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NaijaMutant:
Greetings y'all,

Just making my debut in the romance section.

Why relationship is a scam.

Human beings are selfish by nature and everyone is only looking out for himself/herself. This is an undeniable fact. This fact also applies to relationships.

He is rich and she's beautiful; he wants a beautiful lady to match his wealth while she wants a rich guy to complement her beauty. Both of them reach a compromise to enter into a relationship since their selfish interest has been met.

When you also consider other various qualities such as Intelligence, education, complexion, character, height, sense of humor amongst other biases that shapes our selfish interest; both parties reach a compromise when their interest is met.

Both parties profess love and a relationship is established which is usually expected to lead to marriage. This is usually the case of some beautiful marriages around us.

Things usually fall apart the moment a partner meets another person who is higher in the scale of preference to satisfy his/her interest.

Then, the losing party feels cheated, betrayed and eventually turns into a feminist or misogynist.

We usually pretend our relationships are born out of true love forgetting that true love is not usually conditional or selfish.

If you have this understanding, you'll no longer kill yourself when your partner finds a better partner that will fulfill his/her dreams (selfish interest)

Know this and know peace.

P.S: This narrative does not negate the existence of true love which accounts for less than 5% of marriages today.

Fiscus105:
the issue is that guys will never go and meet ladies that they want to Bleep, since sex is seen as dirty, but guys would rather hide under relationship .....say I love u I want relationship but deep inside man is to just suck and throw the reminant .....and for the ladies, they see their body as sacred and they believe man can't do without it, as a result ladies put premium on their body

AsherAmari:
Exactly!
This is the reason a lot of relationships today hit the rocks even before they start. The moment you fall short of the high expectations, the "love" dwindles drastically without warnings and you begin to wonder what happened to the initial professions of love for each other. Where did things go wrong? Meanwhile, our selfish Interests all along have blinded us from seeing that there was really no genuineness in our intentions from the onset.

I've said it, no son of man will come with deception to woo me. The spirit of God will expose and disgrace him by fire!

GoodFaith:
how u think


Out of 100 people
5 people making out of the 5 people 3 are stealing the people's money

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Mature--------"See the people that call themselves matured people opening their dirty mouth to say that relationship is a scam.."
unreality
Somebody like you will say Nigeria have a future
lie to yourself
Today relationship and marriage are full of BS

NaijaMutant:
Greetings y'all,

Just making my debut in the romance section.

Why relationship is a scam.

Human beings are selfish by nature and everyone is only looking out for himself/herself. This is an undeniable fact. This fact also applies to relationships.

He is rich and she's beautiful; he wants a beautiful lady to match his wealth while she wants a rich guy to complement her beauty. Both of them reach a compromise to enter into a relationship since their selfish interest has been met.

When you also consider other various qualities such as Intelligence, education, complexion, character, height, sense of humor amongst other biases that shapes our selfish interest; both parties reach a compromise when their interest is met.

Both parties profess love and a relationship is established which is usually expected to lead to marriage. This is usually the case of some beautiful marriages around us.

Things usually fall apart the moment a partner meets another person who is higher in the scale of preference to satisfy his/her interest.

Then, the losing party feels cheated, betrayed and eventually turns into a feminist or misogynist.

We usually pretend our relationships are born out of true love forgetting that true love is not usually conditional or selfish.

If you have this understanding, you'll no longer kill yourself when your partner finds a better partner that will fulfill his/her dreams (selfish interest)

Know this and know peace.

P.S: This narrative does not negate the existence of true love which accounts for less than 5% of marriages today.

punisha:
this your talk self be somehow.

I dey broke when I marry my wife that year.

she is beautiful, Intelligent (I no sabi anything)

how many years later, her beauty is now pronounced and enhanced. she's also a career woman.

she married me in my wowo state.

Relationship no be always scam.

ps, whomever broke ur heart needs to be stoned.

NaijaMutant:
Greetings y'all,

Just making my debut in the romance section.

Why relationship is a scam.

Human beings are selfish by nature and everyone is only looking out for himself/herself. This is an undeniable fact. This fact also applies to relationships.

He is rich and she's beautiful; he wants a beautiful lady to match his wealth while she wants a rich guy to complement her beauty. Both of them reach a compromise to enter into a relationship since their selfish interest has been met.

When you also consider other various qualities such as Intelligence, education, complexion, character, height, sense of humor amongst other biases that shapes our selfish interest; both parties reach a compromise when their interest is met.

Both parties profess love and a relationship is established which is usually expected to lead to marriage. This is usually the case of some beautiful marriages around us.

Things usually fall apart the moment a partner meets another person who is higher in the scale of preference to satisfy his/her interest.

Then, the losing party feels cheated, betrayed and eventually turns into a feminist or misogynist.

We usually pretend our relationships are born out of true love forgetting that true love is not usually conditional or selfish.

If you have this understanding, you'll no longer kill yourself when your partner finds a better partner that will fulfill his/her dreams (selfish interest)

Know this and know peace.

P.S: This narrative does not negate the existence of true love which accounts for less than 5% of marriages today.

punisha:
this your talk self be somehow.

I dey broke when I marry my wife that year.

she is beautiful, Intelligent (I no sabi anything)

how many years later, her beauty is now pronounced and enhanced. she's also a career woman.

she married me in my wowo state.

Relationship no be always scam.

ps, whomever broke ur heart needs to be stoned.

MrIcredible:
Keep fooling yourself.
One man's leftover is another man's queen... Your sense fit no wan understand but that's your problem. Your wife has a past and she needed marriage with you for distraction...

AsherAmari:
Exactly!
This is the reason a lot of relationships today hit the rocks even before they start. The moment you fall short of the high expectations, the "love" dwindles drastically without warnings and you begin to wonder what happened to the initial professions of love for each other. Where did things go wrong? Meanwhile, our selfish Interests all along have blinded us from seeing that there was really no genuineness in our intentions from the onset.

I've said it, no son of man will come with deception to woo me. The spirit of God will expose and disgrace him by fire!

SimplyFacts:
I almost mistook you for a friend below

AsherAmari:

punisha:
I am happily married and its been 6 glorious years and we will count many more. I didnt own a bicycle, until she came, now I own cars , lands and houses all in 6years oh u can add that I regularly travel for business too.
keep being depressed over my happiness, guess what ? I've been here for long to know that people like u will never amount to anything in life. die off never remembered nor with a decent partner.

so yes my wife had a past and so did I...
I actually had a horrible life worse than hers so go and look for who to shame.
need I remind u that the topic is about relationship being a scam, mine isn't.

read it through slowly then tell yourself the truth...u will die lonely.

SimplyFacts:
Lolz,,,,
I took it down coz I wouldn't want it to go beyond here

Fiscus105:
the issue is that guys will never go and meet ladies that they want to Bleep, since sex is seen as dirty, but guys would rather hide under relationship .....say I love u I want relationship but deep inside man is to just suck and throw the reminant .....and for the ladies, they see their body as sacred and they believe man can't do without it, as a result ladies put premium on their body, ......did you think I'm a prostitute? yet deep inside them they want good money after going out with guys but they too hide under relationship blablah.

AsherAmari:
Ok.

She's your girl?

NaijaMutant:
Greetings y'all,

Just making my debut in the romance section.

Why relationship is a scam.

Human beings are selfish by nature and everyone is only looking out for himself/herself. This is an undeniable fact. This fact also applies to relationships.

He is rich and she's beautiful; he wants a beautiful lady to match his wealth while she wants a rich guy to complement her beauty. Both of them reach a compromise to enter into a relationship since their selfish interest has been met.

When you also consider other various qualities such as Intelligence, education, complexion, character, height, sense of humor amongst other biases that shapes our selfish interest; both parties reach a compromise when their interest is met.

Both parties profess love and a relationship is established which is usually expected to lead to marriage. This is usually the case of some beautiful marriages around us.

Things usually fall apart the moment a partner meets another person who is higher in the scale of preference to satisfy his/her interest.

Then, the losing party feels cheated, betrayed and eventually turns into a feminist or misogynist.

We usually pretend our relationships are born out of true love forgetting that true love is not usually conditional or selfish.

If you have this understanding, you'll no longer kill yourself when your partner finds a better partner that will fulfill his/her dreams (selfish interest)

Know this and know peace.

P.S: This narrative does not negate the existence of true love which accounts for less than 5% of marriages today.

walkingshadow911:
Only a career woman can be there for a man.
Any man dating a broke girl and jobless is only dating himself while the girl is only dating his pocket
it is what it is
thank your stars dude

2elliot:
Una wan just kill the marriage and family unit God created and blessed by force by fire. See as we have become very confused and lonely as humans after going against the standard of God for relationships and marriage. Love is very very scarce now. Again and again, humans have vindicated God and have shown that sin is a reproach.
Well, I am patiently waiting for that day when the Biblical prophecy will be fulfilled, when seven women will toast a man and beg him to marry them. I can't wait to chop seven of these vagina people when their shakara don end.

Chykes4micheal:
Let me tell you something... Many well meaning Nigerians have concluded that Nigeria have no future because of the kind of people and leaders we have amidst what is happening currently.

Truth be told, i almost joined the populace in drawing a conclusion that there is no future in Nigeria and that Nigeria cannot be better in any way... Not until i realised that the people of Isreal suffered in the hands of the Egyptians for 430 years before God heard their cry and sent Moses to go bring them out of bondage. 430 years no be beans o... But at least Isreal was saved.

So, I have this to say.... Nigeria still has a future. Nigeria will become far better than Canada one day. That day might not even come in your generation. It might come during the generation unborn. But it must, i repeat... It MUST come to pass where Nigeria will have a future. Whether take 500 years or not, it must surely come. Believe it or not!

Big scam. Everyone loves u when there is money. When the chips are down, No love. This applies to both male and females.
Please, check my signature

punisha:
this your talk self be somehow.

I dey broke when I marry my wife that year.
Now i am blessed beyond measure.

she is beautiful, Intelligent (I no sabi anything)

how many years later, her beauty is now pronounced and enhanced. she's also a career woman.

she married me in my wowo state. like i had nothing to offer.

Relationship no be always scam.

for those quoting me and saying rubbish, sorry but not sorry if my happiness is your headache.


ps, whomever broke ur heart needs to be stoned.

Fiscus105:
the issue is that guys will never go and meet ladies that they want to Bleep, since sex is seen as dirty, but guys would rather hide under relationship .....say I love u I want relationship but deep inside man is to just suck and throw the reminant .....and for the ladies, they see their body as sacred and they believe man can't do without it, as a result ladies put premium on their body, ......did you think I'm a prostitute? yet deep inside them they want good money after going out with guys and not necessarily committed relationship , but they too hide under relationship blablah.