My dear, being a virgin at that age is the best thing you will do to yourself.
I know marriage is no a one-size-fits-all kind of venture.
I married my wife as a virgin at 28.
We have learned to trust each other and walk together without distractions for 12years now.
Because I find her a virgin at the time of our wedding, I have learned to respect myself and respect her. I naturally cannot cheat on her. We are like hand and mouth.
Sex is a life commitment. If you do it before you get married to your spouse, it will make you suspect yourselves at every move in the course of your marriage.
I know this topic can be very controversial, but marrying a virgin will build trust and reduce the rate of divorce in our society.

Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

Stand your ground and don't compromise. God has a way of settling His own.

When a good door closes, God opens a better door and He closes a better door to open the best.

Fictitious Story**

Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

A man can Change His Mind At Any Point...Weather Before Or After Marriage. There Are Other Expectations Of You In Marriage Besides Your Virginity.Geddit!!

Why are you girls like asking for money

DemonInvoker:

A man can Change His Mind At Any Point...Weather Before Or After Marriage. There Are Other Expectations Of You In Marriage Besides Your Virginity.Geddit!!

Whether, not weather. Always write right.

Most girls don't reason at all, you say you don't want to have sex till after marriage. Person like me I will agree after marriage when I eat you finish like 6 good month I will devoice you immediately so you know that it's not all about vergins..

DICKstractor:




In this current generation, the only person you can date, ask for money without wanting anything in return is your father, brothers and me!!

Rare gems like me are few.

your reputation precedes you DICKstractor.

There are guys who don't want to have sex till they get married

My colleague a working class guy opened up to me ,actually broke up with a lady because she was trying to seduce him. Babe was like 'you better stop suffering yourself' kept on arranging situations where they would be alone, bobo confessed that he almost lost it at some point . last last the guy broke up with the lady and I do blame her because they had an agreement of no sex, it was a relationship leading to the altar, why did she agree if she knows she can't.

Now he's in another relationship with a lady who truly understands the NSBM agreement and we thank God.


Scenario 2, babe was a virgin been dating this guy abroad, guys mother wants babe to get pregnant before wedding, babe said she doesn't even intend having sex before she weds not to talk of belle, the issue dragged and dragged, laslas they broke up. Almost 6years later babe got married few weeks back as a virgin to one cool guy like that .

These things are not hard every opolo get hin kind.

So OP break up with him, you will see the one that will wait with you.

Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

Have discovered one thing about this life and it is that different people with different orientations and choices.
There are girls out there that don't want sex till marriage,
There are girls out there that can't do without sex,
There are guys out there that are practicing celibacy
And
There are guys out there that can't do without sex.
So just find someone with the same choice as you and when you do don't use billing to confuse him.
Walk and stumble not

Telstar:
Whether, not weather. Always write right.

Alright...Noted But Na My Intuition...I will Write it like That Again Next Time

favour32:

Ok!
I am a realist!
Girl wey nor wan sex,make she nor near dating.
If you nor chop food, nor use am dey smell nose.

Hahaha.

I don't really like virgins.

Is there any reason in particular why you're waiting till marriage? Marriage like many things requires you to be quite experienced in a lot of things.

Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

Stick on your word. Don't go against your wish, which is not bad, you will hate yourself and even the person after. I made same promise to myself that I will not sleep with any girl except the person I will marry and have sex with the girl until I marry her. Don't feel bad that you have been breaking up with people because of that. Those guys that is asking you for sex before marriage, are not your type. They might leave you for another girl as well, after you have given them the sex they want. Any guy that loves you will not leave you because you did not offer him sex before marriage. Stand still on that decision and you will see that God will provide for you who will respect your feeling. Do not look at your other female friends, they might come and tell you story on how they have been having sex with the person that want to marry them, don't listen to them that is their own decision not yours.

Yes, sis. Having the same experience over and over can be so frustrating, I think I'm going to follow your footstep on this matter.

The both of us are not broke, we exchange gifts on special occasions. I use to prepare food and take it down to his office to surprise him.
I am in a healthy relationship, we treat each other with respect but the problem is we agreed to wait till our wedding night but now he is suggesting that we start having MouthAction.
Perhaps, he does not understand that I'm not trying to keep my hymen intact, I take fornication as a sin

Afolashade00:


Hope I'm not too late to answer this question.
What I did was to stay away from relationship. I got tired of breaking up for the same reason, I was tired of hurting so I stayed away from relationship.
I understand you perfectly well, like if you dont date,how will you get to know him and all. You have to choose.
I don't joke with my job, I'm a hardworker because I have got me and me alone.
I take myself out, breath and smile more. I chose this path to keep myself, I have been called a fool several times because of several opportunities and all but I choose not to regret it no matter what .
I haven't met a man who understands why I want to keep myself but till then I do what makes me happy.
Shalom!

Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

This one is easy nah. If he cannot wait then you move . For me I can date without sex even for 10 years. Get someone who can respect your belief and values.

Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't wan?

Have discovered one thing about this life and it is that different people with different orientations and choices.
There are girls out there that don't want sex till marriage,
There are girls out there that can't do without sex,
There are guys out there that are practicing celibacy
And
There are guys out there that can't do without sex.
So just find someone with the same choice as you and when you do don't use billing to confuse him.
Walk and stumble not

MoneyTrees:



You're a real niggar
I'm so much impressed

na so my brother, those bit.Ches always think they are smart

As long as babes date for material gains... It has to be reciprocal

If you are worth it, you will find it

Jefferic:


This one is easy nah. If he cannot wait then you move . For me I can date without sex even for 10 years. Get someone who can respect your belief and values.

You can date without sex? Shut up! Don't be a wussy. What if you discover at last that the woman you're dating aren't a virgin, what are you gonna do?

Bullshit talk honestly

Rosement:
Yes, sis. Having the same experience over and over can be so frustrating, I think I'm going to follow your footstep on this matter.

The both of us are not broke, we exchange gifts on special occasions. I use to prepare food and take it down to his office to surprise him.
I am in a healthy relationship, we treat each other with respect but the problem is we agreed to wait till our wedding night but now he is suggesting that we start having MouthAction.
Perhaps, he does not understand that I'm not trying to keep my hymen intact, I take fornication as a sin

Break up with him your type will come.
Don't go against what you believe in

Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

It's pathetic that you had to create a new account in order to post this pointless thread

Stop asking guys for money, if you did that they'd stop pressuring you for sex too. It's even for your own good because there are too many ritualists on the prowl out there, looking for gullible girls like you to be used as sacrifice to the dark gods in exchange for wealth

Cypapa:
My dear, being a virgin at that age is the best thing you will do to yourself.
I know marriage is no a one-size-fits-all kind of venture.
I married my wife as a virgin at 28.
We have learned to trust each other and walk together without distractions for 12years now.
Because I find her a virgin at the time of our wedding, I have learned to respect myself and respect her. I naturally cannot cheat on her. We are like hand and mouth.
Sex is a life commitment. If you do it before you get married to your spouse, it will make you suspect yourselves at every move in the course of your marriage.
I know this topic can be very controversial, but marrying a virgin will build trust and reduce the rate of divorce in our society.

Totally agree

Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

Dont bill him till d wedding

Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

Don't ever try having sex with the guy, remain a virgin till you marry, not all men ask for sex before marriage, pray to God to send you your real man who will value you without sleeping with you, and marry you. Just stay strong and don't fall for temptation. Don't be decieved.

Just imagine white guy inspite the whole naija guy na because u like beta thing u go gree for white guy which u think say him mumu or u think say na those one wey u dey watch for that dstv wey u go dey love without no sex c'mon virgin gbogi dia open ur puna mak i see wetin I wan pay for

Rosement:
I am getting depressed that why I asked this question. I need advice on how to make my relationship work without sex, that's all.

Give him permission to flog other girls and come back to u when u are ready to marry. Guys are created to release d liquid by nature. Your bf chose to use s6x as his own and he wants it with u. As a virgin, I don’t advice u to give in to his demand cos if he eventually not marry u( which is very possible even if d excuse is not due to d s6x he had with u) u will feel bad. It’s also dangerous to just fall for any guy who is ready to wait for marriage before d act cos he might be hiding an impotency condition.

In conclusion, follow your instinct and don’t regret your decision.

Who says guys can't date without sex? I am a guy, I am 33 and I am a virgin and I know a lot of guys that are better than me.

Quality20:
just date sokoto guys.na we de date for years without asking for anything

You want boko Haram/fulani killer bandits to kill her on the road when she will be coming to you visit abi

If u truly don't wanna have sex till your wedding night.... Then the best option is to quit the relationship.....


Don't tell me you're dating a guy, and you expect him to stay for years without having sex...


What if he decides to marry u in the next 15yearssssss.