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Re: In This Economy, Can You Marry Someone Who Earns 60k Monthly? - Nigerians React by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 9:23am On May 10, 2021 |
FlutterDollar99: Lol. Uncle, are you her mouthpiece? Isi ube. |
Re: In This Economy, Can You Marry Someone Who Earns 60k Monthly? - Nigerians React by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 9:25am On May 10, 2021 |
God2man2again: Can you compare the economy of those days to ours? Be realistic, please. What can 60K presently do for someone in this present-day economy? |
Re: In This Economy, Can You Marry Someone Who Earns 60k Monthly? - Nigerians React by Nobody: 9:36am On May 10, 2021 |
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Re: In This Economy, Can You Marry Someone Who Earns 60k Monthly? - Nigerians React by SeriouslySense(m): 9:45am On May 10, 2021 |
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Re: In This Economy, Can You Marry Someone Who Earns 60k Monthly? - Nigerians React by Olumyyde(m): 9:47am On May 10, 2021 |
Ferdinandu:You know people when they hear federal government worker they think it's luxury. Not until I got employed I knew what's up. |
Re: In This Economy, Can You Marry Someone Who Earns 60k Monthly? - Nigerians React by Assumptabeke(f): 9:50am On May 10, 2021 |
I cannot even marry myself with that kind of salary. If my monthly income is not up to a 6 digit figure, I nor dey follow any man start family life. 1 Like |
Re: In This Economy, Can You Marry Someone Who Earns 60k Monthly? - Nigerians React by averageguy(m): 9:57am On May 10, 2021 |
Juliearth: I remember there was another post last week asking if people can date higher than their statuses, and the consensus among many was that it wasn't ideal for them. So, you have a lady who possibly has to deal with a man's insecurities because she makes 3-4 times more, and in a society where a lot of men still believe house work and cooking is beneath them to support their wives. I'm sure there are problematic ladies who never want to assist their husbands at all financially too, so, in the end, hopefully we all find the right person who believes the same things we do. Strangely as well, no one seems to be talking about the guy in the video who said he couldn't marry a lady making 60k. People are much quicker to disparage any lady who might feel the same. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: In This Economy, Can You Marry Someone Who Earns 60k Monthly? - Nigerians React by Bsmiles49(f): 10:00am On May 10, 2021 |
Yes they can get married but both should make proper financial plans before they start having kids 1 Like |
Re: In This Economy, Can You Marry Someone Who Earns 60k Monthly? - Nigerians React by Nathaniel111(m): 10:11am On May 10, 2021 |
60k can never be sufficient to cater for yourself not to talk of wife and kids. As a man you will av to consider the following.... Yearly accommodation fee, Cost of transportation to your work place, monthly feeding, children school fees, children clothings, cooking Gas refill, medical bill, electricity bill, waste management bill, cost of fuelling your Generator set, Church tithe and offering, Wife want plat hair.. your simblings keep calling for help. Mom and Dad will surely reap the fruit of their labour. ..... tell me bro, will you be able to cloth yourself ? Talkless of being capable of buying recharge card on your mobile phone to call or buy Data. Lets all admit that is not easy to be a Man in NIGERIA!
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Re: In This Economy, Can You Marry Someone Who Earns 60k Monthly? - Nigerians React by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 10:14am On May 10, 2021 |
samuelonyewueny: You're 1000% right. 1 Like |
Re: In This Economy, Can You Marry Someone Who Earns 60k Monthly? - Nigerians React by fortune1968: 10:14am On May 10, 2021 |
Lalami3232:Thank you . Most women will not like to spend a penny on the family . Even on their own child . Everything must come from the man . |
Re: In This Economy, Can You Marry Someone Who Earns 60k Monthly? - Nigerians React by bamisho: 10:14am On May 10, 2021 |
JB4life: Most women wouldn’t mind bringing their own salary to the table but the problem is the type of men that still want all house duties to be the wife’s alone. How is that fair? 2 Likes |
Re: In This Economy, Can You Marry Someone Who Earns 60k Monthly? - Nigerians React by ComingKing: 10:24am On May 10, 2021 |
YoungLionken: She you want to birth 5 kids at once ni? Rent: get what you can afford Feeding: if you can feed yourself, feeding another person is not problem Transport: Everyone to his own 1 Like |
Re: In This Economy, Can You Marry Someone Who Earns 60k Monthly? - Nigerians React by Blackdisciple(m): 10:34am On May 10, 2021 |
Lalami3232: Hmmm deep 1 Like |
Re: In This Economy, Can You Marry Someone Who Earns 60k Monthly? - Nigerians React by SweetDipBenny(m): 10:45am On May 10, 2021 |
Women sud go nd work. Find a man workin too nd build ur family together. |
Re: In This Economy, Can You Marry Someone Who Earns 60k Monthly? - Nigerians React by Olumyyde(m): 10:46am On May 10, 2021 |
ictplotter:GOD bless you. |
Re: In This Economy, Can You Marry Someone Who Earns 60k Monthly? - Nigerians React by Olumyyde(m): 10:47am On May 10, 2021 |
Zetty177x:Pure lie. |
Re: In This Economy, Can You Marry Someone Who Earns 60k Monthly? - Nigerians React by Apb0012016(m): 11:07am On May 10, 2021 |
SweetCunt97:God bless u personally and enlarge your coast for this idea alone |
Re: In This Economy, Can You Marry Someone Who Earns 60k Monthly? - Nigerians React by ibedun: 11:12am On May 10, 2021 |
Iamaboonasir: No Sir! That’s why some live better lives than others. |
Re: In This Economy, Can You Marry Someone Who Earns 60k Monthly? - Nigerians React by McStoic(m): 11:25am On May 10, 2021 |
SweetCunt97: With this your moniker You still get mind dey mention God dey quote Bible on top join. I bow tie you ooo |
Re: In This Economy, Can You Marry Someone Who Earns 60k Monthly? - Nigerians React by emmnprince(m): 11:27am On May 10, 2021 |
Burgerlomo: It is shake the bride our culture accept! Kizz the bride is a foreign culture! We are not foreigners! |
Re: In This Economy, Can You Marry Someone Who Earns 60k Monthly? - Nigerians React by Sunisonflex39(m): 11:31am On May 10, 2021 |
DemonInvoker:0052566722 access.. Boss bless a student too.. It's not easy.. Thank u |
Re: In This Economy, Can You Marry Someone Who Earns 60k Monthly? - Nigerians React by Burgerlomo: 11:53am On May 10, 2021 |
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Re: In This Economy, Can You Marry Someone Who Earns 60k Monthly? - Nigerians React by Juliearth(f): 12:17pm On May 10, 2021 |
averageguy: I understand your concerns, bro and trust me, they are valid. I do not pray that my husband's finances should dwindle down below mine, but you know what they say about life being a butch, so that could happen. A lot of men in this kind of setting feel insecure because the wives who earn more dispense the cash. For instance if the children's school fees are due, the wife pays, if they are due for their monthly stipends, the wife pays, the wife foots the electricity, water and other utility bills, she stocks the pantry... Any man, with blood running through his veins and is not a simp nor a Gigolo would feel insecure. Thus, my point of view on this issue is culled out of the perspective that in an ideal home, the couple involved should run a joint account and monthly, a certain "percentage" (note that I said percentage and not amount) should be remitted to that account. If my husband earns lower than I do and we operate the percentage remittance system for family runs, he shouldn't feel less of a man (unless if his insecurity is deeply rooted and unfounded). In addition to the measure above, all credit alerts may be disabled so he doesn't have to see the chunk that I pull in and also his chunk. I may also allow him manage this account solely. A woman who understands what partnership truly means won't see the need to be stingy with her money in marriage. 2 Likes |
Re: In This Economy, Can You Marry Someone Who Earns 60k Monthly? - Nigerians React by Teewon20(m): 12:22pm On May 10, 2021 |
In nigeria presently,to see someone earning 60k a month z even rare except u stay in lagos and if the person removes t.fare from it,the money z finished...thats why people dont get married dz day except ur family z really okay 1 Like |
Re: In This Economy, Can You Marry Someone Who Earns 60k Monthly? - Nigerians React by samonak(m): 12:27pm On May 10, 2021 |
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Re: In This Economy, Can You Marry Someone Who Earns 60k Monthly? - Nigerians React by Olaideolayemi(m): 1:15pm On May 10, 2021 |
YoungLionken:oga you can't calculate that one Abeg..you just started, before kids come, everything go better..but feeding, paying rent is possible if you have good spouse and good management skills.. |
Re: In This Economy, Can You Marry Someone Who Earns 60k Monthly? - Nigerians React by Olaideolayemi(m): 1:16pm On May 10, 2021 |
YoungLionken:oga you don't can't calculate that one Abeg..you just started, before kids come, everything go better..but feeding, paying rent is possible if you have good spouse and good management skills.. |
Re: In This Economy, Can You Marry Someone Who Earns 60k Monthly? - Nigerians React by Blueelf: 1:32pm On May 10, 2021 |
UyaiIncomparabl: This girl |
Re: In This Economy, Can You Marry Someone Who Earns 60k Monthly? - Nigerians React by Blueelf: 1:33pm On May 10, 2021 |
As a man, I wouldn't advice any Lady to try it ooo Abeg, if una no like una sef, pity the kids you may try to foolishly bring into the world Besides, nothing causes marital problems like the scarcity of funds 2 Likes |
Re: In This Economy, Can You Marry Someone Who Earns 60k Monthly? - Nigerians React by Blueelf: 1:38pm On May 10, 2021 |
God2man2again: You see those people called motivational speakers have landed their audience in more troubles than necessary You better be wise my bro. No go they measure trouser length with another person o |
Re: In This Economy, Can You Marry Someone Who Earns 60k Monthly? - Nigerians React by Blueelf: 1:41pm On May 10, 2021 |
Zetty177x: Help me tell them oo They are living in Nollywood land 1 Like |
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