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Guys See Why You Must Not Kneel Down To Propose To Your Woman (Photos Included) by Kranediggy(m): 11:51am On May 07, 2021
The act of kneeling down to propose started in the 19th Century. This was copied from knights who kneel as a sign of honor when they are given the honor of knighthood.

As we know, an African man is the type that learns another's tradition and practices it more than the original owner. The worst part of this is, that this very act now seems like a tradition here in Africa, some women even reject marriage proposals done without the man kneeling and most men think it's their obligation to kneel and propose.

I'm a Nigerian and I belong to the Igbo ethnic group. Where I'm from it's the woman that kneels, and that's during the 'Igba Nkwu' (traditional marriage) of the couple. The bride kneels to offer her groom 'Nkwu' (palm wine) as a sign of respect, appreciation and to show everyone that the groom is her man.

Today people jump to take actions without even asking questions. Dear ladies I mean no disrespect, as a matter of fact every woman deserves respect; but let this not be a reason for you to reject someone you care about. Igbos respect women that's how the saying 'Nwanyi bu ihe' (a woman is precious) came to be. Dear ladies it's not your right for a man to kneel to propose to you, please get that into that beautiful head of yours.

Let's not blindly take decisions without being enlightened about it.

Let's share our opinions, feel free to air your views

As for me I won't kneel to propose and if you reject me because of that; then you're not meant to be my wife in the first place.

I come in peace.

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Re: Guys See Why You Must Not Kneel Down To Propose To Your Woman (Photos Included) by 3pleDAssistant: 11:56am On May 07, 2021
Ask the initiators of the culture as regards the reason why. Nigerians most likely do that to copy the originators; just like we copy them in many other things we do.

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Re: Guys See Why You Must Not Kneel Down To Propose To Your Woman (Photos Included) by Nobody: 12:01pm On May 07, 2021
Kneeling down to marry is like begging a lady, anyone you beg to be in your life, you will keep begging them..

Be wise!

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Re: Guys See Why You Must Not Kneel Down To Propose To Your Woman (Photos Included) by Reex12(m): 12:06pm On May 07, 2021
the day you kneel before a woman is the day you lose your dignity to that woman

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Re: Guys See Why You Must Not Kneel Down To Propose To Your Woman (Photos Included) by EJanni(f): 12:29pm On May 07, 2021
If you refused to kneel and propose, you will still kneel to give her pleasure.
All kneel na kneel !

I don't know why people disturb themselves over trivial issues.

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Re: Guys See Why You Must Not Kneel Down To Propose To Your Woman (Photos Included) by SeekerofTruth1: 1:24pm On May 07, 2021
Kranediggy:
The act of kneeling down to propose started in the 19th Century. This was copied from knights who kneel as a sign of honor when they are given the honor of knighthood.

As we know, an African man is the type that learns another's tradition and practices it more than the original owner. The worst part of this is, that this very act now seems like a tradition here in Africa, some women even reject marriage proposals done without the man kneeling.

I'm a Nigerian and I belong to the Igbo ethnic group. Where I'm from it's the woman that kneels, and that's during the 'Igba Nkwu' (traditional marriage) of the couple. The bride kneels to offer her groom 'Nkwu' (palm wine) as a sign of respect, appreciation and to show everyone that the groom is her man.

Today people jump to take actions without even asking questions. Dear ladies I mean no disrespect, as a matter of fact every woman deserves respect; but let this not be a reason for you to reject someone you care about. Igbos respect women that's how the saying 'Nwanyi bu ihe' (a woman is precious) came to be. Dear ladies it's not your right for a man to kneel to propose to you, please get that into that beautiful head of yours.

Let's not blindly take decisions without being enlightened about it.

Let's share our opinions

As for me I won't kneel to propose and if you reject me because of that; then you're not meant to be my wife in the first place.

I come in peace.

Every woman Deserves Respect? Why?
For just Being a woman?

That's bullshit
Re: Guys See Why You Must Not Kneel Down To Propose To Your Woman (Photos Included) by Kranediggy(m): 1:44pm On May 07, 2021
SeekerofTruth1:


Every woman Deserves Respect? Why?
For just Being a woman?

That's bullshit
Everyone deserves respect not just women, but sometimes they're denied that. You know what I mean
Re: Guys See Why You Must Not Kneel Down To Propose To Your Woman (Photos Included) by SeekerofTruth1: 6:33pm On May 07, 2021
Kranediggy:
Everyone deserves respect not just women, but sometimes they're denied that. You know what I mean

You don't demand respect,you earn it
Re: Guys See Why You Must Not Kneel Down To Propose To Your Woman (Photos Included) by Kranediggy(m): 7:02pm On May 07, 2021
SeekerofTruth1:


You don't demand respect,you earn it
Did you see demand in anything I posted above?
Please everyone deserves respect until some loose theirs, though it can be restored when lost.

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Re: Guys See Why You Must Not Kneel Down To Propose To Your Woman (Photos Included) by Shakathezulu1: 10:43pm On May 07, 2021
The only time, I'm on my knees is when I'm giving her Doggy style.

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Re: Guys See Why You Must Not Kneel Down To Propose To Your Woman (Photos Included) by ABANGWABOI(m): 11:36pm On May 07, 2021
Kranediggy:
Everyone deserves respect not just women, but sometimes they're denied that. You know what I mean


They are denied that ??
Isi na ibu onye igbo Mana inweghi ako na uche ...
Ihere Mee gi...

I felt you were been objective in your analysis until I read this..
You are just confused and gullible..
A shame..
Re: Guys See Why You Must Not Kneel Down To Propose To Your Woman (Photos Included) by Kranediggy(m): 3:17am On May 08, 2021
ABANGWABOI:



They are denied that ??
Isi na ibu onye igbo Mana inweghi ako na uche ...
Ihere Mee gi...

I felt you were been objective in your analysis until I read this..
You are just confused and gullible..
A shame..
This comment of yours is a reflection of who you are and your mindset. Nnaa sorry I'm not condescending to your level today. All these redpill wannabes... undecided

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Re: Guys See Why You Must Not Kneel Down To Propose To Your Woman (Photos Included) by mespusinglez(m): 5:30am On May 08, 2021
EJanni:
If you refused to kneel and propose, you will still kneel to give her pleasure.
All kneel na kneel !

I don't know why people disturb themselves over trivial issues.



All kneel are not Kneel Woman


And Only A Simp! Will Kneel To a Woman's Pleasure
Re: Guys See Why You Must Not Kneel Down To Propose To Your Woman (Photos Included) by femi4: 6:33am On May 08, 2021
EJanni:
If you refused to kneel and propose, you will still kneel to give her pleasure.
All kneel na kneel !

I don't know why people disturb themselves over trivial issues.



Not in missionary style
Re: Guys See Why You Must Not Kneel Down To Propose To Your Woman (Photos Included) by Vulcanheph(m): 6:40am On May 08, 2021
Shakathezulu1:
The only time, I'm on my knees is when I'm giving her Doggy style.
You are a true OG. gringringrin
Re: Guys See Why You Must Not Kneel Down To Propose To Your Woman (Photos Included) by Vulcanheph(m): 6:58am On May 08, 2021
Message to ladies.
1. This kneeling proposal of a thing started in Europe and was for knights to show honor, it has nothing to do in our modern world as there is no rule book that states that its a must for man to kneel when proposing.... Our ancestors never did that shit because it was never a part of our culture.
2. Marriage has always been more in favor of the woman than the man.
- the woman gets married so she'll have kids before menopause because a woman can be considered too old for marriage but a man can never be too old for marriage.
- the kids will appreciate and be more connected to the mother since she's the one who's always present in thier lives not the father who's always out making the money
-the husband's usually die first leaving the kids so the everything that the parents will benefit from the kids at old age will likely go to the woman etc
Therefore when a man proposes to you , always remember that he's doing you a favor because you will benefit more from it.

Message to Men
1. Anyhow you wanna propose is totally your business but always remember that kneeling isn't a must because any woman that genuinely wants to marry you will say YES irrespective of how you propose...
2. If your woman rejects your proposal simply because you didn't kneel then take your ring elsewhere, there's a possibility that there are dozens of women out there looking for a man like you to marry.

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Re: Guys See Why You Must Not Kneel Down To Propose To Your Woman (Photos Included) by ABANGWABOI(m): 7:36am On May 08, 2021
Kranediggy:
This comment of yours is a reflection of who you are and your mindset. Nnaa sorry I'm not condescending to your level today. All these redpill wannabes... undecided


Who cares what you think..
Onye Ara..
You can get lost kid..
Re: Guys See Why You Must Not Kneel Down To Propose To Your Woman (Photos Included) by Boomboost(m): 7:57am On May 08, 2021
...or you could squat and grab the ass with one hand, and hand her the ring with your free hand.

It's cuter than kneeling.
Re: Guys See Why You Must Not Kneel Down To Propose To Your Woman (Photos Included) by Shakathezulu1: 8:00am On May 08, 2021
Vulcanheph:

You are a true OG. gringringrin
Salute.
Re: Guys See Why You Must Not Kneel Down To Propose To Your Woman (Photos Included) by mrsoludomeka(m): 8:22am On May 08, 2021
I cant kneel to propose to a woman and if you reject me Bleep off.there are many beautiful fishes in the ocean.ihe ke alu ga o ni ni...
Re: Guys See Why You Must Not Kneel Down To Propose To Your Woman (Photos Included) by QueenEndowa(f): 9:59am On May 08, 2021
EJanni:
If you refused to kneel and propose, you will still kneel to give her pleasure.
All kneel na kneel !

I don't know why people disturb themselves over trivial issues.




Gbam!!!!
Re: Guys See Why You Must Not Kneel Down To Propose To Your Woman (Photos Included) by phatriqk(m): 10:15am On May 08, 2021
Kranediggy:
The act of kneeling down to propose started in the 19th Century. This was copied from knights who kneel as a sign of honor when they are given the honor of knighthood.

As we know, an African man is the type that learns another's tradition and practices it more than the original owner. The worst part of this is, that this very act now seems like a tradition here in Africa, some women even reject marriage proposals done without the man kneeling and most men think it's their obligation to kneel and propose.

I'm a Nigerian and I belong to the Igbo ethnic group. Where I'm from it's the woman that kneels, and that's during the 'Igba Nkwu' (traditional marriage) of the couple. The bride kneels to offer her groom 'Nkwu' (palm wine) as a sign of respect, appreciation and to show everyone that the groom is her man.

Today people jump to take actions without even asking questions. Dear ladies I mean no disrespect, as a matter of fact every woman deserves respect; but let this not be a reason for you to reject someone you care about. Igbos respect women that's how the saying 'Nwanyi bu ihe' (a woman is precious) came to be. Dear ladies it's not your right for a man to kneel to propose to you, please get that into that beautiful head of yours.

Let's not blindly take decisions without being enlightened about it.

Let's share our opinions, feel free to air your views

As for me I won't kneel to propose and if you reject me because of that; then you're not meant to be my wife in the first place.

I come in peace.

There's nothing with taking a knee to show a woman how special she is to you, I'll propose to my woman in the most epic way possible...... Women are special
Re: Guys See Why You Must Not Kneel Down To Propose To Your Woman (Photos Included) by Kranediggy(m): 11:32am On May 08, 2021
phatriqk:


There's nothing with taking a knee to show a woman how special she is to you, I'll propose to my woman in the most epic way possible...... Women are special
It's your choice bro

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