The comments here are funny.

Toks2008:


We all need respect but this thread is about the men so let's stick to the subject.

And let me make some things clear as regards this respect of a thing...

Many people usually say respect is earned and I quite understand that but the question is.. "Do you wait for your parents to earn your respect before you give them"?

The Bible never wrote at any point that you should "submit/respect your husband ONLY IF HE EARNS IT"

It was an absolute instruction that has no condition attached but we can argue that if the guy misbehaves then he does not deserve your respect but that is where many ladies got it wrong...

If at anytime you feel you can no longer submit or respect that man, just leave his life... But as long as you still decide to be with him, respecting him is very sacrosanct regardless.

Uncle lalasticlala what is your take?

Credit Alert any day

Respect koor, bespect nii

Ginaz:


They are many. A friend is passing through this , she was a virgin too when she met that useless guy. he treats her like she doesn’t exist despite the so-called respect . roll eyes.

Ladies, don’t kill yourself respecting a guy for a mumu button that won’t add anything to your life .

So becos she was a virgin
If means he should worship her

Maybe the day she begins to see that giving her virginity to him wasn't like she gave him a million dollars
Then he would stop treating her like trash

touching my Man OWar is my only mumu button

Toks2008:


We all need respect but this thread is about the men so let's stick to the subject.

And let me make some things clear as regards this respect of a thing...

Many people usually say respect is earned and I quite understand that but the question is.. "Do you wait for your parents to earn your respect before you give them"?

The Bible never wrote at any point that you should "submit/respect your husband ONLY IF HE EARNS IT"

It was an absolute instruction that has no condition attached but we can argue that if the guy misbehaves then he does not deserve your respect but that is where many ladies got it wrong...

If at anytime you feel you can no longer submit or respect that man, just leave his life... But as long as you still decide to be with him, respecting him is very sacrosanct regardless.

must you quote the Bible?

Thumbs up!

Ginaz:


They are many. A friend is passing through this , she was a virgin too when she met that useless guy. he treats her like she doesn’t exist despite the so-called respect . roll eyes.

Ladies, don’t kill yourself respecting a guy for a mumu button that won’t add anything to your life .

Are you speaking from your own personal experience or

Respect is not a "mumu button" (whatever the hell that even means)!

Respect is a simple and mutual obligation both partners ought to Accord one another without even expecting gratification. It ought to be the foundation of any mature or serious relationship.

The very concept of 'mumu' buttons is just wrong, and borne out of a manipulative desperation from individuals who see relationship as sole means of selfish gratification.

Ginaz:


They are many. A friend is passing through this , she was a virgin too when she met that useless guy. he treats her like she doesn’t exist despite the so-called respect . roll eyes.

Ladies, don’t kill yourself respecting a guy for a mumu button that won’t add anything to your life .

is lie never it can never be true If you Respect your man,he will stand in Rain just to make sure your happy i swear

Respect is earned.

And every human being regardless of gender deserve to be respected

And respect is not a mumu button

Angelfrost:
Respect is not a "mumu button" (whatever the hell that even means)!

Respect is a simple and mutual obligation both partners ought to Accord one another without even expecting gratification. It ought to be the foundation of any mature or serious relationship.

The very concept of 'mumu' buttons is just wrong, and borne out of a manipulative desperation from individuals who see relationship as sole means of selfish gratification.

Loud it.

Toks2008:


Show me a man that treats a respectful lady like trash and I will show you a mad man.

And I hope the trash you are talking about has nothing to do with unfaithfulness cos in the world of women once a guy is unfaithful to them then it means he does not value them.

So you mean a guy can value his woman and still be unfaithful to her??

I'm still waiting for my gf to impress/convince me,.....mumu button? I get not!
Relationship sucks

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Toks2008:
Mumu button is a popular Nigeria Pidgin English slang which means a person's weak spot and when properly triggered, in most cases, will make that person grant requests that is asked of him or her if the person has the capacity to oblige.

It is a general belief that every man has a mumu button and most ladies are always interested to know the mumu button of their men...

Well let me give you one time tested and trusted mumu button that works on most if not all men since the days of Adam...

IT IS CALLED RESPECT.... Try it, it works like magic.

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Godada:
Are you kidney me?

Nah... I'm livering you

I don't even know what to say lool. I'm speechless.

Ginaz:


He yells at her , talk rudely , he basically feels like a king and she’s a slave .

can you be my sex slave

I remember a proverb which says. "An obedient wife controls the husband."

Ginaz:


Hmmm
Respect ! What of those guys who their babe accord respect to but treat them like trash?
Every man Mumu botton is different.

Stop running after beards, 6packs, bad Boyz

Mingle with responsible men

Responsible men loves humble & respectful gal

Ginaz:


They are many. A friend is passing through this , she was a virgin too when she met that useless guy. he treats her like she doesn’t exist despite the so-called respect . roll eyes.

Ladies, don’t kill yourself respecting a guy for a mumu button that won’t add anything to your life .

as if she would appreciate a guy that treats her better. Guys like that are best fit for most of you.

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Toks2008:


Show me a man that treats a respectful lady like trash and I will show you a mad man.

And I hope the trash you are talking about has nothing to do with unfaithfulness cos in the world of women once a guy is unfaithful to them then it means he does not value them.

Of what use is her respect when she is nothing but a liability ?

My scrotum


Chai

You know...

The reason why a lot of privileged (rich) folks NEVER help is coz no one wants to be called a mugu. Mumu button? WTF?

I love good food with $hit loads of vegetables and lots of alcohol afterwards. Someone asks me for the impossible afterwards thinking they hit my "mumu button" is in for a rude shock.

Real talk.

This is very true there is this lady i encountered.... Her manner of approach and everything about her was glaringly respectful. I could tell she's different from the every day naija girl, who subconsciously carry their problem on top head without realizing.

Not timid, but bold and respectful.. manner of engagement super... You can tell her father played a significant role in her life...

Just because of that I offered to drop her at home because the rains were coming down... I never knew why I did it till this day but I was glad i helped in getting her home safely.... I guess it's the mumu button op wrote here

Ginaz:


Hmmm
Respect ! What of those guys who their babe accord respect to but treat them like trash?
Every man Mumu botton is different.

Sharap!

benicta:


So you mean a guy can value his woman and still be unfaithful to her??

Yes