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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Curious345: 10:45pm On Apr 30, 2021
Rocktation:


There are girls that actually date without asking for money. Change the circle you roll with.
are you one
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by smyo(m): 10:46pm On Apr 30, 2021
And what do you want us to tell you now, God is watching sha
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Rocktation(f): 10:47pm On Apr 30, 2021
Emmanueladvocate:
Most girls don't reason at all, you say you don't want to have sex till after marriage. Person like me I will agree after marriage when I eat you finish like 6 good month I will devoice you immediately so you know that it's not all about vergins..

So you are reasoning like this? You will do all the party and marry her finish, so you can eat her and devoice her in six months and you think you make sense. So na sex you find come life, as it's not all about vergins?
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by johnstar(m): 10:47pm On Apr 30, 2021
My ex cheated on me with a guy dat has a car i nevr made love to her.. because she was a virgin during her 100lvl days dis gal went to sch and came back with a wide pussy.. i told her how come she said she was driving a bicycle dat she fell down and blood start coming out from her pussy.. hmm

I never believe her until i saw a picture of her with a guy in a car


Den i knew gals are dsame

They don’t know what they want in life

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Femeto: 10:47pm On Apr 30, 2021
Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?
O fe do e sa ni o.

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Femeto: 10:49pm On Apr 30, 2021
grin cheesy

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Dreyton36: 10:49pm On Apr 30, 2021
Why can't girls date without turning men into their problem solvers
A billed man is an hornyyyy man

Lights up my kpoli in peace

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Telstar: 10:51pm On Apr 30, 2021
tumababa:


Give him permission to flog other girls and come back to u when u are ready to marry. Guys are created to release d liquid by nature. Your bf chose to use s6x as his own and he wants it with u. As a virgin, I don’t advice u to give in to his demand cos if he eventually not marry u( which is very possible even if d excuse is not due to d s6x he had with u) u will feel bad. It’s also dangerous to just fall for any guy who is ready to wait for marriage before d act cos he might be hiding an impotency condition.

In conclusion, follow your instinct and don’t regret your decision.
Virginity is not a basis to marry a woman when it comes to marriage. Character is number one priority for me. Second is respect. No matter how pretty a woman is, if she lacks good character and respect is no no for me. I met a lady from Chicago, she's tall and very pretty but lacks good character.

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by kense88: 10:52pm On Apr 30, 2021
Naso, while you go behind his back and start fucking cucumber
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by rahman3853(m): 10:52pm On Apr 30, 2021
Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?
what are u waiting for.ladies of nowadays self. What is going on, u mean out of the whole Nigeria, no guy? Now to a white who is probably seeing u as an object of sex and a lady grown in an impoverished country. This white ppl have little or no traditions. Come yo think about it, why do u think some tribe don't allow inter marriage? Its simply, marriage is not always a smooth ride, when time comes, there would be bumps, who do u go to when u need a shoulder to cry on, is a white mother who don't give a damn? Forget say 3rd party is bad, but sometim its is good to have someone who has the leash to ur spouse. Abeg if I hear u still hang on that relationship, it's either u are greedy or u just one ur ticket out of the country. But that's not the only way u can Gert out of the country. The 19 ur old girl with straight A,'S no get two heads

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Nobody: 10:54pm On Apr 30, 2021
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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Calitoscassius(m): 10:54pm On Apr 30, 2021
What kinda rubbish dating would that be Without sex? Please move over! sad
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by deavicky(m): 10:55pm On Apr 30, 2021
Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?
stop dating.

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by timberprides: 10:56pm On Apr 30, 2021
DICKstractor:
undecided



In this current generation, the only person you can date, ask for money without wanting anything in return is your father, brothers and me!!

Rare gems like me are few.
make I know go end up like bro matthew...virgin ke

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by cayorday89(m): 10:57pm On Apr 30, 2021
Rocktation:
There are such men out there. I've known some. The big BUT is that they could secretly be cheating with someone else behind your back (not necessarily all would be like this, mind you...I always give benefits of doubt), especially the ones that see sex as snacks and if the relationship is long-term. But outside that, they'd do right by you and may really give up their wild ways, when it's time to wife you. So on your part, best be prepared mentally, 'cos you could be bound to notice certain shadiness and may need to start mastering the art of turning a blind eye.

Again, don't expect such a man to just let you be. He will keep asking and trying to get you to change your mind, touch you even, but that shouldn't warrant a breakup, unless you suspect he might use force somewhere down the line.

Incidentally, that kind of man may as well be the man you are with, right NOW.
It's human nature, same applies to some ladies who claim to be virgins and having it steady with other guys, the last lady I dated was a pro at this, saw her WhatsApp chat that pooped up not oe but two and both had the mention of dick, yet was claiming to be a virgin... Some humans are not worth it,could be male or female..

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by samonak(m): 10:57pm On Apr 30, 2021
SportsHD:
Wait for a person that's trusting and patient enough to wait till your wedding night.

If na me maami, I for don dump your ass for hitting me with tha virgin bull shet. Not cos I'm cruel, but because i once trusted a girl, she said she was a virgin and i later found out she's feasting on regular bbc on the weekends while i was simping for her.

like naira marley would say-
to ba doko wa ma lole.
I trust less nowadays.
#monsters they made.
Whew!grin

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by cococandy(f): 10:57pm On Apr 30, 2021
Smh. It’s the women who make their life decisions for men that I pity. Look at these bunch of confused mofos. Do you want virgins or not?

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by alizma: 10:58pm On Apr 30, 2021
Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?
That is simple na, just wait till your wedding night before you date
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Nobody: 10:59pm On Apr 30, 2021
Omo that question e get why o, These girls these days if you dont ask for sex someone else will ask on your behalf, that's the reality

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by yetunsbay(m): 10:59pm On Apr 30, 2021
Rocktation:


There are girls that actually date without asking for money. Change the circle you roll with.
then the need for you to also change your circle. Guys wey no want sex before marriage also exist

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Nobody: 10:59pm On Apr 30, 2021
please help me answer one question for those avowed Virgins

1: Is there any health and spiritual benefit or disadvantage behind staying chaste or retaining your semen until marriage
2: is there any monetary value or psychological advantage for not having sex until you are married
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by vickydevoka(m): 11:01pm On Apr 30, 2021
Dats my best relationship pattern. Buh de issue is dat when ever I tell tessy I don't have money, she will become angry. N I don't know why. .I'm trying to save for our future as much as u want to keep de pussy for our future purpose.
Please Nairalanders, who is fooling who

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by pocohantas(f): 11:02pm On Apr 30, 2021
kense88:
Naso, while you go behind his back and start fucking cucumber

And how does that affect you? Did you come to this earth with any vagina in your palm? Why do you lots feel so entitled to one and what enters it?

No wonder Nigeria isn’t going forward, the kinda thing our men be obsessed with in 2021 is a pointer. Pffftt

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by nkemdi89(f): 11:02pm On Apr 30, 2021
It's not easy , they will keep on messing up with you and you will remain single, when you are 30 plus even your own mother will blast you for being a virgin , all she wants is a suitor .
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Ogynz(m): 11:03pm On Apr 30, 2021
Is she for keeps ? Somebody tell me If She?

leaving is not the best option....I don't think that'd d helpn or Better still talk to him because nah your man, e will listen, if he's a God fearing man. But my sis, Sex no be Gun�Dick will not kill u... U nor Wan do? so u better close your mouth and dont ask him for money till your wedding day, after that first nacking and second and third nacking, then ask for anything unless if not so they won't tell you twice, Nah to bang you 2mins.
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by realstars: 11:04pm On Apr 30, 2021
aktolly54:
its possible as long as you know throw any stupid billing, if you want to confirm whether the guy is generous or stingy ,ask him to send money to orphange but you dare bill him for any reason till wedding day. Even if your phone spoil or anything, ask your brother or father to get you another one
Good resoning. money is the root of all evil. once she start asking, the guy too will ask of her to ballance up.
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by deavicky(m): 11:05pm On Apr 30, 2021
Rosement:
I am getting depressed that why I asked this question. I need advice on how to make my relationship work without sex, that's all.
or simply only agree to date anyone that seems ready to get married in a short time, if not I can assure you it won't be easy. Many young men sees having sex guarantees their place in the relationship.

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Telstar: 11:06pm On Apr 30, 2021
SportsHD:
Wait for a person that's trusting and patient enough to wait till your wedding night.

If na me maami, I for don dump your ass for hitting me with tha virgin bull shet. Not cos I'm cruel, but because i once trusted a girl, she said she was a virgin and i later found out she's feasting on regular bbc on the weekends while i was simping for her.

like naira marley would say-
to ba doko wa ma lole.
I trust less nowadays.
#monsters they made.
Whew!grin
LOL, you were hitting your head on the wall for being a wussy.

Any woman who tells you that she's a virgin, request to go to the hospital with you for virginity test. 99 out of 100 would run from you for being much smarter than they are.

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Nobody: 11:06pm On Apr 30, 2021
johnstar:
My ex cheated on me with a guy dat has a car i nevr made love to her.. because she was a virgin during her 100lvl days dis gal went to sch and came back with a wide pussy.. i told her how come she said she was driving a bicycle dat she fell down and blood start coming out from her pussy.

Ur ex can't make heaven for the bolded angry

O gbenu tan o

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by smallsmall: 11:08pm On Apr 30, 2021
Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

Start having Sex if you are of age ...........and get a Black dude to do it first.
Those White boys have tiny d!cks
grin grin

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by AHCB: 11:08pm On Apr 30, 2021
Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?
Why can't you date without asking for money? grin
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by taiwolomo1: 11:10pm On Apr 30, 2021
aktolly54:
its possible as long as you know throw any stupid billing, if you want to confirm whether the guy is generous or stingy ,ask him to send money to orphange but you dare bill him for any reason till wedding day. Even if your phone spoil or anything, ask your brother or father to get you another one
bro! Father! Uncle! grin grin grin...you wee not kee me ooo

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