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Lovethaa:
I posted a thread yesterday Expressing my displeasure with one babe called Jolade that opened up her dark past to me. (not real name)

Well after consulting with two other mature friends of mine ,they made me see that she's been honest and for her to come out clean it means she loves me so much ., They asked me to treat the whole saga maturely

Although I no longer have plans to marry her but I'd still be her friend and hopefully try to be a positive impact in her life plus she's a hottie and I'm enjoying the kisses and cuddles and the free food she brings for me everyday..

Now the issue at hand is that she was dating a certain guy before she met me , this was the same guy she did 4 abortions for ,she claimed she likes the guy but her parents are against thier union and her whole family including her elder brother have warned her severally to stay away from him and this made thier relationship complicated.

Although they still kept seeing secretly she however claimed she didn't love him like she use to because of her parents decision plus she claims the guy always beat her whenever she refuse him sex and he hardly takes he out ..

She says whenever she visits him even If she spends a week in the guy house ,The guy will never take her out but prefer to keep her in the house, supplying her food and sex till she goes back to school.

She said she was surprised when she met me and I offered to take her to a fancy restaurant to eat because that is something her boyfriend never does plus she likes that I listen to her and ofcourse I think I look better .

So this and other reasons prompted her to start avoiding the guy ,. Although she didn't tell me who the guy iis or show me his pic., I never bothered to ask

This Evening after work , just as I was about to walk into my street one Bros from my estate approached me although I know him but we don't talk , just greet and pass ,the guy is one street guy like that ,he loves hosting party and alot of bad boys do come to his apartment

we don't vibe so I was kinda surprised when he asked to talk to me .

This guy then went on to introduce himself as the boyfriend of the babe at my Workplace , he claims he knows am messing around with his girlfriend ,

I was quite dumb founded and surprised and when I asked him how he was sure of all this ,he brought out his phone and showed me MY OWN PICTURES ...He told me Jolade sent sent him my picture to let him know I'm the new boyfriend ..


The guy claimed that when his boys saw my pic and recognized me they wanted to corner me up and beat me for snatching his girlfriend but that he told them to calm down because he feels I might no be aware ...

He then went on to explain that he still loves his girlfriend and he wants me to stop talking to her , He says they have been together for 4 years and also asked me if I know she has done abortions for him.?... I pretended as If I haven't heard , he then told me how they met and everything about their love and sexual life..he said so many nasty things about her just so I can know that they have done shit together..


He then begged me to leave her saying he wants to marry her and that he would have if not that her parents don't like him .he told me since Jolade met me she has changed , I assured him that I'm not interested in his girlfriend ,he thanked me and we said our goodbyes..




Now I think this babe wants to kill me before my time , imagine sending my pic to her boyfriend without telling me .. I confronted her on the phone and she was begging me to please forgive her saying she doesn't want the guy anymore , she was even suggesting that I relocate..



I wish I could stand for her though because this guy is. it worth get at all.. but I fear for my own life

anitabella:
U have 2 options..


1. Free the girl cos it won't end well for u... No go die untop toto matter...

2. Still go ahead with the girl and marry her... . And I guarantee you that the boyfriend will still be fvcking her behind ur back...

Kaylet:
Accepted.
I'm yet to see any reasonable contribution you've made.
You're an idiot. Did I just say, you're an idiot. I'm sorry about that...
It's not a must you comment.
All your senses must be malfunctioning, you're still an idiot though m

Adun2020:
I can really say, you don't have sense without being sorry.
Op, I suggest you free the girl and guy to face their cross

Adun2020:
I can really say, you don't have sense without being sorry.
Op, I suggest you free the girl and guy to face their cross

Cerebellum:
It pained you to the extent you can't even finish your sentence


You're a disgusting Arindindin

Kaylet:
The whole of your generation is Arindin M.

Lovethaa:
I posted a thread yesterday Expressing my displeasure with one babe called Jolade that opened up her dark past to me. (not real name)

Well after consulting with two other mature friends of mine ,they made me see that she's been honest and for her to come out clean it means she loves me so much ., They asked me to treat the whole saga maturely

Although I no longer have plans to marry her but I'd still be her friend and hopefully try to be a positive impact in her life plus she's a hottie and I'm enjoying the kisses and cuddles and the free food she brings for me everyday..

Now the issue at hand is that she was dating a certain guy before she met me , this was the same guy she did 4 abortions for ,she claimed she likes the guy but her parents are against thier union and her whole family including her elder brother have warned her severally to stay away from him and this made thier relationship complicated.

Although they still kept seeing secretly she however claimed she didn't love him like she use to because of her parents decision plus she claims the guy always beat her whenever she refuse him sex and he hardly takes he out ..

She says whenever she visits him even If she spends a week in the guy house ,The guy will never take her out but prefer to keep her in the house, supplying her food and sex till she goes back to school.

She said she was surprised when she met me and I offered to take her to a fancy restaurant to eat because that is something her boyfriend never does plus she likes that I listen to her and ofcourse I think I look better .

So this and other reasons prompted her to start avoiding the guy ,. Although she didn't tell me who the guy iis or show me his pic., I never bothered to ask

This Evening after work , just as I was about to walk into my street one Bros from my estate approached me although I know him but we don't talk , just greet and pass ,the guy is one street guy like that ,he loves hosting party and alot of bad boys do come to his apartment

we don't vibe so I was kinda surprised when he asked to talk to me .

This guy then went on to introduce himself as the boyfriend of the babe at my Workplace , he claims he knows am messing around with his girlfriend ,

I was quite dumb founded and surprised and when I asked him how he was sure of all this ,he brought out his phone and showed me MY OWN PICTURES ...He told me Jolade sent sent him my picture to let him know I'm the new boyfriend ..


The guy claimed that when his boys saw my pic and recognized me they wanted to corner me up and beat me for snatching his girlfriend but that he told them to calm down because he feels I might no be aware ...

He then went on to explain that he still loves his girlfriend and he wants me to stop talking to her , He says they have been together for 4 years and also asked me if I know she has done abortions for him.?... I pretended as If I haven't heard , he then told me how they met and everything about their love and sexual life..he said so many nasty things about her just so I can know that they have done shit together..


He then begged me to leave her saying he wants to marry her and that he would have if not that her parents don't like him .he told me since Jolade met me she has changed , I assured him that I'm not interested in his girlfriend ,he thanked me and we said our goodbyes..




Now I think this babe wants to kill me before my time , imagine sending my pic to her boyfriend without telling me .. I confronted her on the phone and she was begging me to please forgive her saying she doesn't want the guy anymore , she was even suggesting that I relocate..



I wish I could stand for her though because this guy is. it worth get at all.. but I fear for my own life

PrimadonnaO:
@emboldened, very irritating. Plus this your story is starting to look like Africa Magic.

That being said, Lolade needs a therapist. Something probably went off in her, perhaps after she was raped by her uncle at a tender age.

She seems to have been making a lot of bad choices in men. Why's she dating a rough nigga like that? From how you presented her in your last post, she shouldn't be the kind of girl to date street boys.

That being said, use this opportunity to cut her off. Use the incidence of the harassment as a justification... not her abortion tales.

Also, please recommend that she sees a psychologist.

lkillbrokehoes:
This your fake and fictional story no dey finish? just because you want to make front page? smh

Cerebellum:
Not sorry the Ful i replied genuinely, genuinely o has a P.A


You're exceptionally deluded,my dear

Cerebellum:
Uhmm...I actually took you for a petty and misguided ful


I find scumms like you who abuse other pple's family bcoz thiers abandoned them....Who koba you??

Anyways, beta change ur way you idiott

BluDesk:
Una problems nor dey ever finish. Na wa

Kaylet:
Your parents tried their best to nurture you and give you the best, but it ended up being a waste.

You ended up disgracing yourself. What a pity!

Attitude is a waste,
Academically it's a waste.


You're not even useful to yourself.

M means M O R O N

Adun2020:
You're a maggot, you can't even spell rightly, let alone having the comprehension to make a complete statement.

slowpoke, wastage to the society.

You must be of those that escaped from Imo jail break...

Lovethaa:
I posted a thread yesterday Expressing my displeasure with one babe called Jolade that opened up her dark past to me. (not real name)

Well after consulting with two other mature friends of mine ,they made me see that she's been honest and for her to come out clean it means she loves me so much ., They asked me to treat the whole saga maturely

Although I no longer have plans to marry her but I'd still be her friend and hopefully try to be a positive impact in her life plus she's a hottie and I'm enjoying the kisses and cuddles and the free food she brings for me everyday..

Now the issue at hand is that she was dating a certain guy before she met me , this was the same guy she did 4 abortions for ,she claimed she likes the guy but her parents are against thier union and her whole family including her elder brother have warned her severally to stay away from him and this made thier relationship complicated.

Although they still kept seeing secretly she however claimed she didn't love him like she use to because of her parents decision plus she claims the guy always beat her whenever she refuse him sex and he hardly takes he out ..

She says whenever she visits him even If she spends a week in the guy house ,The guy will never take her out but prefer to keep her in the house, supplying her food and sex till she goes back to school.

She said she was surprised when she met me and I offered to take her to a fancy restaurant to eat because that is something her boyfriend never does plus she likes that I listen to her and ofcourse I think I look better .

So this and other reasons prompted her to start avoiding the guy ,. Although she didn't tell me who the guy iis or show me his pic., I never bothered to ask

This Evening after work , just as I was about to walk into my street one Bros from my estate approached me although I know him but we don't talk , just greet and pass ,the guy is one street guy like that ,he loves hosting party and alot of bad boys do come to his apartment

we don't vibe so I was kinda surprised when he asked to talk to me .

This guy then went on to introduce himself as the boyfriend of the babe at my Workplace , he claims he knows am messing around with his girlfriend ,

I was quite dumb founded and surprised and when I asked him how he was sure of all this ,he brought out his phone and showed me MY OWN PICTURES ...He told me Jolade sent sent him my picture to let him know I'm the new boyfriend ..


The guy claimed that when his boys saw my pic and recognized me they wanted to corner me up and beat me for snatching his girlfriend but that he told them to calm down because he feels I might no be aware ...

He then went on to explain that he still loves his girlfriend and he wants me to stop talking to her , He says they have been together for 4 years and also asked me if I know she has done abortions for him.?... I pretended as If I haven't heard , he then told me how they met and everything about their love and sexual life..he said so many nasty things about her just so I can know that they have done shit together..


He then begged me to leave her saying he wants to marry her and that he would have if not that her parents don't like him .he told me since Jolade met me she has changed , I assured him that I'm not interested in his girlfriend ,he thanked me and we said our goodbyes..




Now I think this babe wants to kill me before my time , imagine sending my pic to her boyfriend without telling me .. I confronted her on the phone and she was begging me to please forgive her saying she doesn't want the guy anymore , she was even suggesting that I relocate..



I wish I could stand for her though because this guy is. it worth get at all.. but I fear for my own life

Lovethaa:
I posted a thread yesterday Expressing my displeasure with one babe called Jolade that opened up her dark past to me. (not real name)

Well after consulting with two other mature friends of mine ,they made me see that she's been honest and for her to come out clean it means she loves me so much ., They asked me to treat the whole saga maturely

Although I no longer have plans to marry her but I'd still be her friend and hopefully try to be a positive impact in her life plus she's a hottie and I'm enjoying the kisses and cuddles and the free food she brings for me everyday..

Now the issue at hand is that she was dating a certain guy before she met me , this was the same guy she did 4 abortions for ,she claimed she likes the guy but her parents are against thier union and her whole family including her elder brother have warned her severally to stay away from him and this made thier relationship complicated.

Although they still kept seeing secretly she however claimed she didn't love him like she use to because of her parents decision plus she claims the guy always beat her whenever she refuse him sex and he hardly takes he out ..

She says whenever she visits him even If she spends a week in the guy house ,The guy will never take her out but prefer to keep her in the house, supplying her food and sex till she goes back to school.

She said she was surprised when she met me and I offered to take her to a fancy restaurant to eat because that is something her boyfriend never does plus she likes that I listen to her and ofcourse I think I look better .

So this and other reasons prompted her to start avoiding the guy ,. Although she didn't tell me who the guy iis or show me his pic., I never bothered to ask

This Evening after work , just as I was about to walk into my street one Bros from my estate approached me although I know him but we don't talk , just greet and pass ,the guy is one street guy like that ,he loves hosting party and alot of bad boys do come to his apartment

we don't vibe so I was kinda surprised when he asked to talk to me .

This guy then went on to introduce himself as the boyfriend of the babe at my Workplace , he claims he knows am messing around with his girlfriend ,

I was quite dumb founded and surprised and when I asked him how he was sure of all this ,he brought out his phone and showed me MY OWN PICTURES ...He told me Jolade sent sent him my picture to let him know I'm the new boyfriend ..


The guy claimed that when his boys saw my pic and recognized me they wanted to corner me up and beat me for snatching his girlfriend but that he told them to calm down because he feels I might no be aware ...

He then went on to explain that he still loves his girlfriend and he wants me to stop talking to her , He says they have been together for 4 years and also asked me if I know she has done abortions for him.?... I pretended as If I haven't heard , he then told me how they met and everything about their love and sexual life..he said so many nasty things about her just so I can know that they have done shit together..


He then begged me to leave her saying he wants to marry her and that he would have if not that her parents don't like him .he told me since Jolade met me she has changed , I assured him that I'm not interested in his girlfriend ,he thanked me and we said our goodbyes..




Now I think this babe wants to kill me before my time , imagine sending my pic to her boyfriend without telling me .. I confronted her on the phone and she was begging me to please forgive her saying she doesn't want the guy anymore , she was even suggesting that I relocate..



I wish I could stand for her though because this guy is. it worth get at all.. but I fear for my own life

paroleski:
Someone asked if you have slept with the girl? No answer

Well, if you have or not, it doesn’t matter because that her ex bf has her pin code and can always sleep with her anytime he wants . Victims tend to submit to their abusers.

Another thing is you need to relocate if u still want to have a relationship with her( though he can still trace u to your workplace)

Since you say you can’t marry her, why don’t you just let her be( ur life is at stake here)

You speak of making positive impact but we all know that translates to HIT AND RUN

imagine the heartbroken girl complaining to her psycho boyfriend that you used and dumped her ?

Cerebellum:
You see, you still repeated what I corrected you for


Why are u A Eleribuu person ntori oloun....Just bcoz of your bad and awful behavior you were sent away from home, you this deluded, sad and abandoned Arindidndin yii


Fvck off you dammnn being!

Cerebellum:
Alright, those words were 'wrong' bcoz nairaland has a rule of words which cud actually make you get banned coz you are a deludedd person(just like I mentioned earlier)


Use your brain girl and stop being a Nitwit!

Kaylet:
They'll soon catch you again, and you'll know how folly you're.
Hence, your generation is cursed.