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In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by Studio247: 2:12pm On May 14, 2021
Sometimes I wonder if it's normal or is just the man I married or there are men like this I have been married now for 7 years.

And for ones my husband has never complimented me in anyways.

The funny thing is people outside will appreciate and compliment me even before him but not the man I married no Matter how much effort I put into doing anything.

Several times I spoke to him about it
But he will flare up.

And for me I feel appreciating and complimenting.
Your partner makes them happy and give them the energy to do better.

I don't know

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Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by revived: 2:15pm On May 14, 2021
E go be

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Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by Ritzybeauty(f): 2:21pm On May 14, 2021
Little things like this matters but patience and understanding is required in this case to avoid unnecessary trouble

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Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by daddytime(m): 2:35pm On May 14, 2021
Communication will do the trick, madam.

Find a way to pique his interest in having a tete a tete with you. This should allow you to jokingly or as a matter of fact, tell him what you feel he isn't doing right after praising him for some other things you think he does right.

Not being the complimenting type is a follow-come thingy. I'm in the same boat but I've had to learn on the job.

His not complimenting you doesn't mean he doesn't appreciate you, it is just what it is. "You can't give what you never had".

You can imagine how alien it almost became for most of us who grew up without hearing the words "I love you or I miss you" from our old-school parents. It never meant they loved or missed us less, it was just not a part of their lexicon. But with time, we had to learn on the job with our kids.

It is well with you ma.

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Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by ifex370(m): 2:43pm On May 14, 2021
nojeemat:
Ok


I need to come and learn wickedness from you.

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Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by ifex370(m): 3:07pm On May 14, 2021
nojeemat:

Haaa why?


Your response was too cold blooded

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Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by DaddyRochie1642: 3:13pm On May 14, 2021
If he starts complimenting you, your head will over swell up because of his complimentings, he knows this and that's what he's avoiding grin

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Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by Frenzy01(m): 3:14pm On May 14, 2021
Some men are built like that. If he never lag in his duties at home and in the oza room, leave him be. Wetin dey his head surely pass romance and compliments. Country hard abeg



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Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by Nobody: 3:26pm On May 14, 2021
Madam compliment is not by force. Don't force out issues.
If he's been all nice to you in other areas then let him have peace of mind pls. Already the country is in chaos,let him be. Thanks

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Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by Hanibbal(m): 3:53pm On May 14, 2021
DaddyRochie1642:
If he starts complimenting you, your head will over swell up because of his complimentings, he knows this and that's what he's avoiding grin

Exactly

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Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by Depressed101: 4:19pm On May 14, 2021
Studio247:
Sometimes I wonder if it's normal or is just the man I married or there are men like this
I have been married now for 7 years
And for ones my husband has never complimented me in anyways
The funny thing is people outside will appreciate and compliment me even before him
but not the man I married no Matter how much effort I put into doing anything.

Several times I spoke to him about it
But he will flare up

And for me I feel appricating and complimenting
Your partner makes them happy and give them the energy to do better.


I don't know


he might just be an honest man by not complimenting you. , you know people are fun of complimenting people even when they look like shit, maybe, just maybe you are not ticking his clock, and also don't try too hard to tick his clock

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Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by infogenius(m): 5:02pm On May 14, 2021
Studio247:
Sometimes I wonder if it's normal or is just the man I married or there are men like this
I have been married now for 7 years
And for ones my husband has never complimented me in anyways
The funny thing is people outside will appreciate and compliment me even before him
but not the man I married no Matter how much effort I put into doing anything.

Several times I spoke to him about it
But he will flare up

And for me I feel appricating and complimenting
Your partner makes them happy and give them the energy to do better.


I don't know

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Can I ask you a question?
Sincerely tell us when last u complimented ur husband.
How often do you compliment him?

That's how one woman was saying her husband doesn't show her affection through text or voice calls.
I asked her to tell me when she did same, she was looking at me like...

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Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by Karleb(m): 5:05pm On May 14, 2021
Didn't you observe this while dating? Madam, carry your cross.

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Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by Noblefreeman(m): 5:16pm On May 14, 2021
He knows that if he compliments you it will enter your head and your Shakara will increase.

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Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by NobleDeSage001: 5:30pm On May 14, 2021
If he never appreciated or complimented you before marriage, he will never do it in marriage.

There are men like him.
Try and learn how to live with him without expecting compliments.

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Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by Nobody: 5:52pm On May 14, 2021
Studio247:
Sometimes I wonder if it's normal or is just the man I married or there are men like this
I have been married now for 7 years
And for ones my husband has never complimented me in anyways
The funny thing is people outside will appreciate and compliment me even before him
but not the man I married no Matter how much effort I put into doing anything.

Several times I spoke to him about it
But he will flare up

And for me I feel appricating and complimenting
Your partner makes them happy and give them the energy to do better.


I don't know


Compliments Of D Season.

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Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by zeuss: 6:20pm On May 14, 2021
Studio247:
Sometimes I wonder if it's normal or is just the man I married or there are men like this
Know thyself!!! Ur husband knows u....u have probably forgotten what happened in the beginning....he got to understand you and now u want him to change.....change starts with u...

Reset....Totori the Goodman, appreciate him and he will be the person u are looking for.

SELAH.

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Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by blazepascal(m): 6:21pm On May 14, 2021
Can you see how little things can be a big issue

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Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by mrdharkchild(m): 6:22pm On May 14, 2021
Women gets bloated n ugly after childbirth and during marriage. A few though.
Its why you catch n stretch them when de r young. Like, check out ritzy beauty now, and check in 4years time. grin grin grin

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Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by OnlyDeCapPlease(m): 6:24pm On May 14, 2021
Studio247:
Sometimes I wonder if it's normal or is just the man I married or there are men like this
I have been married now for 7 years
And for ones my husband has never complimented me in anyways
The funny thing is people outside will appreciate and compliment me even before him
but not the man I married no Matter how much effort I put into doing anything.

Several times I spoke to him about it
But he will flare up

And for me I feel appricating and complimenting
Your partner makes them happy and give them the energy to do better.


I don't know



It's strange indeed, but you have to balance it out with other things.
- Does he take care of you?
- Does he take care of his children?
- Does he relate to you in a reasonable way?
- Does he show you a decent level of respect?
- Does he show your family and friends a reasonable level of respect
- is he faithful?
- Does he have bad habits like, drinking, smoking or drug use?
- is he diabolic?
- Does he beat you or the kids?
- Does he satisfy you to a reasonable level in bed?
- is he mentally stable?
- Does he misuse money?
- Does he go out too much?
- Does he lavish all his money on one flashy sweet mouth Pastor, or alfa, prophet etc?
- is he gay?

- WAS HE PAYING YOU COMPLIMENTS BEFORE YOU GOT MARRIED??

As you can see, there are a lot of things that can be wrong in a marriage. He might not be paying you compliments because its just not his nature (you can tease compliments out of him instead of using it to provoke him). You must have noticed this before you got married but you still went ahead with him.

So why the complaints now? Is it because some random guys, who just want to chop and clean mouth, are now paying you compliments? Empty compliments that they can pay to anything in skirt. Compliments that have no depth and just rolls out of their mouths very easily.

I hope that some of those compliments are not getting to your head and you are now looking for an excuse to cheat?

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Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by McStoic(m): 6:52pm On May 14, 2021
Studio247:
Sometimes I wonder if it's normal or is just the man I married or there are men like this
I have been married now for 7 years
And for ones my husband has never complimented me in anyways
The funny thing is people outside will appreciate and compliment me even before him
but not the man I married no Matter how much effort I put into doing anything.

Several times I spoke to him about it
But he will flare up

And for me I feel appricating and complimenting
Your partner makes them happy and give them the energy to do better.


I don't know



Sorry dear. I feel your pain. When people talk about marrying left and right, I laugh cos most who do do not even know what makes marriages work. Many men are very guilty of this. I learnt so many things from my mum and one of them is that a woman never gets tired of appreciation and commendation. Appreciating a women is another tonic that boosts her confidence and makes her happy with you.

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Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by eljp(m): 6:54pm On May 14, 2021
Women and complain are like 5 & 6 everything is a problem...….
If you are not comfortable with that just leave the marriage and go and marry those men that are complimenting you simple.....

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Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by joinnow: 6:55pm On May 14, 2021
Buy men are from Mars and women are from Venus as gift to him.
Book man page 200 or so on little things man takes for granted but women values very high.

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Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by Deicide: 7:15pm On May 14, 2021
Entitlement mentality, you when last you complement am?

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Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by DONFASZY(m): 8:35pm On May 14, 2021
Dont talk about it again n bone him n forget appreciation or compliments

Him head go reset soon

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Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by merieam16(f): 8:41pm On May 14, 2021
Well it necessary for him to compliment you, but if he doesn't learn how to compliment urself nd be happy

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Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by Foodqueen(f): 8:55pm On May 14, 2021
Does he complain when u complement yourself before him?

Complement yourself and move on jare.

Stop making marriage look like one big wahala place.

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Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by Missmossy(f): 8:56pm On May 14, 2021
Eyah if compliments were that important to you then you probably shouldn’t have married him embarassed it’s other men that compliment you instead.

Wahala be like wetin again??

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Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by HiFreda(f): 9:02pm On May 14, 2021
Compliment him.
With time, he will reciprocate.

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