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Ginaz:
Rita who? U don drink this kind early Sunday abi?

SmellySperm:
lol maybe he knows you in person na

DemonInvoker:
My Story.
Very Long ohh But well Summarized.
I met two women at a function(It was a Trad)..I was familiar with one,I knew her from my neighborhood then the other was just looking fresh and attractive though they were both looking older but were those kind of what's up women...Nice looking,Fair Skin With Dridlocks hairstyle...One always calls me my sweetheart when she See's me,I knew her husband very well we lived in the same neighborhood and Gisted once in a while.On this occasion they were both alone so I went and sat with them since I already knew one...We were gisting generally,I was mainly cracking jokes and making them laugh..I noticed,the other lady was just laughing any how at any thing I said,wether it was even funny or not...Like I told her"You wey dey shine like when NEPA just bring light" She go laugh any how,I go still tease her say"You be full current naw,Today Bread"She go just laugh any how....Na so I take collect her contact...I later told the friend the one that lives on my street that I like her friend ohh,say na what's up woman...She told me at first "That she was a married woman ohh"And asked if I wasn't seeing the wedding ring...I say,I see am but na correct lady Sha...She finally said try your luck na,I no know Sha...That Talk alone motivated me....After some days,I decided to call the lady but she didn't pick after two missed calls.
Later she called back and after greeting and the normal so where are you?! I Started teasing her again...That I was just thinking about her and didn't know what to do...She then asked me what I wanted,I told her I wanted to show her my world of Wonders...She laughed hard and Told me she was going to call me later...She later drove to my street that night and asked me to come out..We talked for more than an hour inside her car...She Told me she was married with 2Kids....Her eldest daughter was 15yrs and the other was 5yrs.
To cut the long story short that was the beginning of my sleeping with a married woman...First,We started Sleeping in Hotels and later graduated to my family house...my elder sis would ask me if this woman no too old for me?!I would tell her to mind her Bizness...It became so bad that some times she would drive down to my school to see me...When her friend found out we were seeing each other she told me something...That This her friends husband did Traditional,White and Court for her but I just dey chop her any how...I felt sad,really bad...I started getting tired of the whole thing but hey,this is a lady that will give me 10K for Airtime to be texting her....50K to go back to School,15K to Flex...Her husband was an offshore worker with Agrip so most times he was not around....She once took me to a Strip club and paid a Stripper 5k to give me Special lap dance.
She once sent me 120k to go buy new clothes and Shoes..She has this perfumery where she sells designer perfumes,I went there once and collected Perfumes worth 50k...She was really light handed and Nice and I was just 24yrs at the time, really catching Cruise.
What prompted me to share this story was the sad turn of events later...I remembered,I was in School one day when the lady called me to come over to her house sharperly,That she needed the Lamba so badly that she can't wait..She later sent me 5k for transport because I told her I was in school I needed money to come.
This was the first time I was entering her house,she once took me there to show me the place but we didn't go inside....This time I entered inside,it was on a Sunday,the husband was even around but went to church with the children,she told them she was sick that morning and couldn't follow them to church...When I got to the compound no security so she was the one that opened the gates, Immediately, I entered the house she grab my belt and was trying to off my jeans trousers but I resisted and told her I was hungry and needed food first...She sha said okay,that let her enter the Kitchen and Prepare Chicken and Chips for me...I followed her to the Kitchen while she was cooking and gisting me how she told her people she was sick,I was just standing by her corner watching as she cooked.
She didn't miss every opportunity to kisss and stroke my Penis while cooking... Finally,As I was eating we heard a car honk and she said it was her husband...She went and came in with the Husband and her children...The husband was a very tall big Pot belle man... This was the first time I was seeing the man in person besides his pictures and photos......

Eastcaostboy:
way too long, one might have heacha reading all this

DemonInvoker:
Na the Summary...Will delete it soon becoz I don't know if one of the ladies might later read it...So please, unquote me.

Eastcaostboy:
No need but if you wish

DemonInvoker:
Yeah,As long as one or two Persons don read am...I'm okay.
Today,na Sunday,na every Sunday I dey go out for altar call so tey dem don know me for the church say this man no well.

DemonInvoker:
Yeah,As long as one or two Persons don read am...I'm okay.
Today,na Sunday,na every Sunday I dey go out for altar call... so tey dem don know me for the church say this man no well.

Barbiturate:
I will like to shed more light on this thread below:

https://www.nairaland.com/6499558/ever-bad-luck-after-premarital

Yes. Sleeping with a married woman/man can bring bad luck.

My Story:

She came to my office seeking to be a vendor for the company I use to work for. Black beauty, busty and good ass. After coming to meet me for about 3 times, I decided to make her a vendor with little supply; low PO(purchase order) value. After some days, I wooed her and invited her over to my place. I had asked ab initio, if she was married and she said No! No ring on her finger.

We had sex and after the sex I discovered she wasn't happy. I asked and she said nothing.
Later, I increased the value of the PO and even directed her to a bank where she could get loan for the supply. Bank marketers usually come to my office asking me to send down my vendors to their office for PO financing.

After some few months I was transferred to another state. She came to my new office with a bulgy pregnancy and I got so shocked. I immediately took her outside for questioning.
She said she was sorry for not telling me she was married. She said she did it cos she wanted the PO badly. Her husband lost his job and she wanted to do something to help out. She said she was pregnant the day we had sex and she was sad cos she cheated on her husband.
I prepared a PO for her to supply, with a very high value.
After some months she called that she lost her babies(twins) while giving birth. I felt so bad for her.

Not quite long after the incident, I lost my job. Came to Lagos. Stayed few years at home, got another job in Delta......lost it within 6 months. Came back to Lagos again. Stayed some years jobless. Got another job, lost it within 2 years. While all these were going, all the relationships I ventured into, crashed. I got another job in Lagos and lost it within a year.
I had lost so many job opportunities....I mean jobs that I had almost gotten would just slip away!
Nothing has really been working in my life since then.

I tried calling the lady but for years her number has been switched off. I guess she doesn't use the number anymore. I have prayed and prayed for forgiveness.

It is really not my fault cos she lied, but then I should have been more careful. I should have paid attention to little detail about her.

Maybe the sex wasn't the cause of my misfortune.....I really don't know, all I know is that my life was going on smoothly before the sex with her.

Please, you all should desist from sleeping with married men/women.

That it didn't affect Mr/Mrs A, doesn't mean it can't affect you, if you try it.

DemonInvoker:
She told me not to panic that her Husband knew Who I was..I was Shocked and Surprised at the same time... Immediately,They entered the sitting room I stood up to greet the man and she told the man that "This was that her cousin Brother she told him about"The man smiled and asked me about my mum and dad...That hope they were alright?!...I could barely answer and noded, yes.
He said,He knows my mum that she was a very nice woman..I shock..He then told me to feel comfortable at home.. .At This point I knew this wasn't just right...I couldn't stay any more.
They were just a perfect family and the man seem very nice...I Told them I was leaving that I wanted to go because of guilt and Conscience(That moral sense of feeling bad for doing wrong).
The man told me to wait,went inside,came out, brought 10k and gave me to pay transport...By the time I got outside the gates,I started crying, Thinking,I cried til I got Home... Through out that period I wasn't myself...I started regretting my life and every thing... Didn't bother picking the ladies calls again..Made Altar call that Sunday in church,asking God to Please,Forgive me for Sleeping with that Man's wife that thought I was her cousin,Which kind Life...By now,She would have sent me a 100 text msgs and Emails,E cards... Asking me what she ever did,I should Forgive her,she misses me,she wanted to see me,That she was not feeling fine,why I wasn't answering,
I should call her, including she was Pregnant.
I just Ignored.
Got to School that week and found out my name was pasted on the Senate list to come and face Senate for my involvement in causing disturbance,fighting,Cultism and destroying school property...I didn't believe it until I went and saw my name boldly written no mistakes...What a Shame.
Immediately,called my elder sister and told her...She asked me to come home.
I told my sister every thing(from my involvement in cultism and fighting to dating that lady)and she told me so all these was happening and no one knew.. she then told me not to worry that she would find a way to relate it to our parents in a way they would understand( Which she did).
I didn't bother going back to that school again...I cried through out that period coz after my matriculation I didn't know I would waste 3yrs+ with a cgpa of 3.24 and still go start school afresh all over again at 25yrs..I still see the face of that woman's husband I don't know...Some times I feel like I should go n report myself to the man but I No fit...I just try to forget everything....I see no know gain in sleeping with someone else's wife,it is a Taboo to me now...I run away from such evil no matter the kind of enticement involved.
No one should come and be preaching here,rather I'm the one preaching today...Let's us repent and turn from our wicked ways...Women especially...You know the one you doing Presently...Fear God and Change for Good.
This was a 100% True life Experience.

DaudaTheSexyGuy:
I have banged several married women and have never had such bad luck.

Your bad luck is merely coincidental or because you exploited her by using Your position to obtain sexual favours.

I occupy a powerful position but I have never used it to force anyone into having sex with me, all my sexual alliances are purely consensual

zexy2030:
I guess u r in warri

DemonInvoker:
She told me not to panic that her Husband knew Who I was..I was Shocked and Surprised at the same time... Immediately,They entered the sitting room I stood up to greet the man and she told the man that "This was that her cousin Brother she told him about"The man smiled and asked me about my mum and dad...That hope they were alright?!...I could barely answer and noded, yes.
He said,He knows my mum that she was a very nice woman..I shock..He then told me to feel comfortable at home.. .At This point I knew this wasn't just right...I couldn't stay any more.
They were just a perfect family and the man seem very nice...I Told them I was leaving that I wanted to go because of guilt and Conscience(That moral sense of feeling bad for doing wrong).
The man told me to wait,went inside,came out, brought 10k and gave me to pay transport...By the time I got outside the gates,I started crying, Thinking,I cried til I got Home... Through out that period I wasn't myself...I started regretting my life and every thing... Didn't bother picking the ladies calls again..Made Altar call that Sunday in church,asking God to Please,Forgive me for Sleeping with that Man's wife that thought I was her cousin,Which kind Life...By now,She would have sent me a 100 text msgs and Emails,E cards... Asking me what she ever did,I should Forgive her,she misses me,she wanted to see me,That she was not feeling fine,why I wasn't answering,
I should call her, including she was Pregnant.
I just Ignored.
Got to School that week and found out my name was pasted on the Senate list to come and face Senate for my involvement in causing disturbance,fighting,Cultism and destroying school property...I didn't believe it until I went and saw my name boldly written no mistakes...What a Shame.
Immediately,called my elder sister and told her...She asked me to come home.
I told my sister every thing(from my involvement in cultism and fighting to dating that lady)and she told me so all these was happening and no one knew.. she then told me not to worry that she would find a way to relate it to our parents in a way they would understand( Which she did).
I didn't bother going back to that school again...I cried through out that period coz after my matriculation I didn't know I would waste 3yrs+ with a cgpa of 3.24 and still go start school afresh all over again at 25yrs..I still see the face of that woman's husband I don't know...Some times I feel like I should go n report myself to the man but I No fit...I just try to forget everything....I see no know gain in sleeping with someone else's wife,it is a Taboo to me now...I run away from such evil no matter the kind of enticement involved.
No one should come and be preaching here,rather I'm the one preaching today...Let's us repent and turn from our wicked ways...Women especially...You know the one you doing Presently...Fear God and Change for Good.
This was a 100% True life Experience.

DaudaTheSexyGuy:
I have banged several married women and have never had such bad luck.

Your bad luck is merely coincidental or because you exploited her by using Your position to obtain sexual favours.

I occupy a powerful position but I have never used it to force anyone into having sex with me, all my sexual alliances are purely consensual

Barbiturate:
"If you have no sin in you, then throw the first stone"

I never took advantage of her. Read the story very well pls.

CalmElder:
Knowingly sleeping with a married person is wickedness, even if there's no karma. Do into others what you will have done to you.
That being said, if a lady lied to me concerning her status, na she bad luck go follow, no be me sam sam because I'm innocent.

Barbiturate:
I don't sleep with everything that has a hole! She was not the only female vendor I had. I also had female colleagues who are single, but she was the only one I had something with cos I like her humble nature. U don't just sit in your house and judge people. I don't need this kind of talks. U don't know what I have been through in my life, for a mistake that didn't come from me. Stop judging me. Leave me to nurse my problems and cry to my God. You're not my God

Barbiturate:
I will like to shed more light on this thread below:

https://www.nairaland.com/6499558/ever-bad-luck-after-premarital

Yes. Sleeping with a married woman/man can bring bad luck.

My Story:

She came to my office seeking to be a vendor for the company I use to work for. Black beauty, busty and good ass. After coming to meet me for about 3 times, I decided to make her a vendor with little supply; low PO(purchase order) value. After some days, I wooed her and invited her over to my place. I had asked ab initio, if she was married and she said No! No ring on her finger.

We had sex and after the sex I discovered she wasn't happy. I asked and she said nothing.
Later, I increased the value of the PO and even directed her to a bank where she could get loan for the supply. Bank marketers usually come to my office asking me to send down my vendors to their office for PO financing.

After some few months I was transferred to another state. She came to my new office with a bulgy pregnancy and I got so shocked. I immediately took her outside for questioning.
She said she was sorry for not telling me she was married. She said she did it cos she wanted the PO badly. Her husband lost his job and she wanted to do something to help out. She said she was pregnant the day we had sex and she was sad cos she cheated on her husband.
I prepared a PO for her to supply, with a very high value.
After some months she called that she lost her babies(twins) while giving birth. I felt so bad for her.

Not quite long after the incident, I lost my job. Came to Lagos. Stayed few years at home, got another job in Delta......lost it within 6 months. Came back to Lagos again. Stayed some years jobless. Got another job, lost it within 2 years. While all these were going, all the relationships I ventured into, crashed. I got another job in Lagos and lost it within a year.
I had lost so many job opportunities....I mean jobs that I had almost gotten would just slip away!
Nothing has really been working in my life since then.

I tried calling the lady but for years her number has been switched off. I guess she doesn't use the number anymore. I have prayed and prayed for forgiveness.

It is really not my fault cos she lied, but then I should have been more careful. I should have paid attention to little detail about her.

Maybe the sex wasn't the cause of my misfortune.....I really don't know, all I know is that my life was going on smoothly before the sex with her.

Please, you all should desist from sleeping with married men/women.

That it didn't affect Mr/Mrs A, doesn't mean it can't affect you, if you try it.

Barbiturate:
"If you have no sin in you, then throw the first stone"

I never took advantage of her. Read the story very well pls.

Barbiturate:
I will like to shed more light on this thread below:

https://www.nairaland.com/6499558/ever-bad-luck-after-premarital
.

Maybe the sex wasn't the cause of my misfortune.....I really don't know, all I know is that my life was going on smoothly before the sex with her.
.

Ginaz:
That's why I will never date a married man, let alone sleep with one and I'm so happy that I've kept to my promise despite the pleas and offers of monetary gifts to sway my decision and oath.

I fear God and I fear what he has joined together. I will never have that guilt on my conscience. I'm extremely careful when it comes to married men. I always reject them , in fact, once I know you're married , I keep you at a distance.

That was how one married man was disturbing me for a relationship, that he would do anything for me, sponsor me out of the country. I no gree o. No money in this world would changed my mind .

Ishilove:
Have you considered deliverance?

Evolutionlove:
Hmmmm Yinmu, What If the man won't touch you or have any Intimacy with you lol.....

PrimadonnaO:
The real crime here was that you probably took advantage of her.

Juliearth:
I can feel your pain bro. Its a good thing that you have admitted your wrong and you are sorry for it. You are on the right path. Continue to pray to God, fast if you can and I trust that God would look down upon you with mercy. All will be well with you bro!