Lafrresh:
People who say "Relationship is a scam " have not found true love or don't know how to keep a good relationship... Saying this makes them feel better ...

There's still true love out there

FalseProphet1:
Youths of these days love any discussion involving sex or relationship, I see this thread exceeding 5 pages. This I have seen.

Dalil8:
I quite agree.

And it's human nature to be selfish

GoodFaith:


Lot of people will say they want true love
lot of people are doing what the OP said-- sad reality
I personally see the world from treating people the way you want to be treated
There are few words I like to use respect, consideration and Fairness (treated people the way you want to be treated)

Playermayweda:
Yes Op undisputed facts, Accurate to perfection,But i have a question for you.



WHO BROKE UR HEART MAH!!!

NaijaMutant:


Hey!

It will be nice if you give a dissenting opinion with a superior logic rather than cancelling my post.

That's rude.

punisha:




it is not what it is dude.
no stars to thank either.
someday u will get mature enough to know what u want in a relationship.
not all r scam.

IceDune:
It's called symbiosis

It's a way of life of animals and are all animals

lkillbrokehoes:
The abortions and crazy things you did, it's bad that you can't even recall.

GoodFaith:


If there are 500 relationship
Please tell me the numbers that are true love?
Relationship and marriages are conditional love-- most time we all find a common ground

GoodFaith:


I did share same of the OP view
Lot of women have made lot of men life better --if it is by arrangement business transaction called marriage

NaijaMutant:
Greetings y'all,

Just making my debut in the romance section.

Why relationship is a scam.

Human beings are selfish by nature and everyone is only looking out for himself/herself. This is an undeniable fact. This fact also applies to relationships.

He is rich and she's beautiful; he wants a beautiful lady to match his wealth while she wants a rich guy to complement her beauty. Both of them reach a compromise to enter into a relationship since their selfish interest has been met.

When you also consider other various qualities such as Intelligence, education, complexion, character, height, sense of humor amongst other biases that shapes our selfish interest; both parties reach a compromise when their interest is met.

Both parties profess love and a relationship is established which is usually expected to lead to marriage. This is usually the case of some beautiful marriages around us.

Things usually fall apart the moment a partner meets another person who is higher in the scale of preference to satisfy his/her interest.

Then, the losing party feels cheated, betrayed and eventually turns into a feminist or misogynist.

We usually pretend our relationships are born out of true love forgetting that true love is not usually conditional or selfish.

If you have this understanding, you'll no longer kill yourself when your partner finds a better partner that will fulfill his/her dreams (selfish interest)

Know this and know peace.

P.S: This narrative does not negate the existence of true love which accounts for less than 5% of marriages today.

IceDune:
It's called symbiosis

It's a way of life of animals and are all animals

BlackFlamefromP:
Please don't insult animals. Animals are far superior to human when it comes to a capacity for pure, unconditional and non-judgemental love.

If you have ever had a dog you will understand what I am talking about.

Mypeople2:
My guy most of them are parasitic .She is beautiful and the guy is a millionaire...must you leave him a thousandnaire ? Did he reduce your beauty?

saphiere:
Hmmm Saint Obi thanks

Chykes4micheal:
See the people that call themselves matured people opening their dirty mouth to say that relationship is a scam....

For all of you who agreed that it is a scam, you guys are the main problem in your relationship and and that is why you believe it is a scam.

Let those who are enjoying their relationship continue to enjoy it abeg... Don't listen to this scrap that the writer put up here. Nonsense

After getting into wrong relationships, having wrong motives of entering the relationship in the first instance, una no begin talk rubbish. You will not ask God for direction on who you should start a relationship and settle down with. You will use your ordinary eyes and be choosing forgetting that anything at the realm of sight is temporal.

Annoying post

Chykes4micheal:


Dont call Nigeria a cursed country abeg. People are making it big time in Nigeria. There is no country that does not have her shortcomings or bad sides. Just for your info

NaijaMutant:
Agreed or disagreed ?

I'd like to hear what a dissenting opinion has to say about this.