right.

jeff1607:



Imagine a man at 55 and his first child is 2 years old

That doesn't matter. What about a man of 55 and all his grown up children are still finding their feet(still living under his roof) or his grown up children doesn't even care about him. Me I have seen lots like that.

Ignore those 2 fools arguing north & south..

In the Olden days, men don’t approach women for relationship talk less of kneeling down to propose, talk less of marriage. It’s a woman that will approach a man she likes and show herself that she wanted a relationship with the man..

When Eve was created, didn’t she walk up to Adam herself or was it Adam that chased her?

Till today, women still have that natural urge of walking up to any man they like..

Men don’t chase or run after women...Oh thanks to movie producers! Nature already has it structured and that’s why when you chase after a woman, she won’t value you.

Life of men in the Olden days is very different from these day’s. Even with the technology & all, a lot of life are still very miserable today!

So whenever a man proposes to marry, you’ve really gone far and you’re offering the female gender one of the greatest gift. (Cuz you can archieve whatever you want with her without marriage)

Greatest gift is exactly what it is to women!

doxxjaw:


Oga they're not doing shakera , forget nairaland

Naija southern girls are cheap.

There's nothing and i mean nothing they won't do for money

The simps and cucks love it

What exactly is your issue now, foxypaw or whatever... Give us story on the thread title and forget the cheapness of southern girls nam

doxxjaw:


I'm not very comfortable spilling, i know my comments are off topic.

It's deliberate, but I saw some very disturbing trends.

I also have a feeling I'll castigated for spilling or called a prude.

Maybe I should open a new thread but the mods won't allow me post my evidence here.

There's fire.. southern women are finished and you can't tell them nada

So you can't spill the beans but you can abuse them on this thread ba?

Making the news is important to them

Yes na. Na dem e favour pass.

Sentientmind:
Hi all, it isn't news women celebrate relationships and marriage more, tends to flaunt it, and for them it is obviously a very huge milestone for them; they see it as a very big achievement.
The reverse is the case for the male folks as most are mostly indifferent and many will prefer to hide it; my question is, why do female value and put so much emphasis on relationship/marriage?

Is it because they have more to gain? Or looking for people to fleece?

Your response/opinion is welcomed.

Culture convinces women they are more valuable upon getting married or “winning” a man’s heart.

It’s funny because if a woman isn’t married it is usually men who will ridicule her for it. Men push women to get married early, telling us we aren’t getting any younger. Men spread the lie that even a rich woman has no value or hasn’t fulfilled her purpose if she has no husband.

Men take time to make all these write ups and get women to sign up for courses on attracting men for marriage. Men warn women not to be too obsessed with career and education that they end up missing out on a husband

So it’s not just that women celebrate it most, women are pressured into it most. Nigerian culture teaches girls from very early on that their main purpose, their main value, is to please a man. while boys are raised to know they have value just standing alone.

However if a man is not excited to be in a relationship/marriage and even hides it then it’s because he’s immature and not ready to settle down. That’s not a sign of manhood but childishness..

sapphiere:

How many female Nairalanders have you seen creating threads to seek for relationship that leads to marriage?
You men do that weekly.
So now tell me, who among the two sees marriage as a huge achievement? The men that creates threads everyday seeking for wives or the women that don't create threads?

see sapphiere, no need to get all emotional and stuff about this issue, the fact still remains and will continue to remain forever that a woman was created for a man, and there is absolutely nothing you can do about it. You cannot fight God, can you? Just obey

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Sentientmind:
Hi all, it isn't news women celebrate relationships and marriage more, tends to flaunt it, and for them it is obviously a very huge milestone for them; they see it as a very big achievement.
The reverse is the case for the male folks as most are mostly indifferent and many will prefer to hide it; my question is, why do female value and put so much emphasis on relationship/marriage?

Is it because they have more to gain? Or looking for people to fleece?

Your response/opinion is welcomed.

I think it's because it's a big achievement for them.

Imagine all your life, you've been brought up being told that you belong to someone.

And you eventually end up belonging to someone!

It means you achieved your mission!!!

McSquishi:
[s]Culture convinces women they are more valuable upon getting married or “winning” a man’s heart.It’s funny because if a woman isn’t married it is usually men who will ridicule her for it. Men push women to get married early, telling us we aren’t getting any younger. Men spread the lie that even a rich woman has no value or hasn’t fulfilled her purpose if she has no husband.Men take time to make all these write ups and get women to sign up for courses on attracting men for marriage. Men warn women not to be too obsessed with career and education that they end up missing out on a husbandSo it’s not just that women celebrate it most, women are pressured into it most. Nigerian culture teaches girls from very early on that their main purpose, their main value, is to please a man. while boys are raised to know they have value just standing alone.However if a man is not excited to be in a relationship/marriage and even hides it then it’s because he’s immature and not ready to settle down. That’s not a sign of manhood but childishness..[/s]

Absolute rubbish.

Stop talking nonsense.

Must you always blame men for all your nonsense?

Nonsense.

bluefilm:


Absolute rubbish.

Stop talking nonsense.

Must you always blame men for all your nonsense?

Nonsense.

Point out the nonsense. where is the lie?

You not liking truth doesn’t make truth nonsense, sweetheart

Sentientmind:
Hi all, it isn't news women celebrate relationships and marriage more, tends to flaunt it, and for them it is obviously a very huge milestone for them; they see it as a very big achievement.
The reverse is the case for the male folks as most are mostly indifferent and many will prefer to hide it; my question is, why do female value and put so much emphasis on relationship/marriage?

Is it because they have more to gain? Or looking for people to fleece?

Your response/opinion is welcomed.

The male folks acquire more responsibility. It's a time to double his hustle cos hes gonna feed more mouths. With that kind of pressure, celebration will be the last thing on your mind

Yes women are more emotional and celebrate relationship or marriage because they count themselves among the lucky ones. They feel more pressure to get engaged and marry than men. And having their own children is seen as fulfilment for many. But if you are in a feminist infested environment the situation is different. The females over there only get happy when they see someone screwing them hard from time to time. They care less about having children or forming long lasting relationships. They also care less about the money or marrying a rich man. I have seen female doctors marrying a mechanic. And if there no men around they pick their female folks for lesbian relationships. There are huge cultural differences and behavioural characteristics among women in the world. But one thing so common to all females everywhere is that they NAG the man into a hole. I am not sure if they nag their fellow females in a lesbian relationship.

McSquishi:


Point out the nonsense. where is the lie?

You not liking truth doesn’t make truth nonsense, sweetheart

Why will you blame men for the simple and obvious fact that women ripe earlier and faster naturally?

So you don't know it that of all possessions a woman can have, her beauty and youthfulness is basically and primarily the only thing that interests a man?

How can you say that it is men who pressure women into marriage meanwhile even the blind can see that it is women who take so much PRIDE in showing off their relationship status?

Well, what else can I say?

Continue living in your DELUSION and continue looking for more ways to blame men for your woes.

Unfortunately for you, the problem isn't going to go away just like that.

Most don't bring anything to it...Apart from sex!!

bluefilm:


Why will you blame men for the simple and obvious fact that women ripe earlier and faster naturally?

So you don't know it that of all possessions a woman can have, her beauty and youthfulness is basically and primarily the only thing that interests a man?

How can you say that it is men who pressure women into marriage meanwhile even the blind can see that it is women who take so much PRIDE in showing off their relationship status?

Well, what else can I say?

Continue living in your DELUSION and continue looking for more ways to blame men for your woes.

Unfortunately for you, the problem isn't going to go away just like that.

You just did the thing I said men do in the first part of your statement then pretended men don’t do that thing in the second half lol

You’re confused about whether you agree with me or not.

Biologically speaking women don’t ripen earlier than men. And even if we did that has nothing to do with pressuring someone to marry early.

Men have shorter life expectancy vs women, if anything men should be encouraged to marry early since they die sooner.

And I wish the lie could stop being told that men naturally look more youthful than their age mates because a lot of you look old for your age. Women only look aged after being forced into a hard life by the man she marries. Men who pamper their wife keep her looking fresh.

Thanks.

McSquishi:
You just did the thing I said men do in the first part of your statement then pretended men don’t do that thing in the second half lol

You’re confused about whether you agree with me or not.

Biologically speaking women don’t ripen earlier than men. And even if we did that has nothing to do with pressuring someone to marry early.

Men have shorter life expectancy vs women, if anything men should be encouraged to marry early since they die sooner.

And I wish the lie could stop being told that men naturally look more youthful than their age mates because a lot of you look old for your age. Women only look aged after being forced into a hard life by the man she marries. Men who pamper their wife keep her looking fresh.

Thanks.

Well, like I said to you earlier, you can continue living in your DELUSION.

But...

It won't make you anywhere younger.

It won't make you less uglier.

It won't even wipe away the hardship you may be going through.

You may have all the wonderful careers in the world and all the wonderful certificates in the world but that will not stop a man from taking just one look at you and conclude in his mind that this old cargo here is just way too old for me.

It is the hard truth... the hard PAINFUL truth.

That's THEIR MSC, MBA and Doctorate degree. To them they have arrived. That's why they convince their guy to drop whatever 2 year/ 3 year/4 year academic programme that they are doing because they see it as a waste of time, waste of resources, delay of destiny and progress and they will continue to preach that into his head until the poor man surrender to their will. If the preaching fails they either force or seduce him to eat their forbidden fruit. Yet after marriage when Babies and huge responsibility sets in it's that same man they will call weak, lazy and compare him to his peers who are doing well and say he lacks vision so as to cause him pain

bluefilm:


Well, like I said to you earlier, you can continue living in your DELUSION.

But...

It won't make anywhere younger.

It won't make you less uglier.

It won't even wipe away the hardship you may be going through.

You may have all the wonderful careers in the world and all the wonderful certificates in the world but that will not make a man take just one look at you and conclude that this old cargo here is just way too old for me.

It is the hard truth... the hard PAINFUL truth.

Just because you call your opinions “truth” doesn’t make it so, sir...

What’s your field of expertise because mine is biological sciences... post the scientific studies that say men naturally look younger than their age mates. You won’t find any...

Did you just call me ugly? Lmao, here come the petty insults as usual.

You guys always get low and dirty when you can’t make logical & intellectual retorts...

I’ll be old and ugly and whatever else you say. Ok?

But the fact is you’re still agreeing with my initial statement. You’re actually performing my initial statement, which is a bit hilarious

bluefilm:


Well, like I said to you earlier, you can continue living in your DELUSION.

But...

It won't make anywhere younger.

It won't make you less uglier.

It won't even wipe away the hardship you may be going through.

You may have all the wonderful careers in the world and all the wonderful certificates in the world but that will not make a man take just one look at you and conclude that this old cargo here is just way too old for me.

It is the hard truth... the hard PAINFUL truth.

Here it is for you again. Now that you’ve performed my very point in replies to me, see if you still think it’s rubbish:

It’s funny because if a woman isn’t married it is usually men who will ridicule her for it. Men push women to get married early, telling us we aren’t getting any younger. Men spread the lie that even a rich woman has no value or hasn’t fulfilled her purpose if she has no husband.

Men take time to make all these write ups and get women to sign up for courses on attracting men for marriage. Men warn women not to be too obsessed with career and education that they end up missing out on a husband

So it’s not just that women celebrate it most, women are pressured into it most.

Sentientmind:
Hi all, it isn't news women celebrate relationships and marriage more, tends to flaunt it, and for them it is obviously a very huge milestone for them; they see it as a very big achievement.
The reverse is the case for the male folks as most are mostly indifferent and many will prefer to hide it; my question is, why do female value and put so much emphasis on relationship/marriage?

Is it because they have more to gain? Or looking for people to fleece?

Your response/opinion is welcomed.

Social construct!!!!