i wonder oo

not even in this present economy

if you try am na generational wretchedness una dey create

MajesticKris:
Earning 100k def as a man, Neva reach take care yourself, not to talk of getting married...

Who marriage Hep!

maasoap:






What analysis did I do in my post, Mr Senseless? I merely quoted someone who did analysis to look at it again that something was missing. Are you okay mentally?

No vex jawe I was directing my post to the guy u quoted

Now you see why marriages don't last anymore. United Nation said human needs three basics things: food, shelter and clothing.

If he earns 60k but have a place he stay, clothes covering his unclothedness and food to eat then he is a survival. I will expect he to marry a lady that can equally provide the basic for herself.

The husband providing for his household doesn't mean the wife should be idle. Marriage doesn't mean the husband should be turn into an elephant meat.

Our fathers and mother's were contented with the hut, one room, bicycle and that special cloth and shoe for special occasion.

Ladies of today, the are not contented with what they have but want their husband to sell himself to provide Iphone xzy, luxus xzy, live in xzy location, the children must attend xyz school just because they want to measure shoulders.

Ladies will away say, see my mate driving xyz, using the latest xyz and say god why is my life like this. They will never measure shoulder by saying mate Xyz is dead, why can I dead too.

Iamaboonasir:


You wrong my brother, with right planning and self contentment make God come give you your own fine join u good to go (no be all this slay girls out there)

I know of a guy with 4 kids his wife is just a full house wife,she does nothing! Just stay at home all day taking care of the house and kids,even from the little her husband drop's she still do ajo/contribution inside..... This guy salary for month I doubt if e reach 40k sef (40k kini, highest 25/30k)...this guy's is currently living in his own house, all his kids dey go school aside the last child who is just few months old,they on gen from 7-10/11pm everyday (considering the cost of fuel)..... So my brother it's possible when u with the right person, it might be tough o but then with right channel of resources it will def work..

My brother u are very wrong!!!!!
With all these things u listed, 40k will not sustain it, let alone 25/30k. Do u stay alone
Calculate 1k per day for feeding, 30 days a month is already 30k! You don't know how much that guy earns!

If you are an elite rich or middle income marry your class

Don't dare mix and think you can sustain your previous class in marriage

The mentality of a 60k earner should go for the women within his class not below not above

I have seen things

maasoap:


Judge it yourself based on his 30k/40k salary if that was possible, they had another source(s) of income

God bless u!
I see a lot of people still stay with their parents making these comments, because if u stay alone & u are responsible for your feeding and other things, u will know 30k is nothing in this present economy. How do one run a family with that with a full time house wife?? Let's be realistic please!

Iamaboonasir:


You wrong my brother, with right planning and self contentment make God come give you your own fine join u good to go (no be all this slay girls out there)

I know of a guy with 4 kids his wife is just a full house wife,she does nothing! Just stay at home all day taking care of the house and kids,even from the little her husband drop's she still do ajo/contribution inside..... This guy salary for month I doubt if e reach 40k sef (40k kini, highest 25/30k)...this guy's is currently living in his own house, all his kids dey go school aside the last child who is just few months old,they on gen from 7-10/11pm everyday (considering the cost of fuel)..... So my brother it's possible when u with the right person, it might be tough o but then with right channel of resources it will def work..

This could be possible sha, but it has to be in a Nigerian movie, because, let's face it that amount is ridiculously low except they live on charity.

Juliearth:






Ah! I am desperately single and dangerously searching for a man oh! Rich or poor, young, old or an ancestor, I won't mind.... LOL

BUT



I can't believe that the girl who thinks I am desperate is nothing but a two-timing, lazy, and a*s licking gold digger, looking for a white man to marry. Perhaps you should consider joining your cahoots to Italy. Nigerian women are scattered around the world, doing exploits and all you want is to marry an old and sickly white man... Your village people really got you on this one...



I wonder what would make a girl this bitter... Did you suffer any form of abuse in your formative age? Were you abandoned? Instead of taking it out on people, seek help!

You get time to dey reply that thing. She's not fit to be dignified with a response. Go through all her posts, she is bitter and obviously lack love.
Go through her threads you'll see it

FlutterDollar99:


You get time to dey reply that thing. She's not fit to be dignified with a response. Go through all her posts, she is bitter and obviously lack love.
Go through her threads you'll see it

Thanks bro!

All I see is a thread encouraging gold diggers spouse.

Even below #60k, you can marry. Rome is not built in a day.

Watch the testimony of Mrs Faith Oyedepo on you tube and thank me later.

Despise not the day of small beginning, I believe with God, all things are possible.

Start small and grow big says the motivational speakers.

ibedun:


FAKE story!!!

fake story? Really??

Smh!!

ibedun:


Living on HOPE!!!

We all live on HOPE

Rubbiish:

My brother u are very wrong!!!!!
With all these things u listed, 40k will not sustain it, let alone 25/30k. Do u stay alone
Calculate 1k per day for feeding, 30 days a month is already 30k! You don't know how much that guy earns!

Wrong u say??
Ok na, I can't force u to believe it and still can't force u not too....the choice is yours!!!
It' might be somehow impossible to u/for u but hey fam it's the truth!!! And ntn but the truth.......

Beze992:


This could be possible sha, but it has to be in a Nigerian movie, because, let's face it that amount is ridiculously low except they live on charity.

The life we live , Shey no be movie on its on??
Truth is,I used to think some things like this is not possible until I realize people cut their coats accordi to their size, the logic is simple go for Ur needs before u settle down for Ur wants.....

Have u seen or heard of someone who's salary is less than 30k and he's currently building a house??

I have been on NairaLand since 2012(as a visitor tho) not until recently I registered,I barely post and all I just read comments and move on, so me coming on here to say things ain't true ain't worthy of my personality'......the fact that I've not seen it doesn't mean it doesn't happen!!

Emmerlee:
Lol even with x6 to x10 of that there will still be war in the house. If you have an insatiable spouse no amount will be enough oh.. Choose carefully

True.

Iamaboonasir:



Wrong u say??
Ok na, I can't force u to believe it and still can't force u not too....the choice is yours!!!
It' might be somehow impossible to u/for u but hey fam it's the truth!!! And ntn but the truth.......

I said it is not true!!!
Stop misleading people here!
Are u responsible for your feeding??
A family of six, are u saying they spend less than 1k on feeding daily?? Do the maths yourself! Do u stay alone? How much do u spend on feeding? Let's be realistic, your analysis is not possible, not even in a movie!
Have u gone to the market recently?
Truth is, u don't know how much that guy earns, he didn't disclose everything to u!!!!!

Rubbiish:

I said it is not true!!!
Stop misleading people here!
Are u responsible for your feeding??
A family of six, are u saying they spend less than 1k on feeding daily?? Do the maths yourself! Do u stay alone? How much do u spend on feeding? Let's be realistic, your analysis is not possible, not even in a movie!
Have u gone to the market recently?
Truth is, u don't know how much that guy earns, he didn't disclose everything to u!!!!!

Leemao.... Ok na, I don hear u since u know iya òshò pass òshò!!!

I'm not misleading anyone and I feel anyone reading comments on NL should use his/her discretion!!

I live u to what u feel and believe.....

SweetCunt97:
Yes why not? His plus mine will b sufficient until God blesses and Enlarges our coast.

I like your monicker but is it true?

emmnprince:


From this moment, I pronounce both of you husband and wife. You may now shake your bride!

Is it shake the bride or kizz the bride

Why are females increasingly becoming so pea brained?
That question is effectively, Would you marry an ungrateful, leech on a salary of 60k?
Remember, she is broke, entitled, myopic individual who brings little or nothing to the table but expects to be taken care of for the rest of her life.
Yet, will not shut up and be reasonable but continually complain about your income while she is proud to be an utterly useless, broke dependent.
Very unreasonable set of people who have become so entitled because they have a vigina! Someone is willing to put himself and all his belongings on the line to take care of you in the name of relationship but all you deem neccessary is to complain about his money yet you don't have shit of your own. Even pets show more gratitude to their care takers than some women.
This irritates the fvck out of me.

DemonInvoker:
A Man Should Properly Set Up A Home Before Marrying Ohh.
60K Right Now Should Be Beneath One's Dignity To Carry Dey Pursue Woman For Marriage Naw...Half Of That Money Don Go For Her Monthly UpKeep(Hair,Nails And Makeup)..More Reason Why Women Want "Well To Do"Men...I Get One Lady,She Does 3 Different Hair Styles In A Month, Another One Like That Carries 65K For Hair Only,25K For Body Lotion... Calculate Am,Tell Me How I Won Can?! ..No Go Marry Wife Wey Go Dey Look Like Who Cum Sweep The Place Anytime Ona Go Out Ohh....Just Saying.

It depends on the kind of woman.
All this type of women you mentioned are not wife material they are just gold diggers.

OnlyDeCapPlease:


If man dey earn 60k and the woman dey earn 40k, family income is still 60k.

Don't ask me why

I swear,
Just for humour, the rules of mathematics don't apply in marriage. Even God said in marriage 1+1=1..LOL

MALIGNANTGuest:

They are attractive.
That's the truth.
Even in Death, Wealth is distinguished.

When LAZARUS died as a poor man, he was found at the feet/bosom of ABRAHAM who was very wealthy.
He successfully made it to heaven but was still kept at his position.

Lazarus will not like this,

He will report u soon



600years in hell for u

eljayson:
Does love really conquer all? Including poverty?

This economy has opened the eyes of everyone to the importance of having money.


The price of everything has gone up and love no go work if money no enter.

Recently, a pastor said his wife married him in 2016 when he was making 60k monthly.

This made us go into the streets to ask people if they can brave it and still marry someone who makes 60k monthly.
See what they said.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5MT2EcoRGbY&t=6s

mynd44, Rocktation, farano

ugly faces everywhere

JustforMen:
Why are females increasingly becoming so pea brained?
That question is effectively, Would you marry an ungrateful, leech on a salary of 60k?
Remember, she is broke, entitled, myopic individual who brings little or nothing to the table but expects to be taken care of for the rest of her life.
Yet, will not shut up and be reasonable but continually complain about your income while she is proud to be an utterly useless, broke dependent.
Very unreasonable set of people who have become so entitled because they have a vigina! Someone is willing to put himself and all his belongings on the line to take care of you in the name of relationship but all you deem neccessary is to complain about his money yet you don't have shit of your own. Even pets show more gratitude to their care takers than some women.
This irritates the fvck out of me.

Please take it easy...it is almost impossible for anyone to change anyone. As for me, I've come to love them like that. So far as I am concerned, ladies are babies (age irrespective). Know this and know peace.

gare2510:
Guys pls be wise as you choose life partners no be only women sabi find rich husbands you too like for girls with dual citizenship (UK, US or Canada), from rich connected family, earns enough money to cater for her Bill's first then see if you can fall in love with her, if love works you marry if e no work you move. Have your in checklist that should weeds out liabilities, mannerless people. In other words collect CVs and consider them carefully as an investor seeking to employ a manager for his investments.

Lol....

Ikpongiton:
Almighty God will bless and enlarge your coast.And your sweet cunt will be lubricated with honey. Tara.

Lol....No be small lubricant be that.
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Gkemz:
Earning 60k is not the issue of concern but what other side hustle are you doing to compliment it. The profit from your side hustles sometimes would be enough to sustain your family bills without having to spend your salary.

True.

The issue is that most guys look for ladies whose goals are quite different from theirs.

Na that kain lady in black yahoo boys dey take do ritual

see her wide mouth like..I can't even date him.

What has she to offer a man? Idiot!!!!!

adg98:
Yes I can
60K is fair enough

o ya jor, let do it. You are my type of lady.

Juliearth:






Ah! I am desperately single and dangerously searching for a man oh! Rich or poor, young, old or an ancestor, I won't mind.... LOL

BUT



I can't believe that the girl who thinks I am desperate is nothing but a two-timing, lazy, and a*s licking gold digger, looking for a white man to marry. Perhaps you should consider joining your cahoots to Italy. Nigerian women are scattered around the world, doing exploits and all you want is to marry an old and sickly white man... Your village people really got you on this one...



I wonder what would make a girl this bitter... Did you suffer any form of abuse in your formative age? Were you abandoned? Instead of taking it out on people, seek help!

Keep quiet jor, evening newspaper.

At least I came out plain stating out my indices. I won't pretend to tell you I will manage and when I get married to the poor boy, I frustrate his life. After you must have wasted your formative years doing rubbish, you are now back to your senses to look for one small boy you will hook and tell him "let's manage". I hope you don't frustrate his life when the time comes. It seems as you get older every year, you get more bitter.

Bitter Juliet.