phrancys001:
Fake story

nrexzy:
Cos d love don' clear for him eyes..? Him down realize say na office u wan use am open

Carchoice:
He realized you are catfishing him

Catfishing:
I want him as a friend.

I'm 28 and he is 23....the relationship will probably crumble due to certain issue.

Catfishing:
I want him as a friend.

I'm 28 and he is 23....the relationship will probably crumble due to certain issue.

Catfishing:
I want him as a friend.

I'm 28 and he is 23....the relationship will probably crumble due to certain issue.

Qatar2022:

You want him as a friend, why are you collecting money from him? Do you collect that money as what? Confused idiot, what you reject someone please reject everything about him/her to avoid had I know

Xenry:
From the way you wrote this your post, it's obvious that you are a guy.

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Sometimes I wonder—do Nairaland pay you guys for wasting your time here?

Catfishing:

This is harsh......I never meant to exploit him.

Qatar2022:

But that's what you are doing, that money you're collecting from him is for what and how do you pay him back? If another girl is doing such to your brother how will you feel

Michelle55:
In the space of 3weeks you have demanded more than the average Nigerian girls yet you don't want to date him?

How do you feel comfortable asking him for money when you clearly wants to be just friends with him?

He has realized what a liability you would be once you guys starts dating hence his drastic action to cut you loose before you drain him mentally and financially, sometimes love is never enough.

Within 3weeks he has aided you in monetary aspect, which areas of his life have you made better since you guys started hanging out?

He has everything to severe all ties with you and I commend him for doing it as quickly as possible with no emotional entanglement involved. What you know you can't provide for yourself, don't be quick to ask others for it. If it's that important, work for it.

You are 28 and he's 23, shame no even catch you as you dey demand

Catfishing:

This is harsh......I never meant to exploit him.

Catfishing:

Geez....never knew he viewed it this way

Catfishing:
I want him as a friend.

I'm 28 and he is 23....the relationship will probably crumble due to certain issue.

Michelle55:

I'm not saying it's wrong to ask for help, but don't get accustomed to it, there's a reason why God gave us brain, hands and legs my dear I beseech you to make use of it and create wealth for yourself.

If he's the type that gives and you know his source of income is legit, tell him you want to work and if he has your interests at heart he would assist you in getting a job. Teach me how to fish and not give me fish all the time, that should be how a relationship/friendship works.

Age has got nothing to do with how one hustle for money, I would rather you give me a job than give me money, trust me it pays better that way. You will be able to treat him well when you guys hang out and sometimes surprises him too, there's no law stipulated that men should do all the spending you know.

Ask for help only when it's necessary and important, curtail the habit of needing urgent 5k, shawarma money and those little change to avoid embarrassing moments such as this.

No one enjoys having a parasitic host who feeds off on them but contributes nothing to their growth, since you insisted on being friends with him I believe friendship cost nothing except if it now includes billings which I'm not aware of.

Michelle55:

I'm not saying it's wrong to ask for help, but don't get accustomed to it, there's a reason why God gave us brain, hands and legs my dear I beseech you to make use of it and create wealth for yourself.

If he's the type that gives and you know his source of income is legit, tell him you want to work and if he has your interests at heart he would assist you in getting a job. Teach me how to fish and not give me fish all the time, that should be how a relationship/friendship works.

Age has got nothing to do with how one hustle for money, I would rather you give me a job than give me money, trust me it pays better that way. You will be able to treat him well when you guys hang out and sometimes surprises him too, there's no law stipulated that men should do all the spending you know.

Ask for help only when it's necessary and important, curtail the habit of needing urgent 5k, shawarma money and those little change to avoid embarrassing moments such as this.

No one enjoys having a parasitic host who feeds off on them but contributes nothing to their growth, since you insisted on being friends with him I believe friendship cost nothing except if it now includes billings which I'm not aware of.

Catfishing:

But I didn't force him..... I asked and he gave me. If he had said NO, I won't have bother much.

Catfishing:

But I didn't force him..... I asked and he gave me. If he had said NO, I won't have bother much.

Qatar2022:
No
You are very wicked and senseless at the same time

ikennamadu1:

see rubbish talk.. that's why them dey cut Una breast and private parts for rituals ...

Catfishing:
I got to know this young, handsome guy sometime last month. Two visits in the space of 3 weeks and he was all over me.

But I wanted him as a friend and nothing more. The nigga is 5 yrs younger than me

On Monday he came visiting, we talked, laughed and had good time (no sex) then he proffessed his love for me, and I told him same thing: I don't believe in love blah blah blah.

I asked him for money and he gave me 4k. Today I called him and told him that I wanna travel to see my fams that he should give me 5k. But he sent 3k, and I thanked him.

Later, he blocked me on all available network......what went wrong? Why will he do such?

Insults and bashing are expected.

lalasticlala and mynd44

Catfishing:

But I didn't force him..... I asked and he gave me. If he had said NO, I won't have bother much.