After analysing tens of chat of guys with girls they newly added up on Facebook, you start seeing a trend in the chat and how boring the conversation is.

Now imagine a girl receiving loads of the same chat all day long... She's not being rude when she reads and ignore your chat... It just that a lot of other guys are saying the same thing to her and you just came with the same repetition.

Just imagine having to write 1 to 5 on every line on the page of a long exercise book and then repeating the same thing all through 80 pages. That's what replying to a boring chat looks like.

Most guys chat are usually

1. The 'hi' stage: they come into the inbox with, hi, hello, sup, watsup or how far.

2. They either compliment her when she responded or they ask her how are you doing when she say hello back

3. They then ask if they can be friends or get to know her more or the one girls dread the most 'tell me about yourself'

4. After that most guys run out of things to say or start asking boring questions or pleading to get her number so they can call her.

No building of rapport or attraction. No putting in the fun factor or making any effort to create a great first impression.

I think the chat below will explain better. So if you've not been getting responses or fast responses, maybe you should check yourself.


What do you think this guy could have done to improve his chances with the girl?

The ones I hate most is the "k" reply crew.
Umm... I think you can design your book cover better than that. Try to upgrade it, like the background, font ... , there's a lot you can do to make it look better.

So we have toast book now

lol I will learn how to chat u up, learn how to toast u, wen u agree I will still give u free money and sex...hmmm
gals just dey flex attention sex and money no wonder they say the future is female

Xenry:
The ones I hate most is the "k" reply crew.
Umm... I think you can design your book cover better than that. Try to upgrade it, like the background, font ... , there's a lot you can do to make it look better.

lolz

Your suggestions are welcome. I'm still learning design

paulos8:
lol I will learn how to chat u up, learn how to toast u, wen u agree I will still give u free money and sex...hmmm
gals just dey flex attention sex and money no wonder they say the future is female

they have a lot of power in the initial stage of a relationship.

That's why you need to be proactive at the beginning to seize the power from them.

Manq:
So we have toast book now

there's a YouTube tutorial on how to drink water.

Self improvement is the ultimate goal of life... You continue to improve as long as you are alive.

The dude in the chat above is a world class simp.Fucking disgusting.He kept begging the girl for favors he did not apparently deserve.That reeks of neediness and despicable desperation that put women off.That is what low value guys who do not know their worth do.I have been there in the past and I told myself never again will I be the one trying to impress a girl.Rather,she should be the one qualifying herself to me.That is the mindset every guy should adopt.
Peace.

FuckMod01:
there's a YouTube tutorial on how to drink water.

Self improvement is the ultimate goal of life... You continue to improve as long as you are alive.

I second this.Self improvement is what every human should pursue.
Keep up the good work sir.

FuckMod01:
there's a YouTube tutorial on how to drink water.

Self improvement is the ultimate goal of life... You continue to improve as long as you are alive.

You're truly a mentor

Bruh i see nothing about this your toast book you just get money i swear down nah them go chat you up

that's not how to chat a girl ..you take it step by step. you don't rush it if you rush it you lose it all even step by step some girl can still be adamant

FuckMod01:
After analysing tens of chat of guys with girls they newly added up on Facebook, you start seeing a trend in the chat and how boring the conversation is.

Now imagine a girl receiving loads of the same chat all day long... She's not being rude when she reads and ignore your chat... It just that a lot of other guys are saying the same thing to her and you just came with the same repetition.

Just imagine having to write 1 to 5 on every line on the page of a long exercise book and then repeating the same thing all through 80 pages. That's what replying to a boring chat looks like.

Most guys chat are usually

1. The 'hi' stage: they come into the inbox with, hi, hello, sup, watsup or how far.

2. They either compliment her when she responded or they ask her how are you doing when she say hello back

3. They then ask if they can be friends or get to know her more or the one girls dread the most 'tell me about yourself'

4. After that most guys run out of things to say or start asking boring questions or pleading to get her number so they can call her.

No building of rapport or attraction. No putting in the fun factor or making any effort to create a great first impression.

I think the chat below will explain better. So if you've not been getting responses or fast responses, maybe you should check yourself.


What do you think this guy could have done to improve his chances with the girl?

he should start afresh with hello dear how r u

yawn.

This is serious

I asked a girl, tell me about your self and she snubbed. Such disgusting attitude...

Na the girl The dull the chat

This is why I advise guys who want to toast ladies to listen to great songs of the 50s to 90s that describe feelings and affection... needless to say you will hear words and phrases that describe feelings in more ways than the unidirectional ways of today.... honestly those songs gave me confidence, unlimited words and left ladies swooning at my feet....
If you wanna bet, try me and see if you're a lady....PS: I'm married o.... but if you wanna learn...try....

why all the please, most of his messages starts with "pls" why is he always begging at the beginning of each message?
The nigga is just a simp.

omo una dey try oo, somebody chatting me like tha wether male or female is a goner on my social media platform it is obvious that the person is not interested in the conversation why push it? just ghost the person move on ASAP no time to check time.

E b like job interview the babe na d HR..

Too boring for my liking.
Guys learn from me..
Me: Hey?
She: Hello.
Me: I was just passing by and I saw your profile, u look nice, and cool and could make a good friend..
She: hmm, DAT nice..
Me: how was day? Boring or cool?
She: it was cool. Urs?
Me: mine was cool, I was just balling with ma crew, to order something from the menu in a bar and hunt soft humans, a girl hawking oranges was just staring at me and she bumped and she poured everything down, I was just laughing when I was helping her..
She: lolz. U are funny..
Me: Nah, ladies tells me that but later they go the other way round, hope u are not like them...
She: lolz. Why do u say so??
Me: yeah, all ladies are disame.
She: dats not true..
Me: hmm, all ladies love pink, telemundo, zeeworld and icecream, does that not make all of them the same.
She: lolz...
Me: hey, duty calls...here is my line...080********9 gv me a call by 9pm so I will know it is u and not that customer care lady who is always bugging at night after hearing my voice on the phone..
She: Lolz OK I will...
Harddon thanks so much.

Telegram234:
Too boring for my liking.
Guys learn from me..
Me: Hey?
She: Hello.
Me: I was just passing by and I saw your profile, u look nice, and cool and could make a good friend..
She: hmm, DAT nice..
Me: how was day? Boring or cool?
She: it was cool. Urs?
Me: mine was cool, I was just balling with ma crew, to order something from the menu in a bar and hunt soft humans, a girl hawking oranges was just staring at me and she bumped and she poured everything down, I was just laughing when I was helping her..
She: lolz. U are funny..
Me: Nah, ladies tells me that but later they go the other way round, hope u are not like them...
She: lolz. Why do u say so??
Me: yeah, all ladies are disame.
She: dats not true..
Me: hmm, all ladies love pink, telemundo, zeeworld and icecream, does that not make all of them the same.
She: lolz...
Me: hey, duty calls...here is my line...080********9 gv me a call by 9pm so I will know it is u and not that customer care lady who is always bugging at night after hearing my voice on the phone..
She: Lolz OK I will...
Harddon thanks so much.

in squidward's voice "Borinnnng"

Telegram234:
Too boring for my liking.
Guys learn from me..
Me: Hey?
She: Hello.
Me: I was just passing by and I saw your profile, u look nice, and cool and could make a good friend..
She: hmm, DAT nice..
Me: how was day? Boring or cool?
She: it was cool. Urs?
Me: mine was cool, I was just balling with ma crew, to order something from the menu in a bar and hunt soft humans, a girl hawking oranges was just staring at me and she bumped and she poured everything down, I was just laughing when I was helping her..
She: lolz. U are funny..
Me: Nah, ladies tells me that but later they go the other way round, hope u are not like them...
She: lolz. Why do u say so??
Me: yeah, all ladies are disame.
She: dats not true..
Me: hmm, all ladies love pink, telemundo, zeeworld and icecream, does that not make all of them the same.
She: lolz...
Me: hey, duty calls...here is my line...080********9 gv me a call by 9pm so I will know it is u and not that customer care lady who is always bugging at night after hearing my voice on the phone..
She: Lolz OK I will...
Harddon thanks so much.

Nigga. If you don't have money or a good social media look. This Shit is useless


Self improvement is the greatest magnet for girls

Kabir5643:



Nigga. If you don't have money or a good social media look. This Shit is useless


Self improvement is the greatest magnet for girls

Bro I understand..
I never said this is the exact way I chat, but it is just a preview of how I do normally chat with..
At least it is better than "hello, hi, have u eaten?.

Telegram234:
Too boring for my liking.
Guys learn from me..
Me: Hey?
She: Hello.
Me: I was just passing by and I saw your profile, u look nice, and cool and could make a good friend..
She: hmm, DAT nice..
Me: how was day? Boring or cool?
She: it was cool. Urs?
Me: mine was cool, I was just balling with ma crew, to order something from the menu in a bar and hunt soft humans, a girl hawking oranges was just staring at me and she bumped and she poured everything down, I was just laughing when I was helping her..
She: lolz. U are funny..
Me: Nah, ladies tells me that but later they go the other way round, hope u are not like them...
She: lolz. Why do u say so??
Me: yeah, all ladies are disame.
She: dats not true..
Me: hmm, all ladies love pink, telemundo, zeeworld and icecream, does that not make all of them the same.
She: lolz...
Me: hey, duty calls...here is my line...080********9 gv me a call by 9pm so I will know it is u and not that customer care lady who is always bugging at night after hearing my voice on the phone..
She: Lolz OK I will...
Harddon thanks so much.

Try this with a hungry lady and she will tell you to send her airtime to call you, an average Nigerian is angry, annoyed, sad and mad, looking for who to pour the anger on, this does not work on an average Nigerian lady.

Niceguyyy:

Try this with a hungry lady and she will tell you to send her airtime to call you, an average Nigerian is angry, annoyed, sad and mad, looking for who to pour the anger on, this does not work on an average Nigerian lady.

Lolz...
I know..
Sometimes I do hear, I don't have card..
My reply: OK, when u have card, call me...
I never said it will work 100℅.. 2 out of 5 girls will call me...