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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Freelancer2020(m): 11:10pm On Apr 30, 2021
Alexandersantos:
who go answer this question

they will do everything to avoid it, believe me
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by ReeLoaDead(m): 11:10pm On Apr 30, 2021
Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?
It is your own choice. If you desire to remain a virgin till marriage then do not give in to any dude. If he really cares for you he should be willing to wait.

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by ImpactCrater: 11:12pm On Apr 30, 2021
Rosement:
I'm financially independent

lori iro!
like say you no dey ask man money!

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Telstar: 11:12pm On Apr 30, 2021
smallsmall:


Start having Sex if you are of age ...........and get a Black dude to do it first.
Those White boys have tiny d!cks
grin grin
You're a bad boy. smiley

Those white guys would be dating our sisters, but when they see us with a white chick, they become jealous.
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by smallsmall: 11:13pm On Apr 30, 2021
pocohantas:


And how does that affect you? Did you come to this earth with any vagina in your palm? Why do you lots feel so entitled to one and what enters it?

No wonder Nigeria isn’t going forward, the kinda thing our men be obsessed with in 2021 is a pointer. Pffftt



So, for your Fish-brain, na because of Vagina Nigeria is not going forward? shocked shocked
Jeesus!

No wonder one guy accused you of suffering from Vaginatitis, on the other thread
grin grin grin

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Magnoliaa(f): 11:13pm On Apr 30, 2021
pocohantas:


And how does that affect you? Did you come to this earth with any vagina in your palm? Why do you lots feel so entitled to one and what enters it?

No wonder Nigeria isn’t going forward, the kinda thing our men be obsessed with in 2021 is a pointer. Pffftt

Huhhh? Wiariz this coming from? You tryna speak AAVE or it's Twitter influence? grin You don't write like this. Mba. I've not seen you do.
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by smallsmall: 11:14pm On Apr 30, 2021
Telstar:
You're a bad boy. smiley

No, l am just Bomboy grin grin
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Fabulouslouie(m): 11:16pm On Apr 30, 2021
DICKstractor:
undecided



In this current generation, the only person you can date, ask for money without wanting anything in return is your father, brothers and me!!

Rare gems like me are few.

This your moniker ehn
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Telstar: 11:16pm On Apr 30, 2021
smallsmall:


No, l am just Bomboy grin grin
You are bad. Very bad. wink Can't allow you get close to my sister.
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by smallsmall: 11:17pm On Apr 30, 2021
Crystalom3:
Imagine waiting for your wedding night only to discover she has been receiving it back to back

Only EFCC Chairman will resolve the matter that day, that is Relationship 419 naah! angry
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by smallsmall: 11:19pm On Apr 30, 2021
Telstar:
You are bad. Very bad. wink Can't allow you get close to my sister.

Imagine! The only Bomboy in our family who was a Virgin before he was 14yrs old! angry angry
You can trust me with every thing that wears a Skirt or Tight, l will not try nonsense, Aaaah-swear.
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by johnad3(m): 11:20pm On Apr 30, 2021
Which kan talk be that? And you wants to wait till the wedding day? I sense something in you it seems you re a transgendered and besides, how do you feel when you ve sex? Or what are you trying to portray till after the wedding day? Cus i dunno what you ladies really want sef
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Hassanmaye(m): 11:20pm On Apr 30, 2021
Jesterinjay:
these days wey be say dem fit replace hymen hmm make i dey watch
Are you serious
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by shileowo: 11:21pm On Apr 30, 2021
But, at 25 and still a virgin. If you want want to follow that route ,you should be married by 18-19yrs. Virgin get grades. compare 18yrs old virgin and 25 yrs old virgin. the quality of virginity is in question because structurally (wear and tear) would come to play. Hurry up and get married so the lucky guy will not be disappointed

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by brent07(m): 11:22pm On Apr 30, 2021
Rosement:
I am getting depressed that why I asked this question. I need advice on how to make my relationship work without sex, that's all.
don't get depressed it will get better
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by pocohantas(f): 11:23pm On Apr 30, 2021
Magnoliaa:


Huhhh? Wiariz this coming from? You tryna speak AAVE or it's Twitter influence? grin You don't write like this. Mba. I've not seen you do.

I dey vex. Very irritating creatures,m. If they channel just a tenth of the energy they put in toto matters into worthy things, we would know how far. In 2021, the topic that gets them triggered is that women no wan fck them. Anywhere you touch them, only woman matter. Nonsense!

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Telstar: 11:23pm On Apr 30, 2021
smallsmall:


Imagine! The only Bomboy in our family who was a Virgin before he was 14yrs old! angry angry
You can trust me with every thing that wears a Skirt or Tight, l will not try nonsense, Aaaah-swear.
Why I said you are a bad boy is simply because of your words "those white guys with tiny stuff." Those words used to move girls and they would want to test, you know?

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by smallsmall: 11:24pm On Apr 30, 2021
Hassanmaye:

Are you serious

With correct blood on Wedding day sef. grin grin

Any lady wey wan use Virginity winch me ehn, l go tell am say l nor want, make she give my maiGuard mad im break am first and we can then continue. Twueh! angry

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Hassanmaye(m): 11:26pm On Apr 30, 2021
smallsmall:


With correct blood on Wedding day sef. grin grin

Any lady wey wan use Virginity winch me ehn, l go tell am say l nor want, make she give my maiGuard mad im break am first and we can then continue. Twueh! angry
She can claim no sex before marriage but be giving John to chop on steady

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Rosement(f): 11:26pm On Apr 30, 2021
Change your mindset. Not all Nigerian ladies dating white guys use them to get a visa. Travelling overseas is not a problem for me, I don't need a white guy to travel out of the country. I can travel at ease, I have been travelling since I was little.
rahman3853:
what are u waiting for.ladies of nowadays self. What is going on, u mean out of the whole Nigeria, no guy? Now to a white who is probably seeing u as an object of sex and a lady grown in an impoverished country. This white ppl have little or no traditions. Come yo think about it, why do u think some tribe don't allow inter marriage? Its simply, marriage is not always a smooth ride, when time comes, there would be bumps, who do u go to when u need a shoulder to cry on, is a white mother who don't give a damn? Forget say 3rd party is bad, but sometim its is good to have someone who has the leash to ur spouse. Abeg if I hear u still hang on that relationship, it's either u are greedy or u just one ur ticket out of the country. But that's not the only way u can Gert out of the country. The 19 ur old girl with straight A,'S no get two heads
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by smallsmall: 11:27pm On Apr 30, 2021
Telstar:
Why I said you are a bad boy is simply because of your words you said those white guys with tiny stuff. Those words used to move girls and they would want to test you know?

Not just small but bent in a very grotesque angle grin grin

If a White guy dis-virgin his wife, be certain that she would cheat on him any day she sees the huge Python dangling between the legs of a black guy.
That is why Oyinbo Men and South African guys, hate Nigerian Men grin grin grin
** let me come and be going, before you corrupt me***
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Stanleyq: 11:27pm On Apr 30, 2021
Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

I think say na only news I go dey read on nairaland platform, if yes, this one na news?
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by youngpresidooo: 11:27pm On Apr 30, 2021
Rosement:
I am getting depressed that why I asked this question. I need advice on how to make my relationship work without sex, that's all.
find someone of likemind that's all you need.
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by SUGARCyprian247: 11:28pm On Apr 30, 2021
I did it before, I dated a virgin for 2 years without sex.
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Afolashade00(f): 11:28pm On Apr 30, 2021
[quote author=Rosement post=101272256]Yes, sis. Having the same experience over and over can be so frustrating, I think I'm going to follow your footstep on this matter.

The both of us are not broke, we exchange gifts on special occasions. I use to prepare food and take it down to his office to surprise him.
I am in a healthy relationship, we treat each other with respect but the problem is we agreed to wait till our wedding night but now he is suggesting that we start having MouthAction.
Perhaps, he does not understand that I'm not trying to keep my hymen intact, I take fornication as sin.


Most sexually active guys see sex as a way of expressing love, don't blame them. We are wired differently,just like the way your reason could be stupid to them and their own reason could be strange to you, smile! I feel we all have reasons for choosing our paths, just like the way we have our reasons for not wanting to sex and all. Like me, I had this mindset since I was little, I promised to keep myself.
People will be like what if you do what he wants and it works for you then there is another thing what if it dint work.
Why don't you sit him down so you two can rub minds, from his responses you'll know what you're in for..
There is something they call compromise, are you ready for it? Will it be worth it?Think deep you only have answer to it. No matter what the advise is, you only have the answer.
I really don't express myself here on this issue but you made me to, I felt noone will understand till I saw some similarities in your question.

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Odunharry(m): 11:28pm On Apr 30, 2021
donbachi:
And why,will u date a guy and expect him not to ask for sex...na ur blood brother?pls,grow up.
Lmao..
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by smallsmall: 11:29pm On Apr 30, 2021
Hassanmaye:

She can claim no sex before marriage but be giving John to chop on steady

You mean John has been Heading the Ball, all this while she was claiming Virgin? shocked shocked
Well, technically, that is a FOUL. angry angry
I hereby award Penalty against the home team grin grin

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by incogni2o: 11:31pm On Apr 30, 2021
Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

Why not focus on making it for now and working on yourself.

Pray that God brings the right person your way and the guy ready for marraige

You dont have to be in a relationship to study a guy.

Keep your courtship/relationship short

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Telstar: 11:32pm On Apr 30, 2021
smallsmall:


Not just small but bent in a very grotesque angle grin grin

If a White guy dis-virgin his wife, be certain that she would cheat on him any day she sees the huge Python dangling between the legs of a black guy.
That is why Oyinbo Men and South African guys, hate Nigerian Men grin grin grin
** let me come and be going, before you corrupt me***
Corrupt you? Hahaha. Now, I'm less holy. We used to tell those white girls, once you go black, you can never go white. They all nod in affirmation.

I used to be bad when I was a little boy. But right now, I am not. Taking responsibilities have really changed us.
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Maji007: 11:33pm On Apr 30, 2021
Just to ensure she is down with you. Most often sex proves she wants you too
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by bonechamberlain(m): 11:33pm On Apr 30, 2021
Read all comments here, very funny some unrealistic and some extreme.
I can only advice you to quit so as not to suffer the guy and make sure that you look for a relationship where the guy is also a virgin anything outside this is self deciet.

I find out that most virgin girls want guys who is very good in bed but don't want to practice it till so called wedding. How do u want the guy to cope.

Most virgins hide under religion, they watch porn videos, listen and discuss dirty sex talks with friends, they give mouth action, some even give anal just because they are protecting their hymen. It makes no sense to do all those and still claim virgin because ur hymen is intact, but your heart isn't pure.

For all virgins, If you want a no sex relationship look for a guy that is also into a no sex relationship. Better still if u find a guy u love, let the guy know on time where u stand.

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by teejaylarry: 11:35pm On Apr 30, 2021
Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?
Maami it’s not possible ooo, Can you leak sweet with the nylon it’s not possible so be wise. Virginity na scam open datin for d dude let him feel the vibe.

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