Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

Nairaland is the worst place to get an answer but I will tell you this for free, 98% of those asking you for a relationship want to have sex with you and when they see that you're not in for that, some go the extra mile by asking you to marry them.

I will also tell you that there are celibate guys who won't ask you for sex or even accept it and won't cheat on you. Pray and ask God to lead them to you cus they're not many.

Keep what you have, sex is a convenant, an exchange, any man who really loves you will respect your decision and if they leave, it's because what they wanted in the first place was sex and you don't want to end up with a man that needs sex like it's oxygen.

Pearlla:

Hi

You're so super beautiful Pearl

Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

If the love between both of you is genuine and you both are sincere and have each other alone without any secret lover or relationship, many guys can date you without sex.

Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

Why can't girls date without asking for money? Yes, either directly or indirectly, never receive or demand money from your guy. Politely turn it down even if he "insists", then you becomes a special breed before him.

DanyBright:

If the love between both of you is genuine and you both are sincere and have each other alone without any secret lover or relationship, many guys can date you without sex.

You are absolutely right. If he really cared about me and loved me as much as he claimed, he would have been ready to wait. The good thing is, I found a better guy.

Because its like eating jollof rice without meat

Rosement:

You are absolutely right. If he really cared about me and loved me as much as he claimed, he would have been ready to wait. The good thing is, I found a better guy.

so you haven’t given this new guy

shege45:
so you haven’t given this new guy

Yes, he is very responsible and understanding. I respect him a lot because he is not unnecessary bossy, my opinion matters to him. After we discussed the issue and we agreed, he did not bring up the subject again.