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TimmyTen:
It is right to do the right thing... Let the friend know what he is into.... but be smart about it cos if the couple reconciles you’ll become the energy, if your Boss finds out you lose your job

Which renders your point useless
#mindyourbusiness

Twoclans:


Shebi you won't go and sleep you are disturbing your head ontop 2009 matter .OP:s last seen 2019.

Lumi go and sleep or better still go and look for a good ukwu.

Lmaoooooo. I do have insomnia sometimes.

The mod is just funny aswearugod. Are there no educative topics anymore?


Ukwu? Please,I'm fasting. Don't corrupt me

starbuck:
Op made this post months after I gave birth to my 1st daughter (she is 12 already)...

Just collect as much evidence you can then mail it to him. Telling him not to make moves but investigate himself.

cococandy:

Nwaanyị ọma ..

you are definitely going to lose your job and destroy your friend's marriage please mind your business

Straight up! If he likes let him hate me, I did him a solid no matter how he’s clueless brain wants to interpret it.

Yes!

It's very risk, I will mind my own business.

I'll playfully ask my friend what he would do in that situation and his answer will fuel my next act.

dafman10:
Is it proper to tell your friend that his wife is seriously having an affair with your boss?

Pls my dear NLders i need candid opinion(s) cos am in a serious dilemma

Go and mind your Business, that is my Candid opinion on this one.
And l will tell your Boss you are a Mole, he will sack you.

All the concocted stories about Female Infidelity sef, like it just started yesterday!
Abeg, free the Olosho jawe.

12 years ago

Oga, if you love your peace, mind your business ooo. In addition, jobs are not easy to come by.

If you love your friend/the wife, you could choose to find a way to reach her anonymously to desist from her acts as they are not healthy to her marriage and her mental health.

A 2009 thread gracing front page in 2021, that is about 12 years ago

dafman10:
Is it proper to tell your friend that his wife is seriously having an affair with your boss?

Pls my dear NLders i need candid opinion(s) cos am in a serious dilemma

Will You Tell Your Friend His Wife Is Dating Your Boss? by dafman10(m): 2:19pm On Sep 28, 2009


Topic don finish for nairaland

in spongebob's voice



12years later...

of course bros before hoes


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Tobenia:
what else is new,i don't think there is anything new again in this generation of ours. I will just mind my bussiness. its left 4 him to find out himself.

Ok. can u have an affair with your boss? or what will lead you to have an affair with your boss?

Sine1:
I will fuk her as well

shame on you....

You must be from W

Yes

2009 thread, wetin happen

Mind your business bro..
The yard am staying, my friends babe normally comes to visit my next door neighbour n I believe they are f.king..she acts cool anytime she sees me both in my frnds presence n my compound. What's my business, its left for my friend to find out himself

Seun come and see

2009 thread

It's a case of how close am I to my friend. For a fair-weather friend, I mind my business except he ask me. For my Real-G, I'm telling.

Treat your headache

dafman10:
Is it proper to tell your friend that his wife is seriously having an affair with your boss?

Pls my dear NLders i need candid opinion(s) cos am in a serious dilemma

This is a dicey situation. Very dicey. because if you don't tell him, and he finds out later that you knew, If I were him, I would consider you as someone capable of murder. But if d guy na simp, d woman fit turn d table on u. And it could cost you more than your job.

But first and foremost, you MUST be absolutely sure that they are having affairs. You cannot afford the luxury of being wrong.

Then you can ask your friend how much he trusts his wife. Tell him that you feel she is not completely honest with him. Whatever you do, do not tell him the whole thing. He must find out by himself. Don't tell him about your boss or anybody else. Tell him to trail her for couple of weeks. Point him in d right direction.

But remember, if your boss had known that you know who the lady is, there is no way he wouldn't link you to any problem that come from this. And there is no way the Woman wouldn't link you to whatever happens. Unless you have not seen her and your boss together before.

:oi can't afford to loose my job

Talk at least let heaven see that you were part of the people that saved the marriage. My opinion.

PacAmaru:
Depending on how close I am with that my"friend"

Else I wouldn't mind fvvcking her too when I find out,on comasi level

Secondly he must be sure of himself.

AfroKnight:


The “Mind you business” crew will tell you to keep quiet. That’s why when shît happens to them nobody tells them until they lose out big time.

Friendship is about being loyal even when it is difficult to be loyal.

Solution:

If you are sure your friend is the type who believes in “mind your business” when he sees another friend in danger, then ignore him. He will not appreciate your loyalty. Let him find out the hard way, else you will be casting your Pearls before swine and they will trample upon it and turn against you.

Just know that if you tell him the truth, HE WILL TELL HIS WIFE THAT YOU TOLD HIM. That’s how people in relationships and marriages do. Whatever you don’t want the wife to hear, don’t tell the husband. Prepare for the consequences. And tell your friend what the consequences are if he reveals your identity to his wife.

I pity ur sorry thinking, and I biliv you read the situation very well, I also believe you have heard what we called joblessness and devastating effects.